The Evening Sun from Baltimore, Maryland • 16

i4 'ft? TAGE 2 THE EVENING SUN, BALTIMORE, MONDAY, JUNE 22, 1970 Mohr About Fashion Fashion Pendulum Ends Big Swing I fj By Berta Mohr livening Sun fcifcion Writer A- ip' 'fv the bag Itself can be long, either from north to south, or from east to west; or Its shoulder strap can be midi-long. There must be others who can't keep an unanchored strap from constantly slipping off the shoulder either because her shoulders are not sufficiently square or, more likely, because she is vainly trying to suspend the same large, heavily laden bag formerly carried over the arm. Hilde Walborg, handbag designer, has the answer to this dilemma in roomy but lean shoulder bags of featherweight crocheted straw cord or metallic chain mail. The latter, which comes In a choice of gold or silver, is now deemed as right for day as for dark, just as are those decide-ly informal looking gold or silver daytime shoes. The bag has such a tailored look that it can partner pants.

New York-The trending changeover from childishly brief skirts to grownup hemlines that conceal the knee is only the more obvious fashion upheaval, because even an untrained eye can't help noticing it at once. The real fashion revolution Is more basic. It is a complete swing of the pendulum In exactly five years: from the short, stiff, architectural Courreges look of 1965, to the soft, limp and long look of 1970. In other words, a diametrically opposite silhouette. It calls for a whole new way of walking, even of standing and sitting.

And a whole new approach to dressing. Handbags, for Instance, must echo the soft look, as well as the long one, although this latter can be expressed in any one of three directions: llil 1 "llliailii CHOICE OF STYLES The shoulder bag, at left, goes with are safely secured with a top zipper concealed beneath the flap. A giant carryall for summer, center, has a handle cut out of its crocheted straw body. For town or travel, it comes In white, natural, toast, gold or basic black and navy. At right, a midi-sized bag is made of crocheted Pontova cord.

Handbag comes in white, natural, black, navy or red. pants or dresses. A gold or silver chain mail envelope by Hilde Walborg, it's surprisingly large inside. Contents Ann Landers Avoid Dope-Using Friends; No Easy Answers Available Dr. Joyce Brothers Dear Ann Landers: I am 16 Wife Reacts With Sickness To Her Hushands Disloyalty There are no easy answers to this one.

We cannot afford to turn our country over to a generation of half-stoned pot heads. Nor can we allow potential achievers to fry their brains with LSD, speed and heroin. Unfortunately, a problem that should be handled by physicians is winding up more and more in the hands of the police. So brace yourself. The situation is going to get worse before it gets better.

Landers. Will you please print this? Dear Friend: It was just a few years ago that I gave you my baby. I knew then as I know now, it was the only thing to do. I wanted her to have every advantage in life. I knew I couldn't give her what she was entitled to.

You and your husband wanted a child. The people in charge of the adoption told me as much as they could without revealing your identity. I was certain you would give my little girl oceans of love and that she would have the kind of upbringing every child deserves. I didn't have her long but I knew she was a very good baby, in perfect health, and beautiful, too. laws.

Please don't tell me to make new friends. I can't These are the kids I grew up with and I dig them, except for the way they mess with drugs. What should I do? LOYAL LYNN. Dear L. If you insist on hanging around with a crowd that blows grass, drops acid and defies the law, be prepared to accept the consequences.

Call it loyalty if you want to. I call it stupidity and short-sightedness. The law is going to do more busting starting now. Making criminals out of sick people is, in my opinion, a poor approach to the problem, but when' the citizenry becomes frightened and fear takes over, rationality loses out. and worried.

Most of my friends smoke pot. Some of them have freaked out on LSD. I don't touch any of it. My folks got upset once when they found an ordinary cigarette butt in my room. They have a good opinion of me and I'd hate to let them down.

Every weekend I wind up" with kids who are blowing grass or dropping acid. I realize if they get busted and I'm with them, I will be hauled in and charged, too. This scares me. It would kill my folks. The.

drug laws are lousy in this state and some good kids have, gotten themselves bugged up because they want to show the authorities they have no respect for unjust realization that your husband had found another woman attractive enough to take to bed with him. You are also experiencing a loss in sexual desire, feeling repelled by your husband's touch, a situation that is undoubtedly distressing for both you and your husband. Physical Complaints Dear Dr. Brothers My husband and I celebrated our 25th anniversary last summer. I always thought he loved me until he came back from a business trip last week and confessed that he had had an affair with a woman he met there.

I have been literally sick about it ever since, with constant headaches and an upset stomach. Even though he in Dear Ann Landers: I have a message for the young woman who adopted my child. I don't know who she is or where she is, but I'll bet she reads Ann It took more strength to give her up than I thought I had, but I thank the good Lord for giving me that strength because I know in my heart it was the right thing to do. Last year I married a wonderful man. Soon I will have a baby of my own.

But I shall never forget my first born. I'll always shed a few quiet tears on her birthday, and wonder where she is, what she looks like and what she is doing. I will always love her and I will love you, too, for giving her what I could not. May God watch over you and my little CITY, NO DATE, NO INITIALS. Dear Friend: Thank you for a beautiful letter.

I wouldn't dream of printing a clue to your identity. Thousands of women will believe your letter was meant for them. And I wouldn't want it any other way. PublUhen Hall Syndlcte Singing Kin Reunited Golden, Colo. WPV Fifty years ago, a young German girl and her brother played their lutes and sang duets for wounded soldiers of World War I.

Recently, after a separation lasting 40 years, Mrs. Lise- You should have your com- sists that it meant nothing to plaints about stomach aches him, I find that I can't stand and headaches checked by lilll to have him touch me, especially in bed. J.R. Dear Mr. R.

Reactions to the discovery of the infidelity of a husband or wife can border on emotional breakdown, leading to unusual behavior, even in previously well adjusted persons. Your husband's announcement of his out-of-town adventures has precipitated a whole set of emotional reactions which have left you disoriented and unhappy. You no longer have the same confidence in the stability of your marriage and the inviolability of your husband's your family physician. However, there is a strong possibility that these physical symptoms are part of your emotional reaction, a product of the insecurity and anxiety you are experiencing. Excessive concern with physical well-being in times of emotional stress may be regarded as arising from the need for self-disparagement and the need to win affection and attention.

You want to be reassured of your husband's love and concern for you, but pride and anger prevent you from directly seeking reassurance. Instead, you may have unconsciously chosen to use physical suffering as a pretext. You seem to be blaming lotte Heinicke, of Golden and love for you that you once did. your husband for your unhap-piness without considering his own possible suffering. The fact that he found it necessary to inform you of his sexual infidelity so immediately would suggest that the experience is not simply a happy memory for him.

Certainly a casual affair should not be sufficient to cancel out 25 years of marital intimacy and loyalty. While your intense reaction may be considered normal, prolonging it for too lengthy a time may be destructive not only for you but for your marriage as well. Shouldn't Persist Sometimes a genuinely distressed and disturbed individual may let his feelings persist for childish, self-dramatizing purposes. He becomes so caught up in the drama of his own suffering that he fails to realize that it has lost its rele-. vancy.

Temporary frigidity or impotence may result from a particularly disturbing experience period of time. Your reaction to your husband's admitted infidelity is understandable, but you should begin to try to work through your feelings of reluctance and disinterest for the sake of your marriage. What began as a natural withdrawal may be prolonged into an unhealthy means of punishing your husband which is ultimately punishing to you' as well. A BeU-McOlure Feature Syndicate 'Unknown Admirer Was Close To Home Cologne, West Germany-Annemarie Freiberg, 18, almost lost her fiance because a bouquet of flowers from an unknown admirer arrived for her whenever the young man came to call. Attached to the flowers were passionate love notes signed by an unknown Kurt.

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