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THE HARTFORD COURANT: Sunday, May 21, 1961 5 They'll Meet the Boys! morning to you. An aunt You and Your Child by John F. Schereschewsky as many others before them have writes us about possible problems her two nieces may have to face. She says: "Dear Mr. Sherry, I have a question to ask about not only fatherless but manless families.

I am single, my mother is a widow, and my sister is divorced with 3 children. We live together. The oldest of the 3 children is a boy of 15 who is finally beginning to latch on. I have always been appreciative of the fact that Church groups, the and the Boy Scouts have provided him with some degree of adult male companionship. What I'm wondering is are professionals aware of the fact that my two nieces (ages 11 and 7) will also need adult male confpanionship? I grew up in a home where, although a father was present, he was so alienated from his family that both his daughters were quite drastically affected by this situation.

Where do you find a substitute father for girls? Can Church groups, the YWCA, the Girl Scouts do anything to help? I would sincerely appreciate hearing your comments about this problem." Most everyone who has made studies of the effects of parentchild relations on later adult life Hartford, and Miss Donna Murice of So. Main West Hartford, were attired in similar blue ensembles to the maid of honor, and their cascades were of blue pompons. A gown of white organdy over blue taffeta was worn by the flower girl, Deborah Mikkelson of Windsor Locks. She carried a basket of pompons. Serving as best man was Mr.

Anthony Gallicchio of Berlin Newington, and the ushers included Mr. Joseph Malinguaggi, brother of the bride, Mr. Philip Bucchi of Cedar Newington, Mr. Richard Clarkin of East Robbins Newington, and Mr. William Shaw of Cambria Newington.

The reception was held at the Luna Social Club after which the couple left on a motor trip South, the bride traveling in a two-piece beige and white dress with beige accessories. After May 30 they will reside at 95 Marion St. W.B.A. Meeting The Emily Morgan Review, Woman's Benefit will hold its meeting Wednesday at 119 Park West Hartford, at 7 p.m. All guard team members are requested to attend as there will be a practice session after the meeting.

The hostess for the social hour will be Mrs. Esther Kelley and Mrs. Earl Tronten. GIFT TIME AT Her MILLER SALON PRATT AT TRUMBULL ST. OPEN THURS.

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MRS. MILTON L. STAVNITSKY nee Jean M. Blanchard MRS. MICHAEL J.

LONGing Photo. nee Penelope L. Bryant Karen Photo. MRS. AUGUST C.

GIESIN nee Patricia M. Malinguaggl Suburban Ceremonies pieces in rainbow colors styled like those of the honor attendant. They carried cascade bouquets of carnations to match their dresses. Mr. Carl Bird of Glastonbury was the best man, and ushers were Mr.

Robert Stavnitsky, brother of the bridegroom, Mr. Joseph Trudeau of Manchester and Mr. Palozej. When the couple left for a wedding trip to Washington, D.C., after a reception at the Rosemont Restaurant, Bolton, the bride was wearing a beige cotton knit suit with matching accessories. After May 29 they will be at home at 256 Oak Manchester.

Longo-Bryant Miss Penelope L. Bryant, daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Robert Bryant of Ellsworth Newington, and Mr. Michael J.

Longo, sor. of Mr. and Mrs. Rocco Longo of New Britain West Hartford, were married at 9 a.m. on Saturday in St.

Mary's Church, Newington, with the Rev. Joseph Buckley officiating. Mr. Bryant presented his daughter in marriage. She was attended by her sister, Miss Lynne Stavnitsky-Blanchard I Miss Jean Marie Blanchard, daughter of Mr.

and Mrs. Henry Blanchard of Manchester, and Mr. Milton Luther Stavnitsky, son of Mrs. Anna Z. Stavnitsky, also of Manchester, were married on Saturday at 11 a.m.

in St. Bridget's Church, Manchester. The kev. Stanley E. Hastillo performed the ceremony in front of an altar banked with carnations and gladioli.

Given in marriage by her father, the bride wore a floorlength gown of Chantilly lace, designed with a sabrina neckline trimmed with sequins and seed pearls, a long sleeved and a bouffant skirt. Her fingertip. veil of silk illusion on was arranged from a crown accented with sequins and crystals, and her cascade bouquet was of white roses. Mrs. Richard V.

Palozej of Rockville attended her sister as matron of honor. She wore a ballerina-length gown of pink silk organza and a Dior headbow finished with a veil. The bridesmaids, Miss Patricia Damato, Mrs. Dennis Kerin and Mrs. Albert Gustafson all of Manchester, wore gowns and head- Ask Dorothy Draper How to Add More Interest I don't know about you, but love to see new ideas or old ideas in new wrappings.

I always hope that you may be able to transplant some of the suggestions in your own house or that they may inspire you to experiment a little. Here are some of the things I have seen recently that might interest you: a table 7' long and 2' wide with chairs on one side, red cushioned benches on the other. Also an amusing old secretary with doors and drawers painted a la trompe L'oeil fashion with a vase, birds, quill pen, etc. Tall apothecary jars filled with green leaves. (You can use these jars in all sizes all over the house as canisters in the kitchen, filled with hard candies on the coffee table, or with powder puffs or cotton in the bathroom).

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Make a note of the ideas YOU find and put them to work! Mrs. H.L.P. asks: "I plan on painting my bedroom white after reading your column. I plan on painting the bedroom suite black with gold trim and using yellow curtains. I would like to know what color bedspread and throw rugs to use." Dear Mrs.

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Humans being what they are, it is also true that sons and daughters select opposites of their parents. It is a proper and reasonable concern of our correspondent, however, that her nieces are growing up in a manless household. But all need not be lost, need it? Many a mother left with young daughters to bring up has managed to find, in due course of time, eligible and desirable husbands for them. In fact, this was the great parlor game of the early 19th century in England and the U.S. Once decided upon, the three older ladies can pool their efforts to see that these girls have their quota of male attendants.

Actually, way has been pointed for the boy who found other boys for companionship in the Church and Boy Scout groups. The girls will do the same with girls groups. Moreover, they will attend, no which they will grow up with boys and other girls. We think it is better for daughters to have a useful father hanging around while they're growing up. But then, there are a great many young ladies who have become successes as women, wives, and mothers even though they had no father around the house.

For these two girls, I think it is fair to assume that they, too, can grow up well-rounded, stable, outward-looking young people just If you have a personal question about child, write to "Mr. Sherry," The Hartford Courant, 285 Broad Hartford, Conn. You and Your Child appears in The Courant. Mr. Schereschewsky is heard On WTIC Monday-Friday and appears on Channel 3 Tuesdays at 7:30 p.m.

Bryant of Ellsworth Newington, as maid of honor, and bridesmaids were Miss Rosemarie Longo, sister of the bridegroom, Miss Nancy Gagliardi of Rowe Mrs. Richard Abair and Miss a Maris Pope of Manchester and Miss Lee Grad of Chicopee Falls, Mass. Mr. Frank Tirone of Elmwood was the best man, and ushering were Mr. John Gagliardi of Rowe Mr.

James Russo of Hartford, Mr. Robert Walsh of New Britain Mr. Charles Rady of Wethersfield and Mr. Peter Grady of Chicopee Falls. The bride selected a gown of Chantilly lace, designed with a modified scoop neckline embellished with seed pearls and iridescent sequins, long sleeves ending in points at the wrists, a fitted basque bodice and a tiered skirt ending in a chapel train.

Her veil of silk illusion, in fingertiplength, was caught to a coronet Swedish crystals, and she carried a cascade bouquet of white roses. The attendants wore cocktaillength dresses of tissue taffeta, styled with harem skirts, and matching floral hats, the honor attendant in yellow and the brides- Interest marigolds or nasturtiums for emphasis. M.D.F. asks: "You have helped so many people. Maybe you can help me too.

I have a large kitchen 9x11. My walls have gray tile. My cabinet top is white, gray and pink which I have enclosed. As of now, all the woodwork, including the walls is sun-lite yellow. Since the tile is gray, should I paint all the woodwork gray? Or leave it as it is? Maybe you could give me a better suggestion." Dear M.D.F.: I don't happen to like the mating of yellow and pink in a kitchen.

I would paint the woodwork white and the walls a fresh pink to go with the pink in your tile. Copyright 1961. "Be Your Own Decorator," a fascinating and most informative booklet by Dorothy Draper, is available to readers of this newspaper. Send 25 cents in coin and your name and address printed to Dorothy Draper care of this newspaper. Mrs.

Draper cannot answer personal mail, but will use questions of widest general appeal in her column. maids in pink. They carried baskets of spring flowers. The reception was held at the Polish-American Club, Newington, after which the couple left for a wedding trip to Miami, the bride traveling in a turquoise suit with patent leather accessories. They will reside at 28 Flatbush after May 28.

Giesin-Malinguaggi The Rev. William Kinney, M.S., officiated at the marriage of Miss Patricia Marie Malinguaggi, daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Pasquale Malinguaggi of Darcy West Hartford, and Mr. August Charles Giesin, son of Mrs.

Garnet Fuller of Berlin Newington, and Mr. August 0. Giesin of Baltimore, at 10 a.m. on Saturday in Our Lady of Sorrows Church, West Hartford, which was decorated with white gladioli. Escorted to the altar by her of silk organza designed with a father, the bride, wore a gown 0 0 neckline, long tapered sleeves and a fitted bodice edged with Alencon lace appliques above a bouffant skirt accented with lace appliques terminating in a cathedral train.

fingertip veil of illusion was arranged from a headpiece of silk organza petals accented with seed pearls, and she carried a cascade of white pompons. The maid of honor, Miss Joyce Malinguaggi, sister of the bride wore a street length gown of maize silk organza and a matchling headpiece. She carried a cascade of yellow pompons. The bridesmaids, Miss Linda Parracine of Windsor, Miss Kathleen Mancini and Miss Patricia Mancini, both of Barton West MATERNITY FASHIONS TO EXCLUSIVE" 985B FARMINGTON AVENUE WEST HARTFORD TEL. AD 6-1032 (maternity bun suit A STRIPED PLAYSUIT OF GABRIELLE COTTON! Easy-to-wear washable cotton playsuit elasticized bod.

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