Cumberland Evening Times from Cumberland, Maryland on December 1, 1955 · Page 11
Get access to this page with a Free Trial

Cumberland Evening Times from Cumberland, Maryland · Page 11

Publication:
Location:
Cumberland, Maryland
Issue Date:
Thursday, December 1, 1955
Page:
Page 11
Start Free Trial
Cancel

TEN EVENING TIMES, CUMBERLAND, MD., THURSDAY, DECEMBER 1, 1955 Dial PA-2-4600 for a WANT. AD Taker Jlairor1li\ (<ntns<>l By Mail Kditor's Note: Since man's cncacc- :-i)cnt to 17-year-old. hi* iistcr vicious* ly makes war on her. DEAR MARY HAWOR'fll: My 17-year-old daughter's boy friend left for overseas duty with the Army last April. A month later he sent her a diamond ring and they became engaged. They were very much in love. Since then the boy's sister—I'll call her Joyce—has done everything in her power to make my daughter miserable. For example, falsely accusing her; spitting at her, and trying to disrupt her friendships with other girls. 1 kept telling Hope (my daughter) to ignore these attacks, so long as her] conscience was clear. j said, "You can't win in a contest .vith a skunk." And 1 think that •urns up the proposition of trying to get the best of Joyce's attitude towards Hope. There is something insidiously unwholesome about the inner life of a family thai produces a character like Joyce — an obviously psychopathic personality. The psychopathic perswuility is a As for your advice to Hope: wouldn't have said give the ring to Joyce. Rather, lake il off and it aside, to be personally handec to Bud on his return. Or mailed to him if he wants it now. When Bud wrote of hearing tilings about Hope that he didn'l like, she might have answerec briefly, with dignity, that her con nonconformist to rules of reason'scicnce is clear and her conduct and decency, in close relationship.l« m P cccablc - And lf hc carcs to P ur ' Such persons are emotionally crip-jSuc the subject, Icl him investigate pled, in an obscure way that psy-jj. hc f ou [ cc and^ motivation of the chiatry recognizes but can't quite '"" '" '"' """ ' penetrate, Their enjoyment of life consists in trying to deface, degrade and destroy the dignity of certain other individuals—and the nicer or gentler these others are. This past week Hope's fiance lhp Krcatcr the psychopath's wrote to her. saying he had receiv-j.. kick .. i n . ha rassing them. ed a letter from his sister recently, and he didn't like what he read. 1 advised Hope to remove -the engagement ring and give it to his sister—so that she would be satisfied. And to write to the boy, telling him that she had clone so. Also to ask him to decide whom he believed and what he wanted. Hope has an evening job and goes to school during the day and has bought several things for. her trousseau, while also amassing a savings account. She hasn't dated or gone to school parlies since Bud left in April. He is due back next Spring. I have advised Hope not to accept his ring (again) until she fin- lies he has swallowed. Period. You say: "It seems to me if Bud loves Hope he would have faith in her." The truth is, I gather, that Bud is a stranger to emotional security, in relation to good people. He is steeped in distrust,'uncer tainty and instability — in a dog- Supposing your dauglUer Hope caWog w* of life. At HopeJ tend- ishes school, and until he is home from the Army. Do you think I advised her correctly? It seems to me if he loves her he would have faith in her. I pray I have coun- selled her wisely.—S. Y. DEAR S. Y.: As somebody once were to marry Bud — and my instinct says "Heaven forbid!" on the basis of your story—she would be putting herself in shooting range of Joyce's crackpot venom continuously thereafter. And though Bud and his parents and the balance of their kin might waken slowly to the senseless nature .of Joyce's clawing, spitting, lying campaign, still that wouldn't make Joyce any different. And who, in his righ 1 mind, wants (or would permit himself) to marry into that type of nightmare? And, as a further warning to Hope to beware, there is her fiance's recent disclosure of his predisposition (1) to believe the worst, rather than the best, about "outsiders" to his family circle; and (2) to side with his family instantly, without judicious reflection, wften destructive feelings are aim- eJ at "outsiders". er age (17), my advice to her is to postpone marriage at least five years, and give herself time to find a real helpmeet.—M. H. Mary "llaworlh counsels throuch hnr column, not by mail or personal Interview. Write t" her in care o£ The Evening Times. (Kin* Features Syndicate) . ^ AMERICAN CUSTOM * CHOCOLATES * Quality assortment * covered in dark and ie milk chocolate. * 1 POUND 2.00 FORD'S DRUGSTORES Cumberland and Frostburg 8-Diamond Bridal Set 14-kt. Gold Special *97 50 $2.00 Weekly ART CARVED DIAMONDS NATIONALLY KNOWN WATCHES TRIFARI FINE JEWELRY a Will Hold Your Choice Credit At No Extra Charge m 6 1~BALTIMORE ST. CUMBERLAND'S XMAS JEWELRY Exclusive Agents For STIEFF STERLING SILVER STORE t-i * r DEPOSIT WEEKLY $ .50 1.00 2.00 5.00 10.00 CHRISTMASJ CLUfe IS A QG HHP, To SANTA'S HELPERS/ RECEIVE IN 50 WEEKS $ 25.00 50.00 100.00 250.00 500.00 (T( Old Santa knows! A little forethought makes a big difference when it comes to Christmas giving. Take a tip from Santa! Plan now to have a worry-free, bill-free Christmas in 1956. • • • Decide how much cash you'd like to have when the next Yuletide rolls around. Pick the Christmas Club Plan that fits your needs . . . and join now. Save a little every week. At Christmas, you'll have what it takes to cover your entire gift list. 111 m^W'' ?•!.*•*•.•«-.' ? " u..'i.&..iW. GIFTS ONE AT JOE'S AUTO FRYER-COOKER MOTHER'S PERFECT GIFT REG. 529.95 AUTOMATIC POP-UP TOASTER PHILCO CLOCK-RADIO THE PERFECT GIFT 32 95 CHROME LATED BEAUTY REG. $19.95 GE LIGHTWEIGHT IRON A $12.95 VALUE «?w: NEW RCA 45-RPM RECORD PLAYER OR /RON SPEEO PORT6BLE SUNBEAM ELECTRIC SKILLET THE MOTORISTS FRIEND SUNBEAM f ] FULLY AUTO, TOASTER W»f Shore Plata 7-11 S .Market Sq, — Third and Broad Sl«. Horrltbura, /-II So. Morktl Squar» and Third and Brood Sl». Carlillo 1J7 N. Hanovtr St. Baltimor«, 3117-19 Greenmounl Ave. Chombtriburg, £9-63 N. Main St. Ballimon. X1J-X19 S. Conkling Hanover, 100 Carlli!« St. Baltl^-.ort, 35 Shipping Plac». Dundalk l«yistown, 2i W Marktt St. lancaiKr, 24 W. King St. Wmch«ji»r. Va., 101 N. loudon St. Waynajboro, 6 W. Main St. Front Royal, Va., 120 E. Main St. Gdttyiburg, 19 Chambtriburo Si. Horrljonbura, Vo., 9 N. Court Eliiobelhtown, 54 S. Market St. Charlottesvill,, Va., 107 W. Main"" Martiniburg, W. Va. 127 N. Queen St. Lebanon, 781 Cumb. St. Member Federal Depotit Iniurance Corporation STREET - CUMBERLAND, MARYLAND

What members have found on this page

Get access to Newspapers.com

  • The largest online newspaper archive
  • 11,100+ newspapers from the 1700s–2000s
  • Millions of additional pages added every month

Try it free