The Charleston Daily Mail from Charleston, West Virginia • Page 8

DEAR ABBY Miserable Husband Wash Out As Dad DEAR ABBY: I never thought I would be racing this problem, hut I am. Tin get right to the point, our 15 year old daughter Ji "to trouble." The boy Is It. They went steady for a year, never suspected anything like this could happen. He 1b such a nice boy (ram a good family, and we never dreamed our daughter was In danger with him. We have already talked to the boy and his parents.

His parents say they will aoanylhtog we decide on, The boy says he would rallier not get married, but if he has the choice of either getting married or being sent to a reformatory or a work farm, he'll marry Our daughter doesn't say anything, she Just cries. My husband says we should force a marriage Immediately. I think we should send her lo a home for unwed mothers, give up tfie baby for adoption, and try to live down this awful mess. No outsiders know about this and we want to keep it quiet. Can you help us? LIVING A NIGHTMARE DEAR LIVING: No one can "Force" boy or man la marry.

And it's jut as well, An unwilling bridegroom makei a miserable husband and a worse father. I agree with yon. Under the circnmslancet. your daughter would probably be better off: in a borne for unwed mothers. If you want lbs names' of some homes tn your area, I can provide them If you send me your' name and address.

No other Information Is necessary, and it will be strictly confidential. Good luck. DEAR ABBY: I am 15 years old and have a which bugs me. I have, an English pirn pal about my age. She writes these real long letters telling me how.

popular she is and how many dales she has. She brags all. over the place about her different romances and all the places she goes. 1 am getting awfully fed up reading all these lies and, be she is giving me an inferiority complex. I would like to quit writing to her.

Should I Just write and tell her I think she is a liar and I don't believe a word she Sign "BUGGED" DEAR BUGGED: It Isn't necessary to be unkind or In Mtn. Lodge Plans Annual Picnic Sunday Mountain of West Virginia will hold its annual picnic Sunday at Mountain Lodge Route 17 near Mount Vernon Dairy. "Clemit King, general chairman, announces that the affair is for members of the lodge and their families and that the public is invited to attend. Registration will be held from 9:30 a. m.

to 12:30 p. m. and Mansford Hayes will serve as master of ceremonies. The. program will be opened with i flag wising ceremony and worship services will ba held.

Rev. Melvin Hayes, pastor of the Nitro Home Mis eion, will be the speaker. A get acquainted period will follow and the picnic dinner will be. held at 11 noon. Those attending are requested to bring their own food and eating equipment.

Free watermelon will be served. Activities to be held during the afternoon will be a beauty contest for boys and girls from tots to 18 years of age. Selections will be made for queen and junior queen: princess and junior princess and prince and junior prince. Entertainment will include candy and penny scramble, potato races, bubble gum and balloon blowing contesls, swimming contest, horseshoe pitching contest for the men and nail driving contest for the women. There will be free favors for everyoi'e and door prizes wilt be awarded during the afternoon.

So luxurious, no divinel? perfumed, yon mil not mtlht. If your pes pel "begs" gradually reduce the eer rrtpMfeact and tkn let tt die. DEAR ABBY: Whatever happened to the social ameni ties and the gracious approach? I have just received an "invitation" l0 "shower by mail" with no suggestion of a social gathering. It Is just an out and out commercial promotion to send the bride a gift. Surely when giving a shower, the hostess should make a social occasion of It, the bride, offering good fellowship, and a bit of gift being by product; not the whole end in Itself.

If one knows the bride well enough, one would send a gift without being "invited" to do so. Surely our new generation is not so totally selfish and Ignorant of tradition as to put on such a shoddy show of commercialism as this. Please print something to forestall this sort of thing before it becomes commonplace. DISGUSTED DEAR DISGUSTED: People of breeding du nnt "commercialise" an occasion to acquire loot. And those who do are beyond educating.

Dude Ranch Party Is Arranged The Charleston Association of Insurance Women will entertain the Huntington Association with a dude ranch parly Monday evening at the El Rancbo restaurant, A western' atmosphere will prevail at the' social hour commencing at 6 p.m., followed by dinner at 7 p.m. Special guest for evening wilt.be Mrs. Beta Bouten, president of the Huntington group. Red bandanas will be worn by the members, and miniature cacti will be given to each guest. Program chairman for the event will be Mrs.

Dorothy Taylor. Reservations will be handled by the secretary, Miss Jo Vickers, and decorations by the club's president, Miss Elizabeth Shawver. Rummage Sale Set The youth of the First Pen tacostsl Church, Sixth Avenue at Patrick Street, will hold a rummage sale in the church basement on Saturday, starting at 10 a.m. HEADING FOR HOLLAND! Linda Garrard, daughter of Dr. and Mrs.

W. D. Garrard of Dcseret Drive, is photographed just before sailing from Ma. ti fin tUn Horbor aboard the S. Auretia," a student ship ermrtcred by the Council on Student Trauel.

Linda tf ili study Jor i year under a program sponsored by Rotary InteriMirionai. She is a graduate of Charleston Jfiffh School. PondS Dreamfk lower DUSTING POWDER MOOSE WOMEN iN CITY Women of the Moose opened their 32nd annual state conference Thursday at the Daniel Boone Hotel, Mrs. Annette Battalino of left, slate deputy grand regent, and Mrs. fiosa Snecht of St.

Albans, grand regent of Women of tht Moose Jor the United States and Canada, mere pictured witfe Mrs. Gav Craigo, second from right, registration chairman, and Mrs. Clessn Heiges, Oeiiera! chninnati for the conference. Thefour day meeting is being held in conjunction with the Loyal Order of Moose convention and is being attended by about 350 delegates representing 41 state chapters, (Daiiu Mail photo by Earl Benton.) MRS. BRYANT JENNINGS Becky Wehrle Is Bride Of all c4 Elkview, on June 19..

The candlelight ceremony was performed by Rev. Que Young at Frame Community Church. Miss Judy Payne was pianist The bride, given in marriage Flowers were placed on the altar of the U. S. Naval Base Chapel in Charleston, S.

on Sunday for the wedding of Miss Alethea Stewart Wise, daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Robert Ellsworth Wise of Louden Heights Road, to Ens. (CSNR) Edwin Allen Carlson stationed aboard the U.S.S. Bet elgeuse.

The bridegroom is the son of Mr. and Mrs. Edwin Allen Carlson of Florence, S. C. Cmdr.

James E. Emerson officiated at the 2 p.m. mony. Given in marriacebv her fa ther, the bride wore a floor length gown of white satin designed with beading on the bodice and front pane! of the skirt, long sleeves and a short Da, train. The lace mantilla which rVT.

jenmnQS wore was brought from u. sPaiB bridegroom. She Miss Becky Wehrle, daughter cmki white of Mr. and Mrs. Roy Wehrle of roses.

Elkvicw, became the bride of Maid of honor was the Pvt. Rrvant sun of bride's sister. Mist COttStanCO Mr. and 'Mrs. Dimp Wise, cbressed in a (old peau de awe dress and seed crown matcning veiL' Bronze gladiolTformed the bouquet which she carried.

Ens. Clarence D. Coburo was best man. A recention followed in the Officers Club of the Cbarles by her father, wore a floor ton NavaI Bast, after which length gown of suk organza im the couple left for a wedding printed with satin roses. The trip to myrtle ueacn, a.

u. skirt fell into a chapel train, fastened by a large bow. Her silk illusion veil was held in place by lace roses trimmed in pearls and she carried a bouquet of carnations, centered with a orchid, on a white lace covered Bibie. Maid of honor was Miss Sharon Stricklen, wearing a mint green frock with scooped neckline and elbow length sleeves tJinr bow headdress, sue for travelina. the bride wore a1 yellow linen suit with matching straw hat, black patent accessories and white rosebud corsage.

The former Miss Wise is a graduate of Charleston High School and Duke University, being a member of Zeta Tau Alpha sorority. Hw father is associated with McDonough Caperton Shepherd Goldsmith General Insurance. Ens. Carlson, whose falher rtf is comptroller with South Car Flower girl was Miss Debbie olina Mustries, was gradu Carter, niece of the bride. ated from Roanoke Rapids Mr.

Mackie Wolfe served as best man for his cousin. Messrs. Blaine Wehrle, brother of the bride, and Roy Osbourne, cousin of the groom, were ushers. A reception followed at the home of the bride'S parents. Assisting were Mrs.

Donald Summers and Mrs. Jack Carte, sisters of the bride. The former Miss Wehrle is a graduate of Herbert Hoover High School, which her husband also attended. He is serving with the U.S. Army, stationed at FINAL CLEARANCE Women's Shoes 588 Fort Dix, New Jersey.

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He is a member I of Sigma Chi fraternity. I Quanta al (J Hoh Winter coats OFF CHESTER Ft HD5 BOY COATS ftAlMACAANI SIZES 6 TO If 34' mvh a CAirriNO ewtiot .00 I wn I Hll 1 aWaTaBsaUcI aP A FRfl Kuvnri ERIE IAYMMYI FREE WDAY.AuewTo.iwCNrleftOtt Diflf IS WOMEN'S NOTEBOOK Fair, Antique Shops Visited During New England Vacation By ANN GRIFFITH Of TV Dally MaU Staff Mrs. Ethel Velle of Elm Street returned Sunday from a vacation as tin houseguest of Mr. and Mrs. Don Burger of PougbfetepsJc, Y.

She also was a guest of the Burger's al their lummer cottage on Lake Dun more is Vermont. Mrs. Velle and her hostess traveled together to Montreal, Canada, stopping along the way lo "antique" at out of the way New England shops and to ride the East's highest aid lift at Sherbame, Vt. They topped off their lour with a visit to the New York World't Fair. PLANNING TRIP Mr.

and Mrs. Claud Keller of 22nd Street, South Ttuffner, and Mr. and Mrs, A. E. Harmon of Columbia Avenue will Jr.

are announcing the arrival of their second son, Travis Sutherland, born on July 21 In Morgan town at the Virginia University Hospital. leave Tuesday for Weaver Dr. Haley Is senior resident ville, N. where on Wednes in oral surgery at the Medical terian Journal Day at the Presbyterian Church of Woav erville. They will spend Ihe night in Asheville, N.

before returning home on Thursday. Charles E. JOflnston ana sons, Dan and Mark. Mrs, Johnston's husband is serving with the U. S.

Marines In I a Nam. RETURN HOME Mrs. C. Mahady and Mrs. N.

Stockton of Dunbar returned Sunday by plane from Knwcville, where thev attended the funeral of their brother and uncle, Mr. Woody Haynes of that city. ITS A BON Dr. and Mrs. John B.

Haley Patti Sue Findley, MOVE TO FLORIDA Mrs. Don M. Claris and infant son, William Lawson, left Tuesday to join A 1C Clark in Orlando, where they will make their home. Airman Clark is stationed at the McCoy Air Base in Orlando. Mrs.

Clark, the former Pen Naval Chapel Scene AT CHAUTAUQUA Mrs. J. B. Goldsmith of Spring Road and her granddaughters, Janet and Sandy Goldsmith, are spending the has been visiting summer at Lake Chautauqua, N. Y.

With them are Mrs. Harry Findley, and his Goldsmith's daughter, Mrs. Of Sunday Wedding parents, Mr. and Mrs. W.

E. Clark, since the birth of their tim baby on May 20. Bake Sale Tomorrow The Kanawha City Women's Social and Civic League will sponsor a bake sale on Saturday at 3 p.m. al the Kanawha City First Baptist Church. Outdoor Beauty Thai lovely fair complexion of yuurn was never meant to stand up lo the liarah summer weather.

Be kind to it, ste that it Is well protected when you're golfinir, lazing on the beach, or anywhere in the frrcat outdoors. Wear a wide, iihadv hat and nun. this will keep you lrom squinting your eyes, Before you ventnre out smooth on your oil of Olny before makinc up, and don't foruct your neck, Your skin will maintain a milky look despite the dryinjr effect of tha aum Margaret Merril far Infanh and Ifrthday I Big Selection jfm I FOUNTAIN 1 HOBBY CENTER Of EN NIGHTS '111 KM Msl ma dreams come (rue 1 at 5 The dream of every bride it a perfect wedding and the bride to be will fulfill her dream at Coyle's. Our expert personnel it at your service to help you plan your wedding. No appointment is neceisary for courtesy service of Coyle's, Complete wedding planning, formal or informal, from ring to reception.

for the bride New bridal gowns featuring the unbroken look, side Interest, loct train hooded look, mantleback, and of many traditional stylet in new fabrics and trims. We have ct gown to fit the budget of any prospective bride from 59.00 to 240.00. Petticoah are available in tllm line toffeta, daeron'A Hne, bock fullnesj from to 15,98, Position for (lie attendant The perfect complement to the wedding party, bridal attend, anti' drettet in new fall styles from 23.00 to 40.00. In addition lo auistance in telectlon of your gown and Iroutvr teou, your gown will be pretied for your wedding ond again before the ceremony. You'll be pleawd with our tervicn and the surprise we have for each bride.

Plan to in today and become acquainted in our bridal salon Second MNCK 1984.