The Charleston Daily Mail from Charleston, West Virginia • Page 16

DEAR ABBY Grandmother Gets Role Of Villain By ABIGAIL VAN BUHEN DEAR ABBY: My grandson (111 tall him Jimmy) is a oki college student. A few weeks ago I noticed that a stage play was coming to town Uecause Jimmy had taken a role in that play in high school, I wrote him a note offering to treat him and a friend to two tickets. I asked him to let me know which performance he wanted to see so I could purchase the tickets and put them in the mail to him. Two weeks went by. I didn't hear one word from the boy.

Then his other grandmother told me that Jimmy was "pleased" with my offer, but was "too busy" to go. I told my son (Jimmy's father) that was hurt and displeased that his son didn't bother to give me that message personally, whereupon the father immediately took Jimmy's part, pointing out what a fine lad he "No chinking, no smoking, no dope I added, and no manners." Now I am the villain. Everyone is mad at me and I am mad at the boy. Your comments, please. THE VILLAIN DEAR VILLAIN: Yonr grandson should have personally acknowledged yonr offer with thanks, regrets, or whatever.

Bat since he failed to to so, yon ihwddn't ban attempted to pnnish him by reporting bis bad manners to his father. A 19 year old college student is old enough to take his own lamps. Next time, sock It to not his father. DEAR ABBY: Our son will be coming home from Vietnam soon after having completed four years there. He a good job waiting for him when he comes home, but we don't know exactly how much he will be earning a week.

We would like to have some idea as to how much room and board to charge him, keeping in mind that there is always beer and drinks ih the house which he likes, and will be helping himself to unless he has changed. Can you give us a suggestion? TEXARKANA DEAR TEXARKANA: I don't know what the going rate for room and board is where yon live. Meanwhile, what's your hurry? Would giving yonr returning G. I. son a "break" break you? DEAR ABBY: I've been tempted to write to you many times, but now I can't resist.

When 1 read the letter from ''Can't Forget" who was still in love with her algebra teacher whom she hadn't seen for 13 years, I was shocked to learn there was someone else so much like myself. I was in love with a college classmate, but he married someone else. I also married and even after four years and a beautiful baby I still dreamed about this fellow. Whenever I saw a car like his, my heart would pound even tho he had left town years before and I knew it couldn't possibly be his. Then one day I saw a picture of him in the newspaper.

I nearly died. He was fat and bald and ugly. Needless to say, all my dreams vanished. All the psychologists in the world couldn't have done as much for me as that one picture. Now, every time I think of him, I count my blessings for not marrying him, and I kick myself mentally for wasting my dav dreams on him.

FINALLY FORGOT HIM DEAR FINALLY: If your "love" lasts only as long as your lover has his hair and boyish figure, it's a good thing you didn't marry your college dreamboat. McCabe Baxter Rite Held In Burlington The wedding of Miss Constance Marie Baxter, daughter of Mr, and Mrs. Robert T. Baxter of Tenafly, N.J., to Brooks Fleming McCabe Jr. of Burlington, Vt, took place Dec.

28 at St. Anselm's Church in Burlington. The bridegroom is the son of Mr. and Mrs. Brooks F.

McCabe of Stauntcn Road. The bride was given in marriage by her father, the ceremony being performed by John Perry. Miss Julie Schilling of Tenafly was maid of honor and Margaret McCabe, sister of the bridegroom, was bridesmaid. The bridegroom's brother, William B. McCabe, was best Ushers were another after which the couple left for a wedding trip to Delray Beach, Fla.

The former Miss Baxter is a graduate of Tenafly High School and attends the University of Vermont. Her father is with the Telephone Co. of New York. Mr. McCabe, whose father is president of the Brooks McCabe Insurance is a graduate of the Gow School, South Wades, N.

and the University of Vermont where brother, John McCabe, and he is now studying for a mas the bride's brother, Robert T. ter's degree in education. He Baxter Jr. employed by the A. A.

A reception followed at the MorreH Agency, real estate S'lelburne Inn in Shelburne, and insurance, in Burlington. LODGE ACTIVITIES Myrtle Rebekah Lodge No. 97 will meet Friday night for a business session. New officers will be installed by Mrs. Kath erine Wratchford, district deputy president, and her staff.

Ladies Auxiliary to Great Kanawha Post No. V.F.W., will meet tonight at 7:30 p. m. at the home of the president, Mrs. Mable King, 3 Michigan Ave.

Plans will be completed for the cancer program, and for a Valentine party to benefit the March of Dimes. NACW Meet Is Saturday Charleston Branch of the National Assn. of College Women will meet Saturday at p. at the Mattie V. Lee Home, 810 Donnally St.

The business meeting will be followed by a program by Mrs. Russell Van Cleve of the "Keep A Child In School" program. Hostesses will be Miss Gertrude E. Cain and Mrs. Julia B.

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Available at your favorite drug or toiletry jan. 13, i97i Cftgtlejtotj Daflg flftail 31 TEENS SELL CHOCOLATE CANDY The 12th Teen Chocolate Candy Sale begins today and con Ralph Estep; John Adams, tinues through this month. Mrs Susan Briskey; South Charleston, Mrs. Sue Cottle; Funds earned this projec spring Hill, Mrs. Betty Mc Wr" KSUvSr! If Committee will award gift Million; Thomas Jefferson, of the YWCA for the coming certifjcates in the amount uf Mrs.

Barbara Simmons, and rt, sio, J7.KJ ana to me uircc Each Teen Club receives top salesgirls in the associa a commission on the candy top in sold. In addition, the girls are each dub along with the adult able to attend conferences and chaiman and her daughter take trips as a result of this entertained on the eve 1HOSEHOIRIO AGE SPOTS4 ning of Feb. 24 at a Swim la party in the YW. Junior high schools partici KOrklCt PieS their adult candv sale chair Perfect for lunch, dinner or men are: Dunbar, Mrs. Ralph Woodrow Wilson, Mrs.

Taylor. Senior high schools participating are Charleston; Dunbar, Mrs J. H. Miller; George Washington, Mrs. Emma Jean Pennington; 'Herbert Hoover, Miss Mary K.

Shamblin; Nitre, Mrs. John Long; Sisson ville, Mrs. Anna Gilmer; South Charleston, Mrs. H. L.

Rogers; St. Albans, Mrs. Cecil party time snack are individu Duttine; Hayes, Mrs R. Hill, and Stonewall, Mrs. al pkzas made with porklets Master; Horace Mann, Mrs.

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