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19 DELAWARE COUNTY (PA.) DAILV TIMES Friday. October MATURE PARENT Let Boy Find Differences DEAR MRS. LAWRENCE: My 6-year-old stepson is visi ing us. At home with his moll er he is allowed to stay in be until noon. Though this upset my housekeeping schedule, Muriel Lawrence ve not said anything becaus as his stepmother, I'm not sur I 'have a right to ask him to I don't want him or my bus band to think I am being crit cal of his mother's training, want this child to love me.

1 YOU are not his mother Anil in the course of his life this young stepson of yours is going to have to discover tha this world is composed of man; different of people, in cliiding those who allow 6-year old boys to stay in bed unti noon and those who don't. It you were sure of your right to be yourself instead en extension of your husband's Club Fair To Open Saturday RIDLEY TOWNSHIP The Ridley Manor Garden Club will open its 10th fair at 10 a.m. Saturday at the Scout Cabin, Milmont Avenue Milmont Park. Mrs. Louis Bourquin and Mrs Harry Majeske are chairmen Committee chairmen are Mrs.

Walter Komar, pick-a pocket game; Mrs. Majeske and Mrs. Walter Komar, refreshments Mrs. Charles Young, preserves and home-made soup; Mrs. James Simon, baked goods, Mrs.

Evelyn Zuber, white ele phant booth; Mrs. John Waters and Mrs. Ralph Morgan, Christ mas booth; Mrs, Stephen Zem- ams, surprise bags; Mrs. James McGliynchey and Mrs. Eleanor Davis, games; and Mrs.

En gene Jalbert, driftwood table The junior group will assist Mrs. Simon. ex-wife, your answer would be simple. Really certain of you right to be different from her gay and happy in your differ cnce from her that your stepson could find nothing offensive in this difference either. Instead of hanging around in (he mornings, waiting for him to get up, you would run up stairs, remove his bedcovers put on 'his socks and shoes foi him, dressing as much of hin as you could in this drowsj state, making such an enter taintnent of what you were doing that your difference from lis mother would become a de lightfu! experience for him.

How 'agauv arid again our fear- barged problems lost their heaviness the moment we can ven imagine the freedom that jra'ces our ability to be who we are! Which is why the great C. G. Jung once wrote, "Self icceptance is the epitome of the moral problem." I'm not telling you to be your- elf with this child. I'm not a know how much labor lies etween the here of our self- uspicion and the there of self- cceptance, how much inherited noral rubble must be got rid how many misjudgments must be corrected before we an even hope to feel "How lad I am to be me!" But we can glimpse what ilf-acceptance might, do in a tuation like yours--the intro- uction to a a boy of a oman so free to the promise the day before her that he ouldn't mind a bit being got- up to enjoy her. Garden Club Speaker Set THORNBURY Mrs.

Harry Wood of Swarthmore will speak on the topic, "Perennials in the Landscape," when the Locksley Garden Club meets at 7:45 p.m Monday in the home of Mrs Robert Richmond, Gradyville Road. Mrs. Wood is a widely known lecturer, writer, flower arranger, and judge and-leader of garden tours. Hostesses will be Mrs. Earle Compton and Mrs.

Rudolfs Za- prauskis. FAMILY DOCTOR tv TM The main ballroom of the Springfield Coun- tiy will be turned into a Roman piazza for, the Sacred Heart Hospital Annual Ball Nov. 6. Discussing the decorations, which will include statues and columns festooned with laurel, are (from left) Mrs. John ninu dance.

Well Water Doesn't Have Required Iron per million Is this the same iron that is essential for good iVould the use of a softener cause hardening of the arteries? A--Iron in the form found water is readily absorbed into your blood but you will not get enough in what you drink to meet your daily requirements. The best dietary source red meat, especially liver. Although some reports have indicated that drinking soft water favors hardening of the arteries, the latest studies disprove this theory You can, therefore, dfmk softened water without damage to your health. Q--Until a few years ago I drank very little water and I developed a bladder infection Since than I drink three or four quarts a day and I feel fine My friends tell me that the fluorine and chlorine now bemk put into the water will cause kidney trouble. What do you think? A--When chlorinated water reaches your table it contains IN PARIS, IT'S EASY So You Want to Buy a Dior? By LOUISE HICKMAN PARIS At the corner Avenue Montaigne and Rue 'rancois-The-First a ancs whirling fly head to walk by Chez Dior 10,000 francs ($2000.) Elaborate- without realizing it was there, ly beaded jeweled ball The scent is a sweet blend of gowns cost the most rose of bulgary, bitter orange, and Jasmine.

Its floweriness is MARPLE IT NOT ONLY takes money to only flung summer. For i a couture original, it also er they have something crisper takes patience and time. SATURDAY to float.on the wind, a mixture Patience for the fittings and bei ris nd cv ress in its "me for it to be made. Three to five fittings may be required. TOV i II 6 TM 35 On the dress," w.h.

I to make tt most says a Dior spokesman. "A very Kf na friendly, but not too simple dress.can be made in a pplnger says a Dior executive, implying very complicated way." MONDAY kof The finjshed dress de hat friendliness might run over nto familiarity, and that would be untihinkable. Dior The house is already showing the new fair and winter collection every afternoon at 3: There's a passport check at the door, and only professional spies are barred. Dior personnel say they can spot hem by instinct. Anybody can buy a Dior gown.

A FIREPLACES are focal pint's in these two mull i-purpose rooms. Here an open hearth is covered with a beat a i hood. Sleep sofa opens into a and stacking units have storage space in closed Campus Corner Three Delaware County girls have been named to the dean's list for the full semester Pembroke College in Brown University, Providence, R. I All nre sophomores. They nre Joan E.

Frank, daughter of Mr, mid Mrs. Karl R. Frank, 1260 Hunt Club Lane, Upper Providence; Pamela Miller, daughter of Mr. and Mrs. James C.

Milter, 701! Beechwood Road, Nether Providence; and Knren L. Henry daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Nelson V. Henry, 136 Cnrlton Plncc, Upper Providence.

Jerrilyn M. Greene, a senior at Vassar College, has been named to the honors list for third consecutive year and designated a Matthew Vassar Scholar for the second consecutive year. She is the daughter of Mrs. Joseph Greene, and the late Mr. Greene, N.

Ridge Road, Upper Providence. Whales Next CARD PARTY Saturday, at 3 p.m. in Collingdale Fire Co 2, MacDade Blvd. and Mildred Collingdale. Sponsored by the Auxiliary.

Mrs. Archibald Murdock, chairman. YOUR OLD FUR CAN tf REMODCIED INTO A NEW SlYlt STOll, CAPI or JACKET. HARRISON FURRIER mANUFACTlfflINC FUftftltRS 5 I. LEA MVB.

JUST Off AND MARKET STS. WILMINGTON, DEI. fO 4-0711 9 MOKK El.AHOKATK paneled i i i i i JCU in wormy from floor to olin-ostovy coiling Chimney above Ri-ill is crossbars. me nnisneq dress will be de- -ASTON WOMAN'S WVJMAIVS CLUB-- Installation livered within two to three Membe rship tea and program of new members and presenta- weeks from tho tv students of Sun Valley High tion of Lily Award from- the unthinkable. weeks from the time it was pick- of Sun Valley High tion of Lily Award from-the Actual anybody can see a ed out collection.

Scho01 music department, 8 Society for Crippled Children ior-collection. TTie. house is al- Once.you've bought a Dior de- St. Timothy's Luther-and Adults, 8 p.m.' Film ign, it doesn't mean you're the hurch hospital-ship SS Hope mlv one 'who's ant it Thomas Simpson, chairman WESTOATP HTT BAKE SALE Sunday after and II a.m. Masses in the iall of St.

Pefer and St. Paul Ukrainian Catholic Church 100 South Penn Clifton Heights. Sponsored by the Altar Rosary Society. Mrs. Anna Newmaster, chairman.

LUNCHEON Monday at 1 p.m. in the Parkside Fire Co. Sponsored by the Auxiliary. Presbyterian Church, Ashland Ave. and Pike, Glen Sponsored by Class.

FASHION AND JEWELRY SHOW-Wetlnesdny at p.m. in Nativity Lutheran Church. Chester. Sponsored by the Lutheran Church Women. flings perfume into Prices for 5r air all day long.

er than' muoc It would take a pretty snuf- range francs' I A frrt 1 A Ann. clients-low- to ne only one who's got it. As in any other business, the success of a number in the collection is rated on its sales volume. Dior's saleswomen are just very careful not to. sell the same dress twice in the.same; social circle.

Slender- clients often book sale dresses to be held for them once the daily showings about a month and a half before the new collection is to be presented. THEY MAY be disappointed, though, if they covet a design that the mannequin wearing it wants. At the end of the season each mannequin can have one of the dresses' that was fitted on her. The girls pick them out early, and wear them especially proudly. "We don't want "a client meet- a girl from the house wearing the same dress." Beaver Alumnae To See Slides Slides of the Scandinavian Countries will be shown when the Delco-Main Line Alumnae ii i i Mrs.

John Schiller of Lansdowne and Mrs. Richard Tay- In 1 i ix iv 1 1 1 1 I I I the Joy lor of Upper Darby will be hostesses. OF DALLAS provide for or sitting. CONCORD GRAPES i touch' for th, womnn tho liVn 11 Watch for Our Sign on Mtddletown Rd, between Lima and Gradyville LO 6-3672 SUITS, DRESSES and COORDINATES PARK AVE. Park Avenue iOS-E, PA Kl 3-2513 JAu, will light restored.

Then thfy us high- or AS Bring wxir cherished in soon, vi you? Or stop hy to set- the fine restorations our skilled suff font for others. LEWIS STUDIO FlVt-0-HVE MAHKH IT. CHCSTM, PA. Both are volatile carefully con- health depart- On Wayne Brandstadt Brandstadt, care of ment as well as by the water works. Keep up your water drinking and you may outlive your pessimistic friends.

Q--My doctor says I have seborrhea. What treatment do you recommend? Will this a me bald? A--Dandruff has been called the poor man's seborrhea but, call it what you like, it is due to an overactivity of the oil glands of the skin. Seborrheic dermatitis is found especially on the chest, face and scalp. Many people fear that it will lead to baldness (which has been called the poor man's alo- pecia) but there is ho evidence that this is the case. There is no cure but the dis- ease can be kept under control by washing the scalp 2 or 3 times a week with a dandruff- removing shampoo.

A new one that contains hexachlorophene can be obtained without a prescription. One oft- aemocratic en has to try several prepai would tions before finding one that works. best. Federated Club Notes Luncheon. Bus leaves the Audi- WOM- torium at noon.

SWARTHMORE WOMAN'S GLUB Literature department Mrs. Nicholas book review by Mrs Peter Told, 2 p.m. SWARTHMORE JUNIOR CLUB WOMAN'S CLUB- Installation Museu planned i JTJ Thomas chairman" DREXEL HILL WOMAN'S CLUB--Cultural Heritage Day. Refreshments at 12:45 Business at 1:15 p.m. Color slides and lecture, "Scenic and Historic Pennsylvania," by Mrs.

Walter L. Lucas of Springfield, 2 p.m. DREXEL HILL JUNIOR WOMAN'S CLUB-Bridge part at 8:30 p.m. in home of Mrs B. M.

McCafferty, 4029 Ellendale Road. FOLCROFT WOMAN'S OLUB --Board meeting at 8 p.m MARPLE JUNIOR WOMAN'S CLUB-Board meeting at 8:30 in home of Mrs; Anthony Ferraro, 189 Cranbourne Drive. RIDLEY TOWNSHIP WOMAN'S CLUB Covered: dish luncheon at noon. Program, Semi Precious Stones," by Clayton Hamilton at 1:30 p.m. in Veterans of Foreign Wars Post, MacDade Blvd.

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