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8 THE POST-STANDARD. Syracuse, N. Tuesday, Mar 8, 1956 (V" The Council Older Sisters Assume Too Much Responsibility Community Clubs to Have Spring Party, Craft Show 1 LUCY--Sister's headed for disaster. A1ARIAX- our parents. LUCY--We have three sisters in our family, I am the oldest, Marian is next and Jenny, 17, is the youngest Jenny has fallen in with some bad companions and; seems headed for some real trouble.

We are very much afraid Note: The Family consist of a a psychiatrist, a newspaper editor. a woman's page editor and two newspaper writers. These consult with clergymen of all faiths and denominations. All letters are in complete confidence. held will be broken up about it, and they will be just as helpless as sro.

THE COt their youngest daughter's moral delinquency. that Jer.n's r.ot rr.TJo« cGuiiJiBed spring craft show of the nine community clubs sponsored by the Mu- lub, and Mrs. Herman Bieilng. ce president of the McChesney nicipal Merr.bers frcrr. the various clubs 7 Jennv may not may be, in a dis-twill take tomorrow Kiri; will exhibit hand painted dishes, itorted revolt against being the (Recreation Center.

Dinner will be. ribbon corsages, dried bouquets, A.4 A A Vtft 1 be quite as brazen as her sisters think. She may be bluffing a bit i jwhen she defies them to tell her parents. In any event, she should jbe asked to go with her sisters! i youngest sister. Perhaps the at 6:30 pjn.

ileather carving and Swedish em- sisters are far less capable of in- Mrs, Carl Thelan, president made in the arts and fluencing Jenny than the parents would be. However that may be, these older sisters are still young Schiller Community Club, is in classes, under the direction charge of reservations. Mrs. Mrs. Lois Murrock.

ter Liebi, president of McKin-! Nearly 1,000 women participate jto the parents and have the: girls and are taking muth more'ley Community Club and in the activities of these nine kind of trouble that will readily matter out. Her brazenness may Ion themselves than they have she may have ruined her life al-f become apparent. She will not be! wilt if confronted with this! any right to do. Avery Kenyon, president of the clubs, which meet regularly Kirk Club are in charge of dec--ing the winter season. Highlight- an innocent victim of any thing, They should have a final show-j orations.

ling the numerous activities of Marian's attitude assumes down with Jenny. They should Acting as hostesses for the: the clubs are their service proj- las she is quite wise" in theseithe parents are not equal to the-let her know that unlesss she.evening will be Mrs. Henry ects. During the past year the Jenny lies parents about ma ttcrs. Her misdeeds will nolproblem.

Unless there is someiagrees to toe the line in her be-iGrom, president of the Webster women did service work for the ready, but we cannot agree on what course we should take. her evenings She recently doubt ca up with her in rob-! compelling reason of health orjhavior and keep her promises, ncated an elaborate scheme fori bing her of a chance for a whole-Sunless she believes them to beithey will tell her parents; and spending a weekend with a man. This entailed getting a girl in! some family life. But it will help-grossly incompetent as they should make good on the no one to confront our parents! she should not deprive them of'threat unless Jenny shows un- another town to write her a with this harsh They jan opportunity to cope with! mistakabte signs of improvement, letter inviting her to spend the I weekend with her. Marian and I knew this invitation was a and we threatened that we would i-- she did not call the whole thing off.

Our expedient worked that! time, but Jenny is now becoming more aeiiant. Wnen we tried toi i stop her from visiting a man's home the other night, she became very brazen and threatened to tell our parents herself. This led almost to blows. I feel as though Marian and I are over our heads and should tell our parents, but Marian disagrees. MARIAX--I think Jenny is quite sophisticated and cynical.

1 agree with Lucy that Jenny has probably already mined her life, but do not feel it is necessary to confront our parents with the harsh facts. Jenny will not get into the Good Taste Buffet Party Suitable for Large Group By EMILY POST Today's first letter tells me: "A neighbor of mine who is a very highly educated person has a habit of correcting me whenever I mispronounce a word or make a grammatical error. I know I don't speak perfect English, but resent her doing this very much when she does it in the presence of others. I have not said anything to her about this before because I did not to hurt her feelings, but it has come to a point where I can't stand it. any longer.

Will you please tell me how I can tactfully handle this situation?" Tell her frankly exactly what you have told me and tell her that you aoDreciate her kind in- unitea states wno spone on tnis years ineme, "values lor voiun: tention when you are alone with leers." her but that it makes you very At home after an extensive motor trip are Mr. and Mrs. Willard J. Obrist of 317 E. Manchester Rd.

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Representing the Syracuse Junior League are Mrs. George Dowley of 330 Farmer St. and Mrs. Robert Keidmeier of 405 Radcliffe Rd. The group attending includes two delegates from each of 186 leagues in the United States, Canada, Mexico and Hawaii.

Keynote address at the opening dinner last night was given by Arnold Heeney, Canadian Ambassador to the su Mrs. Erskine nursing homes, made 3.000 i dressings for American Cancer ElGCt Societv dressed 72 dolls for the old Newsboy Toy Fund, and con- jtributed to the Red Cross and I Community Chest Fund. SALMON THAT'S salmon, cooked rice, lemon juice and paprika make this an economical loaf your family will love. Try serving it with green beans, French bread, a lettuce and tomato salad, and baked pineapple custard for a memorable meal. Family Scrapbook Teach Young Child How to Handle Ire By'DR.

ERNEST G. Three-year-old Tony swaggered up to a playmate his own age and said, gonna knock your Old Favorite. New Look Mrs. Kenneth H. Erskine was; elected president of the Syracuse' University Alumnae Club at the annual business i last night, in A a 41, --i N- Women's Bldg.

Other newly elected officers of the a a A Nichols, i vice president; Mrs. E. McCarthy, second vice president; Mrs. William: E. Aiken, third vice Mrs.

Harley Miller, recording sec- retary; Mrs. Thomas W. Greenlee, corresponding secretary; i Margaret Foley, treasurer, and! Mrs. Wallace Thomas, assistant treasurer. i i New board members are: J.

Bernard Kelley, Mrs. Frank! Degnan, Mrs. William H. Wads-! worth, Mrs. Robert B.

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Dear Mrs. Post: My daughter Mrs. John Ritchie and her sons. Scott and Mathew, of Bing-jis going to be confirmed shortly hamton, were weekend guests of her parents, Mr. and Mrs.

Leonard-and we plan on having a dinner S. Fulmer of Maple. -Fayetteville. The W. Albert Rills of 411 Buffington Rd.

have returned after a 17 day trip. They went to Baltimore, Md. and boarded a freighter to New Orleans, La. After a stay there, they went by plane to Tampa, Kia. and then to Clearwater, Fla.

where they were guests of their aunt, Kiss Sara E. Bell of Boothbay Harbor, Maine. Keturning home tomorrow will be the Frank C. Loves of 226 Brattle Rd. who have been in Minneapolis, Minn, for two weeks and were registered at the Curtis.

Burns, daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Rodney C. Burns of 214 Twin Hills Dr. has been initiated into Alpha Lambda Delta, I'reshman women's honorary at Northwestern University, Evanston.

111. Mrs. John N. Derschug of 211 Sedgwick has returned after an extended stay in Miami Beach, Fla. While there, she was joined by ner grandson, John NeUigan, son of Mrs.

H. Paul Xelligan of 1(537 James who spent his spring vacation from Holy Cross College, Worcester, with her. Arriving home Sunday night were Dr. and Mrs. Lyman J.

Spire ot Highbridge Fayetteville. They have been gone a month, and motored first to Fort Lauderdale, where they visited her brother-in-law and sister. Dr. and Mrs. Frederick Fisher.

On the way home they were guests of Dr. and Mrs. Stanley Morse in Beau- tort, S. C. Weekend guests of Mr.

and Mrs. Leslie Hemens of 211 Smith Manlius, were her brother-in-law and sister, Mr. and Mrs. John Dunn 01 Uneonta. One of the outstanding; events during a man's term of office as master 01 a Masonic lodge, is attendance at Grand Lodge meetings.

These took place in New York City last week, A delegation of 60 Irom Onondaga County, including the 24 masters and their wives, attended. Among them were Mr. and Mrs. George A. Anderson of 1533 LeMoyne Mr.

and Mrs. Lloyd S. Munroe of 136 N. Burdick f'ayetteville, Mr. and Mrs.

Stewart Rising of Hamilton Jordan, Dr. and Mrs. Jerome G. Wayne of 322 Fayette Mr. and Mrs.

Alex Sweedler of 130 Niven and Mr. and Mrs. Harry L. Edmunds of 118 Warner Ave. They had the fun of sitting next to Walter Wmchell and the Arthur Murrays in Lindy's.

and discovered from Murray that all the men in her family had been Master Masons. And they enjoyed Shirley Booth in "Desk Set" and Helen Traubel in "Pipe Dream." In Boston a week ago, attending the crew races, were Dr. and Mrs. Bruce E. Chamberlain of 2Z7 Strong Mr.

and Mrs. Loren W. Scliocl of 201 Warwick BeWitt, and Mr. and Mrs. Russell Swanson ot 412 Koxford Rd.

S. Mrs. Waiter Anderson of 82 E. Lake Skancateles. is spend- for about 25 close friends and relatives following the church service.

As it will be impossible to seat this number of guests in our dining room at one time, it will be necessary to have two seatings. As parents of the guest of honor. I would like to know if it will be proper for my hus- jband and me to be seated at the first sitting. Answer: Rather than two seat- ings, .1 would like to suggest that a stand-up buffet would be more practical. Dear Mrs.

Post: Is it not bad manners to file one's nails in the presence of visitors? A friend and I are having a disagreement over this and would like very much to have you settle it. Answer: To file a broken nail that is catching onto things would be permissible, but to give yourself a manicure in the presence of anyone whom you consider a "visitor 1 would be very discourteous. (A member of your family would not be expected to object.) Five-year-old Ann was very angry with her mother. "I'll tear up all the she shouted. Equally angry, Billy had an even more direct approach.

He threatened his mother with, 'Til cut you up in pieces and throw them in the garbage can." Tough talk, this! And for most of us, a little unpleasant. What is the best way of handling it? While, of course, there is no one best way, there -are some guideposts. One shouldn't give the youngster a feeling that we really take him seriously. He may be frightened, if we do. Nor should we merely times, its poo-poo a good him.

Some- idea to "go along with the gag." Thus, with Billy one might say. "How big will the pieces be, Bill?" Or with Ann, and more seriously, "I know how you feel, Would you like to tear up some of these old magazines? Maybe that will make you feel better." Learning to handle anger is an important kind of learning. Merely to forbid its expression isn't too helpful. It is far better to deal with anger or tough talk either through some such approach as suggested above cr in other ways which help a child understand why he got Rice has always had a reputation for making costlier foods go further, and it more than lives up to that reputation in this golden salmon and rice loaf. The rice extends a one-pound can of salmon to provide six hungry people with a meal'they will remember fondly and demand often.

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Yields six servings. v.v. 1 i i I -V, --A' SSE AVi mfi v.v v-v. Births Recorded The folio wine births have besn re-' corded by tne Bureau of Vital Statistics: SONS TO V.w sSx v.v\. iS.

(Myrtle M. Pynn) 1336 Butternut April 23. Mr. and John P. O'Brien Jr.

(Arlene Brogaru, 216 Sast April 24. Mr. and Mrs. Gaylord D. Whittalcer (Ida M.

Keen), 1 Bradford Heights April 2S. Mr. and Mrs. James E. Naylor (Barbara S.

Cross), 1 CoIIln Payette- ville, April 26. Mr. and Mrs. Frank Gritfo (Mary April 26. Mr.

and Mrs. Robert E. Davis (Eva M. Woods), 308 James April 27. Mr.

and Mrs. Lynn R- Carpenter Argonne tne ceremony, and the reception are included in Mrs. Post's booklet No. 501. "Etiquette cl TCcddlnss." Mrs.

Is sorry she cannot answer personal mail. To obtain a copy, send 25 cents in coir. to Dept. KP. The Post-Standard, P.

O. Box 99. Station G. Neff Yorfc 19. N.

Y. Small fry love orange juice poured over fruit sherbet and served in pretty glasses with straws. Society to View Ceramic Work St. James Altar and Rosary Society will meet Thursday in the school hall. Members may attend the evening mass in the church and then adjourn to the meeting.

Women will take articles for the white elephant sale to be conducted that evening, with Mrs. William Whalen, auctioneer. Mrs. Joseph Charles, president, has invited Mrs. Joseph Lahey, a member, to show her works in ceramics.

The following band leaders I A. -H T-- I i A ments: Mrs. Henry Duplessis, Mrs. Charles i Mrs. Louis Barcza.

Mrs. Virgil Kilmer, Mrs. Richard Borek, s. Charles Gardner and Mrs. Donald Collins.

(Jeanne M. Duffy), 104 April 27. Mr. and Mrs. Freeman A.

Barber Jr. (Jean E. Bowde-), 107 Sherbroofce East Syracuse. April 28. Mr.

and Mrs. Henry P. George (Blanca K. Spiers), 124 Sims April 28. Mr.

and Mrs. Alfred L. Bessette (Ethel A. Hoose). Morgan Road, Memphis RD 1.

April 29. Mr. and Mrs. Robert F. Eberlc (Pauline M.

Ill Rone: Lane. April 29. Mr. and ivfrs. James M.

Folsorr. K. McAfee Palmer Drive. FayetteviUe. April 39.

Mr. and Mrs. Everett O. Ingram (Helen Sacco), 726 Hickory April 30. Mr.

and Mrs. Zierinc (Sonia. Brisman), Slocum Heights, April 30. i Mr. and Mrs.

Robert L. Hill (Beverly i J. Hewitt). 753 Montgomery St. May 1.

Mr. and Mrs. James Greco (Elizabeth J. Smith), 206 E. Glen Ave.

May J. Mr. and Mrs. Irwln W. Bicsar (Ma; rian M.

Smith), 117 -Fountain May 1. DAUGHTERS TO Mr. and Mrs. Robert G. Wedemeyer! fMary McMenamin).

19 Sunset Baldu-insville, April 24. Mr- and Mrs. William Mutschler, (Barbara Corcoran), 425 Fobes i April 27. Mr. and Mrs.

Peter Fialfeovlc (Ann jM. Strager). Solvay Road, Jaraesville. i April 28. I Mr.

and Mrs. Ja.mes J. Corbett (Huph H. Edee, 923 S. Geddes Aon 1 Mr.

and Mrs. Hosier O. Dunham iKc'icn V. Parken, Phoenix KD 1. April 23.

I Mr. and Mrs. Norman G. Gordon I neaffer more April 30. Mr.

and Mrs. patsy A. 1 ArrlT SH 1 tU i i UU' Mr. and Mrs. Robert H.

H'jstci (Carol A. 319 Sacfcett May 1. Mr. and Mrs. Walter J.

Bialtc (Evalyn M. Snilt Rock Road. Camillus RD 1. May 2. HousewaresJ At home after six months in St.

Petersburg, is John A. Jordan of 6 Orange Marcellus. He will remain here for the Slimmer. The moving van arrives tomorrow and Dr. and Mrs.

A. J. bchr.eider and their children. George and Anne, will be loading up a i off frtr tccr. Cli witu York Slate College of Medi-j cine, will assume a position with the U.

S. Public Health Service Atlanta. They have been residents of this area for about a yearj and a half, living at 1 Pebble Hill DeWitt. Some of their friends; have arranged farewell dinners before their departure. I Cazeno-m residents wno have been traveling include Mr.

and: Mrs. William Thorn, who recently returned after several days in; Korflman Smith spmt the wtefteTid st Pembroke in I'rovidence, R. I. Mrs. Philip Glassey, president of the fazenox-ia League of Woman Voters, attended the national convention in Chicago III.

as iepresentative of the local group. ticJal delegates from attending the State Conncil meetiniH ot the League of Women Voters -if New York State tomorrow and Thursday, at the Mark Twain in Elmira. are Mrs. Fred Taylor and: K. Kingman Sheldon.

I Miss Anna W. OJrr.sted of 832 James St. uas a for the! weekend of her cousin. Miss Katherine Olmstcd of Sodus who has I visiung her. Mrs, Maynard Carter and Miss Marion Burdett from London, England.

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