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The BISMARCK TRIBUNE Tuesday, August 12, 1980 Page 7 Weight Control Seminar Planned Children Shadow To Learn Careers 0 'w rrn1r 1 1 i- irV ing Off Much Does Exercise Medler, Bismarck Hospital; "Behavior Modification: A Change for the Better," Dr. Harold Hase, clinical psychologist, Bismarck Hospital; "The ABC's of Popular Diets: Assessment, Basis, Consequences," Sandy Adams, United Tribes Educational Center; and "Role of the Diet: Fitting the Pieces Together," Judi Adams, North Dakota Sunflower Council. Pre-registration is necessary. For further information write Bismarck Hospital, Box 640, Bismarck, 58501. "Weight Problems," a daylong workshop on weight control open to the public, will be held 8:30 a.m.

Sept. 18 at the State Highway Department Auditorium. The Bismarck Hospital Community Health Education Center and the North Dakota Dairy Council are co-sponsors of the program. The program includes the following presentations: "Overweight: The Elbow-bending Syndrome," LaVerne Lee, director of Nursing Division, State Health Department; "Pills: Is Dieting too Hard to Laurel Haroldson, Northbrook Drug; "Work mm Glen Ullin Girl Chosen N. D.

Charolais Queen BILL DEAN Eaglestaff, Fort Yates, and University of South Dakota professor Royce Engstrom study a chemistry experiment with another student. Eaglestaff, a junior at USD, participated in a science workshop, funded by a National Science Foundatn Grant, which focused on teaching science to Indian students. Nurse Accreditation Conference Planned TUCSON, Ariz. (AP) Mark Santa Cruz thought he wanted to be a priest, and he found out he might be right. Guillermo Jarillo thought he wanted to be a mechanic and found out he might be wrong.

They were among about 165 Tucson High School students who spent at least one day this year as "shadows" working alongside someone in a career to gain first-hand experience of the working world. Like Santa Cruz, some students found their career aspirations cemented by their experience. Others, such as Jarillo, decided they should be looking elsewhere. The basic idea was to enable them to discover some of the realities of their choices and the schooling and preparation necessary to achieve them. Before being "shadows," they might have been considerably less realistic, sponsors said.

"They might be getting straight Fs in school and talk about being psychiatrists when they grow up. Or lawyers, doctors, rock singers those kinds of things," says Rosemary Tin-dall of Pima County Developmental Career Guidance, one of the project's sponsors. Jarillo says he sees mechanics as interesting "a challenge to figure out what's wrong, why the machine doesn't work. I have a real curosity to find it out, and I don't stop until I do." The 16-year-old junior helped a friend rebuild an automobile engine last summer, so when he had the opportunity to shadow someone, he chose a trailer mechanic. But Jarillo didn't like what he saw.

"It seemed a little boring. I want something more challenging," he said. So then he spent a day with Gates Learjet mechanic Rick Wright, who concluded the shadowing adventure with a trip to Marana in a rented private plane. "He (Wright') gave me a tour of the plant and then told me how to get a job there. I can either go to college for four years and then take three tests to get a license, or I can get training in the Air Force," Jarillo explained.

"Right now, I'm thinking of going into the Air Force after high school. Aviation mechanics get better pay than regular mechanics. And what I've heard, a lot of jobs are opening for aviation mechanics," the student added. Sometimes the shadowing experiences made students more aware of the difficult decisions they must make. Bethany Palmer, 18 and a graduating senior, spent a day with cosmetologist Doretta Hodge.

"At first I wanted to be beautician. Now I'm looking at being a P.E. (physical education) teacher. I don't know which to choose," she said. Aspiring lawyer Ricky Copeland spent an afternoon with practicing lawyer Richard Davis.

"He told me that being a lawyer is nothing like what you see on TV," the 16-year-old junior said. "It's not like Perry Mason. It was basically what I expected, though. It fascinated me." Santa Cruz, 17 and a graduating senior, said counselors had tried to discourage his interest in becoming a priest, so he was suspicious when he entered the shadowing program. But Santa Cruz accompanied Father Vicente Lopez to Parker one Saturday, where Lopez celebrated a Mass in Spanish.

And he served as an altar boy for Father Patrick Ott at St. Ambrose Catholic Church and Father Robert J. Brauer at St. Augustine's Cathedral. "I asked Father Bob (Brauer) why he became priest.

He couldn't answer me. He believes in God and that God called him," Santa Cruz said. "I believe the same." The Tucson school district has another careers program Professional Internship Program or PIP that's largely for students who have done well academically. The shadowing program, sponsors said, is for those who haven't done so well in school. Karen Kessler Karen Kay Kessler, daughter of Mr.

and Mrs. Calvin Kessler, Glen Ullin, was crowned North Dakota Charolais Queen at the N.D. Charolais Association meeting held in June. Throughout Karen's year-long reign, she will attend local fairs and Charolais sales. Already she has attended the N.D.

State Fair in Minot. She is active in church, serving as president of Youth Fellowship and as a Sunday school teacher. At 17, she is a high school junior and lives on a farm north of Glen Ullin. She has four brothers and a sister. continuing discussions on accrediting and its implications for North Dakota.

Faculty for this session are Inez Hinsvark, Ed. director of the two-year study of Credentialing in Nursing; Mary Liston, Ph. deputy director of Program Affairs for the National League for Nursing, New York; Noma Lang, Ph.D., dean of the University of Wisconsin School of Nursing in Milwaukee, and Frances Waddle, coordinator of ethical and legal aspects of nursing practice for the Division of Nursing Affairs in the American Nurses' A conference on nurse accreditation is scheduled Wednesday and Thursday at Mary College. The conference is sponsored by the North Dakota Nursing Education Consortium. Events Wednesday will take place in O'Keeffe Hall and are open to consortium members and other nurses and professional workers in health care.

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He did pretty well in school and now has a good job. He never got mixed up with dope or alcohol like the children of some of our friends. I was very proud of him until today. While changing his bed linen I found a photo album under his mattress. There were pictures in there of him and his girlfriend completely naked.

Most of the pictures were of her, in obscene poses. I couldn't believe my eyes. She always seemed so lady-like and reserved (she's only 18.) I can't get those pictures out of my mind. Should I destroy them? Should I leave them alone and hope they don't fall into the hands of anyone else? Shall I tell him I ran into the album and ask him what is going on? I'm signing this Shocked Mom P.S. Dear Ann: I couldn't wait for your answer.

I prayed over my problem and the Lord told me what to do. I'm sure I got His message straight. I went immediately to my son's room and tore up those disgusting photos. I felt like a ten-ton weight had been lifted from my shoulders. At least I am sure now that no one else will ever see those filthy pictures.

What should I do when he discovers they are missing? He will know I was the only one who could have run into them. Should I go to my son and tell him what I did and hope he understands? Was I wrong to do what I did? Waiting And Worrying Dear Waiting and Worrying: Those pictures belonged to your son. You had no business tearing them up. My advice is to say nothing. If your son asks any questions, answer them truthfully.

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