The Sentinel from Carlisle, Pennsylvania • 8

Engagements The Evening Women's news Dear Mary Haworth: Although it surely isn't good to dwell on morbid subjects of any kind, especially with children, I feel they should know the facts of life. I am writing in defense of Mrs. CS (the inner city dweller), whose reminiscinz. It would be lovely to live in a wonderfully safe world. But the world isn't safe.

And the sooner children know that, the better. It is better to know the brutal, even horrible facts of life and maneuver around them, than to think everyone is marvellous and end up molested, abducted, Sabina McCarthy weds Michael E. Neiswender 1 1 1 HELEN SHULENBERGER His Problem Ii Self-DIs trust DearT.C: To say that your weakness is women is putting the cart before the horse. Your weakness is fear. Woman -chasing is the symptom.

You dont accept yourself as a man. You've been afraid you lack what it takes. Doubtless your ladies' man skirmishing has been aimed at persuading yourself and the audience that you were somehow just too much man to be confined to monogamous marriage when in truth, I suppose, you were in nervous retreat, always, from the proposition of being "the man" to even just one woman: Your wife. Given an enterprising mind and the willingness to face facts, you would have sought specialist help with the problem long ago, for the family's sake. What now? Try geriatric analytic type counselling, to take stock of yourself and get on the right road.

M.H. Mary Haworth answers through her column. Write her in care of The Evening Sentinel. DONNA S. BOSTWICK BOILING SPRINGS Mr.

and Mrs. Maynard E. Bostwick, RD1, have announced the engagement of their daughter. Donna Schree, to Raymond C. Mellinger, Jr.

son of Mr. and Mrs. Raymond C. Mellinger, RD1. Miss Bostwick is a junior at Cumberland Valley High School.

Her fiance, a 1970 graduate of Boiling Springs High School, is employed by Lynn Myers, contractor. No date has been set for the wedding. Millersville graduate Mrs. Nancy R. Shank, who was graduated on Friday from Millersville State College, is the daughter of Mrs.

Ethel Richwine, 737 W. North and the late Jesse Richwine. Mrs. Shank is the wife of H. Carl Shank, who is a seminary student at Westminister College, near Philadelphia.

They are residing at Rockledge. INDIAN ORCHARD, Mass. In an ecumenical service in St. Matthew's Church, Miss Sabina Carol McCarthy became the bride of Michael E. Neiswender, at 11 a.

Jan. 9, 1971. She is the daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Lawrence J.

McCarthy, Indian Orchard, and be is the son of Mr. and Mrs. Saylor Neiswender, 133 Garland Drive, Carlisle. The double ring ceremony was performed by the Rev. Edmund Krayak and Chaplain (USAF) John Keir.

The bride, who was given in marriage by her father, wore a camelot gown of ivory satin, encrusted with crystals, pearls and gold. A camelot cap held her cathedral length veil of silk illusion, and she carried a bouquet of orchids, stephanotis and ivy with ivory satin streamers. The matron of honor was Mrs. Stanley Papachristou, Bangor, and the bridesmaids were Miss Lourdes Faustino, Ludlow, and Miss Sandra Boutin, Indian Orchard. Their urincess-stvle eowns of royal purple faille featured embroidered necklines and bodices.

Matching flat bows 1 1 -a- t' beaten or dead. Sincerely. AG. Teaching Climate Affects Learner i DearA.G.: I think it is fair to say that Mrs. CS was committing an indiscretion in visiting her anxieties and her reasons for them on the children.

Better if she learns from the episode, than if she tries to justify her mistake versus the friend's rebuke. It is okay to ventilate your anxieties, if you must, in a suitable group. But don't impose them on hearers who aren't equipped to cope with the burden of stress. It isn't-what children hear, learn or know, so much as it is the teaching climate in which they learn that makes the difference, in their experience, between unnerving shock and hardy growth in awareness. M.H.

Senior Citizen's Weakness Is Women Dear Mary Haworth: I am in my 70s. We have fine children and grandchildren, and now, great grandchildren. But they don't appeal to me. My weakness is women. I have a lovely wife and we have friends in common, but I've always liked my "friends" better.

I gravitate to old and young and think I am in love with many of them. At times I've been a great trial to my wife. She's been loyal through everything, working very hard, doing whatever needed to be done. Still I am more interested in girls than in her. This hurts my family.

They say I need help. But I can help myself. I go to church and pray. Do you think I've been wrong? T.C. xo.

rto-ur Jisn v. fabric ICc ntrr 1 "4 I ft to a friend's children, about her tears of armed robbery (and her reasons for this) were dismissed by the friend as fiction. Mrs. CS says she didn't mean to frighten the kids and she resents being called a liar. I sympathize.

deans lists Michael F. Stringfellow, son of Mr. and Mrs Paul Stringfellow, 12 Kenwood was named to the dean's list at the University of Pittsburgh for the fall semester. He is a 1970 graduate of Boiling Springs High School. Robert Jumper, son of Mr.

and Mrs. Simon Jumper, 100 Longs Gap Road, a freshman at Shippensburg State College, has been named to the dean's list for the fall semester. MECHANICSBURG David L. Stoudt, a junior geology major at Waynesburg College, has been placed on the dean's list for the first semester with an average of 3.588 out of a possible 4.00. He is the son of the Rev.

Harold R. Stoudt, 140 E. Main and the late Mrs. Stoudt. Sentinel-UPITelephoto i CATHY J.DAVIS The engagement of Miss Cathy J.

Davis to Robert E. Wert, son of Mr. and Mrs. Robert E. Wert, RD2, has been announced by her mother, Mrs.

Dorothy Davis, Belief onte, formerly of Mechanicsburg. Miss Davis is a senior at Bellefonte High School. Her fiance is a 1970 graduate of Carlisle High School. No date has been set for the wedding. 2800 HOURS DONATED A total of 2805 hours were contributed to Carlisle Hospital during December by 228 adult volunteers and 65 Candy Stripers.

This was announced at the recent executive board meeting of the Carlisle Hospital Women's Auxiliary. Mrs. John Broujos, president, presided. Mrs. Joseph Green.

III. chairman of handicrafts and recreation, said their is a need for small containers, vases, and artificial flowers. These can be delivered to the auxiliary office at the hospital. I Breath AA rflC is; rf I III -1 i NEWVTLLE Mr. and Mrs.

Arthur Shulenberger, RD2, have announced the engagement of their daughter, Helen McKee, to Lt. (j.g.) George Joseph Kanupka, III, son of Mr. and Mrs. George J. Kanupka, Kensington, Conn.

Miss Shulenberger, a 1965 graduate of Big Spring High School, attended Tarkio College, Tarkio, and Brandywine Junior College, Lilmington, Del. She is a dental assistant for Dr. Thomas Colestock. Carlisle. Her fiance was graduated from the United States Naval Academy, Annapolis, and from the Naval Submarine School, Groton, Conn.

The wedding will take place May 22 in Big Spring Presbyterian Church. Pilgrim Class elects officers New officers were elected by the Pilgrim Class of First Presbyterian Church, at the recent meeting in the home of Mr. and Mrs. James B. Henry, 126 Belvedere St.

They are Finley Negley, president; Mrs. Edward Crawfoot, vice-president; Mrs. James Henry, recording secretary; Mrs. Harry Lay, corresponding secretary; C. Thomas Parker, treasurer.

Mrs. C. Thomas Parker, retiring president, conducted the meeting. The next meeting will be an anniversary party and white elephant sale, Feb. 9, at the home of Rev.

Dr. and Mrs. Russell Weer, 612 Wilson. Wedding announced Mrs. Katherine A.

Geezey, 23 Pine has announced the wedding of her son, William R. Powers to Miss Kay A. Duprey, Shippensburg, on Jan. 8, 1971, the United Church of Christ, Hagerstown, Md. The bridegroom served as a corporal in the Marines in Okinawa and Vietnam.

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Free I vfuni-szxvicz the of the held their short veils, and they carried white roses and lilac carnations. The bride's mother's ensemble was a oink and cold brocade coat and dress, matching accessories, and pink orchid corsage. For her son's wedding, Mrs. Neiswender chose an aqua and silver coat dress, matching accessories, and a corsage of white orchids. Stephen Dodd, Dover, Del.

Ushers were Robert Kunath, Horseheads, N.Y., and William James, Wilkes Barre. The reception was held at Chez Joseph, Agawam, Mass. The bride is a graduate of Cathedral High School, Springfield, and Springfield Technical Institute. She is a laboratory technologist at Ludlow Hospital, Ludlow, Mass. The bridegroom is a graduate of Carlisle High School and Massanutta Military Academy, Massanutta, Va.

He attended Union College, Barbourville, and is enrolled in the University of Massachusetts, Amherst. He is serving in the Air Force. After a honeymoon in Bermuda, Mr. and Mrs. Neiswender will reside in Willimansett, Mass.

as9. y1 Brookhart, Mr. and Mrs. Smith Reese. Others were James and John Goodhart, Mr.

and Mrs. Jack Cohill, Miss Winnie Hockley, Mr. and Mrs. Harold Warner. Mount Holly gsprings; Mr.

and Mrs. Lester Goodhart, Shippensburg; Mrs. Anna Goodhart, Mrs. Pauline Lalaman, Plainfield. Mr.

and Mrs. Donald Jackson, Mr. and Mrs. Richard Jackson, Mr. and Mrs.

Robert Jackson, Mr. and Mrs. Floyd Goodhart, Newvill; Mr. and Mrs. John Fry, Miss Kathy 5pahr, Mechanicsburg; Mr.

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and Mrs. Clarence E. Goodhart, RD6, were honored recently at a surprise party celebrating their 43rd wedding anniversary. Hosts were their sons and daughter-in-law, Mr. and Mrs.

Charles D. Goodhart. Mount Holly Springs, and Mr. and Mrs. Lee P.

Goodhard, RD3. They also have two grandsons. Carlisle guests were Mr. and Mrs. Lester Mellinger, Mr.

and Mrs. Guy Kuhn, Mr. and Mrs. Earl Moose, Mr. and Mrs.

George Thompson and son, Joey, Mr. and Mrs. Russell Mell. Col. and Mrs.

H. C. Ensemble plans concert The Alard Quartet, a strine- the College Lvceum Committee The Alard Quartet was formed under the guidance of Hans Letz and, within a year, received the Young Artist Mm ensemble formed in 1954 and last in a distinguished line quartets to emerge from the Julliard School of gmusic, will appear in concert at Shippensburg State Collge on Thursday, Jan. 21 at 8 p.m. in lounge of McLean Hall, the new five-story women's residence hall.

The Quartet's visit to Shippensburg is sponsored by SomsSiciSy cared. Clearance Sale Continues Awara ot the National Federation of Music Clubs, the only time a chamber group has been so honored. Since then, the Quartet has maintained an active concert schedule, performing in 30 states and the District of Columbia. iiHin VIOCJ i Tweed Shoppe Colonial Peddlers iMNHWINNtlHIHNHI 1 III I VS ftalllla iLL WINTER MERCHANDISE 0 COMPIPTP CDDIM1 I IMC See Our New Cruise Wear. more dash of ERICA WILSON CREWEL la somabody.

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