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Rocky Mount, N. C. Telegram, Sunday, July 6, 1969 Local Couple To Wed In August Miss Barbara Ethel Caine is the daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Elvin Wilson Caine of Rocky Mount, who announce her engagement to Julian Elliott Delamar, son of Mr.

and Mrs. Junius Edgar Delamar, also of Rocky Mount. An August 3 wedding is planned at Englewood United Methodist Church. Miss Smith To Wed In August Miss Lita Marie Smith Mrs. William V.

Smith of her engagement to Flavius Mount. The wedding is Lady of Perpetual Help Wheat PLEASURE MAY RECREATION -OR IT MAY BE WRECKREATION. June, the month of leaves and roses, of sadness and delight, of graduations and weddings, is almost past. It is truly a month of endings and beginnings. Vacation time is here, and with it should come the opportunity to have some moments of quietness and calm, away from the usual busy schedule of a normal year.

Won't you spend a few moments contemplating the truth in the recipe I'm giving you? GOOD RECIPE Life is like a plum cake. In some, the plums are all at the top, and we eat them gaily till we suddenly find they are gone. In others, the plums sink to the bottom, and we look for them in vain as we go on and often come to them when it is too late to enjoy them. But in the cake the plums are wisely scattered ail through, and every mouthful is a pleasure. We make our own cakes- in a great measure, therelore let us look to it that they are well-made, mixed according to the best recipes, ked in a well regulated oven 1d gratefuily eaten with a operate appetite.

Sunshine Magazine Summertime is also a time for creasing friendships or ruining them. Many an unwary couple owners of a cottage at 1, 1e beach, has been deprived of much needed relaxation by a ronde of well meaning but thoughtless "friends?" arriving unannounced expecting to spend several days of enjoyment of the sun and ocean, cooked for and wailed upon, and cleaned up after by a harassed and reluctant hostess, too weary and too polite to object. To impose upon a friendship proves the friendship is not "real" for true friends are kind and considerate of each other. Such conduct is not only presumptuous, but thoughtless, rude, and discourteous. Should not real friends realize that had their company been desired for in- a number of days, a definite vitation would have been ex- Girls Want To Serve Their Country, Too America's young women under 20 put in many hours of work on humanitarian projects, but the majority would prefer to participate for year in a large-scale, nationwide service male, war' resisters, scholars, male, warresisters, scholars, dropouts.

nationwide poll of girls between taken by a magazine reveals" that a little ine more than two- thirds are willing to serve the country on a voluntary basis. George Romney, Secretary of the Department of Housing and Urban Development, commenting in the pubiication's July Issue, says: "Re. sults of the survey prove to me that our young people need a constrictive outlet for their Young people know the value of participation. We are resolved to open new avenues for their talents, enthusiasms and idealism in building a better America." Those young women who are already working in such relatively small agencies as Peace Corps, Vista, Job Corps and Head Start prove ow much girls can accomplish, the magazine article by Roul Tunley points out. New York City's Urban Corps started with college students doing summer tasks which ranged from holding block parties to assisting drug vietims.

The idea proved such a winner that the Corps soon grew to 4,0000 students, and is being adopted by 10 other cities. One Urban Corps girl who worked at the Women's House of Detention contacting classes szeading, writing and poetry with drug addicts, prostitutes and slum graduates was so effective that plans now include an expanded program The coast-to-coast survey also shows that young women whelmingly favor national service for men, as an alternate to the draft, and involving most of those turned down for intellectu al, psychiatric or physical reasons. In fact, while a desire to help solve society's problems is a major factor, most young people admit that their most compelling reason for endorsing the service proposal is, strong dissatisfaction with the way the military draft works. Many of the girls queried felt it was unfair to ask only men to make sacrifices for the welfare of the country. frequent observation "I don't believe in the draft, but if it's required for men, it should be required for women too." Anthropologist Margaret Mead is among those in favor of mandatory service for all.

"Only by making it compulsory can we assure the rewards and opporour tunities," most able-bodied and she believes. "Now ate young men are asked to give military service while no service whatsoever is asked of their contemporaries who are inteligible or who escape the draft." The plan 1 which probably has most adherents, however, says the article, is a semi-vountary one in which all men would register for the draft at 18. Then they would have three options: (1) going into the military, (2) joining a national service program, or (3) doing nothing. If the armed forces needed men at the time they would be selected from the third group by lottery. Those desiring national service would enter the program of their choice and, if necessary, be given training.

After serving a specified time (longer than one would serve in the military), they would be put on the bottom of the draft Polls and be called up only in a time of national emergency. National service would be available to all young women on a voluntary basis. ANSWER TO TODAY'S PUZZLE MOTH LOWER OCALIA CRAB EBRO OF ONE PIPER HALO SOnL GOLDENHORDE ANAS! SEMINARY OLE AGNOSTIC DENT CYCLE HAST STEAM ORA EODER LOSLE CANYON ASK AIR POSTAL RIDS ORCHED TRIO ERNE UNO STAY NEW ANTI ACC PERFECT AFGHANS MOTET SUCH FLORIST SAPO ALERT CALLERS DOGSLED REM SHUT KER CUBE OVA RHEA DRUS SERENE ANATI IGNITE MAC DAB RECEDE SETTO SALAD FUN SERES FARO TREAT APER IMPUDENT LAD SVALBARD DEAL MARDONETTES ISAR EARL UTICA POOLS TINE ATTY SAPOD TEASE YAKS Miss Conklin Bride Of Mr. Johnston Mrs. Sidney Gordon Johnston, Jr.

Miss Andrea Ruth Conklin and Sidney Gordon: Johnston, Jr. were married Saturday afternoon at four o'clock in Brookside Community Church in Brookside, New Jersey. The bride is the daughter of Mr. and. Mrs.

George Melville Conklin of Brookside. Mr. Johnston is the son of Mr. and Mrs. Johnston, Sr.

of Rocky Mount. Draco Drown, argalist, presented the music, and the ceremony was performed by the! Reverend Donald N. The vows were spoken before the altar, which was decorated with an arrangement cf white bridal flowers, and candelabra with lighted white tapers. Given in marriage by her father, the bride wore a gown of white organza with Alencon lace appliques. a lace edged jewel neckline and flared sleeves appliqued with lace Her floor length veil of illusion was attached to a crescent of Alencon lace flowers and she carried a Victorian nosegay of white and yellow roses and baby's breath.

Miss Suzanne Young of Point Pleasant Beach, New Jersey was maid of honor, a bridesmaids were Miss Betty Jo Johnston, sister of the bridegroom, from Rocky Mount. and Miss Sheryl Glenn Smith of Burlington. The honor attendant wore apricot. and the bridesmaids. yellow.

Their gowns were of organza trimmed at the empire waistlines with rows of white Irish crochet lace, a motif that was repeated on the skirts. Their pouf veils were attached to flower headpieces and they carried baskets of. white, yellow and apricot roses. Donald Bruce Baker of Rocky Mount was best man, and ushers were Blair Wiley Conklin, the bride's brother, and William D. Costner, Jr.

of Asheville. The bride is graduate of Duke University, and for the past year has held a graduate assistantship in Spanish st the University of North Carolina at Super MW. Site will teach Spanish in Chapel Hill. Mr. Johnston is a Rocky Mount Senior High graduate and is now a pre-law student at the University of North Carolina at Chapel Hill.

After a wedding trip to Europe the couple will be at home in Chapel Hill. Reception A reception followed the ceremony at the Governor Morris Inn. Morristown. Jersey. The flowers, and napkins were in yellow white.

Cocktails and hot' and cold hors d'oeuvres were followed by dinner featuring boned stuffed breast of capon as entree. with tiered wedding cake as dessert. Out of town guests came from North Carolina, Georgia, Virginia, Maryland, Pennsylvania, Illinois, New York, Connecticut, and Massachusetts. Mr. Conklin, the bride's father, is president of Candy Company Hackettstown, New Jersey.

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Tell them to insist that their kids work after school, and on Saturdays and during summer vacations, They'll be better men and women for it. Old Timer Dear Timer: I agree that kids should work, but do you know how nard it is for a teen-ager to find an after-school job, or summer work only? The labor laws were written many years ago to protect kids against exploitation in sweat shops. These laws should be changed. Today kids need to work as a matter. of self respect.

They need to expend their energies in useful a and productive ways. But in most states there are all sorts of restrictions on airing minors. So don't put the blame on the parents, Grandpa, There's more to this probjem than meets. she eye. Dear Ann Landers: My wife Ethel just asked me if I was queer.

She then, handed column about men who wear women's underwear. It SO hap-cept pens Ethel's that I bave been wearing panties for a long time. Now hear tais: When I was in World War Il I ran out of shorts. The Ship's service store was sold out. In desperation I went to the WAVES counter and bought white cotton panties in the largest size.

They proved to be so much more comfortable than the broadcloth shorts that I never went back to the men's counter after that. When I married Ethel I exthis whole thing to her and we never had any discussion about it until now. Of course I've had to be careful the locker room at the for fear of being ridiculed, but I've kept my secret. Am I queer because I put comtort ahead of conformity? What do you think? Charly Dear Charly: I think that somewhere in a men's store you could find shorts that are dham, New Jersey was given by the bridegroom's parents and aunt and uncle, Mr. and Mrs.

B. D. Johnston of Greenville, North Carolina. Visiting relatives here for several days were Mr. and Mrs.

Harry Owens of West Virginia, They here to attend the were Beamon-Gardner wedding in Stantonsburg Sunday, Spending the weekend at Mo. shead were Mr. and Mrs. Leroy Strickland, Mr. and Mrs.

Danuy Ray Strickland and children. comfortable. you wanted to, that is. Dear Ann Landers: I know you don't run a garden column, but so many people read Ann Landers that I'm sure someone who sees this can help me. Whep I was child in Washington, my mother raised some delightful sweet smelling flowers which she called jasmine tobacco.

I adored the scent and would dearly love to know by what name those flowers are called out East. I've described them to two local florists and to several friends. No one here can help me. I'll bet if you print my letter, a reader will know the answer. Nostalgic Nancy Dear Nancy: I'll print the information if someone will supply it.

How about it out there? Dear Ann Landers: I work hard all day and like to get to bed about 9 p. My wife has fallen into a habit of going over to the neighoor's house after I've gone to bed and 1 sitting there till midnight or even The neighbor's husband is in Vietnam. never gave it thought until 1 saw a souple movies about women liking each other in an unnatural way. Now I worry that something funny might be goiag on. the is a wonder nut and our marriage is good, exfor this one thing.

What are your ideas? B. H. Dear B. A wife who is so lonely that she needs to go to the neigabors every night for company is in a bad way. Why don't you suggest that she invite friends in a couple of evenings a weel: or go to a movie or visit someone? Your, marriage needs transfusion i it's up to you to provide it.

Bub. A little garlic seasoning, does wonders for most soups, salads, sauces, meats, fish and, casserole dishes. Miss Debbie Gardner of Dur. ham spent the weekend with Mr. and Mrs.

Alton Gardner, Visiting MrE, Mamie Cooley, Mr. and M.s, Jesse Jones and relatives for several were Mr. and Mrs. Charlie days, Crowder and lamliy of Virginia. Mr.

and Mrs. Donald Stealy and family left on Tuesday for trip to Penasylvania where they will vacation and visit relatives. 1 6Belk Tyler First Choice $100. up REGISTERED DIAMOND RINGS Famous for quality the world over, Keepsake is America's most wanted diamond ring. 2A FIRST FLOOR WATCH DEPT.

EPISCOPAL DAY CARE NON DENOMINATIONAL The Church Of The Good Shepherd CORNER N. CHURCH AND GAY STREETS Kindergarten Instructions Included 8:00 A.M. TO 5:30 P.M. AND 5 YEAR OLDS ONLY BEGINNING SEPTEMBER 1, 1969 $12.00 Weekly APPLICATIONS BEING ACCEPTED TELEPHONE 443-2234 OR 442-1134 is the daughter of Mr. and Rocky Mount, who announce King Simmons, Jr.

of Rocky planned for August 23 at Our Catholic Church. and Chaff by Anne Collins beforehand. Perhaps such conduct inspired the little plaque we see in novelty stores: ALL OUR VISITORS BRING HAPPINESS: SOME BY COMING, OTHERS BY GOING. TRUE RICHES If I can leave behind me, here and there, a friend or two To say when I am gone, that I helped to make their pathways fair, Had brought them smiles when they were bowed with care, The riches of this world I'll carry on! If only. three or four shall pause to say.

When I have passed beyond this earthly sphere That I brought gladness to them on a day when bitterness was theirs, I'll take away more riches than a billionaire leaves here! Copied At 20 I wanted to save the world. Now I'd be satisfied just to save part of my salary. H. G. Hutcheson Some college who graduated will find life on the outside After all, we only change our presidents every 4 years.

Gaston News GASTON Mr. and Mrs. James B. Cook have returned to their home after in Alexandria, Virginia, several days with her parents, Mr. and Mrs.

W. R. Massey. Other guests in the Massey home during the weekend were Mr. and Mrs.

Billy Massey of Ahoskie. Mrs. Dorothy Baldwin and children of Alexandria, Virginia and Mrs. Barbara Anne Privette and children of Spring Hope were weekend guests of their father, J. C.

Cooke, of near here. Mr. and Mrs. Joseph Glasgow and children of South Boston: Virginia were recent guests of her parents, Mr. and Mrs.

W. E. Conwell, IN A SAVINGS ACCOUNT AT "THE BANK" as little as $1.000.00 CAN EARN YOU COME SEE! BANK OF ROCKY MOUNT ROCKY MOUNT, NORTH CAROLINA MEMBER F.D.I.C..