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The Indiana Gazette Tuesday, Jon. 26, 1982 Page 8 Taking a chance Meeting life's challenges means following rocky road M.i'h-n UUi he says, do so. "To increase self-respect, I recommend a little exercise. Every day, do something trivial that increases your self-respect. It can be as small as sitting proud or doing an unpleasant chore.

As soon as pos tu FSXr Wl I "I timm Im 1 HW By ELLIE GROSSMAN NEW YORK INEA) You'd give anything to change your life, your marriage, your hair anything except -giving it a go, the way other people do. So you do nothing and everything stays the same. "Risk-taking for many people creates such anxiety and fear that they don't take any risks and, therefore, they don't change," says Herbert iFensterheim, Ph.D. and clinical associate professor in the department of psychiatry at New York's Cornell University Medical College. Maybe you're paralyzed by a dread of failure.

That's common enough and, he says, understandable. "We're brought up to believe that failure is horrible and that to fall means there's something wrong with us. But that's wrong. First of all, all endeavors Involve a certain amount of failure. In fact, there's a theory that in order to get the highest scores in a game of bridge, for Lloyds celebrate 70 years of marriage GARDEN MART PLANNING BEGINS Members of the Indiana Garden Club ore already preparing for the annual Garden Mart, previously known as the'May Mart.

This year's event is slated for June 3 and 4 at the Rustic Lodge, grove. Shown above working on preliminary plans are (from left): Debbie Stiffler, president; Marian Mihalcik, concession chairwoman for the event; and Angela Hazley, Garden Mart chairvvtim-on- (Gazette Photo by Peel) Machine stitching saves quilting time i Mr. and Mrs. CHERRY TREE Sunday will mark the 70th anniversary of Mr. and Mrs.

Clyde Lloyd of the Cherry Tree area. Clyde Lloyd, son of David and Maryann Nagle Lloyd, was married to Bertha Riddle, daughter of Sharp Langham and Mary Catherine Riddle, on Jan. 31, 1912. Squire John Davis of Cherry Tree performed the ceremony. The Lioyds have four children: Mrs.

Alvin (Villa Lloyd) Spicher, Cherry Tree RD Norman Lloyd, Barnesboro RD Wayne Lloyd, Cherry Tree RD and Mrs. Faye Wissinger, Indiana. They also have 23 grandchildren and 34 great- grandchildren. One grandchild and one great-grandchild are deceased. sible aiterwaras, make a Then stop and think: Did increase my self-respect? regardless pt whatever, ings you may nave nad, next to n.

"The action must be premeditated, even if it's something you'd do anyway, and you. can have no repeats. By doing this daily for two or three weeks, you'll begin to recognize your sources of self-respect. You'll also start paying more attention to it and, ultimately, you'll have a legitimate feeling of being in command of yourself. Then, when you face a challenge, you can concentrate on satisfying your self-respect rather than on whether you'll fail or bow anxious you are." Then, should you jump and fall short, you can do whatFensterheim does when he hits and "First, 1 pull into myself and lick my wounds.

I'm and there's usually an element of anger with myself. But after I talk with my wife and one or two friends, that be-' gins to wane and soon I begin to see another venture presenting itself that I want to try. I simply can't live without taking risks." After all, risk-taking often results in success. And when it does, says Fensterheim, be prepared to face what you feared would happen if you Laughing, he says, "People think that if you accomplish a lot, everyone will respect and love you. Actually, when you are successful, that's when you get ridiculed and the knives really come out." The nice thing is, though, you can bind your wounds with your success.

(Newspaper EntcrpristAssn. Sounds fishy Love the taste of tarlar sauce with fish, but hate all the calories it'll cost you? Try this low-calorie substitute. Mix the following ingredients well: one cup pickle relish, well drained; one cup low-calorie imitation mayonnaise; one tablespoon-lemon juice: and one tablespoon mustard. Chill for an hour before serving. The calorie count is a low.30 per tablespoon, so enjoy Senior Citizens All senior citizens are invited to attend a lunchconbirthday party at noon Jan.

27 at the Indiana Salvation Army. Anyone interested is request-; ed to phone ahead for a reservation and. let the workers know when your birthday is. Class of 1947 -Homer. City High SchooL Plans'fpr class reunion will be made at a meeting at 7:30 p.m.

26 at Nin Bruno's 'interested plan to "ati tend: -Desdemona Rebekah 350 Meets at 7:30 p.m. Wednesday; Jan. 27 n'Jdrrnef Plumville lOOF Hall. Peroghi sale St. Mary's Byzantine Catholic Church.

279 Yellow Creek Homer City, will hold a peroghi sale on Feb. S. To order call 479-8361 or 479-8377. Deadline for orders is Feb. 1.

Engaged Stewart-Gibbons HASTINGS Mr. and lylrs. John Stewart of Hastings announce the engagement and forthcoming' marriage of their daughter, Dawna Lynne. to Ernest Jess Gibbons of Clymer. Miss Stewart is a 1980 graduate of Hastings High School.

Mr. Gibbons, a 1976 graduate pf Pcnns Manor High School, is the son of Samuel Gibbons' and Ruby Coh-ley. both of Clymer. HOMER CITY Garv and Judv Murdick. Homer JJ City RD 1.

announce (he birth of their daughter. Holly Lynn, at 5 a.m. Dec. 23, 1981. She weighed 8 pounds.

3 ounces upon arrival in Indiana Hospital. Holly was welcomed home by her sister, Leslie Ann, They are the granddaughters of Charles B. and Irene Kelly, Saltsburg. and Fred and Dora Pemv Run. Great-grandparents include Esther Kelly, Saltsburg; Harry Sutton, Tunnel-ton; Sara Murdick.

Penn Run; and Mr. and Mrs, J.W. Ovcrdorff, if a did. outer tee- putacnecK ny, offers some suggestions quilters. "Machine quilting saves time and gives you the.chance to make gifts and clothing without much of -the tedious hand work associated with' authentic quilting.

When piecing patches such as in the' Log Cabin, Giant Dahlia and Cathedral Window patterns, always work from the center out, so you can be surethe pieces are symmetrically placedn "Always use straight pins wHen piecing a quilt together and place pins perpendicular, alternating east to west," she added. oc Ms. Fantel suggests using a High quality natural fiber thread sucrras cotton when quilting. "The synthetic batting used-Jfor filling quilts is excellent. It's avail' ahle in varying thicknesses and it keeps its loft well, even after machine washing." Some quilters prefer, to use an embroidery hoop or a special 23-inch machine frame when quilting.

These are available in craft stores and are designed -specifically for machine work. "String quilting, a popular look in clothing where long strips of col'drid fabrics are sewri together and qflilt-ed, is perfect for said. "A string quilt vest is a first project." Ms. Fantel recommends researching fabric and craft stores for quilting lessons and how-to books target' "There are hundreds of quilt patterns and guides available that provide complete instructions," she added "If you want to see results quickly, start with a pillow (jjv a baby's coverlet. You're sure (p be bitten by the quilting bug." instance, you must experience a certain percentage of failure." As for equating failure with per sonal worth, that comes from playing by the wrong rules, he says.

"People often build up the stakes un-realistically when they face a risk by being ego-oriented rather than task-oriented. Say you want to ask Clyde ILoyd Clyde and Maryann attended school together. After their marriage the Lloyds resided in Platl-ville, Cambria County, for four years. When Mr. Lloyd's father died 1916 the couple purchased his farm, where they have for the past 66 years.

Mr. Lloyd worked 24 years as a Green Township road supervisor, 15 years as a sawyer in a mill, and 16 years as a coal miner. He has also done carpentry work at various times and was a farmer. The Lloyds' enjdytgardening and still can most of their own vegetables. They note that they have been reading the Gazette for 60 (GazettePhoto by Peel) Susan Halmes BLAIRSVILLE Mr.

and Mrs. John Halmes Blairsville. announce the fall engagement of their daughter. Susan Marie, to Calvin C. Snyder son of Mrs.

Madeline Shrewsburg of Blairsville and Calvin C. Snyder Sr. of McCon-ncllsburg. The bride-to-be is a 1978 graduate of Blairsville Senior High School and a 1978 graduate of Business Careers Institute. Greensburg.

She is employed as a secretary-word processor operator at Indiana University of Pennsylvania. Her fiance is a 1976 graduate of Blairsville Senior High School. After serving in the U.S. Air Force, he is employed by Fisher Scientific Company, Indiana. No definite wedding plans have been made.

someone for a date or go into a business venture. If you're task-oriented, you think, OK, let's see how well 1 perform this. But if you're ego-oriented, you see It as a test of yourself as a person so, naturally, the stakes soar and you're much more anxious. It isn't, 'Will I get the It's. 'If I don't, there's something terribly wrong with "What you need to do, then," he continues, "is to remind yourself that whatever you're attempting isn't a measurement of yourself as a person.

It's simply something you want to perform." Even so, you'll be anxious, be says. And you should be. "A risk or a challenge by nature is something that's important to you, for one thing, and something you're not sure you can do. Well, wnen something's important to you and you're not sure you can do it, of course you become anxious. Everyone does.

In fact, people who often take challenges tend to experience more anxiety than people who don't. They just pay less attention to the anxiety. "If I give a workshop at a professional meeting in front of a lot of high-powered people, that's a challenge to me. I'm anxious and nervous, which 1 don't enjoy, but by giving the workshop. I achieve my goal and respect myself more than if I give it." Alid achieving your goal and gratifying your self-respect 'should be the prime motivations behind says.

If may be, however, that your self-respect needs an overhaul to begin with. In that case, it Marriage licenses Jay Carson RD I. and. Ruth Irene Solinger. Ford City RD 1.

Richard B. Boggio, Blairsville RD 4. and Susan M. Magie, Indiana. Terry Lee Galenline.

Clymer. and Tina Marie Caylor. Creekside RD 1. Gary David Forberger. Cherry Tree RD 2.

and Joyl Anne Rosek-rans. Cherry Tree RD 2. Van Edward Gardner. Glen Campbell, and Regina Barbara Brink. Glen Campbell RD 1.

Irwin Arthur Ray. Indiana, and Karen Louise Hooper. Indiana. Charles Kenneth Moreau HI. Indi- ana.

and Linda Marie Eldridge. Marion Center RD 1. Dawn Patty ELDERTON The engagement of Dawn Michele Patty and Lee Alan Harkleroad is announced by her parents, Mr. and Mrs. Elliott Patty of Elderton.

Miss Patty is a senior at Eldertoii High School. Mr. Harkleroad is a junior at Lenape Vo-Tech. The couple's wedding plans are undecided. Jupiter's moons The planet Jupiter has 14 known satellites.

The last, discovered at the Hale Observatory, is So faint it has been lost. Four of the moons, large and bright, rival our own moon in diameter. They may be seen through a field glass. Three area women announce recent betrothals Patchwork quilting, a uniquely American craft, is enjoying a.revi-val of substantial proportions. Al-' though quilting purists may object, home sewers are incorporating modern methods of machine stitching into the old tradition of quilting and adding some of their own creative touches in the process.

Carole Fantel, education. director for a major sewing machine compa- Corn parties Every Thursday at 7 m. in Pine fTownship Fire Hall, Heilwood. Sponsored by Pine Township' Fire Company. Every Thursday at 7 p.m: in Ault-man Social Hall.

Every Thursday afc7 p.m. in Burn-side Community Sponsored by Sentry Volunteer Fire Company. Every Thursday at 7:15 p.m.' in Elderton Legion Hall. Every Thursday at 7:30 p.m. in St.

Anthony's Chiirch Hall, Cljrmer. Frank Checki Former resident marks birthday Frank Checki. formerly of dune, celebrated his 98th birthday Dec. 22. at the home of his daughter.

Mrs. Edward I Julia I Rongers of Bedford, Ohio, with whom he has resided for he past 18 years. Mr. Checki was a life-long resi-. dent of Clime before moving to Ohio.

The following children and family members were on hand to share the celebration: Mr. and Mrs- Edward Rongers. Mr. and Airs. Peter Mr.

and Mrs. Lawrence Checki. Mr: and Mrs. Julius Checki and a great-granddaughter. Jacqueline Rongers.

pt 4M Ctates Homer City Smurti Members of the Homer City Smurfs 4-H Club.met Dec. 26 in the Homer, City Fire' Hall. President Carrie Craft condueted the meeting. The'cluh accepted two new teen leaders: Kim' Maukbf' Homer City and Randa Mlakar of Luceme-mines. Krista Wadzady of Coral and Susie Steffee of Horner City are filling their three-meeting quota to enter the group.

Carole Carneyclub leader, noted that the love basket was delivered Dec. 23. Club jackets were distributed fore Christmas' and wrappdj'to surprise the members. The 4-Hjflag and American flag that had be ordered were also presented, A skating party was discud but no definite date was selected All club members for months for the calendar par? A special meeting was held JanSiat Carole Carney's home to diftliss plans for the event. ST Refreshments were served? Carrie Craft.

Carole Carney lei lhe games and songs. -f News Reporter BMieLce'McAaains Seml'nu'mgr'lrm mostotnermammals te.n?SnV,,d Sharon Carlson BLAIRSVILLE Mr. and Mrs. Richard H. Carlson of Blairsville announce the Christmas engagement their daughter, Sharon to I Ronald J.

Henigin, son of Mr. and Mrs. Herbert Henigin Jr. of Blairs-ivilleRDl Miss Carlson is a 1981 graduate of Blairsville Senior High School and is currently attending Point Park Col-; lege in Pittsburgh. Her fiance is a 1978 graduate of the same school and is employed by Agway of Blairsville.

Wedding plans are inuefinite. One of the stars of the LPGA, Don-; na Caponi, won her first title, the Los Angeles Junior, at the age of tl in 1956..