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Equity Lcagu Founder: Women 'Wising Up' I i -A -'v 1 i iilliliiWP liiW A- and school counselors from' kindergarten to the post graduate college level. Turning her comments to the role of black women in today's society, she said they are fac ed with a particular dilemma, and "where we were 15 years ago." Any current "ambivalence" by black women toward achieving equal rights as' females can probably be attributed to "a fear of not wanting to draw the spotlight away from black men, who are just in recent years getting a crack at life's benefits." Dr. Boyer, who has pioneered in efforts to abolish Help-Wanted advertising listings by sex, said such placements are mcriniinatory because, "you know where all the low paying, low opportuni- ty jobs always are Under provisions of an Office of Federal Contract Compliance law, any holder of a federal contract is prohibited from advertising in such a manner, she said, suggesting it Is a "harpooning" means of stemming such advertising In some instances for locally concerned persons. The necessity for change itself rather than a system of quotas requiring inclusion of women in college, business and industry will force a change in sex discrimination policies, Dr. Elizabeth Boyer said Friday.

The national founder of the Women's Equity Action League (WEAL) nevertheless expressed her disapproval at an afternoon news conference of President Nixon's order this week to end quota systems for minority employment in the federal government Women will achieve- their rights because of the ultimate "social acceptability and legal soundness" of the action, she said firmly. Dr. Boyer attributes an unprecedented number of sex discrimination complaints filed with the Nebraska Equal Opportunity Commission and elsewhere across the country in recent months "to the fact that women are wising up." Women have always tended to "fabulously underestimate themselves," the Cleveland lawyer told reporters, because of "the brainwashing" they undergo from parents, peers Dr. Boyer said there are several "protective" laws in existence now whidhi discriminate against women receiving valuable overtime pay because of the restrictions placed on their working hours. In Lincoln for weekend Women's Equality Day activities, Dr.

Boyer said she doesn't foresee any change in the future importance of WEAL, after the Equal Rights Amendment becomes effective. Women are obtaining their rights "slowly but surely" the soft-spoken organization founder commented, "but there's still much clarifying litigation to carry out" in years ahead. Muellers Are Wed Columbus Miss Sandy Deyke and Mark Mueller were married in a 7 p.m. Friday ceremony at Immanuel Lutheran Church. Parents of the couple are Messrs.

and Mmes. Mdvin Deyke and E. W. Mueller. Miss Roxanne Krumland was maid of honor.

The Misses Mary Jacobs of Hildreth, Jody Parr of York and Marcy Mueller were bridesmaids. Grant Stoll of Hooper was best man. Rick Schmid of Memphis, Michael Teuscher of York, Michael Kraus of Lincoln, William Deyke and Dave Mueller were ushers. The couple will live in Seward. Dr.

Elizabeth Boyer Money-Root of What? Ms. Sally Millett Rau of Bellevue (left) and Ms. Anne Patrick TrornA bley of Lincoln discuss the legal status of women following a Friday evening meeting of the Women's Equity Action League at the Radis- son Cornhusker. i EQPLE ions Past Affair Haunts Woman; Lincoln, Saturday, Aug. 26, 1972 Fears Exposure to Fiance NOW Awards Plaudits, Pans New York (J) The National Organization for Women cited a diaper manufacturer and perfume company Friday for advertising a "positive image of women." But elsewhere, there were pans among the plaudits in NOW's annual survey of the media's portrayal of women.

The feminist group, in a study of advertising, television, magazines and other media, issued five "Positive Put Her in Her Place" awards and seven favorable citations. No awards were given to newspapers, which NOW said "continue to reflect stereotyped women through men's eyes." Among the favorable awards were: Advertising To Proctor Gamble Co. for a diaper ad showing a small girl over the caption. "The future President of the United States deserves a drier bottom." special citation to Arpege. Television To WOR-TV of New York for its "Straight Talk" program, with citations to NBC's Barbara Walters and to ABC-TVs special "The Hand That Rocks the Ballot Box." Magazines To the new feminist magazine.

Movies To the First International Festival of Women's Films held in New York June 5-21. Music To Yoko Ono and John Lennon for their recording "Woman is the Nigger of the World," and "Sisters, 0 Sisters." Movie producer Alfred Hitchcock received a "Keep Her in Her Place" panning for his film "Frenzy," which NOW said was "a prime example of the alarming trend toward rape and violence in American films." Other negative awards: Advertising To Weyenberg Shoe Co. of Milwaukee for an ad showing a nude women lying next to a man's shoe over the caption: "Keep Her Where She Belongs." Television To CBS-TV's program "Paul Bernard-Psychiatrist," whose turf, NOW said, was the "emotionally confused female." Magazines To Playboy and Cosmopolitan for "priming women for their role as sex objects Music To Jimmy Castor's recording "Troglodyte" with its "dehumanizing sexual references." New York (UPI) Some of the nation's leading businessmen have made a new assessment of that old "root of all evil" money. Now that they've got it, they don't always flaunt it. In the words of Charles Revson, chief of the international cosmetics ir Revlon, "All too often people' confuse money with worth.

A person should be measured by what he does, not by what he owns." "Unless we get our manners and morals straightened out in this country, nobody is going to be able to afford to have money," says William Fine, president of the Bonwit Teller retail store chain. "It will require too much expense to be able to insure and secure one's wealth." It would appear that many of today's businesmen are sharpening their sense of social responsibility along with their money-making skills. As wealthy Andrew Stein, a New York State Assemblyman, puts it, "Money can be important, but by itself doesn't mean anything. You have to have other things interest, dedication, you have to be a well-rounded person. Money can be helpful or harmful should be used not only to prove yourself but as a contribution to society at large.

It shouldn't be used as a self-indulgence." What money means to some men of means showed in a study done by the anchor group of mutual funds. With some $2 billion in assets, the group hardly is in the poor Mrs. Donald Mott (Miss Kathleen Nichols) Of Baldwin, N.Y. jL Jf(l JfJ TEAM CAPTAIN boy class itself. The fund's chairman, John R.

Haire, does a regular sampling of outstanding persons' opinions from which he is developing a reaction pattern to possession of money. Barie said that "Men appear to have a different point of view about acquisition and use of money than women. Men on the whole tend to think about money as a yardstick of accomplishment and as a challenge for constructive use. Women, in the main, feel money is basically a security blanket." John Weitz, a successful designer, defined money as "the finest form of approval." Weitz and his actress wife Susan Konher, value peace and quiet, and money "can purchase privacy," Weitz says. Joe Franklin, the radio and televison host and producer, agreed1 that money symbolized achievement but that "The value of money is over-emphasized in this materialistic age.

Money is not the root of all evil, it's the need for money that makes for evil." Edward Fields, the man who made custom rugs his route to fortune, hardly agreed. Money, he said, "really Isn't everything. It's only 98." One comment with which I concur came from a woman, the author Rosemary Taylor in her "Chicken Every Sunday" success in 1943. She said, "Nothing like a little money in the sock to give you self-confidence." Mrs. Roger Leisy (Miss Cynthia Wood) Roger Leisy were married in a 7:30 p.m.

Friday garden ceremony at First-Plymouth Congregational Church courtyard. The bride is the daughter of Mrs. Lois Ward. The bridegroom is the son of Mrs. Ervin Kienzle of Gillette, and Al Leisy of ScoMsbluff.

The given in marriage by her uncle, Jack Bradley, fashioned her gown of sheer polyester in yellow. The peasant style dress had a fitted bodice, scoop neckline and pinafore edged with eyelet lace. She wore daisies and baby's breath in her hair and carried roses, daisies and baby's breath. Mrs. Janice Hunter was matron of honor.

Miss Jane Divis and Mrs. Stephen Jensen were bridesmaids. Scott Drown of Holdrege was best man. James MacAndrew and Richard Parascand, both of Alliance, were groomsmen. Ushers were John Leisy and Glen Leisy, both of Gillette, and Mike Leisy of Alliance.

A reception was held at the home of the bride's mother. After a wedding trip, the couple will live at 1443 B. Plank-Hesse Gothenburg Miss Margaret Claire Plank and James i "i I iC3l ill me it can be a time bomb that might explode later and destroy a relationship. Dear Ann Landers: As a cook (chef is the fashionable word these days) I was interested in the battle regarding tipping. I'm not saying the cook deserves to be tipped instead of the waitress, but I believe it would be fair to split it.

After all, they need each other. You expressed sympathy, for the waitresses have the benefit heavy trays. Do you have any idea what a huge pot of potatoes weighs? And those enormous roasts that must be lifted from the oven aren't exactly a bag of feathers. During the summer months the waitresses have the benefiti of air-conditioning while the cook is in the kitchen boiling with his soups and sauces. I've done both jobs and I prefer cooking because it is more The declarer who baits the hook for a defender had best be careful.

Sometimes those hooks are plenty sharp and one may snag one's own finger in the process. This game hand is a fine example of this principle. Declarer was so intent on snagging a "fish" that he drew his own blood instead. Vulnerable: None Dealer: South NORTH AA10862 V105 AQ10 WEST AQ EAST AKJ94 AJ862 V743 ii3, 87642 SOUTH AQ5 VKQ9 KJ9 465432 The bidding: South West North East Pass Pass 14 Pass 2 NT Pass 3 NT AUpass Opening lead: Six of hearts. After South's original pass his hand was worth almost an opening bid (a plus value for the spade queen) and he jumped to two no trump to describe his maximum pass.

North had more than enough values to raise and the game was reached easily. West led fourth from his longest and strongest and declarer baited his hoock. He wanted to ensnare the jack and enticingly olaved dummv's ten. East had nothing to ensnare 'U fCeSonBrid creative. I'm off work now tSok- a leave of absence to go on a diet.

I've got to lose the 40 pounds I put on tasting and enjoying my own cooking. Which reminds me, Ann," tell your readers if they see a thin cook, don't eat in th restaurant. The food's no' good because the cook doesn'tcare. Gertie The Gastronomist i' Dear Gert: Thank yqu.for letting us know what goes on behind those kitchen doors, and my compliments to the chef. But I'm afraid yon.

are asking too much from the eating public if you expect them to take on a whole new layer of gratuities for service in the average restaurant. It is up to the staff to decide 'how the tips should be divided among themselves. Have a problem? Write Ann Landers. The Lincoln Journal, Box 81869. Enclose a stamped, self-addressed envelope, (c) 1972 Publlshen-Hall Syndicate and the lead remained in dummy.

Declarer was now forced to rely on the club suit (the spade ace and the queen, hoping for a 3-2 division. West won the king and led a low heart to maintain communication. It was now too late to try the spades and declarer couiii not get his nine tricks without the opponents gaining the lead. If declarer had not baited East, he would have made the hand with no strain. He would win the first heart with his nine and be in position, for i another club finesse.

The diamond ten would be overtaken with the jack for another club finesse. The club ace would then be cashed and the dia-' mond queen overtaken by, the king to lead a club, clearing the suit. West would win but would have no alternatives. Leading hearts would provide South with his needed entry and 10 tricks. Leading spades would result in the same outcome by declarer allowing the spade to ride to his queen.

A good example of concentrating on your own business rather than attempting to "do something" to the opponents. Had declarer not been so concerned with the jack of hearts, he might have noticed that his nine was equivalent to 'dummy's ten. As the cards lie he could have recovered by coining off the dummy at Jrick two with a small spaded But the percentage play to combine the best changes is one to look for. tt by United Feat. NEED PEPPING-UP? Your Doctor says you neeu a prescription.

Wt make you feel better. You get fatt dependable service with a big smile. Dear Ann Landers: Two years ago I was still a teenager. Three years ago I was still a virgin. My lover dropped me for another girl whom he later married when her father offered him a nice job.

Now when he runs into me at social functions he gives me a knowing wink. What I remember most about our love affair was the constant fear of pregnancy. Like so many other stupid kids we had the idea that any attempt to prevent pregnancy made the relationship cheap and unnatural. (How crazy can you get?) I now realize that virginity is a young woman's most precious gift. I am ashamed for having laughed at this concept and having considered it ridiculous and phony.

My question is, shall I tell my wonderfully mature, highly-principled fiance about the past affair before we marry, or live in fear that the cad with the knowing wink will one day brag about his conquest and do me in? I hope you will answer. Ann Onimous Dear Ann: If your fiance is "wonderfully mature and highly-principled" he won't ask. To volunteer such information would be stupid. Such confessions might be considered "good for the soul" or some people call it "clearing the air," but my mail tells Mrs. Robert Davis (Miss Miriam Huebert) Married Saturday Henderson Miss Miriam L.

Huebert of Lincoln and Robert R. Davis of Omaha were married in a 10 a.m. Saturday garden ceremony at the home of the bride's parents, Mr. and Mrs. Gus.

D. Huebert. The bridegroom is the son of Mr. and Mrs. A.

Ray Davis of Omaha. The bride's polyester and voile gown had a stand-up collar, square yoke, bishop sleeves with ruffled cuffs and hemline, all accented with lace. Her mantilla was edged in lace. Mrs. Perry Siebert was matron of honor.

Mrs. Dave Basinger of Omaha was bridesmaid. Stuart Schultz of Omaha was best man. Dave Basinger. of Omaha was groomsman.

A wedding breakfast was held in the garden at the home of the bride's parents. After a wedding trip, the couple will live near A If 4 Mrs. Ronald Horton (Miss Teresa Albin) OfLawton, Okla. Vows Exchanged in Summer Ceremonies Mrs. William Fleischman (Miss Barbara Griepenstroh) Griepenstroh- Fleischman Syracuse Miss Barbara Jane Griepenstroh of Dunbar and William Glen Fleischman of Elmwood were married in a 7:30 p.m.

Friday ceremony at St. John's United Church of Christ. Parents of the couple are Messrs. and Mmes. Irvin F.

Griepenstroph of Dunbar and Clarence Fleischman of Elmwood. The bride's organza gown in A-line silhouette had an Empire bodice, high neckline and bishop sleeves, all accented with lace. Lace petals held her veil. She carried orchids, carnations, daisies and stephanotis. Miss Patricia Bremer of Lincoln was maid of honor.

Mmes. James Whitehead of Geneva and David Vogt of Elmwood were bridesmaids. Arlo Fleischman of Elmwood was best man. Wayne Althouse of Elmwood and Warren Griepenstroh of Dunbar were groomsmen. Ushers were Donald Lee Lange of Cameron, and Milton Stubbendick.

A wedding dance was held at Talmage. After a wedding trip, the couple will live at 601 So. 28th in Lincoln. Mrs. James Hesse (Miss Margaret Plank) Frederick Hesse were married at American Lutheran Church.

Parents of the couple are Messrs. and Mmes. Frederick W. Hesse of Mattoon, 111., and Raymond V. Kampfe.

Miss Kandace Kampfe was maid of honor. Mmes. Kent Boyer of Grundy Center, Iowa, and Bruce Deitz of Matoon and Miss Pamela Kneip of Lincoln were bridesmaids. Tom Arnold of Olney, 111., was best man. Jerry Hesse and Jeff Hesse, both of Mat-toon, Robert McCullough of Ames, Iowa, and Michael Krikac of Lincoln were ushers.

A buffet reception was held at the home of the bride's parents. After a wedding trip to Colorado, the couple lives at 1315 No. 47th, Apt. 11 in Lincoln. The couple both attend graduate school at the University of Nebraska-Lincoln.

Albin-Horton Broken Bow Miss Teresa Lynn Albin and Lt. Ronald Gentry Horton of Lawton, were married in an 11 a.m. Saturday ceremony at Berean Fundamental Church. The bride is the daughter Rockville Centre, N.Y. Miss Kathleen Ann Nichols and Donald Winthrop Mott, both of Baldwin, were married in a a.m.

Saturday ceremony at St. Mark's Church. The bride is the daughter of Mrs. Robert W. Nichols of Lincoln, formerly of Baldwin.

The bridegroom is the son of Mrs. V. Truer of New York City and Elmer Mott of Baldwin. The bride's reembroidered lace gown in Empire silhouette had a scoop neckline and Juliet sleeves. A ruffled band of lace and satin with pearls held her veil.

She carried roses. Miss Maureei Shelley of Baldwin was maid of honor. Miss Melissa Cook of Baldwin was bridesmaid. David Miller of Oceanside was best man. David Nichols of Lincoln and Jan miller of Oceanside were ushers.

A reception was held at Gigi's in Westbury. After a wedding trip to Canada, the couple will live in Baldwin. bride attended Hofstra University in Hempstead and Brown's School of Business in Rockville Centre. The bridegroom attends Hofstra University. "Wood-Leisy Miss Cynthia Ann Wood and of Mr.

and Mrs. Don E. Albin. The bridegroom is the son of Lt. Col.

and Mrs. Frank F. Horton of Andalusia, Ala. The bride's cotton lace gown had a fitted bodice, high, banded neckline and full skirt with detachable train. A Juliet cap of lace and satin held her veil.

She carried orchids and roses. Miss Janice Albin was maid of honor. Mrs. Emery Bowen of Monmouth, 111., and the Misses Roxanne Nelson of Sioux Falls, S.D., and Janet Horton of Andalusia were bridesmaids. Lt.

Col. Horton was best man for his son. Kenneth Horton and Eric Horton, both of Andalusia, Roger Albin and James Albin were ushers. A wedding brunch was held at the home of the bride's parents. After a wedding trip to the Ozarks, the couple will live at Lawton.

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