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Models For Style Show March 14 Are Named iV 1 1 Modeling fashions from Joseph's will be Mrs. Clem Szymanowski, Mrs. Charles Mosser Mrs. Phil Keller, Mrs. Ned Robinett, Mrs.

John Dixon, Mrs. Charles Findley, Mrs. Richard Callendar, Mrs. Don Juncker, Mrs. Robert Weiler, Mrs.

Richard Shurmer, Mrs. Dave Beck, Mrs. John Tschumy, Mrs. Robert Wingard, Mrs. James Vaffis, Mrs.

Joe Bigaila, Mrs. Wilson Fought and Miss Helen Gotton. Mrs. James Werling is taking reservations for the Fremont Country Club's brunch, style show and card party, to be held Tuesday, March 14, beginning at 10 a.m. Reservation deadline is March 10.

Fremont area artists will also hold an exhibit and sale in conjunction with the spring party. Mrs. Al Baumann is general chairman with Mrs. Robert Gilberg coordinating the style show. If Yf Tuesday, Feb.

29, 1972 Fremont News-Messenger 7 Local Eastern Stars Entertain Guests Mrs. Carl French, Worthy Matron of Fremont Chapter, Order of Eastern Stars welcomed members and guests, the Rev. and Mrs. E. Schmidt, from Isadore Chapter, Green Springs, when they convened in the Chapter Room of Masonic Temple.

Worthy Patron, Philip Rutan with the assistance of the chaplain, Edward Breyman, conducted the flag ceremony. Rainbow Girls, special guests of the evening, with the assistance of their mother adviser, Mrs. Pat Mader, exemplified their work for the chapter. Participating were worthy adviser, Sue Taylor, associate worthy adviser, Eva Saam; recorder, Lynn Bischoff; Hope Sabrina Logan; Tyler, Sandra Hublay; drill leader, Lu Anne Mason; flag bearers, Chris Decker and Susie Crispen; pianist, Jackie Cardosa; Faith, Anita Habersaat; choir director, protem, Pam Smith; Charity, past worthy adviser, Joan Smith; outer observer, Cindy Stroud; confidential observer, Tracy Rauch; Love, Mary Henderson; religion, Peggy Eberhardt; nature, Carol Kingsborough; immortality, Charlene Weaver; patriotism, past worthy advisor, Donna Saam, protem. Fidelity, Brenda Hetrick; service, Bonnie Murphy.

Invitations were received from Rittman Chapter for March 18, at 4 p.m. with dinner at 5 and meeting at 7 and from Gibsonburg Chapter for inspection March 19 at 8 p.m. Next meeting of the local chapter will be March 9, with a box social, all members attending to bring a filled box. Refreshments were served at the close of the meeting, by Mr. and Mrs.

Charles Hensley, Mrs. Robert Smarage and Mrs. A. T. McCachran.

Writes Book After Five Years In Convent Altar-Rosary Sodety Plans March Breakfast Daughter Breakfast scheduled N8 mm ACw lit i ri' I It for March 5. Msgr. Leo Frey spoke on the need of religious vocations. Following the business meeting, Anchalii Agadmeck, American Field Service exchange student attending Gibsonburg High School, spoke on her native land, Thailand. Refreshments were served by the hostess chairmen, Mrs.

Tom Haley and Mrs. James Reed and their committee Mesdames Paul Diab, John Schumaker, Alfred Kimmet, Paul Kerrigan and Martin Bergefurd. White elephant gifts were then auctioned. Next meeting will be March 23 featuring election of officers and a talk given by Sister Angelita. Of I Meeting March business meeting of Daughters of Isabella is scheduled for Wednesday night in the library of Our Lady of the Pines.

Plans will be finalized for a Three new members from Woodville, Mrs. Robert Harman, Mrs. James Kelley and Mrs. Ed Konesky, were accepted into the Altar-Rosary Society of Gibsonburg St. Michael's Church when 48 members assembled in the parish hall for their February meeting.

It was announced that the World Day of Prayer Service would be held at the Church of Christ, March 3 at 7:30 p.m. Women are reminded to make reservations for the Mother- Weight, See Dieters Meet Roll call at the Weight and See Diet Club meeting held in the Columbia Gas Clubrooms revealed Mrs. Willis Murphy eligible for Senior Queen and Mrs. Jesse Goodwin and Mrs. Wilbur Wymen eligible for Junior Queen.

Mrs. Wymer won the treasure chest and Mrs. Edwin Willis, who was also the hostess for the evening won the door prize. The Miss Bonus Contest was won by Mrs. Murphy who also won the Miss Monthly Princess Contest.

Mrs. Ronald Showman A SNEAK PREVIEW of fashions to be modeled at Fremont Country Club's spring brunch, style show, card party and art exhibit are shown here by Mrs. John Dixon, wearing a navy and white Butte Knit one-piece classic and Mrs. Charles Mosser Jr. in Bobbie Brooks hip hugger slacks and matching jacket.

Mrs. Robert Wingard models a beige and white houndstooth check cape and slacks and Mrs. Wilson Fought's floor length dress in bright geometric design reveals matching hotpants. The painting on display is by Jeanne Walsh. (News-Messenger photo by Larry Sollazzo) Widows Learn To Help Each Other HOUSTON, Tex.

(AP) "If only I had someone to talk with, someone who understands," pleads a widow. "It's so lonely," adds another. "Doctors load you with tranquilizers and tell you you'll be all right. That doesn't help." "You're a fifth wheel. Your two-month bridge and pinochle tournament on March and April social nights for members and persons interested in completing a table for the games.

Recitation of the rosary in the chapel at 7:45 will precede the meeting. Mrs. Henderson says her reasons for leaving the convent are complicated, but central in her decision was the theory of obedience, by which a nun does whatever she is directed to do by her superior in the order. "I don't want a person giving me a set of rules to live by, so then I can feel good about following them. I want to assume responsibility for my own judgment and for the moral choices I make based on that judgment," she says.

"I rejected the Catholic Church almost immediately after I left, and contrary to my first expectations I wasn't immediately struck down by lightning." She and her husband are not practicing any organized religion now, she says, but Mrs. Henderson says she has no regrets about her five convent years. "Had I not gone into the convent," she points out, "I could always have lived with a burden of guilt that I didn't do what God wanted me to do. Also 1 learned how to think and concentrate, and some good points of the convent stayed with me, like having a portion of time to meditate, and a general atmosphere of quietness. "Finally, I challenged what I grew up with and learned that just because things had always been one way, that didn't mean they always had to be." They sent me applications for a new card and when they saw I had no job, they didn't give me one," Mrs.

Wolfer says. "You're thrown out of society. You can't go out like you used to. You're a prisoner in your home. People tell you to take a trip.

Well whom are you going with?" says Mrs. Goldman. "Go with another widow," answers Mrs. Rosenthall. "The real answer is that you have to change your lifestyle," says Mrs.

Goldman. "You're always doing everything the way you think he'd want you to do. I still do it, but you've got to realize it's you now, not him," Mrs. Rosenthall says. Children can be life savers and heart breakers when a mate is lost, the women say.

"I don't know what I would have done without them. They carried on with their college just as their father had planned for them. They were so strong I felt I liad to live up to them," Mrs. Goldman says. "Children also put you over the barrel," says Mrs.

Wolfer. "They'll say 'Daddy promised me a motorcycle' and you have to explain that Daddy isn't there anymore and finances have changed. They have to adjust. But they can really hit you hard." "You get to the point that you think you're going to blow your mind. We hope to keep people from bombing out," Mrs.

Goldman says. What Widowed, Inc. hopes to say by its actions is, "you're not alone in your feelings. Thousands of others are just like you." Hints from Heloise Heose dered items in the left side of drawers and moving the others to the right of the drawer when putting up laundry. This way the stack isn't too high for the drawer as when putting the recently laundered one underneath.

In the kitchen, she hangs a towel through a drawer pull handle on the cabinets in a DEAR HELOISE: I doubt that you get many letters from men, but let me tell you that I married the world's greatest woman. She works herself to exhaustion on her job and at home, and still treats the whole family as they were royalty. But that's not why I am announced that the club is selling letter notes and smile T-shirts. A short informative talk followed. Telling members she lost 14 pounds in two weeks under her doctor's supervision, Mrs.

Murphy stressed the importance of desire, faith in God, medical check-up and exercise, rest and proper food. She told members to avoid the top 15 high carbohydrate foods and to write down everything they consumed. Mrs. Kenneth Gabel gave a short report from the Ladies Circle magazine concerning 10 points in reducing. The article was entitle, "A Woman's Doctor's View." The new Miss Bonus contest will begin March 2 and end March 30.

The contest is open to all members. Mrs. Larry Shockley was presented a baby gift for her son, Jonathan, who was born Feb. 13. The club also added two new members, Mrs.

Wyman and Miss Marie McCurdy. Words Of Wisdom Work brings profit; talk brings poverty. NEW YORK (AP) Nancy Henderson is a poised, well-dressed 28-year-old woman who fits with ease now into a world from which she was cut off during five years in a convent. But when she left the Missionary Sisters of Our Lady of the Holy Rosary at age 23 without taking her final vows she was frightened of getting on a train, didn't know how to shop or handle money, was unable to make small talk and unaware of news events. She had, however, attended Rosemont College for one year while in the convent, and was able to get a scholarship to Bryn Mawr after she left.

She graduated summa cum laude with honors in philosophy. "You don't make a transition immediately of finding out what the world is like," she said on a visit to New York for the publication of the book she wrote about her life as a nun, "Out of the Curtained World," "When I first left, I stayed with a family that had five children and I was supposed to take care of them for room and board," she relates. "That was demanding enough, but coming out of the convent I was so accustomed to quiet and routine I couldn't handle it. So I went to live with a different family and got room and board for doing housework. "I had no idea at all of the value of money," she goes on.

"I had to borrow $500 and it was really frightening. And I had forgotten how to make light conversation. At the convent we had silence during meals, and on the occasions when permission was given to speak it just seemed impossible to talk and eat at the same time." Married four years now, Mrs. Henderson met her husband Bill soon after she left the convent. It was he who suggested she write a book about her experiences, but when she first began she had not been out of that "curtained world" long enough to have any perspective on it.

"I was still plagued by nightmares," she recalls. A few years later, however, she and her husband rented a house in Normandy, France, and she finished the book in 11 months. Mrs. Henderson explains that she had wanted to be a nun from the time she was in the fourth grade. "I was raised a Roman Catholic and I went to a Catholic school and the nuns were always encouraging me to think I had a vocation," she elaborates.

writing. I thought she might convenient place. better know how much we love Whe she cooks baked potatoes, friends are nice but You're just alone." These are widows talking, eagerly sharing experiences and problems, reaching out to help others and to be helped. In only a few minutes of conversation, it's apparent one of their biggest troubles is loneliness. But these women are doing something about that loneliness and other problems widows face.

They answered a call to be volunteers with Widowed a service organization which aims to help people adjust when they lost a mate. Shirley Wolfer, executive director who lost her husband 16 months ago, started Widowed, in Houston after discovering the organization on a trip to Boston. A board of directors was formed and a call for volunteers brought out more than 50 persons at the organizational meeting. Margaret Cox, Addie Goldman, Margaret Rosenthall, and Mary K. Wintringham know the traumas of being widowed and they know one of the greatest needs is someone to talk with.

Listen to them: "I have no family here, no one," says Mrs. Cox. "My husband and I were in the laundry business and we sold it before he died. I don't want to go back into that. Yet I don't have any experience in anything else." "I'd never worked before.

I had done volunteer work and some of the offices offered me jobs. I nearly fainted when I heard the salary. It was so little," says Mrs. Goldman. "Luckily I went into a good field, real estate." "A widow often thinks she can live a lot more cheaply, but the cost of living without your husband doesn't drop in proportion to the loss of his income," says Mrs.

Rosenthall. Since finances are a big problem to many widows, one aim of Widowed, Inc. is to guide persons to the proper counseling in financial and legal matters. "I lost some of my credit cards because I was honest and told the companies my husband had died. Personals Arlin have Mr.

and Mrs. Shellhammer, Clyde, and appreciate her if she read some of her hints and time savers in your column, such as: She makes my business clothes (trousers, etc.) easy to distinguish from dress clothes by twisting one of those little twistums from bread wrappers around the top of the coat hanger. She rotates our underclothes, socks and handkerchiefs by putting the most recently laun- Women Of St. John's List March Meetings St. John's Lutheran Church Women announce their March circle meeting dates beginning March 1.

Meeting at 10 a.m. is the Rebekah Circle with Mrs. Henry Stahl as Bible Study leader. Meeting at 1:30 p.m. that day is Naomi Circle with Mrs.

Leland Schwochow as leader and Mrs. Cortland Dippel, hostess. Mary Martha will meet March 2 at 1:45 p.m. with Mrs. Nevin Woleslagel as leader and Mrs.

Willis Miller and Mrs. Elmer Delp, hostesses. Rachel Circle will meet at 7:30 p.m. with Mrs. William Wilson leader and hostesses Mrs.

Richard Baker and Miss Lois Shiets. March 6 at 8 p.m. Priscilla Circle will meet with Mrs. Joseph Meyer as leader and Mrs. William Tusen and Mrs.

Lyman Smith as hostesses. Lydia Circle will meet at 8 p.m. March 7 with Mrs. Ruth Klinck as leader and Mrs. Kathryn Bisnette as hostess.

Also, on that day at 7:45 p.m. the Sarah Circle will meet with Mrs. A.J. Klopfer as leader and Mrs. Victor Fahle as hostess.

Ruth Circle will meet March 9 at 1 :30 p.m. and Hope Circle gathers at 7:30 p.m. in the parish house with Mrs. Rodney Hasselbach, as leader. March 13 Abigail Circle meets at 6 p.m.

with Miss Marian Horn and Mrs. Ruth Chamberlain as hostesses. Then on March 14 at 9 a.m. the Charity Circle will meet with Mrs. James Tooman as leader and Mrs.

Peter Butscher as hostess. Circle members and friends are urged to attend the special Lenten retreat March 15 from 9 a.m. until 3 p.m. Those attending are asked to bring a sack lunch for noon break. A study on the Book of James will be led by Mrs.

J. Paul Tritch and Mrs. Edward Rice. returned home after spending nine days with her parents, Mr. and Mrs.

H. B. Zook in Fort Lauderdale, Fla. Replenish Assets Did the holidays leave the freezer bare? If so you can take advantage of many of the current beef specials and freeze for the future. Freeze fresh beef quickly and store at 0 degrees F.

or lower. To assure high quality, the recommended maximum storage period is 3 to 4 months for ground beef and 6 to 12 months for other fresh beef. Defrosting is best done in refrigerator or during cooking. she unwraps, breaks open, butters and rewraps them before mealtime so that the butter can soak through. Good? You bet! After breakfast, she cracks the eggs for the next morning, puts them in an empty margarine container and stores them in the refrigerator.

After washing and scalding the frying pan, she puts in the meat for the next breakfast, covers it with aluminum foil and stores it in the refrigerator. The foil serves as a splatter cover the next morning, too. That's what I call being prepared to begin the morning without having to rush, and being prepared if by chance you oversleep. She has many other timesaving ideas, some of which I am sure I am not aware of, but I think these and she are the greatest. Sign me, Loved her 32 years Folks, we think this man's really great for taking the time to write us about this one sweet gal he's a dream! Bless you sir.

Heloise SEW-KNlT-tf: BLIND ALLEYS! vjr In San Francisco in i960. GEORSE KALTANOW6KI PLAVED CHESS AGAINST 56 OPPONENTS. HE WON SO, PREW 6, LOST NONE-AND Pl(7 THIS ALL BLINPFOLOED SEWING CLASSES any event plan on feeding with a water-soluble fertilizer once every two weeks. To help tomatoes pollinate, tap the blossom clusters with a pencil or your finger. When spring finally comes, trim back marigolds or coleus a bit and transplant them outdoors, where they will provide color for a long time.

You can root the coleus clippings rather quickly in water to make more plants. Transfer the tomatoes to the ground right in the pots, or you can keep them on the patio or terrace if you prefer. How about planting morning glories and have them climb on strings or wires to frame your window? It's a fine way to greet spring. All-America Gladiolus Cameo and Miss America glads share the All-America Selections spotlight this year. Cameo has moderate ruffling, a big, canary yellow throat with rose picotee edging and a luminous glow.

The plant, of average height, has 8 to 9 round flowers that open at once out of a total of 19 buds. Carl Fischer, St. Charles, developed Cameo. Miss America has fancy ruffling, stretchy 60-inch spikes with up to 12 open flowers. It is a tall, brilliant pink.

The originators are J. R. and C. T. Larus, Avon, Conn.

Both Cameo and Miss America bloom in 85 days. Larus and Fischer are prominent names in the gladiolus world. Shake or brush snow gently from evergreens to prevent them from breaking. Don't try to remove ice from branches. This could result in breaks.

By EARL ARONSON AP Newsfeatures Get a head start on spring by growing a vegetable, such as a small tomato, or a dwarf marigold or other plant, on a sunny windowsill or under fluorescent lamps. Modern garden aids, such as peat pots or Jiffy-7 pellets, make it quite simple. Fill a peat pot about four inches in diameter almost to the top with a planting formula and sow three or four marigold or tomato Pixie by Burpee is a good one for this purpose) seeds, then press gently. Keep the mixture moist, and at average room temperature seeds will sprout in 8 to 10 days. Keep young seedlings in the sun or artificial light as much as possible to prevent plants from getting spindly.

The plant rims should be at least on a level with the glass panes of the window or 4 to 6 inches from the artificial lights, which should be on 14 to 16 hours daily. Extra seedlings should be thinned out, leaving the strongest in each pot or pellet. Tomatoes eventually will need more space, so shift them to wider, deeper containers. If you plant coleus, sprinkle the tiny seeds on the planting formula and barely cover. In about two weeks leaves will appear, eventually turning into various colors and patterns.

Water enough so that the water comes through the drainage hole into the saucer, from which you pour it off. Water again only when the surface feels dry, which will depend on conditions. Some planting formula and pellets contain nutrients but in $35.00 $20.00 Brooch Earrings LADIES' KNITWEAR Wednesday Evening March 8th at 6:30 P.M. DRESSMAKING Monday Evening Mar. 6th at 6:30 P.M.

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10th at 9:30 A.M. DEAR HELOISE: There's one little thing I do that I would like to share with you. I keep a small bottle of cologne in the kitchen. Then, when I'm feeling very much like a kitchen drudge, I stop what I'm doing and put a dab of cologne behind each ear. That brightens me up in seconds and makes me feel glamorous! Try it and see! H.E.M.

DEAR HELOISE: Like many people, I hate to write letters. After completing a five-page letter, my 3-year-old son spilled water on it. I cried to think I had to rewrite it. Then I saw the fan in the kitchen window. I quickly taped the pages to it, hoping I could save some of it from smudging.

After a few minutes it dried and lo, and behold, no smudge at all. It looked almost as fresh as before. This must be done quickly or else it is completely ruined. Be sure to turn off the fan before taping the pages to it! Mrs. Eileen Ippolito 1 PASS THE SALT PLEASE 14 KT.

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