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TIMES-DEMOCRAT Sunday, July 25, 1971 nri Davenport-Bettendorf, Iowa 4 4 iv, I 14 7. a She is employed at Abraham's, Davenport. Her fiance also is a graduate of West High School. Kappeler-Guyer Miss Linda Kay Kappeler, daughter of Mr. and Mrs.

William Kappeler, Stockton, is engaged" to Larry L. Guyer, son of Mrs. Harry Guyer, Dur-ant, Iowa, and the late Mr. Guyer. The wedding is planned for spring.

The bride-elect is a graduate of Muscatine Community College. She is employed as a summer school secretary with the Durant schools. Her fiance also is a graduate of Muscatine Community Col--gege. He is employed with Russelloy Foundry, Durant. The couple will attend the Martin-Ries Wedding To Take Place Aug.

28 Miss Lesa Martin, daughter of Mr. and Mrs. J. T. Martin, Wilmington, is engaged to Ronald Eugene Ries, son of Mrs.

John Ries, 1524 Elm Davenport, and the late Mr. Ries. The wedding is planned for Aug. 28. The bride-elect is a junior at Harding College, Searcy, Ark.

She is a member of Mu Eta Adelphian social club. Her fiance also is a junior at Harding College. He is a member of Knights' social club. Marlene Eisler Cyndi Rodenburg Kathryri Petersen Suzanne Haase Weddings In The Future Lesa Martin WV.V.V.V.V.5Y.Y.!.V.YV...Y...y.Y Schrecks Note 50th Date University of Iowa this fall. AVWAV.V.V.VWy'MV.WV.'AW.-! 5 AC Eisler-Copploe Marlene Eisler, Mount View, daughter of Mr.

and Mrs. Stanley L. Eisler 1730 W. Hayes Davenport, is engaged to Glenn Copploe, son of Anthony Ross Copploe, Sunnyvale, and the late Mrs. Copploe.

The wedding is planned for Sept. 5, The bride-elect is a graduate of San Jose State, Jose, Calif, with a bachelor of science degree in occupational therapy. "Her' fiance will attend The Academy of The Arts, San Francisco, in the fall. Yd? AS i Mr. and Mrs.

Fred Schreck; 1532 W. High Davenport, will be honored at a family dinner and reception Friday in celebration of their 50th wedding anniversary. Friends and relatives may call from 8 to 11 p.m. at the Eldridge Turner Hall. The dinner also will be held at the hall.

Miss Helen Wciskopf and Mr. Schreck were married July 30, 1921, in Davenport. Mr. Schreck was employed as a carpenter contractor in Davenport until retiring in 1964. .2 They are the parents of Mrs.

Wayne Uchtorff, Davenport, and Marian (Mike), Durants There are six grandchildren. Moline Public Hospital School of Nursing. Her fiance is a graduate of Davenport West High School. He is serving with the Air Force in Cheyenne, at F. E.

Warren AFB. Rodenburg-Greenlee Miss Cyndi Rodenburg, daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Charles Rodenburg, 3247 W. Colorado Davenport, is engaged to Daniel Greenlee, 6224 Sheridan Davenport, son of Mrs.

Rosel Tempel-myer, of the same address, and Scott M. Greenlee, 2520 Madison Davenport. The couple will exchange vows Aug. 14 at 11 a.m. in Holy Family Catholic Church, Davenport Friends and relatives are invited to the ceremony and a reception from 8 to 10 p.m.

at the Davenport Elks The bride-elect is a graduate of Davenport West High School. I. vyAyx.v-x-:. 7 4 4 WM.wniiMMiM vililiimiifliiny v. Niemeyer-IIudson Miss Shirleyann Niemeyer, daughter of Mr.

and Mrs. William J. Niemeyer, 3717 N. Fairmount Davenport, is engaged to John Kenneth Hudson, son of Mr. and Mrs.

Kenneth R. Hudson, 412 W. Locust Davenport. The couple will exchange vows in a private ceremony Aug. 8.

Friends and relatives are invited to a reception at 2 p.m. at the Lulac Club, Davenport. The bride-elect attended Davenport West High School. She is employed as a waitress at the Red Barron Restaurant at the Davenport Airport, Mount Joy. Her fiance is a graduate of Davenport Central High School.

He is employed as a fireman with the Davenport Fire Department. Shirleyann Niemeyer daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Elmer -L. Haase, 3210 VV.

Rusholme Davenport, is engaged to David W. Lee, son of Mr. and Mrs. Wilbert J. Lee, 771 W.

43rd St. Davenport. The wedding date has not been set. The bride-elect is a junior at Linda Kappeler The wedding is planned for Aug. 29.

The bride-elect is attending Iowa State University, Ames. Her fiance also is attending Iowa State University. Haase-Lee Miss Suzanne Kay Haase, Petersen-IIinds Miss Kathryn Petersen, daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Dwayne E.

Petersen, Traer, Iowa, is engaged to Michael Duane Hinds, son of Mr. and Mrs. Duane E. Hinds, Walcott Mr. and Mrs.

Fred Schrcck q-. Vow Dates Are Selected; fi Dr. Jovce Son's Dabbling In Hypnosis fm Brothers Family Catholic Church, Davenport. Friends and relatives are invited to the ceremony and a reception from 3 to 8 p.m. at 30 Lanes, Davenport.

The couple's parents are Mr. and Mrs. Victor R. Moeller, 5328 W. Locust Davenport, and Mr.

and Mrs. Lloyd Hauschildt, Gladbrook, Iowa. Little-Louck Miss Deborah J. Little will become the bride of Steven C. Louck on Aug.

14 at 7 p.m. in Trinity Lutheran Church, Tlcasant Valley. Friends and relatives are Invited to the ceremony and a reception from 8 to 10 p.m. Otvens-Snyder Miss Carol Patricia Owens will become the bride of Terry Lee Snyder on July 31, at 2 p.m. in St.

Mark Lutheran Church, Davenport. Friends and relatives are invited to the ceremony and a reception from 2:30 to 4:30 p.m. at Luther Hall. couple's parents are Mr. and Mrs.

Truman Owens of 4820 W. Pleasant Davenport, and Mr. and Mrs. Edward Snyder of 507 Waverly Road, Davenport. Moeller-IIauschildt Miss Mary Catherine Mocll-er will become the bride of Gaylord Don Hauschildt on Aug.

14 at 1 p.m. in Holy at the Princeton Civic Center, The couple's parents are Mr. and Mrs. Glenn W. Little, Princeton, and Mr.

and Mrs. Clarence Louck, Long Grove, i Nelson-Wartick Miss Nancy Kay Nelson will become the bride of Ronald L. Wartick on Aug. 22 at 3 p.m. in United Methodist Church, Ale-do, 111.

Friends and relatives are invited to the ceremony and a reception in the church parlors. The couple's parents are Mr. and Mrs. Leonard E. Nelson of Alcdo, and Mrs.

Raymond War-tick, Peoria, 111., and the late Mr. Wartick. out that hypnosis can't give anyone knowledge they don't have, but can give him confidence so that he will do well with the knowledge he does possess. He has also used hypnosis to build up a strong motivating force in certain individuals and to give proper suggestions to heighten personal satisfaction in certain subjects and the post-hypnotic suggestion to keep that satisfaction alive later. He has also trained certain students in auto-hypnosis so that they could use the technique themselves and improve themselves and their study habits.

I would reconsider some of your attitudes on the subject of hypnotism for you may be reacting to a prejudice, rather than to actual scientific knowledge of the subject. I think ii would be wise, however, to find out if your son is working with a trained, ethical, qualified person. Hypnosis still can be dangerous if used in the wrong way by unscrupulous persons. Do you tell yourself little white lies so you won't have to face the facts? To find out, read Dr. Joyce Brothcrs's leaflet, "Are You Honest With Yourself?" For a copy, send 15 cents and a stamped, self-addressed envelope to Dr.

Brothers in care of the Times-Democrat. much of the anxiety that man carries needlessly on his shoulders. In the past there have been many ungrounded rumors about hypnosis and many of these sprang from experiments that were conducted by charletans as part of entertainment or vaudeville acts. Hypnosis has been used more and more by qualified scientists and they have discovered that it has many possibilities that have been overlooked or ruled out because of past prejudice. Dr.

G. II. Estabrooks, a Rhodes Scholar and author of many articles and books on clinical hypnosis and human behavior, has used hypnosis in working with a number of students, especially those who are having trouble with their studies for one reason or another. In Science Digest, Dr. Estabrooks tells of a specific case where he worked with a student who was afraid of examinations.

HE USED hypnosis to help this student prepare for what he feared by having him live through an approaching examination in his major subject, with the assurance that he would enjoy it because he knew the subject, which the boy actually did. The psychologist was quick to point DEAR DR. BROTHERS: My daughter was hypnotized when she was in the hospital last year having her second child. I was very much opposed to it at the time, but she was not. Now, my son has become very interested in hypnotism and I'm worried.

He's been having trouble keeping up with his schoolwork and it seems to me he'd be better off if he'd spend more time with his studies and less time with this hocus-pocus that might be dangerous. V. R. DEAR MRS. I think you may be worrying needlessly.

Hypnotism is no longer considered a dangerous form of black magic but is now accepted by medical authorities both here and abroad. It is now in standard use in many hospitals throughout the country for expectant mothers. Many surgeons consider it far preferable to chemical anesthetics in that there is little after effect and it has no physiological side effects. For many years, hypnosis has been used as a muscle-relaxer and pain killer. SCIENTISTS at the University of Michigan are finding that subjects reveal new insights to handling problems of anxiety neurosis and are investigating the possibility that hypnosis may be able to control -ANNUAL SAL final Reduction Sale nill lie 3W lo Ann Landers Wife Is Fat sll the latest Spring 3nd Summer styles for psnts, dress and casual wear from: Marquise Naturalizer Jacqueline Corelli Connie Larks Reception Planned For Ellisons Mr.

and Mrs. Harold Ellison, 1943 N. Clark Davenport, will be honored at a reception next Saturday in celebration of their 25th wedding anniversary. Friends and relatives may call from 7 to 11 p.m. at Northwest Davenport Turner Hall.

Miss Doris L. Clifton and Mr. Ellison were married Aug. 3, 1946, in St. Mark Lutheran Church, Davenport.

Mr. Ellison is employed as a superintendant at Waters Construction Rock Island, and his wife is employed at Sears and Roebuck, Davenport They are the parents of Mrs. Thomas Olscn, Mrs. Robert Holden and Marjorie, all of Davenport, and Deborah, La-Vonne and Connie, all at home. There arc three grandchildren.

Itoths Nole Anniversary Mr. and Mrs. Walter (Pete) Roth, 3115 W. High St, Davenport, will be honored at an open house Aug. 1 in celebration of their 40th wedding anniversary.

Friends and relatives may call from 2 to 5 p.m. at their home. Miss Freda Strackbein and Mr. Roth were married Aug. 1, 193 1, in Rock Island.

Mr. Roth is employed by Davenport Community Schools. They have a son James, Davenport, and two be arrested for trespassing. Furthermore, it is illegal to leave a car unattended with the engine running. DEAR ANN LANDERS: I was shocked to read your statement that "a good marriage cannot be destroyed by a third party." I am at the present time watching it happen to my best friend.

Her husband is a fine Christian man taught Sunday school for 12 years. A ruthless hussy who went to work for him has him wrapped around her little finger. She has already divorced her husband and is pressuring him to get a divorce also. The judge awarded her custody of the children, so she has lost nothing. I'm sure the male menopause was a factor here.

it weren't for this sex-pot he would have agreed to counseling, but she has made him feel like a young buck again and he loves his second childhood. Please change your advice, Ann. I know for certain this marriage was solid, beautiful, and as perfect as it could have been until this vixen came along. CLOSE OBSERVER DEAR CLOSE: No one knows what a marriage is like except the two people who are in it. And sometimes one of THEM doesn't even know.

DEAR ANN LANDERS: Shortly after I graduated from high school I became engaged to a nice fellow. (I'll call him Tom). Tom's older brother and his wife were a very sweet couple and Im sure they thought, as I did, that one day I would marry Tom. When their baby was born they asked me to be the godmother. I was honored and accepted.

A few months later Tom moved to another city. We saw each other less and less frequently and after several months we had to admit that we were no longer in love so we broke up. For two years I sent Christmas gifts and birthday gifts to my godchild. Then I married an out-of-state' man and moved to the coast I stopped sending my godchild gifts at that time. Now I feel guilty and wonder if I should resume the gift sending or should I write and say I feel they ought to select someone else? It's three years since there has been any contact between us.

What do you say? MONTREAL DEAR Leave things as they are. When you married and moved away, that was it To reestablish communications after three years of silence, would be awkward. It might also raise some questions such as, "Is she trying to get back with Tom?" Is alcoholism a disease? How can the alcoholic be treated? Is there cure? Read the booklet "AlcoholLsrn Hope And Help, By Ann Landers. Enclose 35 cents in coin with your request and a long, stamped, self-addressed envelope. DEAR ANN LANDERS: My wife is fat not pleasingly plump, but grossly obese.

When we were married, she was shapely and considered well built. Too bad I didn't have the good sense to look at her mother during our courting days. I would have known where this girl was heading. I've tried' compassion, patience, encouragement, bribery, threats but nothing fazes her. She continues to stuff her face, carries candy in her purse, and has snacks at bedtime.

I've told her she turns me off sexually. She says, "It's not because I'm fat, it's because you don't love me. My weight is just an excuse." I've begged her to see a psychiatrist. She refuses. Am I a heel to ask for a divorce because I can't face' the prospect of living the rest of my life with a woman who puts food ahead of everything? She wants to start a family but I don't want to bring a child into the world unless Pm sure I will be around to help raise him.

Advise me, please. DEFEATED DEAR DEFEATED: You know what you're going to do you just want me to tell you to go ahead and do it. Your marriage is deader than a doornail. All that remains is the legal burial I can't save it but I can tell you something you don't know and may be unwilling to accept Your wife's weight undoubetdly contributed to the failure of your marriage, but there were other factors as well such as poor communication and just plain boredom. DEAR ANN: The frequent use of neighbors' driveways by families who own more than one car is a problem in most cities.

In this case it is also a health hazard. I dread opening windows in nice weather because of two brothers who live across the street They use our driveway as a temporary parking spot for a running car while they drive the second car out of their driveway. Our entire living-dining area is filled periodically with exhaust fumes. We are frequently awakened at 1:30 and 2:00 a.m. when the unemployed brother comes home and moves the working brother's car from their driveway, Into ours, leaves his brother's car motor running, returns to his car and drives it into our driveway, revs the motor and parks it in the family drive for brother's morning use.

Slamming of car doors, roar of motor, plus exhaust fumes combine to make us furious. We are working people who need our rest Please do not reveal the origin of this letter since we don't want an open confrontation. It would only make matters worse. ANONYMOUS DEAR ANON: Haven't you spoken to your neighbors about this? If not, you should do so at once. Perhaps they need only to be told.

If you HAVE spoken to them and they have Ignored the compaint, it is then a matter for the law. Your driveway is not public property. Your neighbors could Men's Shoes 1097lol897 Children's Shoes lo 8" YOUNKERS Satisfaction AlwAys Dl'CKCHFI I'UZA.