The Ogden Standard-Examiner from Ogden, Utah • 27

DEAR ABBY 3GDEN STANDARD-EXAMINER OGDEirUTAH SUNDAY MORNING JUNE 16 1963 Get Daughter's Trust Then Check Therapist By Abigail Van Buren DEAR ABBY: My daughter I I who has" three children all un- I der 12 divorced her husband three vears ago She had no choice as drinking gambling shower and then she broke off the engagement Instead of returning the gifts she passed a note around the office asking each of us to list our gift and how much we paid for it saying she wanted to refund the money Have you ever heard of this being done and do you think it was proper? ONE OF THE GIRLS l- s- and women took the looa out I their mouths She started going to a "therapist" for treatmen 4 I and counseling He is not a doc 4 I tor and I never did understand what qualifies him to practice I My daughter has paid him $100 I a month for two years and she DEAR ONE: No but -that i doesn't mean it is imDroner seems to be getting worse in LA 1 1 stead of better She goes to 1 1 him three nights a week while Perhaps the girl used her gifts and cannot return them so she's doing the next best thing Don't be critical of her She's having I her children get their own meals and stay alone until midnight enougn problems as it is Wouldn't a good therapist tell a DEAR ABBY My best friend mother to stay home with her is a i widow aged 52 She was children? They are developing just told bv her doctor that she emotional problems bee a their mother is so irritable and is pregnant Her bov friend is on edge and is gone so much separated from his wife but' not divorced Her only income is $108 per month social security How can I find out more abou this "therapist" without causing trouble? I think he is a irom ner dead husband She asked me what to do so I am CONCERNED MOTHER DEAR CONCERNED Assum ing he were a faker and you A- asking HER FRIEND DEAR FRIEND: If your friend is interested in finding a Home For Unwed Mothers in NUPTIALS June 27 is the date set by Miss Joyce Whittaker daughter of Mrs Cameron Norton of Cir-cleville and the late Louring A Whit-taker for her marriage to Arlen Earl Jones son of Mr and Mrs Frances Doyle Layton Mr Jones is a graduate of Henager's School of Business The bride-elect graduated from Brig-ham Young University and is teaching home-living at Weber High School The affianced couple will take vows in the Manti LDS-Temple and will be honored at a reception to be-held at the Ogden Fourth Ward ENGAGED The engagement of Miss Carilyn Hansen to James Flake Boone is announced by Mr and Mrs Russell Hansen of Syracuse Par ents of the future bridegroom Mr and Mrs James Boone of Jackson Fla plan to attend the rites to be held Aug 9 in the Salt Lake LDS Temple A reception will be held in the Syracuse LDS Ward The couple plans to continue studies at Brigham Young University in the fall Mr Boone served an LDS mission in the Central states and in the Marine Corps could prove it you would ac 4 "sv complish nothing unless you first gained the confidence of her area tell her to write to me and I will hem her In the mean your daughter and together you teas 1 time she should see a lawyer to determine what her "bov investigated this therapist' (I read where one woman be came so enchanted with "Dr' idkUKMmwwtjEbiaac friend's" responsibility is to her and ner cmid Ben Casey that she admitted AD FOR UNDERPRIVILEGED that she didn care whether he DEAR ABBY: My parents are was a "real" doctor or Mrs Ronald Wilcox (left) and Mrs Conrad Knowles (right) of the Chi Omega she'd let him operate on her) getting very crabby in their old age Every time I want to do something they think of a million things that can go wrong Connie Jean Beyda Michael Lynn Bues WedinTrinityPres by terian Church Try to convince your daughter that she'd be wise to investigate her therapist's background and qualifications before continuing have been talking this over immnae present an assonmeni oj cioimng to Mrs A rietschman board' member of the Junior Citizens Guild for underprivileged school children in the area A project of the group is assistance for these youngsters Mrs Knowles is the new president of Ogden Chapter of Chi Omega Alumnae Her officers are Mrs Darr ell Firth vice president Miss Dorothy Stevens secretary-treasurer Mrs Wayne Pack reporter Mrs LeRoy Stevens Panhellenic representative and Mrs A Gibson Smith alternate Mrs Wilcox is the immediate past president with him DEAR ABBY: We gave one of A lovely bride of the late with my friends and they tell me their parents are the same way Parents today are too strict about everything My parents were always this way but they seem to be getting worse the girls our office a bnda spring nuptial season is the for mer Miss Connie Jean Beyda What can I "PRISONER" who became the bride of Mich DEAR You Piano Pupils Give Program ael Lynn Beus in a ceremony performed June 1 in the Trinity can thank your lucky stars that YWCA Events For the Week YWCA -calendar of events for you nave parents who care enough about you to worry Board of Directors meeting 7:30 pm Tuesday teen-age summer program 10 ain beginners golf 6 pm Wednesday teen-age summer program 10 am beginners bridge 7:30 pm Thursday teen-age summer program 10 am Friday! Y-Duplicate Bridge Club luncheon 12 noon beginners golf fr'pm Junior Hostess Birthday Dance bus 8 pm Saturday Junior Hostess tour to Timpanogas Cave bus 10 am Admission to cave 50 cents 1 Presbyterian Church by Rev Sumpter Logan about the million things that can go before they do On Friday evening a group of young people were presented in a Musicale at the home of Mona The bride is a daughter of the week of June 16 is as fol Mr and Mrs Mickey Beyda lows: Monday advanced bridge (For personal unpublished answer to your letter write to Abby care of Ogden Standard-Examiner) Smith 10 am beginners bridge 7:30 4669 475 Parents of the Mrs Charles Hetzel Jr bridegroom are Mr and Mrs Dale Beus 4302 Orchard and Mrs Noble acted as hostesses Students partici For her wedding and the re pating were Kobi Benson Gloria Mm tJurruD jean Dunklev Debbie Fingerle Jodee Hetzel Claudia especially for you! Hill Paul Hogan" Janet Horsley tsarbara Morris Patrice Noble Diane Parker Alan Plowgian Johnathan Sonnet Marv Swind ler Mary Webb and Stuart ception lollowing tne new bride was attractively attired in a striking original gown of lace and crystal charm It was fashioned with fitted bodice featuring a Sabrina neckline and empire waist The full skirt was enhanced by lace appliques and a bustle back accented with self roses and fell into a slight train Her veil was attached to a crown of iridescent orange blossoms and she held a bouquet of white rosebuds with aqua ribbon The bride was attended bv DOOMS MOST COMVCMIEMT BTONC Young llii -o- A i "Now! in 1 1 i Miss Carol Ann Beyda a sister as maid of honor Miss RaNae Uncovered Lycra: 1 'I a color to warm you Venetian Gold Beus bridesmaid and Mrs Robert Kellerstrass attending matron They wore aaua crys mum I -i tal charm frocks and carried nosegays of white carnations With aqua ribbon tied in love knots Assuming the duties of best man was a brother of the bridegroom Larry Beus Ushers if II Weight Gaining Reducing Golf Swimming Bowling Steam Bathi PersonaKzed Instruction Sparkling Chrome Active and Passive Exercise Equipment Classes in Judo and Self Defense ENROLL TODAYI COMPLETE FACILITIES FOR MEN AND WOMEN The Stretchbra with shoulder stretch straps that stay firmly put! The Stretchbra won't ride up is made of nylon and Lycra White black A 595 II 1 ft- MRS MICHAEL LYNN BEUS i-ii I WE HONOR ALL HEALTH CLUB I pi HI MEMBERSHIPS I -1 'I were KODert Kellerstrass Gordon Linford and Brad Beus Following a honeymoon trip to Las Vegas and Southern California the couple will reside in Sunset 1 Those entertaining for the bride were Mrs Kellerstrass and Miss Beus and Mrs Lewis Clark Parents of the bridegroom entertained at a rehearsal diriher at the Mansion house for the bridal party i Piano Pupils Play Today i Bette Pettigrew Thornblad will present a group of piano students in a recital today at 2 pm at the Bertha Eccles Art Center 2580 Jefferson Those participating are Pamela Fisher Nancy Breese Sidney Pope Connie Bennette Sniggs Patty Fry Judy Lynn Venetian Gold a color so rich it melts deliciously on you Just one of Warner's collection of radiant colors so fantastic you may never wear white again Paneled pantie is Delilah fragile-looking but with a lot of secret power Also in peacock pink sapphire blue blonde something blue nile blue topaz black or white Long-leg pantie 1095 I lace-prettied bra 5uu 1 mm hmmrn EX 2-0920 1775 Washihglen Blvd few mm Iff DelUah by A special blend of nylon and DuPont's spandex Waistline pantie in uncovered Lycra elastic cool lightweight Tummy bands flatten comfortably White 1000 XL 1195 ill ipill beauty begins at the top Kicnards Lristi McNeely Joan Hirschi Christine Berrett Kathy McQuade Patsy Bennett Nancy Fujimoto Kent Nistler Terri Swapp Barbara Jean Breese Bonnie Schofield Penny New-lin Jan Fujimoto Sue Christen-sen Patsy Schofield Jan Mum-ford Blaine McNeill and Bill Nistler Guest violin students will be Eddie Thornblad student of the late Harold Pettigrew and Jan Fujimoto sudent of Ralph Marsden The program will include works from classical and modern as well as contemporary composers Mrs Jack McQuade and Mrs David Hirschi are hostesses Refreshments wil be served after the musicale Introducing: Two new treatment kits One for the dry skin one for the oily Each holds debut size of treatment preparations encased in a charming pale-gray alligator pattern plastic kit Give one to yourself dmards GorrecTred meets all prescription needs inside front of heel is wedged soft pliable counters insure heel fit lower cut outside quarters give better ankle and heel fit permanents tints five week rinses oil treatments bleaches frosting haircuts adjustable lacing follows foot shape contoured arch and shank for I permanent wave special 7 0 Monday Tuesday Wednesday only! 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