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Pago 4-E Cheerful Giver Has Many Rewards UKAIt ANN LANDKKS: My husband is a jerk. All his life lie lias done people favors. He a i their electric appliances, drives Ilicm wherever they wanl to go, lends ihcm money, signs notes at the bank ami siis up half the night doing (heir tax returns. Just name it and my schnook does it. I've told him for 22 years that he is a fool that he should charge for his services, that people don't appreciate what they gel for nothing.

He pays no attention lo me whatever. He thinks you are a very smart woman. Will you please Rive him some of your common sense, down to carlh advitt? KJNOItliD DEAR IONOKK1): The advice is for you, Lady. Get off his back. You say he lusn't listened lo you in 22 years so why not take the hint? If your husband charged for his favors he'd lose Ihe pleasure of giving and this, my friend, can a Jot wore rewarding than a buck licit and a buck Iherc.

DEAR ANN LANDERS: 1 have five grandchildren and they all love me all except Ihe youngest who is five months old. From Ihe first moment lhat boy laid eyes on me lie has screamed liis head off every lime I cnier a room. I cannot for the life me figure out whiit causes iiim to do Ihis. I( is very embarrassing, especially when outsiders are present. I'm sure they must Ihink I have mistreated the child in some way because it is obvious he is frightened to death of inc.

PJeave explain what would cause him to shriek so whenever I come near him, What can I do to make Jiint like me? GRANDMA MABEl, DEAR GRANDMA: Maybe it's your hat, or your glasses, or your hair-do. Or maybe ANN LANDERS SAVS Ana you lunge at him in your eagerness to be friendly. My advice is don't push if, Cram. Play it cool and Ihe little guy will gradually warm up lo you. I know someone who had exactly the same problem Me.

A It ANN LANDERS: Get out the wet noodle and i yourself 20 lashes. Recently a woman wrote lhat she was furious with (he newspaper for printing an engagement announcement with- out checking bolh sets of Her son had not mentioned a word about getting married. She was certain the girl maneuvered him into it by giving the picture and story to the paper. You told the mother that the paper was not at fault that Ihe real problem was the lack of communicaUon between her and her son. Then you added, "I know of no paper in the country that verifies engagement stories." Our paper does and I'll fell you why.

Several years ago, a rejected suitor wanted lo gel even with the girl who had turned him down. He sent her picture to the newspaper and announced her engagement to ,1 young man who was severs! rungs beneath her on the social ladder. The girl's parents were prominent citizens and you can image the scene in the publisher's office. You can be sure that now we check out all engagement announcements. E.

H. C. -ATLANTA JOURNAL Spotlight on Weekend Nuptials Oglcsby-Moorkoiise Miss Marianna Mom-house and Maj, Lynn W. Oglesby were married Saturday in the Randolph AFB Chapel. Chaplain (Lt.

Col.) John P. Thomas officiated. Mr. and Mrs. J.

Mporhouss of Lancaster, are parents of the bride. The bridegroom is the sou of Mrs. Ross L. Oglesby of Heaman, Iowa, and the late Mr. The bride was allendecl by her sisters, Mrs.

Frederick Davis and Miss Linda V. Moorlmuse, both of Lancaster. Best man was Rplicrt li. Oglesby of Collins, Iowa, brother flf the bridegroom. Ushers were Col.

If any B. Nicely Lt. Col. Robert S. Bounds and Lt.

Col. Charles'E. McRride. After a reception in (he Madrid Room of the base Officers' Ernest Scribblings from AND A HAPPY NEW P.S. Don't forget the sale Tuesday in fabrics, and ready to wear.

Thousands of yards of first quality (our regular slock) fabrics at or near price! Thanks for making- 1367 a good year for us. Hope it was for you too! I'll write a longer letter next time, when you'll have more time to read it! LOVE TO YOU ALL, YOUR VERY OWN COUSIN, ERNIE. Jan. 15--Intermediate Oil Painting 1-3, 8--2-Hour Lessons, 1 5 0 0 I jatt. 16--Beginner's Oil Painting 10-12, S--2-Hotti' Lessons, $15.00 Jan.

17--Dccoupage 10-12, 4--2-Hour Lessons, $10.00 Jan. 19--Paper Mowers (Crepe, Duplex Vclour) 4--2-Hour Lessons, $10.00 Jan. 23--Paper Machc 4--2-Hour Lessons, i I Jan. 26--Gold Leafing 4--2-Hour Lessons, (Adv.) Club the couple departed on a wedding trip to Acapulco and Mexico City. Lcachinati-0'Connor The marriage of Hiss Kalhy Kristine O'Connor and Spec.

4 Robert Anthony Loachman was solemnized Saturday in St. Methodist Church. The Rev. Dale Hassan performed the ceremony. Mr.

and Mrs. John O'Connor are parenls of the bride. The bridegroom is the of Mr. and Mrs. Jesse S.

Leachman. Donald Pitlman, sister of the bride, was matron of honor. Attendants were Mrs. Martin of Temple and Miss Donna Olivairi. Laurie Homer was the flower girl.

Mr. Leachman was his son's lies! man. Groomsmen were Richard Coqual and Rodney Gammans. Timothy O'Connor, brother of the bride, anil Bill Price ushered. The ringbearer was James Honer.

After a reception in the church, the couple departed on a wedding trip to Denver. DeBill'Larsoti Miss Stacia Eileen Larson and Walter Cinn DeBill Jr. exchanged nuptial vows Saturday in St. Martin's Evangelical Lutheran Church in Austin. The Rev.

Edward V. Long officiated. Mr. and Mrs. Arvid E.

Larson of Austin are parents of the bride. The bridegroom is (he son of Col. and Mrs. Waller C. DeBill of San Antonio.

Jliss Linda Kay Larson of Austin served her sister as maid of honor. Attendants were Miss Dianne Rivers and Miss Lundberg, bolh Dallas, and Mrs. Arvid Larson Jr. of Austin. Best man was Paul Landfair of Dallas.

Donald Slallings of Dallas, Dave Boolhman of Georgetown and Donald Schaffelt of Austin were groomsmen. Ushers were Greg of Dallas and Thomas Jacob of Ballinger. A receplion was held at the church. After a wedding trip to Big Kend National Park the couple will be at home in Austin. Garza-Hcndry Miss Barbara Ann Hendry, daughter of Mrs.

Toni Heyes Hendry and Robert Paul llenrlry, Saturday became Ihe bride of Gregory Reynaldo Garza, son of Mrs. Helen Pedraza and the late Gregory Garza. The Rev. Patrick Cronin officiated in St. Mary Magdalen's Catholic Church.

Maid of honor was Miss Sheron Lee Henclry, sister of the bride, and matron of honor was Mrs. Edward Salazar of Corpus Christi. Bridesmaids were Misses Sylvia Rivas Rebecca Ptreida and Eosemarie Estrada. Annabelle San Miguel was flower girl. Edward Salazar was best man, and groomsmen were Kichard Salazar, Arnold Garza and George Martin.

John Heritage, Robert liendry, brother of (he bride, Ray Keating and Nicolas Estrada were usters. Robert Rodriguez was ring bearer. Julio's Party House was the scene of the receplion. Lowc-Bcneficl Miss Royce Jean Benefiel became bride of Lt. Buforil Lee Lowe III of Nashville, Friday in Thrift Chapel, Trinity Baptist Church.

Dr. Buckner Fanning officiated. Parents of the bride are Sir. and Mrs. Roy Jackson Benefiel.

The bridegroom is Ihe son of Jlrs. Buford Lee Lowe Jr the late Mr. Lowe. Mrs. Larry W.

Schmidt of College Station was matron of honor. Bridesmaids were Mrs. William T. Haley Jr. and Miss Nancy Powell.

Junior bridesmaid was Miss Marie Ann Orsak. Lt. Thomas C. Hen- of Peoria, 111., was test man. Groomsmen were Sgt.

Alvin F. Lowe, brother of the bridegroom David M. Boggess of Nashyilte, and Robert Council of Naslivili'e. Ushers were David Henncke and John Moran. A reception was held in the Skyline Room of the Wedgwood.

Following a honeymoon to Colorado, the couple will live in Del Rio. Hannon-Grccn Miss Sharon Lynn Green and Franklin Matthew Harmon were married Saturday Cox Chapel, Highland Park Methodist Church in Dallas. The Rev. James B. Palmer of the First Methodist Church in San Antonio officiated.

The bride is the daughter of Mr. and Mrs. William Rav Green of Gainesville. The bridegroom is Ihe son of and Mrs. Shclton Fairar of Shrcveport, La.

Mrs. Lawrence R. Green of Little Rock was matron of honor. Miss Kathy Green of Gainesville was her sister's maid of honor. Klame Green and Kelly Green of Little Hock were flower girls.

Best man was Bill Bycrs of Shrcveporl La Rotort Perrill was groomsman. Ushers were Lawrence R. Green of Little Rock, brother of Ihe bride; Harold Grc-on of Dallas; and Ronnie Wilsim cf stamps, Ark. A reception was held at the church. The couple will make Iheir home in San Antonio.

Hampt.on-McC.fintic Miss Mary Kllcn McCIinlic. daughter of and Mrs. Richard MtCliniu-. Saturday became the bride of Thomas C. Hampton, son of Mr.

and Mrs. T.f. Hampton in Si Thomas More Calholic Church. The Rev. Terence Nolan officiated.

hcsl mnn was John Kclkcr of Houston and groomsmen were Richard J. McClintic, brother of the bride and Jack xamJcr. Miss Patricia McCIinlic was maid of honor. Brides- wore Miss Cynihia McCIinlic, sister of the bride and Miss nrlK Cartel-. Wayimc Bnllan was flower girl and Richard McCIinlic was ring bearer, A receplion was held the LacMaml N'CO Club, The couple left for a wedding trip to New Orleans.

DEAR E. H. So does the i a Sun-Times, the Pueblo Star-Journal, Ihe New Haven Register, The Leader in Corning, N.Y,, The Gazette in Kalamazoo. I could go on and on but I'm sure you get the idea. Sorry about that, everybody.

Color me' red. DEAK ANN LANDERS: I am a girl 15 and have been bugged by something for the last three years. My girl friend has the same problem, only not as bad. I do babysitting and save my money to buy gifts -and things I really need. Three time.5 recently my mother has asked me lo lend her money (the last lime it was $6).

She promised she would pay it back by Saturday. Well, that was three Saturdays ago and I still don't have my money. This morning when I reminded her again she mumbled something about a light bill. Now I'm sure she will never repay the just as she didn't repay the $4 and the $7. Is (here a solution? Please come up with something.

-NEW MEX'fCO DKAR NEW: Bank your money instead of letting it lie around the house. CONFIDENTIAL TO I WANTED HELP AND YOU GAVE ME RUBBISH: Sorry about that. The trouble with good, solid advice, my friend, is that it sometimes interferes wilh people's plans, I TO PROOF IN THK PUDDING: I'm unconvinced. can Ire arranged so that they will support almost anything especially the statistician. Ann Landers will be glad to help you with your problems.

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PISCES (Feb. Ic, Mnrtti 56) Ihltn fo what a clever pal hgs to so lhat you have more harmonious relo- ion! with one you love very much. (Jakfr a roolly Hoppy Hew Year. YOUR CHILD IS BORN TODAY he, or will be one of those 3T1- sible persons who ocls mych Irom worX that yntfoybtcdly Is of a prccikof rotate, so slop Jrvinj fo gcf your progtny to tcke ooncino lessons Cic like, or be 0,1 artist. A great ability hcrj for orgcnilationo! work.

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i aiv rioimccmenls and "(hank you" notes, cngi'avcd or iirintcd. Suuial Slaliniifry slrcel lloor, Joske's of (Adv.) Engagements -i C7 C7 Can tile-Morris Mr and Mrs. Beryl Canlile announce the engagement of (heir daughter, Soiiya Ellen, lo Robert Arthur Norris, son of Mr. and Mrs. George J).

Inghani of Pittsburgh, Pa. Miss Cantile is a graduate of MacArthur High School and is a senior at Southern Melhodist University. Sir. Norris graduated from North HiUs High School Pittsburgh. He is also a senior at Southern Methodist University, where he is a member of Delta Sigma Pi.

Their wedding is planned for Aug. II in Temple Beth El. PogiicJlenderle Jlr. and Mrs. Stephen If.

Pogue Jr. announce the engagement of their daughter, Pamela, to John Louis Bendele Jr. He is the son of Mrs. Mary Cosper and John Bendele. The bride-elect is a graduate of Alamo Heights High School and is attending Sam Houston State College.

Her fiance, graduate of Central Catholic High School, is attending Texas AM University. A June wedding is planned in St. Pius Catholic Rotman-Mass Mr. and Mrs, Joseph Rotman announce the engagement of their daughter, Diana, to Martin Mass, son of Mr', and Mrs. Jack Mass of Brooklyn, The couple will wed June 6 in Huntington Town House.

Long Island, N.Y. Miss Rotman received her bachelor of science degree from (he University of Texas. She is also a graduate of Jefferson High School and of Ten-ell Laboratories School of Medical Technology in Fort Worth. Mr. Mass is a graduate of Madison High School in Brooklyn and.attended the University of Buffalo, He is a graduate student at North Texas University where he will receive his masters degree in January.

He is also working on his is past president of Sigma Alpha Mu, treasurer of Inter- fraternity Council, a member of Phi Epsilon Kappa and Pill Delta Kappa, and coach of (he Physical Education Club. Cobb-Swanson Mr. and Mrs. Jerome C. Cobb announce the engagement of their daughter, Dixie Ann, to R.

Joel Swansea Jr. of Houston. Mr. Swanson is the son of Mr. and Mrs.

Eoy J. Siranson of Houston. A June wedding is planned. A graduate of MacArthur High School, Miss.Swanson attended the University of Texas. She is a senior at Boston University.

Mr. Swanson graduated summa cum laude from the -University of Texas with a degree in chemcal engineering. He was a member of Acacia, Tan Beta Pi, Phi Kappa Phi and Omicron KUta happa. He is now a student in the Harvard Graduate School of Business. Hughes-Ulmer Lt.

Col. (ret.) and Mrs. Robert C. Hughes announce the engagement of their daughter, Robbie Jean, to Victor Cra'ddock Miss Hughes graduated from Randolph High School and attended San Antonio College where she was a member of Beta Sigma Alpha. Mr Ulmer is the son of Mr.

and Mrs. Craddock M. Uimer of Stepnenville. He is a graduate of Stephenville School and is attending Texas A6M University. planned" 118 welcUl1g in AIamo Heights Melodist Church Is Morton-Morris Mr.

and Mrs. Clifford L. Morion of Enid, the engagement of their daughter, Cara Suzanne, to 'Alan McBryde Morris, son of Mr. and Mrs. Percy M.

Morris. The wedding mil take place April 13 in Emmanuel Baptist Church Jn. rjiuu. i iAfiss Morton is a graduate of Enid High School and is a senior at Baylor University. She is a member of the Alhenean Cub, Laurel Society, a Baylor Beauty and is listed in Who's Who American Colleges and Universities.

Her fiance is a graduate of South San Antonio High School and attended Baylor where he was freshman class president. He is presently in flight training at Ft. Rucker, as an Army helicopter pilot. Latimcr-Hays Mr. and Mrs.

Charles Robert Latimer announce the engagement of their daughter, Charlotte Josephine, Lt. David Mauermann Hays, son of Col. and Mrs. Ned Sprunt Kays Vows will be exchanged in February in First Presbyterian Church. Miss Lalimcr is a graduate of Jefferson High School and attended the University of Texas and Texas AI.

Her fiance is a graduate of Alamo Heights High School and Texas AiM University. Wdsbakcr-Mosley and Mrs. Dale Weisbaker announce the engagement of their daughter, Linda Jeanne, to Charles William Mosley son of Mr. and Mrs. Charles A.

Mosley of Houston. Miss is a sophomore at Texas Lutheran College and a member of Pi Kappa Delta. She is a graduate of MacAr- tnur High School. Mr. Mosley is also a TLC sophomore He is a graduate of Deer Park High School in Houston.

JeiikiiiS'Kiirih Miss Kathleen Mildred Jetikins and Paul Edward Kurth will be married June 29 in SI John's Lutheran Church Their engagement is announced by the bride-elect's parents, Mr. and Mrs. Cecil T. Jenkins, She graduated from Jefferson High School and attended San Antonio College and bur Lady of the Lake College. She is a senior at (he University of Texas and is a member of the Texas Home Economics College Otto Richard Kurth and the from Lee High School and al- icnueu itMi iimmiu Louege where he was a member of the urcle Club.

He is a senior at the University of Texas where he is a member of the American Society of Eng- Dreycr-Whitehill Mr. and Mrs. Bruno K. Dreyer announce Ihe engagement of Uieu daugh er, Shirley Ann, la U. Harvey II, ffMffil, son Lt, Col.

and Mrs. Harvey of Gallup 1 Church SPr nS weddins is planned chris Lutheran Miss Dreyer is a graduate of Alamo Heights High School and attends Texas Technological College. She is a student am liale of American Institute of Interior Designers a gradate of Burgess High School in El Paso achelor btKiness degree sigma JANUARY SPECIALS in" 1U RAYETTE PERFECT COMB-OUT SrtfiM REALISTIC Cold Wove SHAMPOO AND SETS BEGINNING AT FRANKLIN'S BEAUTY SALON Kfpcricnccd Optratots 210 North Broadway We Spcclolne In Hofd lo Curl Hoir Hinj Sol. CA 6-1141 NECESSARY.