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Page 18-The Daily Herald. Wausau-Merrill. September 29, 1984 WISCONSIN PUBLIC RADIO Parents and in-laws are opposite extremes WHWC, 88 FM, Menomonie WLBL, 930 AM, Aubumdale WPNE, 89 FM, Green Bay WHHI.91 FM, Highland WHRM.91 FMvWausau WHS 90 FMt Brule SUNOAY, aso ttrt Young UCMB Scftvbert 11 IN AMERICA: Ann Landers THURSDAY, 104 00 MORNIMG C04TION OO NORMAN GIUJLANO 00 ROMRT RUsVMU. Ok istastera Sacf SwMr3. him very much but feel his presence in the house is detrimental to us and to him.

We feel he will never grow up if we continue to house and feed him. He will not go for help and has been in three drug rehab houses but would not stay. Should we insist he leave? And if so, what will happen to him? I know you don't have a crystal ball, but is this an instance where. Like an alcoholic, the person has to hit bottom and this is his bottom? We are frightened to put him out on his own but our lives cannot go on with such despair and hopelessness. What should we do? Honolulu Parents Dear Parents: You say your son has been in three drug rehabilitation centers.

My advice is to go to the directors of these centers and ask them to evaluate your son and give you some guidance as to how to deal with him. If he has been taking heavy drugs there may be brain damage that would make it impossible for him to make it on his own. You need to have him examined by a neurologist to learn the extent of the deterioration. My heart aches when I receive letters like yours and I get a good many. What a shame that young people risk their minds and bodies because they want to experience everything.

They pay a terrible price, and their parents are apt to be victims as well. Dear Ann Landers: I have two problems my parents and my in-laws. You will probably tell me I can't do anything about either one, but perhaps if you explain why they behave so peculiarly I will feel better. My parents are not wealthy, but they are comfortable. They live like misers, never spending one cent more than is absolutely necessary.

When we were growing up we always had good food and clean clothes, but that was it Now, they are In their 70s, still doing all their own bouse repairs and lawn work, which should be done by paid help. Their clothes are patched and re-patched because "they are still good yet." We worry that Dad might fall off a ladder and that Mom might wrench her back. My in-laws are just the opposite. All they do is shop. The basement is filled with canned goods, some of it three or four years old, and still they buy more because they can't afford to pass up "a bargain." My mother-in-law has a spare room with boxes of clothes she has never worn.

One box has a shipping date of 1981 and has never been opened. I don't think she remembers what's in What's wrong with these people? Neither extreme is normal. Please explain. Michigan Wonderment Dear M.W.: Your parents are probably inse- Weddings cure because they lived through the Depression and are afraid that hard times will descend on them again. No amount of talking will convince them that they are "safe," so save your breath to cool your soup.

Your in-laws are compulsive buyers. They view their -excessive spending as "saving money." (Many bargain-hunters are like that.) This type of neurosis is as deeply rooted as that of your parents, so accept them as they are and put your energies elsewhere. Dear Ann Landers: Our son, 19 years old, is a high school dropout, addicted to pot smoking, can't hold a job and has been in jail three times in the last three years. He lives with us and has made our home a shambles because of our guilt and his total irresponsibility. There has been a complete breakdown in communication.

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Andreasen and her guest David Bergland, Libertarian Party presidential candidate, discuss the libertarian point of view. 12:00 LARRY MEILLER: Csll-ln 1:00 CHAPTER A DAY: Sterol Peace by Jan da He flog 1:30 THC ART SHOW 3:30 THE CHALLENGE OF CHINA ANO JAPAN: Leadership in Japan 6:00 ADVENTURES IN OOOO MUSIC WITH KARL HAAS: Evolution of lha sonata 4:00 ALL THINGS CONSIDERED 6:00 SOUND STUDIES IN PSYCHOLOGY: lamination of a variety ol approaches to mental health 6:30 NPR PLAYHOUSCTHK LORD OF THC RINGS: As I his fantaay adventure begins. Bilbo Baggina. a Hobbtt. decides lo make nephew Frodo his hair and gives him a magic ring Ha does not realize that Sauron.

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cond: John McCabe Concerto tor (world premiere) Elgor See Pictures. Op 37. Dam Janet Baker, ma. fnigme Vanattona 11:00 UNIVERSITY OP THC AIR: Japan Modern Century 1 853-1 952Prof John Dower FRIDAY, 10 6:00 MORNING COITION 6:00 NORMAN OILLILANO 6:00 ROBERT RUSSELL: Wagner Gofrerdammerungorch excerpls. LSO Stokowski (RCA 1-1317) Donizetti Morn Concortmo.

Heinz Hoiliger (Phil 9500 664) Schubert. Grand Duo. GoK) end Fizdsle. pis (Col 6317) Stravinsky Jetd Cartaa. Cleveland Stravinsky (Col 6649) 11:00 MARGARET ANDREASEN: Csll-in 12:00 LARRY MCILLCR: CalMn 1:00 CHAPTCR A DAY: Sterol Peace by Jan de Hartog 1:30 -THC ART SHOW 3 30 DIALOGUE: Conversation with Or Martin Ktotscha, chancellor ol UW-Miiwaukee from 1948-1973.

about the role of the urban university 3:00 ADVENTURES IN GOOD MUSIC WITH KARL HAAS: Music Of Yom Kippur 4:00 ALL THINGS CONSIDERED 6:00 JAZZ CLASSICS 7:00 HANSON'S JAZZ TIME 10:00 AMERICAN JAZZ RADIO FESTIVAL: Dave Brubeck and the San Jose Chamber Orchestra SATURDAY, 106 6:00 SATURDAY MORNING BY REQUEST: Milch Gerahenleid plays your called-in requested classical music selections Call him al 1-800-362-3020. 10:00 AM SATURDAY 12:00 WISCONSIN ISSUES FORUM: Host Barbara Wollf and gueal experts lake listeners' cstis about public policy issues 1:00 SATURDAY OPERA: Nielsen: Seu'sndOavrtf; Elisabeth Soderstrom, Alexander Young. Boris Christoff, Kim Sorg; Daniah Radio Chof and SO -Horenslein (Unicorn 3435) 4:00 ALL THINGS CONSIDERCD 6:00 A PRAIRIE HOME COMPANION 7:00 SIMPLY POLK: Songa about Mass Media 6:00 SPANISH LANOUAGC PROGRAMS: Three houraof Selluao photo I rick photo Bonnie, William Sherman Karla, Robert Dickey Sherman-Stencil Bonnie L. Stencil, daughter of Mr. and Mrs.

Edward Stencil, Athens, and William L. Sherman, son of Mr. and Mrs. Phjlip Sherman, Milwaukee, were married Aug. 31 at Holy Family Catholic Church, Poniatowski.

Maid of honor was Dawn Stencil, Athens. Bridesmaids were Terry Kubitz, Hudson; Jayne Massop and Laurie Weiter, both of Athens; Karen Sherman, Milwaukee; and Lori Duginski, Merrill. Best man was Steve Sherman, Littleton, Colo. Groomsmen were Rich Fuhrman, Minocqua; Spencer Roberts, Monterey, Joe Con-nerton, Milwaukee; Scott Lueders, Le Sueur, Ed Stencil Athens. Ushers were Paul Micech, Milwaukee, and Walter McKee Athens.

A reception, dinner and dance were held at Rib River Ballroom. The bride is a 1978 graduate of Athens High School and a graduate of the University of Wisconsin-River Falls, with a master's degree in agricultural education. She is a loan officer at Production Credit Association, River Falls. The bridegroom is a 1978 graduate of Missmer High School, Milwaukee, and a graduate of UW-River Falls with a bachelor's degree in geography and mathematics. He is a second lieutenant in the U.S.

Air Force specializing in Robin, Peter Tankersley A reception, dinner and dance were held at the Labor Temple, Wausau. The bride is a 1973 graduate of Wausau West High School, 1980 graduate of Milwaukee Area Technical College with an associate degree in real estate and a 1981 graduate with an associate degree in data processing. She is a computer programmer at Johnson Controls, Milwaukee. The bridegroom is a 1971 graduate of Menominee Falls East High School, a 1976 graduate of Milwaukee Area Technical College and attended the University of Wisconsin-Milwaukee. He is a certified automobile mechanic at Colonial Pon-tiac, Cederburg.

The couple will live in Tankersley-Howard Robin D. Howard, daughter of Dale and Mary Ann Howard, 2102 Wegner Wausau, and Peter A. Tankersley, son of William and Veronica Tankersley, Menomonee Falls, were married Sept. 1 at Im-manuel Lutheran Church, Wausau. Matron of honor was Sue Winis-torfer, Waukesha.

Bridesmaids were Cindy Young, Tomahawk; Luann Shadof, Milwaukee; and Barbara Tankersley, Menomonee Falls. Best man was Carl Kjer, Milwaukee. Groomsmen were Greg Kaufmann and Chris Brandt, both of Milwaukee, and Jim Winistorter, Waukesha. Ushers were Mike Gruetzmacher and Bill Gruetzmacher, both of Maid of honor was Tami Voght, Wausau. Bridesmaid was Mary Jo Smith, Loyal.

Best man was Lindsay Kalenske, Wausau. Groomsman was Tom Wix, Wausau. Ushers wer Larry Heckendorf, Wausau, and Mike Kramer, Minneapolis. A reception, luncheon and dance were held at the VFW Hall, Wausau. The bride is a 1978 graduate of Colby High School and 1979 graduate of the State College of Beauty Culture.

She is a managing cosmetologist at J.C. Penney's Styling Salon. The bridegroom is a 1977 graduate of Wausau East High School. He is an engineer for the Merrill Water and Sewerage Department. The couple will live in Merrill.

programming from WPR and NPR by and for the Spanlah-apeaklng community. Calendar Dickey-Will Karla Will, daughter of Neland Will, Colby, and Robert A. Dickey son of Mr. and Mrs. Robert Dickey 2501 Eighth Wausau, were married Sept.

1 at St. Anne's Church, Wausau. MOVIES 1 LATE NITE CINEMA! 2 HAMBURGERS FRIES FRI. SAT. 1 1:00 P.M.

It's as far as you can go. UMM4U4Mdr Wausau, Ph. 842-0846 hdance (No Carryonts) 2 FRI. SAT. 11:15 P.M.

What an Institution! OH HOT DOG PLATE 2 Hot Dogs Beans 00 Potato Salad (No Csrryowts) Tuss. Sat. ONLY 11 A.M.-2 P.M. CHARLIE'S BAR The Valley Garden Club, 1 p.m., the home of Adel Reiche, 740 S. Fourth Ave: The program will be corsage making.

Maura Group, AA, closed, and Maura Al-Anon, both 8 p.m., St. Stephen Lutheran Church, Wausau. Highland Group, AA, closed, 7:30 p.m., Highland United Methodist Church, Wausau. Wausau Women's Aglow, membership potluck supper, 6 p.m., Christian Assmebly, 215 E. Thomas Wausau.

Overeaters Anonymous, 10 a.m., St. Stephen's Church, McClellan St. Monday Morning Earlybird AA, 8:15 a.m., Alano Club, Wausau. LINCOLN COUNTY TODAY AA, 8 p.m., Bethlehem Lutheran Church, Merrill. Dance, sponsored by Timber Shrine Club, 9 p.m.-l a.m., Lincoln Lanes, Merrill.

SUNDAY Grand opening of Parkside Pre-'school, 11 a.m.-2 p.m., new location, 207 E. First Merrill. MONDAY Merrill Evening Lions Club, dinner meeting, 6:30 p.m., Lincoln Lanes. Chapter AA, PEO Sisterhood, buffet supper, 6:30 p.m., Mrs. George Dietrich, George's Road, Merrill.

Harmony and Lace, 7:30 p.m., Lincoln Lanes. Bluejay Booster Club, 7:30 p.m., agriculture room, Merrill High School. TUESDAY Rotary Club, noon, Club Modern, Merrill. 3 FRI. SAT.

1 1:30 P.M. "FAST TIMES AT RIDGEMONT HIGH" (R MARATHON COUNTY TODAY Community Recyling Center, 917 Town Line Road, Wausau, ing recyclables from 8:30 a.m. to 3 p.m. The Marathon County 4-H Club will run the center. SUNDAY Hope and Enrichment for Life's Potential, a support group for families of collagen vascular diseases, 2 p.m., Kronenwetter Municipal Center.

For more information call 693-2889. Evening Optimist Club, installation banquet, cocktails, 7 p.m.; dinner, 8 p.m., at the Midway. There will be awards and prizes. Overeaters Anonymous, 7:30 p.m., Peace United Church of Christ, 1530 Grand Schofield. Third Annual Norsk Rosemaling Fest, rosemaling show, sale, and demonstrations.

Free admission, 10 a.m. to 4 p.m., YWCA, Wausau. Knights of Columbus Council 1069, 7:30 p.m., K.C. Club. Sunday Morning AA meeting, closed, 9:30 a.m., Alano Club, Wausau.

Balloon launch. Meet at Trinity Lutheran Church at 9 a.m., then we will march to Marathon Park for the launch. For more information call 359-7819. Merry Eights Square Dancers, 7:30 p.m., Homestead Inn, Nutter-ville, Highway 52 E. Sunday Night Discussion Group, closed, 7:30 p.m., Marathon Health Care Center, Wausau.

MONDAY TOPS WI 683, 6:30 p.m., Tangle-wood Lanes, Rib Mountain. For more information, call Aria at 845-1631. Opening New Doors, a workshop for Women, 6:30 p.m., Marathon High School. For more information call Helen Weber at 443-2353. Sexually transmitted disease clinic, 3-5 p.m., Wausau Hospital Center.

Use the emergency room 'entrance, out-patient desk and ask for a public health nurse. 5512 Stewart Ave. ii I HMSBSJBSJHSSHS Warn i iii.in.in nnim v-qi-imi in i i ental Ou Restricted im contoms adult dance SuctMed This potent'y on adult type Lij Genetal Audience film contain no mater ioi most porent are dkely to r.onva' objectionable even for younger children type" material and those under 1 7 years of age are not admitted except the compan, of parent or adult guardian Rotmg cautions parent they might consider tome natenat umuiloble tor children It urges parents to inquire about the Mm before deciding on otten dance film and no one unde 18 is admitted Proof a oge must be shown on request Tht ratings mi tht Motion Picfwrs Aiwwtww si flmtrki publtthtsl ti wvict sf tWt poily Herald. GUI? 1 STEVE MARTIN LILY TOMLIN MRtVJPHEsJHRM fRPPrt1lP9'VsjpMtBI IT'S CASUAL "THE WILDLIFE" (R) AT RIDGEMONT HIGH EVES. 7:001 MO SUN.240-7M-M0 MATINEE ADM.

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