Honolulu Star-Bulletin from Honolulu, Hawaii • 35

Inez Works Her THE SUNDAY STAR-BULLETIN 1,1 ADVERTISER Honolulu, Jan. 22, 19137 C-I1 I THE SUNDAY STAR-BULLETIN 1,1 ADVERTISER Honolulu, Jan. 22, 19137 C-I1 Inez Works Her ay 'der ay I Up the Social La i What follows is an interim report on my social status, municipal wise in Fun City. I am happy to report that. at long last, my feet are on the lower rung of the New York City Hall social ladder.

And I am encouraged to believe that the upper rungs are not beyond my reach. But that optimistic estimate must wait, while I get on paper a recent luncheon happening to which I was invited on splendid vellum with fine engraving and the city's seal in gold) by the lion. John V. Lindsay, Mayor of the City of New York. AS ANYONE can see.

It was a fun luncheon, with fun cocktails of one's choice at the beginning and a nice white wine during a luncheon that began with (guess!) fruit cocktail and went on to London broil and ended in a rousing, patriotic salute to American cuisine apple pie a la mode and sizzling coffee. The bills for the big nighttime fun happenings have been picked up in the past by such large organizations as Pan American Airways. Since I was a guest at the luncheon, I felt constrained not to ask who was stuck with the check. And. as I am determined to work my way up the free loaders' ladder, I certainly wasn't going to offer to pay my share.

NOW I CAN tell you why I think I am on the way up. As I left the luncheon a mayoral secretary asked me to eturn the pin-on name tag given me as I entered. Now, even in this era of civic econom they wouldn't have taken up my name tag, would they, if ''they" (City Hall) weren't planning to ask me back? watching in New York, Ilizzoner is usually two hours behind clock and schedule, and often (especially in the time of the late Bill O'Dwyer) three. Our present leader has cut the time lag by 75 to 135 minutes after only one year in office. Remarkable.

Mayor Lindsay introduced each of his guests with good humor and real wit. When he got to Norman Cousins, editor of the Saturday Review and head of the mayor's task force on air pollution. he cried, "Norman, put out that cigarette!" When he introduced Alice McKenna. a very pretty young girl who is a Rockefeller Center tour guide, he said, "Come up to Albany with me sometime and you'll have a laugh a minute." And when he came to his own banker the mayor said, "I thank him for honoring Marys and my READERS may remember, I have been very unhappy in recent months because I was not on the list of dazzling free loaders (1,800 of 'emi invited by Bizzoner a glamorous midnight reception to celebrate the opening of the new Metropo7itan Opera or to a supper dance for 1.500) in RepubIlcan Women Plan Installation honor of delegates to the United Nations. Granted, the luncheon to which I was invited was not glamorous and took place in such daylight as seeps through New York's poisoned air.

And it was held hard by City Hall at Gasner's Restaurant, which is no Pavilion or Colony or even Toots Shoes. And only 50 guests showed up. Still and all, it is a beginning. And I keep hearing that there is still room at the top even in the Jet Set. NOW, IT turned out that "my" luncheon is one of a series that Mayor Lindsay is giving for a mixed bag of guests that on -my" day included Dr.

Carl W. Buchheister. president of the National Audubon Society; Mery Gri I fin of teevee; James Ryan, doorman at the Waldorf-Astoria; Jack Temkin, who, disregarding his personal safety, recently caused the arrest of a dangerous sex maniac; Rise Stevens of the Metropolitan Opera; and Capt. Pedro R. Sodal.

an aerial observer and rifle commander recently returned from Vietnam where he was seriously wounded. Also butchers, baker bankers, doctors, lawyers and merchant chiefs. There was also a young policeman, Charles Riemenschneider, a dead ringer for Bill Mauldin 20 years ago. Mr. Riemenschneider was just out of the hospital after a long convalescence from near fatal wounds suffered in capturing a gunman who was terrorizing a whole building.

And Bobby Fischer, the chess champ. who is great on any opening gambit except conversational. (Like talking ectoplasm, is what I say.) IT IS GREAT to be able to report that the mayor was only 45 minutes late to his own luncheon party. This is something of a record. In my years of mayor 1 tiff-----3, 1 A Lei For The Boss Mrs.

E. Lee Moffett will be installed as president of the Windward Federation of Republican Women at 9:30 Nani auditorium, Kaneohe. Guest speaker at the installation meeting will be Randolph Crossley. s. Crossley will be a special the meeting, a no-host luncheon will be held in the Pohai Nani dining room.

Deadline for reservations is tomorrow. For reservations call 245-661, 250-914 250-305. Mrs. Mary Costa. State vice chariman of the Republican Central Committee, will install thea new Windward officers.

In addition to Mrs. Nloffett. they are Mrs. David A. Dawes.

first vice president: Mrs. D. C. Glover, second vice president; Mrs. James Ashford, recording secretary, and Mrs.

Medford Dyer, treasurer. DEAR ANN: Forgive the spelling. I am 82 years old and never went to college. I want to reply to the man who objected to women being boss in the home. I have been married for 60 years and I am proud to admit my wife is the boss and I am thankful for her bossiness.

When we married I didn't have a pot to cook in or a window to throw it out of. My wife bossed me into saving money which I surely would have frittered away foolishly. We now have a substantial savings account, 300 shares of A.T. T. and a lovely home full of beautiful furnitureall paid for.

My wife also bossed our daughter through college and some nieces and nephews as well. Any man who doesn't appreciate a smart woman to boss him is just plain crazy. HAPPY TO DO AS I'M TOLD DEAR HAPPY: Some men need bossing and some women need to BE boss. You and your wife are fortunate that you found each other. Terrible things can happen when two bosses marry each other.

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At least you are together. My husband was a "Work going back to the office. He was the first one in and the last to leave. Every Saturday he was at his desk. And.

oh, how I resented it! Now he is goneafter 23 years of marriageand I am lost and lonely. Why do we let the unimportant things in our lives blind us to what is meaningful and precious? Why must we suffer a sudden tragedy before we can appreciate how good it was What does it matter if your husband enjoys his work so much that he'd rather do it than 15 other things? What does it matter if he throws his clothes around? What does it matter if he has to leave town two weekends in a row? he'll be home in a couple of days. won't he? We all think of widowhood as something that happens to other peopleuntil it happens to us. I was one of the most contented people in the world and didn't know it. IT'S BLACK OUT TIIERE DEAR BLACK: Your letter echoes the sentiments of this column.

I've been saying the same thing for years and have been called a traitor to my sex. Thanks for backing me up. if brancli 'N 1.,: .4,,, 1 i'it(vilt-ri A. -eP VMI 4C1 A i I I t' 1 1 Jt 11 I N' '1' tI4 MI smi i 1 ys 1 1 I lip li 1r 1 isri klit.raticli I .11111 4 DEAR ANN: Recently I received a nofice from the school asking for volunteer mothers to supervise the children during lunch hours so the teachers can have some "noontime quiet." My husband and I think this is preposterous. We feel when we send our children to school we have the right to expect the teachers to take charge.

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