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Great Falls Tribune Monday, Dec. 13, 1965 Dear It's a Trying Time! Abigail Van Buren drive-in for sandwiches. Don't get the idea we didn't appreciate folks sending in what they did, but at a time like that we would have appreciated some meat and potatoes a lot more. HAPPENED TO ME DEAR HAPPENED: Only if someone assumes the responsibility of taking charge of the food (a dubious honor for which few will volunteer), can this problem be solved. In the absence of such a coordinator, each friend and neighbor will -Ferguson photo Honeymoon In South Wolf Point's First Lutheran Church was the scene of th Nov.

14 wedding of Bertha Wall, daughter of Jacob D. Wall, Wolf Point, and Albert Harvey Karge, son of Mrs. Huldah Karge, Wolf Point. After a wedding trip in the South, they will live in Wolf Point. Karge is a farmer.

naturally bring whatever he finds easiest to prepare and within his budget. If one inquires, "What shall I bring?" suggestions can be made. Otherwise, the recipients should accept graciously whatever is brought and provide whatever is needed, but lacking, themselves. DEAR ABBY: I am sure that "CONFIDENTIAL TO PERPLEXED" was meant for me. Someone apparently wrote and asked if sending gifts with the price tags and sales slips enclosed was a "new-fangled custom" and if it was proper.

Your answer to both questions was a flat NO! I don't ordinarily send my gifts that way, Abby, but I have a niece who has exchanged every gift I have ever sent her, SO why should I bother to giftwrap them? The price is no secret because when she goest to exchange the gift, she finds out how much I paid for it anyway. If she's offended, it's just too bad. Don't ask me why I continue to send her gifts. I feel compelled to because her mother was so good to me, but that's another story. Since you printed her complaint, I hope you will print my explanation.

NO GIFT-WRAPPING DEAR NO: Since you feel "compelled" to give your niece gifts, why don't you save your energy and send her a gift certificate? Troubled? Write to ABBY. Box 69700, Los Angeles, Calif. For a personal reply, enclose a stamped, self-addressed envelope. For Abby's booklet. "How to Have a Lovely Wedding," send 50 cents to Abby, Box 69700, Los Angeles, Calif.

Funyak Photo MR. AND MRS. JOHN M. PEJKO Catholic Ceremony Joins Miss Talifson. John Pejko Loretta Jean Talifson.

daughter of Mrs. Irene Talifson, 1820 26th Ave. and John M. Pejko, son of Mr. and Mrs.

John Pejko. Stockett, were married Nov. 25 at Our Lady of Lourdes Church. Rev. James Dobbin was officiant.

The bride wore a white wool gown and carried red roses and white carnations. Judy Talitson. her only attendant, was gowned in blue velvet. Her flowers also DEAR ABBY: Recently we had a death in our family. Kind friends and neighbors carried in much appreciated food.

But. Abby, WHY don't friends and neighbors get together and plan what they should take? After all. who can use 15 cakes, pies. 12 dozen cookies and 8 bowls of jello salad? No one brought what we really needed. like chicken or meat and potatoes.

With seven carloads of out-of-town relatives to feed, we finally had to send out to a To Size 48 4876 SIZES 36-48 by Anne Helams The dress for all seasons-a slimming, side-buttoned wrap! Sew it In sheer wool, pebbly crepe, fine cotton and walk away with honors. Printed Pattern 4876: Women's sizes 36. 38. 40, 42, 44, 46, 48. Size 36 requires yards 45-inch fabric.

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50c. were red roses and white carnations. Duane Menghini was best man. The newlyweds. who honeymooned in Billings.

were honored at a reception at Our Lady of Lourdes Parish Center Dec. 5. They are making a home at 118 14th St. S. The bride attended the College of Great Falls and the groom is employed by the Anaconda Co.

The Petite Shoppe will be open 'til nine tonight but why Over the week end, we've added new dresses for women sizes 5 to 15 and 8 to 20 as well as new sweaters, skirts, capris. DO Cheaper by the Score NEW YORK (AP)-The trim brunette, neatly attired in brown knit, arrived exhausted after a day in Philadelphia. Homesick for California, she went to her hotel room, slipped on a robe and picked up the telephone to call the children: Rosemary, Louise, Colleen, Nicky, Thomas, Susan, Janette, Mary, Germaine, Jean, Veronica, Phillip, Gerald, Joseph, Teresa, Joan and Helen. Helen Beardsley is the mother of 20, the oldest 21 and the youngest 18 months. She doesn't look it, act it or talk it.

Only by specific questions would you know she cooks breakfast for 20 at 5:45 a.m., orders 35 loaves of bread a week, pays a monthly grocery bill around $1,000, and is an author. It was to promote her book, "Who Gets the Drumstick?" that she visited Philadelphia and New York recently. Five years ago Helen Beardsley was heartbroken and saddened, a widow with eight young children. Then came fate, a handsome Irishman named Frank, a widower with 10 children of his own. Their wedding combining families of 18 children was something of a nationwide fairy tale.

Since, the Beardsleys have had two more babies of their own, and three older boys have left for college and the Marines. She squelches critics. "We have much at our advant- Navy Man Takes Bride Kay Ellen Thompson and Richard Harold Ceynar of Havre were married Nov. 20 in Van Orsdel Methodist Church. He will be stationed in the Philippines for years, and she will join him next summer.

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