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10 II Friday, Sept. 8, 19 Calendar of Meetings VFW AUXILIARY Jgdies Auxiliary of Veterans oFForeign Wars 2257 will meet KSWiday at 7:30 p.m. at the Lodge. members will go to a local restaurant for refreshments after the meeting. KNOX COUNTY GENEALOGICAL SOCIETY Members of the Knox County Genealogical Society will meet Monday at 7 p.m.

in the Com- fljgnity Room of the Home Savings and Loan Association. All imiirested persons are invited fij'lttend this meeting. REPUBLICAN WOMEN'S CLUB Kihox County Republican Women's Club will meet Mon day, at 8 p.m. at the old Davis Food Store on Grand Avenue. Miss Chris Uhlmann will speak of her experience as a page at the Republican Convention" in Miami, Fla.

MOTC Mothers of Twins Ckib will meet Monday at 6:30 p.m. for the annual installation banquet to be at Galva Hotel. Reservations may be made with Mrs. Ardo Peterson, Rio, or Mrs. Harold Weeks at Galva.

Members are being reminded to brirjg clothing for the Applachia Mr til FARNHAM PTA members of Farnham School Parent-Teacher Association meet Monday at 7:30 p.m. utlhe school gymnasium, Mrs. Morris, librarian at Gafesburg Public Library, will speak on the topic, "Take Time tct'Seek Knowledge." A nursery wilf be provided. Miss Hoover- from page 9) Guests were registered by Mrs MiSe Cavanaugh, and gifts were iti.Charge of Mrs. Cleo their return from a wedding trip the couple will reside III.

The bride, a graduate of Monmouth High School attended Indiana Central College, Indinapolis, and graduated from Eastern IUhjois University in May of this 1 year. She is teaching in West Point. Her husband a YdEkwood High School graduate, attended Carl Sandburg College prior to his entrance into the Navy. In June, he completed years of service, and will ajtend Western Illinois Univer sity in Macomb this fall. 1 from page 9) Written by Pastor Book Offers Couples Help After Children Are Grown By LOUIS CASSELS United Press International Some years ago, the New Yorker magazine published a cartoon showing a middle-aged husband and wife staring Of God and Man lijisliiiiillliili Reside in Monmouth Mr.

and Mrs. Lowell Neal, who were married Aug. 26, reside in Monmouth. Wedding vows were exchanged at 7 p.m. at Coldbrook Christian Church where Rev.

Willard Morris of Heritage United Presbyterian Church, Monmouth, read the ceremony. Mrs. Neal, the former Rose Ann Zielke, is the daughter of Mr. and Mrs. James Zielke of near Monmouth, and her husband, the son of Mr.

and Mrs. Oscar Neal of Monmouth. Mr. Neal is employed as a carpenter, and Mrs. Neal, in the office of Dr.

Philip Sexton of Monmouth. Card Parties SOANGETAHA Women of Soangetaha Country Club had games of duplicate bridge Thursday afternoon at the clubhouse. North-south teams receiving high scores were Mrs. Hubert Dutell and Mrs. Merwyn Hill, first; Mrs.

Lowell Neveln and Mrs. B. B. Burford, second; Mrs. Myron Soupene and Mrs.

Wallis Baird, third, and Mrs. Robert Reed and Mrs. Arvid Schoning, fourth. East-west winners were Mrs. Richard Bishop and Mrs.

E. J. Dosing, first; Mrs. Chan West and Mrs. Harold Rogers, second; Mrs.

Blake Neeley and Mrs. Charles Fifield, third, and Mrs. Joe West and Mrs. Dale Gunther, fourth. ma and presented a penny for year of age.

Hugh White, president, conducted a business meeting at the budget for the year was presented and accepted. Refreshments were served by Circle 5 from a table centered with a large decorated birthday feaKe. Mrs. White and Mrs. Gene Johnson were accorded serving honors.

Be Recycled 'Contrary to popular belief, major cate- gpjey for all be re- At present, there is a San Diggo dairy making use of ground up polyethylene milk bottles to produce a useful drainage pipe and a New York Plastic container manufacturer is making hexagon-styled wine racks (for retail sale) from a blend of waste polystyrene beverage cups plus virgin raw materials. Tinge Valencia oranges grown in Arizona and California sometimes have a green tinge at the stejn end. It's caused by a natural and harmless phenomenon called regreening that occurs after the fruit has ripened, Both states have laws that prohibit artificial coloring of the fruR. BAND TOGETHER -fifth Graders If you jggss the music aptitude test your teacher will help you the correct instrument at GAMBLE MUSIC, halfway to McDonald's ea North Henderson Street. can rent a beginners hern BAND TOGETHER" LAKE BRACKEN Mrs.

Harold Young and Mrs. Fred Clark were hostesses for the women's bridge games Thursday afternoon at the Lake Bracken Country Club. Winners of high scores were Mrs. Kenneth Lane, high; Mrs. J.

E. Whitman, second, and tying for third were Mrs. Herbert Ericsson and Mrs. William Lewis, a guest. Hostesses for next week's bridge play, which will be preceded by a potluck luncheon, will be Mrs.

Russell Watson, Mrs. Henry Miles and Miss Hortense Gehring. NEWCOMERS ALUMNAE Newcomers Alumnae met Thursday afternoon for a bridge luncheon at Holiday Inn. Winners in the afternoon games were Mrs. LaClare Sloan, first, Mrs.

Wayne W. Wilson, second and Mrs. C. A. Vitale, third.

Never Totally Ersatz It has often been prophesied that we are headed for almost a total diet of processed or synthesized foods. This is not only undesirable but doubtful. Per capita consumption of fresh vegetables, other than potatoes, for example, has been relatively stable since I960. Flammability Standards Set For These Items URBANA-Your child's sleepwear is only one of a number of products affected by the new regulations under the Flammable Fabrics Act. Standards have been set for carpets and rugs; those for mattresses and blankets are underway.

A standard for surface flammability of large carpets and rugs is already in effect, reports a University of Illinois Extension specialist. Under its provisions, no broadloom or wall-to-wall carpet that fails to pass the burning "pill" test for flammability may be sold in interstate commerce. The pill test involves exposure of eight 9-inch square specimens to a pill that burns. If the fire spreads more than three inches in any direction from the location of the tablet, the specimen fails. Only one failure out of the eight is permitted.

Another standard covers small carpets and rugs defined as not more than six feet in the long dimension nor more than 24 feet in area. A small carpet that fails to pass the burning pill test may still be sold if it is permanently and prominently labeled, warning the consumer of the possible hazard involved. Standards for mattresses and mattress pads and for blankets are presently being refined. A report of the National Fire Protection Association has found that bedding fires cause 21 per cent of single fatalities in the home. A standard for mattresses and mattress pads is scheduled to go into effect after mid-1973.

It will require that all mattresses manufactured after that date be tested for flammability by i burning-cigarette test both di rectly in contact with the bare mattress and between two sheets on the mattress. somberly out the picture window of their suburban home. "Well, Doris," the husband says, "the children are grown and gone, and now it's just you versu me." There is wisdom as well as wit in that cartoon, according to the Rev. Frank A. Kostyu of Montclair, N.J.

Kostyu is a United Church of Christ minister who has had 20 years of experience in pastoral counseling. He believes one of the most dangerous periods in a marriage begins when the children Church SERVICES Wataga St. Richard Slavish, pastor. Sunday mass at 9:00 a.m. First Friday mass at 7:00 p.m.

Confessions before masses. Religion classes every Sunday at 9:45 for all grades. Victoria United Methodist- Raymond Bassett, pastor. Church school at 9. Worship serivce at 10:15.

Dahinda Calvary Bible Jospeh G. Buckley, pastor. Sunday school at 9:30. Worship at 10:45. Service at 7:30 p.m.

and service at 8 p.m. East Galesburg Community Chapel Raymond Marquith, pastor. Sunday school at 10. Worship at 11 a.m. Evening service at 7:30.

Wednesday, prayer service at 7:30. Stronghurst United Methodist Marvin C. Snapp, pastor. Church school at 10. Worship at 11.

Indoor Air Is Polluted NEW YORK (UPI) The air inside the average home is more polluted than the air outdoors, says Dr. Igho H. Korn- Fresh potato consumption hasibleuh, head of the Department Gerlaw Christian Church school at 9:30. Worship at 10:30. Wednesday service at 7:30 p.n.

Lynn Center Chapel David Lawton, pastor. Sunday school at 9:30. Worship at 10:45 a.m. Maxey Chapel United Methodist Raymond Bassett, pastor. Church school at 10.

Worship at 9. Center Prairie United Methodist Phillip Snider, pastor. Worship at 9:45. Church school at 9:30 a.m. Williamsfield United Methodist Phillip Snider, pastor.

Sunday school at 10. Worship at 11 a.m. Rapatee Union Smith D. Terpening, pastor. Sunday school at 9:30.

Worship at 10:30. Oneida United Presbyterian- Albert Murphy, pastor. Sunday school at 10. Worship at 11. Avon Federated Don C.

McMillan, pastor. Church school and worship at 10:30. Dahinda United Methodist Philip Snider, pastor. Worship at 9:50. Church school at 10:45 Altona Bethany Carlson, pastor.

Church school at 9:45. Worship at 11. Sermon: Building the Wall. Youth at 6 p.m. Service at 7 p.m.

Sermon: Working In Spite of Opposition. Altona Immanuel Lutheran Milton P. Engelhardt, pastor. Church school at 9:30. Worship at 10:45.

Church council Monday at 8 p.m. Saturday, catechetical class I at 9 a.m.; class II at 10:15 a.m. North Henderson United Methodist Paul Paskewitz, pastor. Church school at 9:30. Worship at 10:30.

MYF at 6:30 p.m. North Henderson Zion Lutheran Kenneth Knudsen. pastor. Worship at 9:30. Church school at 10:30.

Henderson Grove Messiah Lutheran Kenneth Knudsen, pastor. Church school at 10. Worship at 11. Alexis United Paskewitz, pastor. Worship at 9.

Church school at 10. Study Wednesday at 9 a.m. Alpha Baptist Ray Hamer, pastor. Church school at 9:30, Worship at 10:30. Alpha United Funk, pastor.

Church school at 9:45. Worship at 11. Andover United Methodist Don Funk, pastor. Worship 9. Church school at 10.

at Knoxville Good Samaritan Nursing school Saturday at 9:30. Worship at 11 a.m. Wednesday, prayer service at 7:30. United Church of Altona Stanley Rapp, pastor. Church school at 9.

Worship at 10. Stronghurst Bethel Lutheran Henry F. Neal, pastor. Church school at 9:30. Worship at 10:30, trended down but is still a full half of the total.

Fresh non-citrus fruit continues to be well over half the total of such fruit used. Per capita consumption of fresh citrus fruit is no longer Oneida United Methodist Albert Murphy, pastor. Worship at 9. Sunday school at 10. Wataga Faith Lutheran of Physical Medicine, Univer sity of Pennsylvania.

He added that indoor air polluters include the vapors from household, cleaners and polishes, whose'George Curran, pastor. Wor cumulative effect on those who' sni at 9:30. Sunday school at trending downward but has beenjinhale them is unknown. 110:30. quite stable since 1964.

Although) To avoid trouble, either keep! processed citrus juices are open and a fan blow-i Stronghurst United Presbyteri- ly convenient, there is still aing when using products that! an Dr. John C. Castle arge demand for fresh oranges, lemons, grapefruit, tangerines and other citrus, which have a distinctive taste all their own. give off fumes, or switch toipastor. Church school at 9:45.

Huge button earrings will be for wearing with fall's shorter i work, hair. iDry soda on a damp sponge 'makes an effective scouring Worship at 11. PYF at 6:30 p.m. Stronghurst Christian Loren of soda to a quart of water is K. Holt, pastor.

Worship at recommended for washing Church school at 10:30. tile and glass at 7:30 p.m. baking soda for many cleaning jobs. A solution of three tablespoons ir LET'S GO Ozark Vacation. i4 davs, 3 nightsi Sept.

30 thru Oct. 3. Price $97.00 each for a double. Highlights- Lake Ozark. National Festival of Ciaflsmen at Silver Dollar City the Shepherd of the Hill Courihv Play much more.

Ticket sale enfL Sept. 15 Pui- chas.e tickets at Randell's Garage. Iti52 Mon. Blvd or send check to Warren St. Ticket? sent bv return mail.

Ph. 343-9235 or 342-4356. Alexis St. Theresa Richard or polisher for pastor. Saturday mass iand stainless steel.

at 6 p.m. Sunday mass at 7 and ill am. Confession before all masses. Rio Presbyterian William Schlobohm, pastor. Church school at 9:30.

Worship at 10:40. Sermon: Youth and Adult Concerns. Youth at 6 p.m. New Windsor United Presbyterian Douglas Mankell, pastor. Church school at 9:15.

Worship at 10:30. New Windsor Calvary Lutheran Paul E. Holmer, pastor. Church school at 9:15. Worship at 10:30.

Greenbush Christian James Oliver, pastor. Church school at 10. Worship at 11. Missionary Society all-day meeting Sept. 12.

Greenbush Primitive Baptist Elder Orvel Prior, pastor. Services fourth Sunday in the month. September services Sept. 24. Worship at 10.

Lunch at noon. Service at 1:30 p.m. Victoria Reorganized Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints High Priest LaVerne Benson, pastor. Church school at 9:45. Worship at 11.

Wednesday service at home of Grace King at 8 p.m. Cameron Christian Ray Sheppard, pastor. Church school at 10. Worship at 11. Coldbrook Christian Fey Willey, interim pastor.

Church school at 10. Worship at 11. Sermon: Grace The Great Prize of Salvation. Bishop Hill United Methodist Enge, pastor. Community service at state park at 10:30.

Henderson United Methodist- Robert E. McDonald, pastor. Church school at 10. Worship at 11:15. Sermon: Coming Home.

Youth at 6:30 p.m. grow up and leave home Statistics bear out his impression: The divorce rate among couples married from 25 to 29 years is about 36 per cent. Kostyu Writes Book In an effort to help couples survive this traumatic period, Kostyu has written a book called "How to Spark a Marriage When the Kids Leave Home" (United Church Press) It's full of down-to-earth insights and practical advice, Unlike many other writers of marriage manuals, Kostyu does not proceed on the premise that maintaining (or recovering) a gung-ho sex life is the primary need of middle-aged couples. On the Contrary, he says, "In middle age, affection and companionship are as important as the sex act. Couples in the empty-nest period discover that sexual needs can be greatly satisfied with a highly developed love component whether or not it culminates in sexual intercourse." What is imperative, he says, is to maintain (or recover) a sense of closeness and intimacy, and the ability to communicate with one another.

Ample Opportunities "Messages between a married couple can be sent in a variety of ways," he says. "By the time the middle years roil around there are ample opportunities to practice once again the old courtship techniques which say, 'No matter what happens, I love you and care for "Both husband and wife can do some thought ul things to express this a fond glance, listening with interest and without interruption to one's mate, bringing home an unexpected gift, playfully pinching or touching a sensitive spot, kissing the back of the neck, wearing a new perfume, placing a bowl of flowers on the table, eating in the dining room instead of the kitchen, building a fire in the fireplace on a cold evening, using a double bed instead of twin beds, calling in the middle of the day, eating dinner in a restaurant that has romantic atmosphere, volunteering to do some little job you know your spouse dislikes (such as taking out the trash) Any of these little gestures can heighten communication and invigorate a marriage." Quarrels Inevitable Occasional quarrels are inevitable, Kostyu says, and "can play a constructive part" in marriage. Without blowing off steam in an occasional quarrel, he says, "couples are likely to discover that they are harboring unexpressed hostility or resentment" that can lead to a complete breakdown of communications. But he lays down some ground rules for "healthy" quarrels. Rule No.

1 is "Don't quarrel when you've been drinking." You are apt to say things that will be "hard to forget or forgive." Other rules are: Never quarrel late at night, when you are tired and not thinking too clearly. Don't argue in a car- it's a good way to have an accident. And even in a heated dispute, never stoop to name calling. "Referring to one's wife as a 'bitch' or one's husband as a 'stubborn jackass' serves no effective purpose," says the New Jersey pastor. Gentry-, fa Dear Penny, This problem concerns the off -and -on discussion of streets and the condition thereof.

For a long time I 've been puzzled about who 's responsible for checking on holes placed in the streets by various companies or groups. We had a nicely finished street, and in the past two years several holes have been dug. While these holes were filled, they either sunk or popped up, making for a very poor street. Isn't there some way to make these people fix the holes without city taxpayers having to pay for the poor work? Who is responsible for keeping records on such things and checking on them? Taxpayer Who Hates to Pay Twice Dear Taxpayer, I am convinced that somewhere in this city there is a hole- digging crew whose sole job it is to find a nice, smooth stretch of street (preferably one that has been re-surfaced in the last year) and dig a hole. The holp remains until the hole-filling crew finds it, and then the whole cycle starts again.

I know it would be impossible to avoid some duplication, but the hole-digging frequency in this town just has to be way above the hole-diggers' national average. I would think it would make sense if some attempt could be made to coordinate hole-digging and maybe even make one hole for two projects. Dear Penny, One year ago last July I was having a little party. Since it was a little hot, we were sitting outside. listening to music and talking.

I 'm not saying we weren't a llttue loud, but the neighbor man stuck his head out the door and said, damn kids better quiet down." A friend of mine told him to mind his own business, and the neighbor told him, "Come over here and say that." So they went over and got into fisticuffs with the neighbor. Now I 'm not saying this is the right thing to do, but the point I want to make is that the next day my wife and I went over to apologire. and they wouldn't accept the apology. They told us were good Christians. Being a good Christian, she has spread rumors and lies about what happened.

The woman now has a job working for the little villge where I live. The other day a friend who has just moved to town was at this woman's house taking care of business when this "good Christian" started telling her about what happened more than a year ago. She made it look like I had done all the wrong. I don't believe this is any way for a public servant to act. I don't be'ieve a good Christian would carry a grudge against a person who had nothing to do with the incident.

I told her when I went over to apoligize that I couldn 't be responsible for the actions of people at the party. To this day she hasn't spoken to us. That doesn't matter, but what makes us mad is that she keeps telling everyone who hasn't heard about what happened more than a year go. Fed Up With Gossip Dear Fed Up, Some apology! Your guests go over and bop your neighbor in the nose because he complains about your noise, and you go and apologize by saying it's not your fault. You should have had sense enough to turn down the music and the conversation without being told or move it inside hot or not.

And I'll bet you could have cooled off your loudmouth friends, too, if you'd made an honest effort. I agree with you that carrying a grudge is not a good idea and never benefits anyone. When you go next door and make a sincere apology and try to patch up your friendship, then I'll listen to your gripe! Scarves for are up to new fall and winter tricks in vibrant Avon United Methodist plaids and paisleys, often pat- a Nordstrom, pastor, lerned to match dresses. The Church school at 10. Worship at oblong is the shape most likely 9.

tu succeed. Methodist Men's Program Is Set Rev. Dr. Nicholas Hood, a black member of the Detroit, City Council and pastor of Plymouth United Church of Christ in Detroit, will be featured speaker at the annual Central Illinois Conference United Methodist Men's retreat at East Bay Camp, Lake Bloomington, Sept. 9-10.

The Detroit clergyman will be joined by The God Squad, a traveling troupe from Viola, during the 2-day event which is expected to attract 600 Methodist laymen. Topics including drug use and other problems facing churchmen in a secular world will be discussed. Go To Ringling Bros. Barnum Bailey Circus, Sunday, Ocl. 81h.

In Chicago at the Intet national Amphitheatre. Price $14.65 includes Reserved seat. ins. and trans. Purchase tickets at Randell's Garage.

1652 Mon. Blvd. or send check to 723 Warren St. Tickets sent by return mail. Ph.

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