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Society Glubs and Organizations Local News Delta Zetas Plan 'Flame Dance' The Gamma Theta chapter of Delta Zeta sorority at Carroll college will hold its annual "Flame Dance" formal this Saturday night, in the Log Cabin ballroom, it was announced today by Helen Harney, Milwaukee, social chairman. Forty couples will attend the traditional dance from 9 to 12 p.m. Highlight of the dance will be the selection of a "Flame cf the Year" among the men either pinned or engaged to a DZ. He will receive a lighter as prize. Music will be provided by Hank Stevens, a young Milwaukee singer, and Johnny Walters and his orchestra.

Punch and cookies will form the refreshments. Chaperones include Dr. and Mrs. G. Roedel, Mr.

and Mrs. J. L. Adams, Miss Jean Kilgour, and M. G.

Becker. Marilyn Peoria, 111., is president of the DZ's. Church News FIRST BAPTIST The Dorothy Wiley circle will meet at the home of Mrs. Paul Eisele. 612 Arcadian Friday, Feb.

5, at 1:30 p.m. Roger Williams and Judson circles will meet Friday at 9:30 a.m. A pancake breakfast will be served. FIRST CONGREGATIONAL The Love circle will meet Friday, Feb. 5, at 12:30 p.m.

at the home of Mrs. H. R. Randle. Mrs.

James Birthrong is the co-hostess. ST. LUKE'S Children's choir rehearsal will be at 3:30 m. Friday. Junior choir will hold a swimming party from 7-9 p.m.

Friday A general meeting of WSCS will be held Friday with a 1 p.m. dessert luncheon in the church dining room. The Shiveler circle is in charge. Guest speaker will be Mrs. James Carter, Milwaukee, will speak on "Racial Brotherhood." Hospital Notes The following Waukesha county persons are listed on the records of St.

Mary's hospital, Watertown: BIRTHS A daughter to Mr. and Mrs. Joseph Foltz, Dousman. Admitted Mrs. Agnes Mielcarek, Oconomowoc.

Herman Raser, 604 Cottonwood ave Hartland. Mrs. Emil Schaefer, 638 Sherman Oconomowoc. Discharged Mr. and Mrs.

Edward Andrews, Oconomowoc route 4. Mrs. Theodore Grulke a daughter, 203 Elm Oconomowoc. Mrs. Robert Daebel and Oconomowoc route 3.

Mrs. Elizabeth Evans. Ixonia. Mrs. Arthur Schraudenbach, Ckauchee.

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Install Officers At Tent Meeting The Mary Barker Smith Gushing Tent No. 2, Daughters of Union Veterans of the Civil War held heir regular meeting Monday evening at the home of Mrs. Dana Deitz. At the close of the meet- ng, newly elected and appointed! ifficers were installed. They were Mrs.

Dana Deitz, Mrs. Lyle Salter, sr. vice- Miss Ida Howard, jr. vice Mrs. Carl Round, chaplain; Vliss lone Thomas, Bliese, Mrs.

M. Burow and Mrs. Frank Perkins, council mem- jers; Mrs. Loleta Bliesath, patriotic instructor; Mrs. Mildred Jerk, guide; Miss Mary Wood, Mrs.

M. Burow, press; Mrs. Jeorge Blume, guard; Mrs. P. C.

Ryan, Mrs. David Badinger, Mrs. ie Dahms, Mrs. Maybelle Jarden, color bearers; Miss Lila Arthur, historian. Miss Wood served as installing officer; Mrs.

Badiner, installing guide and Mrs. Burow, installing chaplain. In appreciation for her service, the president was presented with a from the Tent. The installing officer presented gifts to her installing guide and chaplain. A social hour followed the business session.

The next regular meeting will be leld at 7:30 p.m. Monday evening, iTeb. 15. at the home of the president, Mrs. Deitz, 140 S.

Charles st. Mrs. Alhard A. Leisten (O'Bie O'Brien Photo) Miss Marilyn Meidenbauer in Nuptials With Alhard Leisten St. Joseph's Catholic church was the scene of the wedding on Saturday, Jan.

30, of Miss Marilyn Meidenbauer, daughter of Mrs. William Meidenbauer, 120 Fairmont a and the late Mr Meidenbauer, to Alhard A. Leisten. His parents are Mr. and Mrs.

Alhard Leisten 808 Pleasant st. The Rev. Edward Eschweiler performed the 9 a.m. nuptial mass and the boys choir sang. A reception from 2-5 m.

at the VFW hall, honored the bridal couple. Miss Meidenbauer wore a floor length nylon tulle gown, with ap- pliques of satin flowers and pearls scattered on the skirt. Wide pleated tulle ruffles trimmed the bottom of the skirt and the short train, which was made so it could be fastened at the waistline to give a bustle effect, during the reception. Pleated bands of tulle crossed to form the deep V-neckline, trimmed with appliqued flowers. Her veil was secured to a half hat of satin, net and pearls to match her gown.

She carried a bridal bouquet formed of sprays of stephanotis, centered with a white orchid corsage. The bride chose the groom's sister, Miss Marion Leisten to be her maid of honor. Mrs. Lawrence McGeen, the bride's sister and Miss United Nations Reasonable Hope, Speaker States An official observer of the United Nations, Mrs. William Tonkin, Milwaukee, spoke to members of the Ideal club Tuesday.

Her subject was "The United Nations, a Reasonable Hope Mrs. Tonkin stressed the fact that through the United Nations, 60 nations can sit down at the conference table, talk over their difficulties and differences and may come to some logical and agreeable understanding. "The world is divided into three groups, Western. Eastern and the Soviet satellites." she said, "but they all work together in the general assembly." This is the "first time in history, humanity has become concerned with humanity around the world. Home, church and school must develop Christian characteristics and devotion to high ideals, in children, so they may go out into the world with these ideals.

Then we will have a warless world," the speaker stated. She opened her talk by describing this-'age as the atomic age, which during the next 15-25 years will be as different from the age we are living in as we are now, in relation to the Middle Ages. She spoke of three groups of people those that fear, those that ignore and "Those realists as as idealists who accept the atomic power as a challenge td ingenuity. These are the people who say we have a reasonable hope in the United Nations." Mrs. Tonkin is also a member of the board of National Christian World, National Council of Christians and Jews who gave her a traveling fellowship to Israel and an honorary member of Hadassah, in Milwaukee.

The meeting was held at the home of Mrs. John Weaver, 510 McCall st. Guests for the afternoon were Mrs. Clinton Breese, Mrs. Morris Lumb and Mrs.

T. W. Weaver. Gloria Weller were the bridesmaids. They all wore green strapless gowns, featuring velvet bodices and jackets, with net skirts.

They fitted head bands with clusters of flowers at one side and carried spray bouquets of yellow mums. Best man for the groom was Robert Wedyck. Lawrence McGeen and Roger Koebler were the ushers. The bride's mother was attired in a navy blue faille dress and had a corsage of pinnochio roses The groom's mother pinned a similar bouquet to her cocoa brown rayon dress. For the honeymoon trip to Illinois the bride selected a champagne colored knit suit with rust accessories.

Previous to the wedding, the bride-to-b'e was honored at parties given by Miss Luceal Weigand Mrs. Lawrence McGeen, Mrs James Stanfield, Mrs. James Storck and Miss Marion 'Leisten Both of the young people are Waukesha high school graduates The bride is employed as a secre tary at the Veterans admimstra tion hospital and the groom is em ployed by the US post office. Thej will make their home at 916 Black stone ave. Musical Comedy Was Feature of Musicale Program Theme of the program at th.

meeting of the Waukesha Musicale Tuesday evening, was "Musica Comedy." Mrs. Robert Ruzick and Mrs. M. S. Nowick were in charge of the presentaiton.

An interesting survey of the his tory of musical comedy was given by Mrs. Ruzicka followed by the following selections taken frorr various productions through th jears: From "Sally" written by Jerom. Kern in 1920, Margaret Maynard sang "Look for the Silver Lining. From "A Connecticut Yankee' by Rogers and Hart, 1927, "Thou Swell" was sung by Irene Sylveste and "My Heart Stood Still," bj Mrs. Nowick.

Taken from "As Thousand Cheer" by Irving Berlin, 1933 John Boyd sang "Easter "Roberta" by Kern, 1933, gave to music lovers, "Yesterdays" which was sung by Mrs. Ruzicka and "Lovely to Look At" played as a saxophone solo by Dr. M. S. Nowick.

From "Annie Get Your Gun. by Berlin, 1946, Mrs. Nowick sang "It's Wonderful." Rogers and Hamrnerstein. 1943 gave the world "Oklahoma" and John Boyd sang "Oh What a Beau tiful Morning" and Margaret May nard sang "People Will Say We're in Love." The audience joined in singing "Oklahoma." From 1945, "The Use of Worrying" was sung bj Mrs. Ruzicka.

Dr. Nowick on the saxophone presented "You'll Never Walk Alone." From current times "South Pa cific" had "This Nearly Was Mine' and "Some Enchanted Evening' both sung by Carl Gilmeister. The accompanists were Mrs. Ru dolph Seifert, Mrs. Mrs Ruzicka and Walter Derthick.

Hostess committee for the even ing was the Mmes. E. Grosskopf L. Hawkins, George Lawler L. M.

Hill, Andrew Malone anc the Misses Olive Douglas, Gretchen Grosskopf and Celia Miller. Will Discuss Heart On Week's Broadcast Brotherhood in Action will present the third in a series, about Waukesha community chest supported agencies, when it brings to ihe air, Friday, Mack Hoffman, information director of the Wisconsin Heart association. This is National Heart month and Mrs. Israel and her guest will discuss "Your Child's Heart and Your Own." Discussion will be held on such questions as: Is research being carried on? What happens to the funds collected? Is a community service jiven? How does rheumatic fever leavents victims? How do you live with heart disease? This latest series of Brotherhood in Action broadcasts are heard over WAUX at 1:05 m. on Fridays.

This latest series is a tribute to the citizens of Waukesha for recognizing the needs of the community by meeting'the goal of our community chest drive. In order that the work of the eleven agencies be continued it, is essential that all make sure that their pledges are paid in full. Members Give Reports About Club Projects" Reports were given on the various activities of the Waukesha Service club, at a meeting, held Monday, Feb. 1, at the Women's club. Mrs.

Joseph O'Connell, chairman of the Visiting Nurse board, spoke .0 the members about plans to publicize the services offered by the nurses in the city. This service is available to all residents. Nurses provide general nursing and maternity care to patients during illness at home or after hospitalization. The Visiting Murse service is not designed for one specific kind of care or for charity cases only, but is meant to aid anyone who may be in need of nurses' care. The Visiting Nurse is available to give baths, change surgical dressings, administer certain hypodermics upon order of the physician, or to teach some other member of the family how to care for the patient between the nurse's visits.

The office of the Visiting Nurse service, in the Edison School building, is open daily from 8 a.m. to 5 p.m. to receive calls for the nurses who may be contacted at 4064. Tuesday, March 9, and Thursday, March IS. are the dates announced by Mrs.

C. H. Harwood for the next Blood Donor Mobile units to be held at the Elks club. The Blood Donor club supplied blood for 78 transfusions and blood plasma for five patients during January. Mrs.

Frederick Miller reported that the Thrift shop is in need of more articles, especially children's clothing. According to Mrs Paul Mantz, library chairman, 208 books and 167 magazines were distributed to patients in the Waukesha Memorial hospital. Mrs. William Schock, hours chairman, stated that Service club members contributed 183 hours during the past month in the club's various projects, which include Visiting Nurse, Waukesha Memorial hospital, Thrift shop, Welfare work, and Blood Donor club. Mrs.

William Schock, Mrs. Donald Hinckley and Mrs. Frederick Miller acted as hostesses. The senior league was represented by Mrs. E.

R. Announce Birth Mr. and Mrs. Herbert Hitter, Wisconsin Rapids announce the birth of a son, Herbert George HI, at Riverview hospital, in that city, on Feb. 3.

The paternal grandparents are Mr. and Mrs. Herbert Putter, 804 N. East ave The maternal grandparents are Mr. and Mrs.

William Me Kern, Milwaukee. WINTER PICNIC--When Mrs. a Heim, 414 Frame ave. (standing) made a picnic table the class decided to have a picnic. From left, around the table they are Mrs.

Albert Samsel, Brookfield, Mrs. 0. B. Smith, 115 N. West ave; Miss Minnie Hooper Palmyra; Mrs.

L. R. Funk, 806 S. Grand; Mrs. (Freeman Staff Photo) John Kefsey, Eagle; Mrs.

Homer J. Williams, 130 Frame Miss Clara Gysel, 210 Maple Miss Martha Schacke, 605 Center st; and Mrs. Edith La Sure, 114 S. Grand ave. Leo Peterson is the instructor at the Lindholm adult and vocational school located here in Waukesha.

Plan Youth Service The Waukesha Christian Youth council is sponsoring an interdenominational youth service on Sunday, February 7, at 7 o'clock in St. Luke's Lutheran Church. The message, entitled "Death of will be given by the Rev. Don C. Westfall.

There will be special music by the chancel choir of St. Luke's Church, New council officers will also be installed. All youth groups of the city are cordially invited to attend, as well as any interested individuals. TELL OF TROTH--Announcement of the engagement of their daughter, Janis Kay Nelson, to Pvt. Wayne D.

Home, Sussex, is made by Mrs. Robert Hanney, Butler and Harold Nelson, Menomonee Falls. Pvt. Home is the son of Mr. and Mrs Melvin Home.

The couple plans to be married in February when he will be home on leave. Ifs a Date with Local Organizations CARD PARTY The Lourds group of the Married Ladies sodality of St. Mary's church, Menomonee Falls, will hold a card party in the school auditorium, Sunday. Feb. 7 at 8 p.m.

Everyone is welcome. PYTHIAN SISTERS The Pythian Sisters will hold a public card party Friday. Feb. 5, at 8 p.m. at the Knights of Pythias hall, Maple ave.

Everyone is invited. BOX SOCIAL The Knights of Pythias are sponsoring a box social, Saturday at 8 p.m. at their Castle hall, Maple ave. Pythian Sisters and the public are cordially invited. Women are asked to prepare a lunch for two and tie it i a fancy bow.

The man who buys the box gets the owner for a dinner partner. An evening of fun is promised. SQUARE DANCING Square dancing will be conducted at the and hall, Mukwonago. Sat. Feb.

6, from p.m. It is open to the public and square dancers, guest callers and spectators are invited. Mrs. and Mrs. George Stuberg are the callers.

Women Work on Individual Projects In Unique Class About ten women attend a class in woodworking, each week at the Lindholm Adult and Vocational school. They work on individual projects that interest them and that will improve their homes. They are taught the fundamentals of how to fix things themseh es and how to use the various tools and machines available to them. Lto Peterson is the teacher. Some of the class members are new this season, but many are veterans of several seasons.

Dressed in jeans, slacks, plaid shirts or whatever garb they like, the women meet informally and work on their projects Perhapa most outstanding among these now, is the picnic table which Mrs. Freeman Heim is just completing. Mrs. Heim, whose husband is connected with forestry work, is something of an outdoor woman and she is getting ready for the season ahead, making preparations for comfortable outdoor living. The picnic table is eight feet long and four feet wide, made so it can be knocked down for easy storing.

It is of western fir and pine with benches attached. The wood has been treated with a preservative but no stain. The job, which started in November, is now almost ready for the outdoors and so called for H. celebration a picnic in the woodworking shop. As one of the members stated, they subst-'tutcd pine shavings-for pine needles and came to class laden with picnic hampers, thermos jugs, ckae and pie containers and olive Lotties and had their party on the new picnic table.

Other class tasks, in the stage of doing, are varied. Mrs. La Sure is recaning a chair and Mrs. Funk is upholstering one. Mrs.

Smith is making new wooden handles fcr a sterling silver salad set and is doing some upholstering too. Mrs. Schultz is making a round coffee table and Mrs. Kelsey is making an end table. Miss Gysel is refinishing some dining room chairs.

Mrs. Williams, also with an eye on the approaching season, is making porch boxes. The class, which at present is made up of women, is open to men also. The sessions last three hours, each Tuesday. Party Given for Mrs.

C. Wehren Mrs. Catherine Wehren was honored on her 83rd birthday by a party Tuesday evening, Feb. 2, at the home of her son and daughter- in-law, Mr. and Mrs.

Walter Wehren, 118 Harrison ave. Guests were her two daughters and their husbands, Mr. and Mrs. Victor R.utzinski, Waukesha and Mr. and Mrs.

William Genac, Milwaukee; a grandson and his wife, Mr. and Mrs. Roman Rutzinski; two granddaughters and their husbands, Mr. and Mrs. George Bradee and Mr.

and Mrs. LeRoy Um- nuhs, all of Waukesha and five great grandchildren. One grandchild, Miss Alberta Genac, Milwaukee, could not be present. Refreshments, including a birthday cake were served and among the gifts was a bouquet of red roses from the great grandchildren. Another highlight of Mrs.

Wehren's birthday was a card from. Mrs. Dwight Eisenhower. One of the family members had previously written to the president's wife, informing her of the birthday of a life long Republican. Why Need Menfol Healffi BY DR.

ERVIN TEPLIN Medical Director Waukesha County Child Guidance Clinic This question has no doubt been posed in many communities in the last decade, including Waukesha county. And even after such a need was recognized, and action taken to implement it, there remained the problem of (1) informing those citizens who had previously not been exposed to this data (2) justifying the continued need to the population who have no direct working contact with such a clinic. Since the information concerning case histories must remain confidential, there is no opportunity to demonstrate concretely the work that is done. Only by indirection then, could a community learn about a clinic and its functions. These include (1) old statistics (2) meeting the staff members and gaining from such contact an idea of their personalities and of the rationale of their work.

A question frequently asked and a subject occasionally misinterpreted is: What happens when Johnny's mother brings his problem to the Child Guidance Clinic? The first contact with the clinic team is that with the psychiatric social worker, a person trained to orient the family with the Clinic procedure and to evoke a meaningful history from the parent. Several of such interviews may be required before the next step, staff discussion of the case. Here a tentative determination is made of the diagnosis, the seventy of the problem, the degree of need for treatment, and a plan of disposition. The mother may then be' seen again by any member of the staff, depending on the specific problem involved. The staff psychiatrist, for instance, may interview her or the child at this point.

The child is seen by a staff member, who utilizing playroom techniques, encourages the child to feel comfortable and relaxed and thereby in a position to reveal his personality to the examiner. This may also include specific psychological test procedures, if the examiner is the psychologist on the team. After an evaluation has been completed-and it may require several visits by the child the situation is again discussed at staff, where several alternatives are possible. It may be determined that the case either does not warrant, or possibly could not benefit from therapeutic effoits by the clinic team. The clinic makes whatever recommendations might be indicated to alleviate the problem presented, such as leferial to other community agencies.

The case may require therapy. The child is seen by one staff member, while the mother is seen concurrently by another. At some times in the course of the-evaluation or the treatment, the father may also be interviewed The child treatment is usually carried on in the playroom, where he may choose at will, whatever medium he feels most comfortable in his play, the medium he selects is considered by the therapist as his way of communicating his desires, his fears, his joys, his conflicts i e. his personality. The therapist strnes to utilize this communication and likewise attempts to return the communication at the child's level, in way may be considered meaningful by the child.

In this way. he develops trust and this is the basis for the emotional growth that is manifested in the treatment. At the Waukesha Clinic, the interviews with the parent are usually earned on by the psychiatric social worker or the psychiatrist. In these, the parent is stimulated to describe the child, his activities, the home setting, conflicts and problems which may be affecting the child directly or indirectly. As this progresses, the parent has an opportunity to review the pertinent facts and the attitudes attached to them, and consequently comes to see the child in a more objective light.

The parent may otherwise be seen in another setting instead of an interview individually with the staff worker, a group of about six parents convene together periodically under the leadership of a staff member. This is the. Group Therapy approach. In spite of a natural reluctance to be candid and open in groups, the parents come to recognize that others in the group feel similarly about their children's problems, and soon find; Present Program The PEO Record was the basis for the program of Chapter AQ PEO Sisterhood, Monday afternoon, at the home of Mrs. Erlmg Larsen, 419 E.

Broadway. Each member read her faxorite quotation from the Record. Bits of poetry, rules for daily living day by day, stories, essays and prayers were given by the members. Mrs. G.

Aubrey Young, program chairman, who presented the program, introduced the program with an original poem. Mrs. C. M. Gustine was the assistant hostess.

themselves stimulated to approach their problems under this new light. These are not lectures, nor are they classes or clubs--they are frank and earnest discussions by the parents, with some purposefully deft direction by the group therapist. The following general statements also apply to the clinic treatment generally: 1. Many parents consider that the "treatment" consists in the staff answering the parent's questions, or in providing them with advice. In our clinic today, this is not the case.

Rather, the goal is to encourage and stimulate the parent to bring out and review his feimgs and attitudes, and to enhance the quality and extent of communication between the various members of the family. Then, the defeat is considered not to be the lack of but the faulty communications of feelings where the child is concerned. 2. The case load is high and a waiting list for treatment cases has been established. It can be seen from the description of the evaluation and treatment process, that each case consumes a considerable amount of time.

This is only one part of the Clinic function although the most important part. But the Clinic also serves: a) to disseminate to the community, information about mental health and its problems in cooperation with the Child Guidance committee. b) to contribute their specific approach and background toward the solution of community problems; this entails conferences with the representatives of welfare departments, courts, police, nursing and physicians. c) to provide internships for social workers from the University of Wisconsin. Another goal, as yet unaccomplished, should be to carry on pertinent research projects, which in the largest sense will be the ultimate source of information and techniques to provide new inroads into the problems of mental 31 health Waukesha Daily Freeman Thursday, February 4, 1954 Page 5 'i C..