Daily Press from Newport News, Virginia • Page 9

DAILY PRESS, NEWPORT NEWS, VIRGINIA, MONDAY MORNING, SEPTEMBER 7, 1970 9 ADVICE FROM ANN Harrup- Belch Rites Kids First' Bad Practice yours was rifts. Let's hope among them. matching bow with veil and she carried a bouquet of white carnations accented with blue streamers. Bridesmaids were Mrs. David Belch of Hayes, sister-in-law of the bride, and Miss Diane Harrup of Denbigh, sister of the bridegroom.

They wore dresses of pastel pink batiste with matching headpieces and carried bouquets of white carnations with pink streamers. Jack West of Gloucester Point was best man. Groomsmen were David Belch of Hayes, brother of the bride, and Lee Newell of Newport News. A reception was held in the social hall of the church. Mr.

and Mrs. Harrup will make their home at Bena. Miss Brenda Diane Belch, daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Willie Vance Belch of Hayes, Gloucester County, became the bride of Millard Wayne Harrup, son of Mr.

and Mrs. Millard Edward Harrup of Denbigh, September 6 in Deliverance Church of God, Newport News. The Rev. Eugene Bradley officiated. Given in marriage by her father, the bride wore an empire gown of lace and satin with Chantilly lace bodice and sleeves.

Her train of Chantilly lace was attached at the waistline. Her veil of illusion fell from a crown of pearls and she carried a bouquet of white carnations. Mrs. Warren Gibbs of Hayes, sister of the bride, was matron of honor. She wore a pastel blue floor length dress of batiste with white lace trim.

Her headpiece was a lieve them but now I'm sure everything I've heard (and then some) is true. Yesterday my friend asked for my advice. I told her I just couldn't advise her. The girl he is mixed up with this time is married to a man my husband does a lot of business with. My friend left angry.

She said I had failed her. Have After all, Ann, when a woman's husband sells insurance she can't afford to take sides. Please say I did the right thing. Dear Ann Landers: My husband and I moved to this very lovely apartment about seven months ago. I have become a close friend of a darling woman who lives in this building also.

She has opened many social doors for us and her husband has sponsored my husband in a club which has helped us business-wise. This darling woman is having trouble in her marriage. I've heard some wild stories about her husband and other women. I didn't want to be Dear Bon: You did the right thing but probably for the wrong reasons. Friendship does not carry the obligation to become involved in one another's family problems.

If the darling woman would care to write to me, I will try to help her. My husband doesn't sell insurance. How will you know when the real thing comes along? Ask Ann Landers. Send for her booklet, "Love Or Sex And How To Tell The Difference." Send 35 cents in coin and a long, self-addressed, stamped envelope with your request to the Daily Press, P. O.

Box 746, Newport News, Va. 23607. MM ef'FA Club Meetings Slated for school fashions DAN RIVERS "NUBBY DAN" MRS. M. W.

HARRUP First Presbyterian Church, Newport News, will meet at the church on Tuesday at 10:30 a.m. (r 1 WOVEN FANCIES SOLIDS great new campus colors Never iron cotton Fortrel Polyester Dear Ann Landers: I was shocked by your insensitivity to the feelings cf that 13-year-old girl who didn't want to leave her friends and move to Omaha. When will you (and thousands of other parents) consider the effects on children of not being able to establish roqts and stability in a neighborhood and with friends? When will a father say to a boss, "I feel my family's cohesion and identity is more important than that salary increase. Please be more considerate of the child's feelings. You ask that the girl "turn off the waterworks." Well, this doesn't change how she feels.

It merely encourages the child to avoid expressing her feelings and we already have enough schzoid quality in American society. I hate to see that kind of advice in a "human relations" column. Mr. J.P.S. Bureau of Children's Services, Trenton, N.J.

Dear. Mr. J.P.S. Sorry, I don't agree. Why should a father pass up an opportunity for advancement because his child doesn't want to leave her friends? What about his feelings? Don't they count? I firmly believe much of the parents are having with their children (and campuses with their students) is the result of the child-centered family structure you are advocating.

There has been too much indulgence, too much catering, too much "putting the kids first." There is plenty of evidence that kids who have been raised this way are hopelessly messed up. Most children hate to leave their friends and move to a strange city. Adults don't like it either. But people grow stronger as the result of challenges and are all the better for having faced them. Dear Ann Landers: I want to publicly apologize to my husband for being such a jackass.

Please print this message. He'll know it is for him. Honey, forgive me. I was wrong and I am sorry. Your dumb cluck wife.

Dear Cluck: Congratulations- Y8u have just performed one of the most difficult tasks known to the human race. And in the process, you have unquestionably healed approximately five million marital machine wash 35736" wide yd. MRS. G. P.

GRIFFITH Griffith-Alt man Wedding The marriage of Miss Jill Dorene Altman, daughter of the Rev. Jack Altman of Charles City and the late Mrs. Macon Altman of Fredericksburg, to Gerald Powell Griffith, son of Mr. and Mrs. Andrew Starling Griffith of Kinston, N.C., took place Sep-tember 5 at Mt.

Pleasant Baptist Church in Charles City. The Rev. Milton L. Snyder of North Run Baptist Church in Richmond officiated. The bride was given in mar-" riage by her father.

1 Miss Suzanne Marion Hula of Charles City was maid of honor. Other attendants were Miss Linda Diane Wills of Shackelford Vows Spoken On Sunday Union Baptist Church at Achilles in Gloucester County was the setting September 6 for the marriage of Miss Janet Lynn Vaught and Wiley Clark Shackelford. Miss Vaught is the daughter of Mrs. O. T.

Vaught of Hayes and the late Mr. Vaught. Mr. Shackelford is the son of the late Mr. and Mrs.

W. Douglas Shackelford of Pen-in. The double ring ceremony was performed by the Rev. Hammond Robins Jr. The bride, given in marriage by her brother, S.

Glen Vaught of Hampton, wore an A-line gown of lace over satin fashioned with a high round neckline, princess seaming and long bell-shaped sleeves of lace with a scalloped edge. Her veil of French illusion fell from a miniature pearl tiara. She carried a lacecovered prayer book centered with a white orchid. Miss Carol J. Bowling of Newport News, niece of the bride, was maid of honor.

She wore a gown of white eyelet over pale yellow taffeta and matching headpiece. She carried a colonial bouquet of yellow carnations and pompons with moss green streamers. W. Douglas Shackelford Jr. of Penin, brother of the bridegroom, was best man.

Groomsmen were C. Karl Vaught of Knoxville, brother of the bride, and E. T. Williams of Lee hall, uncle of the bridegroom. A reception was held at the Gloucester Yacht Club.

Mr. and Mrs. Shackelford will make their home at Hayes. I lift? Literacy Council The board of directors of the Peninsula Literacy Council will meet Tuesday at 9:30 a.m. at the Council office, 10369 Warwick Boulevard.

Plans will be formulated for a Peninsula-wide literacy week to be held Oct. 12-17. Hampton Roads The Hampton Roads Garden Club will meet Tuesday at 10:30 a.m. at the home of Mrs. A.

F. Colonna 135 Hampton Roads Ave. Mrs. Herbert V. Kelly will preside.

Elizabeth Lakes The Elizabeth Lake Estates Garden Club will meet Tuesday at 10 a.m. at the home of Mr. Thomas Kelly on Hedge-lawn Court. Mrs. Henry G.

Parker will be cohostess. A workshop will be held to prepare for the "Fall Festival." Mrs. Frank P. Long II will preside. NN- Credit Women The Credit Women's Club of Newport News will meet Tuesday at 8 a.m.

in the Newport Room of the Warwick Hotel. The final examination for the year will be given by the educational chairman, Mrs. Leota Royals. Mrs. Lucille Brenkman, nominating committee chairman, wiU present the slate of officers for the coming year.

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C. SHACKELFORD Charles City, Miss Nancy Howard Schrum of Newton, and Miss Beverly Christine Freeman of Broadway. Mr. Griffith was his son's best man. Ushers were Steve Lyttle Griffith of Raleigh, N.C., James Andrew Griffith of Kinston and William Hazel Hill of Washington, D.C.

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Women Council The Women's Council of the MERCURY PLAZA MALL ASh, I OPEN DAILY 10 A. M. TO 9 P. M. WiWi 1 DIAL 838-5544 lMj i Bettie Robbins Is Married rick Eugene Brown of Achilles, brother-in-law of the bride, and William H.

Lamkin of Gloucester Point. A reception was held in the social hall of the church. After a wedding trip, the couple will reside in like that of the bride in au tumn gold peau de soie with matching bandeaux. They carried cascades of bronze pompons and champagne carnations. James Shepherd of Clarks-ville, brother-in-law of the bridegroom, was best man.

Groomsmen were Pat Miss Bettie Sue Robins, daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Percy Robins of Achilles, Gloucester County, became the bride of Jerry David Var-ner, son of Mr. and Mrs. David N.

Vainer of Luray, September 5 in Union Baptist 'Church, Achilles. The Rev. Charles H. Jones officated at the double ring ceremony. Given in marriage by her brother, Bernard E.

Robins, the bride wore a street length A-line dress of silk brocade featuring a round neckline and long bell-shaped sleeves accented with seed pearls. Her short veil of silk illusion fell from a crown of seed pearls. She carried a cascade of white pompons centered with a white orchid. Mrs. Patrick Eugene Brown of Achilles, sister of the bride, was matron of honor.

Mrs. Shepherd of Clarks-ville, sister of the 'bridegroom, was bridesmaid. wore dresses fashioned Mr. Whitenack Weds Shirley Mae Watkins Miss Shirley Mae Watkins, daughter of T.Sgt. and Mrs.

Max D. Blanton of Texas, became the bride of Ronald Aubrey Whitenack of Richmond, son of Mr. and Mrs. Aubrey H. Whitenack of Richmond, on September 5 in Hampton.

A reception was held at the home of the bride. Following a wedding trip to the mountains of Virginia, Mr. and Mrs. Whitenack will make their home in Hampton. Mr.

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