The Ottawa Herald from Ottawa, Kansas on March 12, 1963 · Page 6
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fHE OTTAWA HERALD , Tuesday. March M. IMS Ann Landers Boss Is Either Hated Or Loved Ana Dear Ann Landers: I'm still burning over that letter signed "Damp Furniture" from the personnel manager who complained about women who cry all over his upholstery. If this self-styled expert in the , field of human relations knew beans about handling people he'd get more work out of the women and fewer tears. Why do women cry? Occasionally it's because they are nervous and high strung. But usually it's because some jerk with two years seniority is trying to m a k e life unbearable. A top - notch personnel director knows his people. He won't stand by and see faithful, hardworking employees abused by vicious, miserable tyrants who vent their hostilities and anxieties on subordinates. I've worked in offices for over 25 years and what I've seen in the line of organized back-biting could fill this news paper. I've never cried but there were times when I could have died.—DRY- EYED VETERAN Dear Vet: Thank you for a clear - eyed account from a dry- eyed veteran. Judging from my mail no one is indifferent to the personnel director. They love him or they hate him. Dear Ann Landers: I married too, young. I realized early that the marriage was a mistake and since there were no children I insisted on a divorce. A few years later I met and married a marvelous man. We have two precious little girls, 2 and 4 years old. We couldn't be a happier family. The question is this: Should we tell our daughters at an early age that their mother was married to another man before she married their father? Or shall we say nothing and hope they don't hear it from outsiders? I'm aware you advise parents of adopted children to tell the youngsters at an early age that they are adopted so the knowledge will not come as a shock. A close friend of ours says this is the same thing. My husband and I can't decide if it is or if it isn't. We are asking you to help us.— QUANDARY Dear Quandary: An adopted child should grow up with the knowledge that he is adopted because he is the central figure in the story. The news that moth er had an unsuccessful marriage before she met Daddy can wait until the child is about 10. The divorce should be mention- ed casually, but it's unwise to remain silent about such things — in the hope that no one will mention it. Old skeletons have a way. of falling out of closets at :he most unexpected moments and he clatter can be terribly embarrassing. Dear Ann Landers: This letter is for "Carbondale" the 21- year-old girl who wants to leave lome and make a career for herself in Chicago. Her mother and sisters say she is selfish and inconsiderate. They claim she has no right to burden them with worry. You gave her a good answer, but I'd like to make it even stronger, because many years ago t was in Carbondale's spot. Unfortunately, I didn't have an Ann Landers to write to and I let my Family talk me out of it. I've been sorry ever since. I'm not blaming them. I blame myself for not having the gumption to leave, in spite of their whinning. Other young people have had relatives who tried to keep them at home forever, but they left in spite of them. To any boy or girl of legal age who has a dream I say, "Don't let anything or anyone stop you. Go while you are still vigorous and unafraid—or you will never go ."_NO STARS IN MY EYES Dear No Stars: Amen. To learn the boody-traps of teenage drinking, write for Ann Laders' booklet, "Teenage Drink ing," enclosing with your request 20 cents in coin and a long, self- addressed, stamped envelope. Am Landers will be glad to help you with your problems. Send them to her in care of this newspaper enclosing a stamped, self- addressed envelope. PTA Program Discussion The program for Eugene Field TA last evening was a panel discussion, "A 6th Grader Goes to unior High." Panelists were Allen Unruh, principal; Mrs. Howard Doman, Junior High guidance counselor; Dean Royse, Junior ligh principal; and Mrs. Vernon tear, 6th grade parent. There vas audience participation in die liscussion. Mrs. Don Waymire presided and Mrs. Kenneth Cook gave de- •otions. New officers elected are ATS. Harold Leitnaker, president Mrs. Glenn Lancaster, vice presi- lent; Mrs. Richard Blanton, secretary; and Mrs. Eldon Carlson, reasurer. PTA Sees Science Displays Science displays and talks by pupils making them were the features of the meeting of Garfield PTA last evening in the school auditorium. Don Hoglund, principal, introduced pupils from each room and they gave demonstrations. Mrs. Cliff Reynolds presided and Rev. E. E. Caylor gave devotions. It was announced tha the state PTA meeting will be held April 24, in Kansas City Has. New officers elected are Mrs Charles Mavity, Jr., president; Mrs. Albert Reefer, vice presi dent; Mrs. Charles Gillette, sec retary, and Mrs. Ron Haug treasurer. Shower For Bride-To-Be A bridal shower was held last evening at the H. H. Feuerborn wme for Mildred Peed. Miss Peed will be married to Wendell , Flinn March 30. Assisting Mrs. Feuerborn was Mrs. Bob Robinson. About 20 attended. A red and white color scheme was carried out. Decora- ions included a bride doll under a heart shaped arch covered with roses. Mrs. Harry Gilliland and Mrs. Glenn Miller won prizes in games. Club Plans Field Trip \ Zigzag Club held a white ele- >hant sale at the meeting yesterday with Mrs. Don Stevenson, lichmond. The proceeds will partially finance a field trip to Kansas City on March 28. Members displayed articles they lad made. The club presented ROSE MARIE is the 9-month- old daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Ponciano Blanco, 1106 N. Poplar. Grandparents are Mr. and Mrs. Juan Garcia, 626 N. Locust, and Mr. and Mrs. Salvador Blanco, 1040 N. Sycamore. jifts to two mothers, Mrs. Dorohy Lickteig, Greeley, and Mrs. laymond Feuerborn, Williams- Hffg, for their new babies. Mrs, larold Kimball, Princeton, received the door prize. Visitors present with the 17 members were Mrs. Card James, ane; Mrs. Al Kipper, Richmond; and Mrs. James Dalsing, Ireeley. The Baby Has Been Named At Ransom Memorial Hospital: The son born March 7 to Mr. and Mrs. Larry Vance Crawford, RFD 2, Wellsville, has been named Kerry Vance. He weighed 8 lb., 4 oz. The daughter born March 8 to Mr. and Mrs. James Lawrence Seyler, 734 S. Poplar, has been named Jacklyn LaRae. She weighed 8 lb., 14 oz. a red cross shoe THREE-PART HARMONY. Keyed to your favorite wardrobe colors, our soft-collar pump blends tones of bone, song sparrow and toffee into a spring symphony. Gently Airfoot-cush- ioned on a slender mid-heel, it is far lighter, more supple than you can imagine, thanks to Socialites' fabulous new mello-flex construction. 14.99 Paine's Bootery Grand Guardian To Visit Betfeel Job's Daughters made plans last evening for the grand guardian's visit on March 18. Anne Machin, honored queen, presided. Choir practice and drill team practice were held. For her librarian's report Teresa Moore gave nonsensical poems. Present were 52 choir members, 14 officers and 11 council New Method Ever puree cooked frozen brus- sels sprouts? The French .cuisine favors this way of serving the vegetable. If you try this, be sure the sprouts are soft enough after cooking to puree easily, then add a generous seasoning of butter. Club Elects OneMeriiber Past Matrons club elected Mrs. Kenneth Snyder to membership last evening with , Mrs. C. W. Thompson presiding. Mrs. Leo Mealman was hostess assisted by Mrs. Chalmers Clark and Mrs. Harold Miller. Named to a nominating committee to secure officers for the 1963-'64 Club year were Mrs. Frank Duvall, Mrs. V. I. Crotts and Mrs. W. Phil McCracken. A prayer service was held in memory of Mrs. Isabella Jacobsen. Winning prizes in St. Patrick games were Mrs. McCracken and Mrs. Lamar Phillips. Sixteen members and a guest attended. Club Forecast ACOR1Y Club, community Iwue* CHILD STUDY, Mri. Herbert J FRANKLIN COUNTY HORSES, Mr*. Jay Bucr v . IW dub, Mrs. R. D. Nlcheli ONE-TO-SIX, Mr§. Floyd ThomjwOBt OMICRON CHAPTER, Bet* 81(ml Phi. dinner. Hill; Roue* SKILTON UU8IC CLUB, Al WHlUme home TOT-TO-TBEN, Mri. Donna Birekhead ZIOZAOOBM, Mr». R. F. Lollar SEEKERS Class, at Trinity Methodilt Church BOYD LADIES AID, Mri. CUrene* Janes REBEKAHB . 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'Car of the Year' One up on every other car" is a quote from Motor Trend Magazine's experts after road- testing the '63 Rambler American 440 Convertible (pictured above) with Twin-Stick Floor Shift, Rambler's sports-car option. Why don't you look at a Rambler? See all the ways it's one up on the rest—with Deep- Dip rustproofing, sparkling performance with proved economy, optional Reclining Bucket Seats. Complete line includes the lowest-priced U.S. car. See your Rambler dealer! FREE Car X-Ray Book* can save you money buying a new car. At your Rambler dealer! AL BEETS MOTORS 530 N. Main VALUE FARADS I Celebrating Our 4th Anniversary "SITTING HW" PIN CUSHION TAPE MEASURE Dinner Prayer NAPKIN HOLDER '^T' An exciting, unusual, and practical item. Ceramic sit! tmg hen m full color with pin "»h,on and thimble on back •ape measure pulls out at front. Use it yourself or giv. a$ a gift. A truly b*ouH- ful and OMful china napkin holder. 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