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Page Ten - Blythevllte (Ark.) Courier New* - Saturday, January IS, 1968 Abigail Van Barea—— Doctors Terrify Her Daughter, 21 DEAR ABBY: I have a problem which I have had for nearly 21 years. My daughter, Lulu, has been terrified of doc tors ever since she was a tiny baby, and she seems to be getting worse every year. The few times she has had to have medical care she has passed out at the sight of a doctor. Please help me to get her over this, Abby. A person has to see a doctor and dentist every once in a while, and I have to find some way of getting Lulu there without going thru all kinds of hell. (Excuse the expression). Thank you. WORRIED DEAR WORRIED: It's a pretty good guess that your daughter was frightened by doctor (probably in a white coat) when she was a baby, and coasequently the mere sight of a man in a white coat triggers this deeply - rooted fear. If Lain Is to overcome this obsession, she will have to cooperate with still another doctor. (One who deals with emotional problems, but., happily he won't wear a white coat.) YOU can move heaven and earth, Mother, but you cnn't help her until she wants to help herself. DEAR ABBY: I have wanted to be an air line hostess for as far back as I can remember, and I know I would be a good one. But I have a problem. My mother and father don't like the idea. They say it is too dangerous. Abby, there are risks in every profession, and I have spoken to girls who have flown with the different a i r lines for years and they don't seem to think it's dangerous. What do you think? I h a v e talked my heart out. What can I tell my parents to make them change their minds? AMY DEAR AMY: According to the most recent statistics, air travel is one of the safest methods of transportation. Last year the fatality rate on scheduled United States air lines was 0.07 per 100 million paisenfer miles, as compared with 0.16 for railroads, and 2.4 for autos. One air line has never had an injury or fatality to passengers or crew members In its entire 20-year history. In this time it crried IS, million passenges over two billion miles. If 15 million people were to take showers you could expect a few to slip on the soap. DEAR ABBY: Where is a girl supposed to get married? In her own home town? Or her fiance's? My fiance and I have been having some disagreements on this. He's from Illinois and I am from Kentucky. His people live mostly on farms and could not get away for very long, whereas my people live in the city and most of them work in offices and could take a couple of days off work to attend the wedding. It really doesn't matter much to me, except that most of my friends are in Louisville. What does the book of etiquette say? LOUISVILLE GIRL DEAR GIRL: The book of etiquette says the wedding should take place in the girl's home town. But again, let me say that common sense, convenience and circumstances transcend etiquette. CONFIDENTIAL TO BARBARA IN CLAYTON, MO.: .You are not alone, my dear. When a man makes a woman his wife, it's the highest compliment he can pay her. And it's us- Astrological k Forecast * By CARROLL RJGHTER- to determine Jonr (orecait, note P aragraph opposite dates wnlcD uclude Tour birtb date. SUNDAY GENERAL TENDENCIES: Get everything at your residence in perfect working order this Sunday and make a point to show that you are the one who is considerate and w h o thinks In terms of what ttiose close to you desire your joint relationship. Avoid some show of temperament for it could alienate one vital *» jour happiness. ARIES (Mar. 21 lo Apr. 19) You are able to think exactly what is best to do in order to begin an uptrend in all of your affairs on the morrow. Slick to the Golden Rule. Get ideas McNaucht Irnmcate Inn. wanted. Use diplomacy, though in getting it. SAGITTARIUS (Nov. 22 to Dec. 21) Your insight is just fine now and you should follow hunches so that you do what is good for yourself and mate. Think up some more efficient way to handle responsibilities. Start an uptrend. CAPRICORN Dec. 22 to Jan. 20) Better listen to w4iat associates expect of you in Hie future instead of being so concerned with getting your own way. Look squarely at your problems. Then you know jusi bow to handle them well. AQUARIUS (Jan. 21 to Feb. 19) Those you come in conlaci with today seem to be in neec from your family as well and ' of your assistance. Do whatever then follow them implicity. • j you can to oblige them. Then TAURUS (Apr. 20 to May 20) Begin ttie day properly by going to services of your choice and being inspired for the days ahead. Clear your mind of any cobwebs. Get in touch with good friends who can be helpful to you in-one way or another. GEMINI (May 21 to June 21) You need more abundance and can do much today to find the right source lo begin adding lo vour income. You are able lo you build up good will that is so important to you right now, Get ahead faster that way, too. PISCES (Feb. 20 to Mar. 20) You need recreation that wil relieve tensions, so get in touch with right buddies early and plan it. You have some fine talent. This can also be bought oul today to your great advantage. IF YOUR CHILD IS BORN TODAY ... he. or she, will be contact that bigwig who is usu- one of those young people who ally too busy to see you during j needs to be encouraged and work week. Get backing. complimented early in life at MOON CHILDREN (June 22 the right moment only, other- to July 21) Find belter ways to ; wise there will be too much de- make a real impression on oth- j pendency on the parents and ers and gain your rightful aims, j full use of ability here will not See thai you are dressed in fine i be possible. Ideal chart for the style before you see o t h e r s. j restaurateur, the food merchant This is also true when out for I etc. recreation. LEO (July 22 to Aug. 21) Be sure you handle those duties of a confidential nalure today without fail. Then find out how you can become more successful in the days ahead. Evening is very fine for romantic leanings. Show that you are a charming person. VIRGO (Aug. 22 to Sept. 22) Good friends have your interests at heart and you have only to contact them and get their cooperation. Be sure to get out to social gatherings where you meet excellent people. Add both to pleasure and good promise for the future. LIBRA (Sept. 23 to Oct. 22) Living so that you become a good example to others is fine today, since this can be very helpful to them. Be sure to get out to services of your choice. Some civic duty is also worthwhile. Meet nice people. SCORPIO (Oct. 23 to Nov. 21) Good idea to ftudy a while today and be more cognizant of today's current events, trends. Seek out persons who can give MONDAY GENERAL TENDENCIES: you H» data yw haw long Today's Full Moon requires that you have a change of at lilude both in respect to the ways and means by which you can change and improve your career and vocational inter- esls as well as whatever has to do with home, family, property and possessions. Quick success follow definite action, brings new methods into being. ' ARIES (Mar. 21 to Apr., 19) Take time to patch up that argument between kin and some liigher-un ' A.M. Make sure hai y- your credit 1m- rov .jll. Don't let Im- porlai,. unis ride that could give you a bad reputation. TAURUS (Apr. 20 to May 20) See how you can improve daily routines and act in a positive and intelligent fashion so that you advance more quickly. Make everything more workable. Talk over the future with both those who think ideally and practically. GEMINI (May 21 to June 21) intimate affairs is wise and possible now. Be willing to assist close ties with whatever small problems they may have Gain good will from everyone you contact. MOON CHILDREN June 22 to July 21) Come to a real understanding on matters of policy with associates and reconcile differences with one who is overly sensitive. You have better vision as to what to do in the days ahead. Take right steps. LEO (July 22 to Aug. 21) You must get that work done if you want to relieve the tensions under which you are laboring. Get co-workers to help you by being kind. Postpone those plans you have for more recreation. Be sensible. VIRGO (Aug. 22 to Sept. 22) You must handle all those small tasks first if, later, you go out for pleasure and don't want headaches. Be efficient and methodical. Then join companion in a mood of jollity and chee ful understanding. LIBRA (Sept. 23 to Oct. 22 Find some way to liave a ha pier and more harmonious li at home and be as devoted a you possibly can. Showing moi interest in their welfare make your life more abundant, toi You get a great incentive I advance. SCORPIO (Oct. 23 to Nov. 21 Improving bota financial and It behooves you to get rid o all those small duties ahead o you if you are to operate mor successfully in the days aheac Discuss your good ideas wit associates. They cooperate t your mutual advantage. SAGITTARIUS (Nov. 22 t Dec. 21) Some investment ma brings in a steady flow of reon ey in the days ahead is wise provided that it is sound am secure. Doing something of a civic nature is also helpful. Pub lie utilities should be looked in "j. CAPRICORN Dec. 22 to Jan 20) Know what it is that your associates have in mind am then get together for greater mutual profits in the future. Listen to the standpoints of others also. Your own firm one coulc be a little loo serious. AQUARIUS (Jan. 21 to Feb. 19) Sit down with experts in your field of endeavor before you settle down to the work at hand. Then you get belter results. Taking treatments to have better health Is also wise. Be aure of what you are doing PISCES (Feb. 20 to Mar. 20) Close lies will cooperate with you in some of your most practical ideas, provided you sit down and explain tiiem fully. Be as social as you can, also. This can bring you much that is of great value. IP YOUR CHILD IS BORN TODAY ... he, or she, will be one of those active youngsters who is ever concerned with the social and the emotional, but will always be wanting to be making changes, some of wfaich will not be good at all. Teach early to finish whatever it commenced and to be practical and hen the chart can be very ef- «ctiv» and lueceuful, , Interfaith Marriage More Common By GEORGE W. CORNELL AP Religion Writer NEW YORK (AP) - Intel faith marriages, once a rarity in past periods of ethnic and religious aloofness in America, have become a common pattern. And a new study shows the proportion of them still is rising. Religious analysts see both advantages and disadvantages in the trend. 'All studies show that the intermarried have a high risk of divorce," says Dr. Victor D. ually the last. Troubled? Write to Abby, Box 69700, Los Angeles, Cal., 90069, For a personal reply, enclose a stamped, self - addressed envelope. Hate to write letters? Send $1 to Abby, Box 69700, Los Angeles, Cal., 90069, for Abby's booklet, "How to Write Letters for all Occasions." Sanua, associate professor of psychology at New York's YesJi- iva University, and author of a broad survey of the practice. However, he adds, this draw' back is noticeable chiefly in cases when one party lacks any firm religious commitment, rather than because of a clash between differing religious beliefs. On the positive side, a recent Catholic-Presbyterian conference concluded that a marriage between a Catholic and Protestant can be a useful contribution towrd a fuller grasp of unity in tiie Christian faith. If two people of differing "aiths can live together in deep love and understanding, then we nave something pointing to the great church of the future," said a conference spokesman, :he Rt. Rev. Msgr. Henry G. J. Beck, of Lyndhurst, N.J. Children in mixed marriages, he added, should "become familiar with both traditions" of the parents, and while being reared clearly In one of them, should "be given a real reverence" for the other. Dr. Sanua's research, drawing figures from a wide number of studies, indicate that the extent of ihterfaith marriages has increased steadily for more than two decades, and is expected to continue rising. At present, he says, available statistics indicate an estimated "50 per cent of Catholics marry outside their faith. The percentage for Protestants seems to be about as high. For the Jewish group, it is approximately 17 per cent." This constitutes a dramatic upswing, he commented, although no precise comparative figures are available for past periods. But a quarter century ago, he added, such a marriage could set neighbors talking. "It was unusual," he said in an interview. But not anymore. He said he doubted if the 'riendlier interreligious climate las stimulated the trend, add- ing that the main cause lies in the dissolving of old national- ethnic lines, bringing Americans into generally "homogenized groups." * • * * However, he notes, the proportion of intermarriages rises sharply in areas where one group is a small minority, in the midst of another overwhelmingly predominant group. For example, the percentage of Catholic marriages to Protestants are much higher in the South, where Protestantism strongly predominates, while the Protestant intermarriage ratio rises steeply in heavily Catholic cities. Similarly, Jewish intermarriages go up to 45 to 70 per cent in small cities and rural areas, where they are small minorities. Dr. • Sanua's report, entitled 'Marriage Counseling: Psychology-Ideology," was edited by 3r. H. L. Silverman, of Seton Hall University, and issued by Charles Thomas publisher!, of Springfield) 111. Banking in the United States really began with the chartering of the Bank of North America in 1872. There were no real banks in colonial. BLYTHEVIILE Business College Farmers Bank BIdg. 400 W. Main P. 0. Bos .503 Day or Nite Classes NEW CLASSES BEGIN JAN. 22 SUBJECTS OFERED: Typing, Shorthand, Accounting, Office Machines Free Job Placement Approved For Veterans HELP YOUR SAVE YOUR LIBERTY CASH REGISTER RECEIPTS! 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