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METRO 8 THE COURIER-NEWS, Saturday, March 27, 1971 Geared to teen-agers For membership ivork Auxiliary presents award to official in hospital 1HE GOURIER-NEt jy, off A column for teen-age boys and girls by Ellen Peck will appear on family pages of The Courier-News Three times a week beginning March 29. Articles cover a wide range hospital room for the presen tribute to Mrs. Bottea. Earlier she had been presented Couple wed in Clinton CLINTON Miss Linda Rothenbeck, daughter of Mrs. Cecelia Rothenbeck of Phillipsburg and Harry Rothenbeck of Washington (N.J.), was married last Saturday to Paul Grefe, son of Mr.

and Mrs. Herman Grefe of Pittstown. The Rev. Robert Rapalje permormed the ceremony in the Clinton Church of the Nazarene and the reception was at Shade Lane Inn, Locktown. Mr.

and Mrs. Grefe will live in Pittstown where the bridegroom is employed in his father's general contracting business. The bride is a graduate of Washington (N.J.) High School and the bridegroom is a graduate of North Hunterdon Regional High School. beautiful jewelry, cards and 01 roPlcs mciuamg arugs, con-flowers from personnel of versation, political activity, Ethicon, Somerville, where Mrs. prejudices and marriage.

Bottea had been employed for her new column, Miss many years Peck will give advice that is Charles Meyer, an Ethicon JS IZSZZXl and suggest Johnson, presented Mrs. Bottea of deahnS w.lth an emerald ring, an emerald Problems confronting pendant and chain, and an Ethicon service pin studded iiiiifiiiiiiiiiiiiitiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiM with a diamond and two sap- new wash- machine? phires for her 30 years of service. Sell vour old one wlth a Courier-Members of the national sales News Want Ad force as well as area employes Ann Landers Name quite a mouthful Patricia Ferriero, William Shults wed MIDDLESEX Legion post homes have been the usual locations for auxiliary unit meetings, but recently national state and local officers con vened in a room at Somerset Hospital, Somerville. They traveled there to present an award to another state of ficer. The recipient, Mrs.

Paul A Bottea of 300 Fairview state auxiliary third vice presi dent and membership chairman, is seriously ill and in critical condition at the hospital. Mrs. Stanley Tupper of Bar- rington, state president of the auxiliary, presented Mrs. Bot tea with a plaque inscribed "American Legion Auxiliary National Membership Award for 1971." It was topped with a gold star. Mrs.

Bottea had won for the state auxiliary, as well as for herself, awards for establishing 95 per cent of the goal set for membership. The award was to have been presented at the aux- iliary national convention in August, but because of Mrs. Bottea's illness the national president, Mrs. Deverre Harper of West Grove, Iowa, granted the exception. The award was accomplished by a letter from Mrs.

Harper Who wrote: "Dear Mrs. Bottea: Heartiest congratulations to you an(j the members of the Depart- ment 0f n6w Jersey for having won the January 31st National Membership Award. Sincerely, Mattie Harper." Others in the ftaintf mi like this and what can be done about it Baffled In Charleston DEAR BAFF: Some poeple are so insecure that they can't accept anything not even a compliment When you tell them they look nice, they reply, "Oh I look terrible! "The problem is a lack of self esteem. They must be constantly on the giving end because they feel unworthy of receiving. Not allowing friends and family to reciprocate is not generosity.

It is selfishness turned inside out. DEAR ANN: The letter from Two-Ton Tommy (wife of "Worried In was fascinating. I saw myself in that letter because I am also eating myself into the grave. And I am doing it intentionally, as you pointed out. Life has no meaning and I figurel might as well get whatever pleasures I can.

Like Tommy, eating is the most fun I have, too. Although Tommy and I are soul-mates, tation were Mrs. Bottea husband; her mother, Mrs. R. A.

Sunderland of Middlesex, with whom Mr. and Mrs. Bottea reside: Mrs. Basil Slocum of West Long Branch, national ex ecutive committeewoman from New Jersey: Mrs. Elizabeth Mrs.

Paul A. Bottea Fisher of Flemington, national chairman of leadership training; Mrs. Clara Bray of Whitehouse, Hunterdon County Auxiliary president, and Mrs. Everard H. Eaton of Warren, hospitality chairman and former president of the Somerset County auxiliary.

The American Legion aux iliary was not the only group to visit the hospital room to pay bridge, fund raising chairman, has asked members to bring a favorite dish for the sale. A CARD PARTY, for the benefit of the new St. Stanislaus Church being built, will be held at 3:30 p.m. tomorrow in the parish hall in Plainfield. FLUORIDATION will be the subject of Dr.

Casimir Sheft of Passaic and Dr. A. Allen London of Boonton at a public meeting at St. John's Episcopal Church, Somerville, at 8 p.m. Turesday.

The program will be sponsored by the Raritan Valley Committee Opposed to Water Fluoridation. "THE SPRING Fur Fashion Show," for the benefit of the Sisters of Our Lady of Africa, ilfNf; ptlillit pggjL DEAR ANN: Being an avid reader of your column, I thought perhaps if I waited a while someone would write in with MY problem. But so ar, no luck and I do need help. I married a divorced man who had a daughter by his first wife. The daughter gave birth to a son about a year ago.

She is not very fond of me, although Lord knows I've tried to be pleasant and get along with her. The problem is that she does not want her son to know me by my rightful name which is "step-Grandma." She insists that her son call me "Auntie." This is my first marriage and I don't want any problems with my husband's relatives. If the child calls me "Auntie, won't lie be terribly confused when he reaches the age' of understanding and discovers that I am his granddady's wife and not his aunt? I'd like your opinion. Rankled DEAR RANK: "Step-Grandma" is quite a mouthful for a child who is learning to talk. Since the boy's mother is teaching him to call you "Auntie," accept the name and say no more.

When the child reaches the age of understanding he will realize you are not his aunt. Until then it doesn't matter. DEAR ANN: My sister-in-law is the kind of person who will do anything in the world for a friend but she will not let anyone do anything for her. What is wrong with her? Why doesn't she realize that an honorable person appreciates the chance to reciprocate? My sister-in-law is the salt of the earth. Her whole life has been spent doing generous deeds for others.

But after being on the receiving end for so long, people feel uncomfortable. No one likes to take favors all the time. Please explain why she is a woman. Wis now he hates witeturnea nun on years ago ana all women. My husband turned Lutherans to hold have sent flowers and cards.

Mrs. Edith Sunderland Bottea and her mother are natives of Bound Brook. Mrs. Bottea attended St. Joseph's School and was graduated from Bound Brook High School, and Berkeley-Lleweyln Secretarial School in New York.

She went to work for Johnson Johnson in New Brunswick later transfering to Ethicon. Her late father was a charter member of the Legion Post in Pottsville, Pa. Mrs. Bottea and her mother auxiliary of Giles-Biondi Unit, Bound Brook, organized in 1931. i Mrs.

Bottea is a communicant of Our Lady of Mount Virgin Church and active in its organizations, ane also is a member of the Bound Brook Columbiettes and a mission organization. food sale members also will perform. AN INFORMAL concert by the For Get Me Notes of Iselin will be presented at a meeting of the Plainfield Chapter of the Society for the Preservation and Encouragement of Barber Shop Singing in America Monday at 8:30 p.m. in the VFW Hall in Washington Ave. A PLAY "The Magic Mouse" will be presented by The Wetumpka Players of Watchung April 3 at 1 p.m.

in Martin Luther King Schdol, Piscataway. It is sponsored by Cadette Girl Scout Troop 659 of Piscataway who will use the proceeds to finance a three-day trip to Pennsylvania. 3 NOT SITE FOR FAIR PHILADELPHIA (AP) An ecology study has ruled out Fair- bicentennial official said wed- nesday. ME off years ago and I hate all men. I don't care if tomorrow never comes.

There is nothing to look forward to except three big meals. IJm enclosing my name and telephone number in case Tommy sees this and would like to meet me for lunch. You don't have to worry about a romance here, Ann. All I'm interested in is food. Three-Ton Tina DEAR TINA: Here's your letter, Tina, but I'm not about to advertise your phone number.

Maybe all you're interested in is food, but in an audience of 54 million there are bound to be a few kooks who would just love to call you up and talk. Engagements announced FANWOOD Miss Patricia Ferriero of Morgan, daughter of Mrs. Elizabeth Scheuerman of Morgan and Vincent Fer- riero of Colts Neck, was mar- Mrs, wmiam W. Shults NPHS class plans 10th reunion NORTH PLAINFIELD The 10th reunion of the North Plainfield High School Class of '61 will be held April 17 at 6 pim. in the Redwood Inn, Bridge water.

It was erroneously stated in yesterday's edition of The Courier-News that it was the Plainfield High School Class of '61 which is holding the reunion. Reservations chairmen are Mr. and Mrs. John m. Meny sis ueaar urove ocoicn Plains Her husband was graduated from the Scotch Plains-Fanwood High School.

He is associated with the Livingston-Wilbor Corp. in Fanwood. After a wedding trip through New England the couple will reside at the bride's home address. GEZA 7 mil II in 1 1 in urn in ii mBmmmmmimmimmmmmmMmmmmimm Wftsnwws i i I 1 C- -rA I k- 4 1 Piscataway, will be presented mount Park as a site for the of KU isox bi lem-at 7:30 p.m. Wednesday in 1976 bicentennial world's fair, a ington, and Michael Rebuth of AN INTERNATIONAL food sale will be sponsored by the centennial committee of St.

Stephen's Lutheran Church in Edison beginning at 11:30 a.m. tomorrow in Fellowship Hall of the church. Proceeds will be used to defray the cost of preparing for St. Stephen's 100th anniversary next year. Mrs.

Elsie Feltus of Wood- Miss Linda J. Castiglia Castiglia-Cassidy NORTH PLAINFIELD Mr. and Mrs. Philip Castiglia of 189 Watchung Ave. have announced the engagement of their daughter, Miss Linda J.

Castiglia, to James F. Cas-sidy, son of Mrs. J. F. Cassidy of 129 Michael South Plainfield, and the late Mr.

Cassidy. They were graduated from South Plainfield High School. Miss Castiglia is employed by Bell Telephone Laboratories, Murray Hill. Her fiance will complete a tour of duty in the Navy next month. The wedding is planned for Oct.

16. Patricia Hoyt bride ried today to William W. Shults, son of Mr. and Mrs. Wallace Shults of 101 King St.

The Rev. George A Erickson performed the ceremony in St. Mary's Church in South Amboy and the bride was given in marriage by her father. The reception was at the Don Quixote Inn, Matawan. Miss Judy Listwan of Harrison was maid of honor.

The bridesmaids were Miss Mary Ann Evanik of Kearny, Miss Barbara Martone of Edison and Miss Sandra Flanagan of Parlin, the bride's cousins, Miss Arlene Shults, the bridegroom's sister, Miss Nancy Catanzaro of Scotch Plains and Miss Jill Mundy of Morgan. Frank Shults of Fanwood was best man for his brother. Ushers were Frank Ferriero and Louis Ferriero of Morgan, the bride's brothers, James Bellew, William Bellew and Leon Lech of Piscataway and John Stopherd of Plain-field. After a trip to Las Vegas, the couple will live in Old Bridge. The bride is a computer operator at Castrol Oils New York.

The bridegroom is a sales representative for John Hancock Life Insurance Sayreville. The Birth Record At Muhlenberg GIRLS BORN TO MR. AND John Middleton, 217 Lee Place, Plainfield, Thursday. Robert Scrivens 39 Willow North Plainfield, Thursday. Donald Draper, 725 Dunellen Dun- ellen, yesterday.

At Somerset BOYS BORN TO MR. AND Joseph Patullo, 432 Longwood Bound Brook, Thursday. Ernest Pelikan, 65 Bernard Somerville, Thursday. Warren Hollenbake, 555 E. High Bound Brook, Thursday.

GIRLS BORN TO MR. AND Nicholas Barber, 6 Baldwin South Bound Brook, Thursday. John D. Nevius, Olive Neshanlc Station, Thursday. FREE DELIVERY Est.

1897 C. M. HALL Co. Murray Dell PHARMACY Prescriptions Sick Room Supplies Cosmetics Phone PL 6-0174 506 WATCHUNG AVE. PLAINFIELD, N.J.

Opp. City Hall JOSEPHIN APPLIANCES 350 Somerset of Ralph Trabachino ould Like to Notify Their Dear Customers of their Temporary Employment in Jeanne's Beauty Salon 144 E. 6th Plainfield Starting Tuesday; March 30 pEir 756-4472 For An Appointment Rivers Edge Hall, 974 River Road, Piscataway. It is sponsored by the ways and means committee for the sisters and styles will be by the Flemington Fur Co. A RUMMAGE SALE will be sponsored by the Sisterhood of Temple Emau-El, the Reform congregation of Edison-Metuchen-Woodbridge, tomorrow from 2-6 p.m.

at 100 James Edison. Mrs. Herman Bloom and Mrs. Daniel Wial are chairmen. SPRING PARTY sponsored by the Woman's Club of Westfield social service and music department will be held April 1 at 1:30 p.m.

for patients at the John E. Runnells Hospital. Mrs. Roy Siegrist will direct the group's Choraleers. ONE ACT COMEDY "They're None of Them Perfect," sponsored by the Westfield YMCA Ladies Day Out Committee will be held Monday at 1 p.m.

in the 'Y' Intermediate guitar class Odenheimerof John F. Ken nedy Memorial High School, Iselin, daughter of and Mrs. Joseph A. Odenheimer of 2 Byrd Iselin, and Susan Klorman of Edison Township High School, daughter of Mr. andMrs.

Charles Klorman of 152 Loring Edison. The Good Citizen awards to all state recipients will be presented by Mrs. Frederick Griswold state regent, at a luncheon April 1 at the Holiday Inn, Trenton. The recipients will be taken on a tour of hstoric places including the Old Barracks, State House and State Museum. The six area winners will be accompanied by Mrs.

S. Elliott Mayo of Metuchen. TO CALL ON NIXON WELLINGTON, New Zealand (AP) Prime Minister Sir Keith Holyoake says he plans to meet President Nixon Washington next month. 6 area high school seniors to get Metucnen DAK awards PLAINFIELD Miss Patricia Ann Hoyt of 1336 South daughter of Mrs. Arthur S.

Hoyt of Port Washington, N.Y., and the late Mr. Hoyt, was married today to Ralph Trabachino son of Mr. and Mrs. Ralph Trabachino Sr. of 1345 S.

Martine Scotch Plains. The Rev. Roland R. Ost officiated at the ceremony in the Wilson Memorial Union Church.Watchung. The reception is in the home of Edwin Huston of 100 Mountain NorthPlainfield.

Mrs. Jeffrey Marsh of Middlesex was the matron of honor. George R. Church of Scotch Plains was the best man, and Norman L. Fourre of Fanwood ushered.

The bride was graduated from Watchung Hills Regional High School, Warren. She is commercial teller at the united National Bank Fanwood. lip Mrs. Ralph Trabachino Jr. 3L 0M Miss Diano Riccardi Riccardi-Stern FANWOOD Mr.

and Mrs. Irving A. Riccardi of 3 Old South Ave. have announced the engagement of their daughter, Miss Diane Riccardi, to Robert Charles Stern, son of Mr. and Mrs.

Sidney Stern of Upper Darby, Pa. The bride-elect is a graduate of Scotch Plains-Fanwood High School and Temple University where she is now doing graduate work. Her fiance is a graduate of Upper Darby High School and attended Biscayne College, Miami, Fla. He is a buyer for the Experience Boutique, Upper Darby. The wedding is planned for Aug.

22. Reunion dinner set for October BOUND BROOK Richard Dalrymple of 32 Desna Piscataway and Mrs. Richard Knittel of 1052 Valley View Road, Martinsville, have been named to the Bound Brook High School Class of '61 reunion committee. The class dinner dance will be held .16 at 7 p.m. in the Somerville Inn.

Among the list of missing classmates are Linda Armenti, Barbara Baronowski; Jane Bassett; Charyl E. BeaUchamp; Barbara Kaminsky Perl Koliner; Eleanore Kovach; Bonnie Ann Moulder; Melba Newland; Karen Olson; Connie Pagano; Annette Spaziano; Melva Vincent; Norman Addis, Donald Anderson, William Anderson, Ken Hoeft, William D. Moody, Jeff Poole and Keith Pound. Miss Maureen E. Perry Miss Rosemary Buck Buck-Hall PLAINFIELD Mr.

and Mrs. Charles Buck Sr. of 810 E. Third St. have announced the engagement of their, daughter, Miss Rosemary Buck, to James L.

Hall, son of Mr. and Mrs. Frederick K. Hall Sr. of 101 King George Road, Warren.

Miss Buck was graduated from Plainfield High School and is employed at Metropolitan Life Insurance Company here. Her fiance was graduated from Watchung Hills Regional High School and in theNa-val Air Reserve. Wocik-Nance MIDDLESSX Mr. and Mrs. Edward Wojcik of 513 Lorraine Ave.

have the engagement of their daughter, Rliss Susan Wojcik of San Francisco, to William Nance, son of Mrs. Katherine Nance of San Francisco. The wedding date is Aug. 22. Miss Wojcik is a graduate of Middlesex High School and attended Skyline College in San Francisco.

She is a passenger service agent for United Airlines in San Francisco where her fiance is a customer service agent. Mr. Nance is a. graduate of Washington and Lee High School, Arlington, and San Mateo College. He will be graduated, ia June from San Francisco State College and plans to attend law school in the fall SAYS SHIPPING LAGGING WASHINGTON (AP.) -r- Rep.

Frank Thompson Jr. said today the Nixon ad ministration is lagging im- plementing its merchant ship building program. Miss Deborah J. Bush Bush-Mosca NORTH PLAINFIELD The engagement of Miss Deborah Jane Bush to William Robert Mosca has been announced by her parents, Mr. and Mrs.

Kenneth Bush of 375 Mountain Ave. Mr. Mosca is the son of George Mosca of 587 Warfield Road, and the late Mrs. Mosca. The bride-elect is a graduate of North Plainfield High School and the Bryman School, East Brunswick.

Her fiance is a graduate of the same high school and will graduate from 1 a i State College in May where he is majoring in industrial arts. The wedding is planned for Oct. 2. Hare-Beattie PLAINFIELD The engagement of Miss Dorothy Marie Hare, daughter of Mrs. Dorothy Higgins Hare of 209 W.

Eighth and the late William C. Hare to James Donald Beattie of Mobile, Ala. has been announced. He is the son of Mr. and Mrs.

Francis M. Beattie of Knoxville, Tenn. The bride-elect is a graduate of Mt. St. Mary's Grammar School and Mt.

St. Mary's Academy, Watchung. She will graduate from Spring Hill College, Mobile, in May. Her fiance attended Spring Hill and was discharged from the Marine Corps, in 1969 as a First Lieutenant. He is in furniture sales in Mobile.

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Higgins of 47 Cypress Drive, Colonia; Christine Dan-nehower of John P. Stevens High School, Edison, daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Gilbert Dan-nehower of 715 Old Raritan Road, Edison; Sheryl Ann Szlinsky of Metuchen High School, daughter of Mr. and Mrs.

Stephen Szlinsky of 52 Brockton Court, Metuchen; Aslo Miriam Bundy of Woodbridge High School, daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Clifford H. Bundy of 82 Green Woodbridge; Pamela Act Now CALL 756-2997 WE SERVICE EVERYTHING WE SELL! norm naimieiu, n.j. charge it on our revolving charge Open.

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