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BENTON HARBOR, MICH. WEDNESDAY, NOVEMBER 18, 1959 PAGE SIX THE NEWSPALLADIUM, ANN LANDERS: It's Not SIZE Of Diamond; It's What It Denotes Tell your mother to stop trying to brainwash with her warped notions of what is important. Your sense of values is better than hers. Good luck. Dear Ann: For my 19th birthday my boy friend gave me a diemond.

mother says it is so small that he should be ashamed of My himself. Also, she wants me to return it and tell him I'd rather have no ring than one that is "embarrassing" to show. I am not embarrassed. The ring is what he can afford and I'm happy he was sensible and didn't go into debt for larger one. She says an engagement ring should last forever, and I don't if take her advice I'll be sorry later, What's your Dear Denny: I have news for your mother.

A small diamond will last just as long as a large one. Maybe longer- because sometimes the largones. are repossessed by the finance company or the credit manager of the store. Tell your mother to stop trying to brainwash Dear Ann: Where do parents' responsibility end? We raised five children and survived two Ann Landers periods of unemployment when went out and worked. After 20 years, (and two-in-laws living with us) our oldest daughter tells us she's unhappy in" her marriage and wants to come home with her three children.

Her husband is easy -going, make 1 good living and the kids adore him. But he caught her cheating and slapped her face. I'm sure he must have been pushed to the brink. Our daughter is pretty and lively and I have reason to believe she has had a few affairs with other men. I'm not in good health and my in-laws are trying at times.

My husband is nervous and three youngsters would be bad for him. We are crowded as it is. Four more would be impossible! Yet we love our daughter and grandchildren and don't want to turn our backs on them, What shall we Dear M.A.C.: If you want to help your daughter, don't make it for her to break up her marriage. Urge her to seek the help of a clergyman or marriage counselor. These experts in the field have save many situations; situations which were "beyond hope." Make it plain to your daughter if she leaves her husband she's on her own.

From the sound of things you have your hands plenty full as it is. Dear Anar We've been married seven years and have, four lovely kids. My husband says I'm "nagger." If you agree 1 with him, then I'm willing to go down in defeat. This is what we fight about: I phone him at the office every day at 4:00 if he hasn't phoned to tell me what time he'll be home for dinner. He says people in the office make remarka when I call and he wants me to out it out.

When I don't know what time he's coming home the kids and I walt and then they get mean. Sometimes I give the kids their dinner at 7:30, and then he walks in at 10:00 and I have to get back in the kitchen. I need Dear B.C.: Stop calling your husband at the office if he doesn't like it. Tell him if you don't hear from him by 4:00 P. M.

you will assume he'll be home by 6:00. Agree to wait until 6:30. If he doesn't show by 6:30 eat with the kids and let him scrounge around by himself. If he calls and says he'll be home too late for the kids to wait, teed them at 6:00, eat some bread and butter, wait for him and have dinner together, To learn the difference between a marriage that "settles down" and one that "gets dull," send for ANN LANDERS' booklet, "What To Expect From Marriage," enclosing with your request 20 cents in coln and large, self -addressed, stamped envelope. (Ann Landers will be glad to help you with your, problems.

Send them to her in care of this newspaper enclosing a stamped, selladdressed envelope.) Copyright 1950, Field Enterprises, Ins. State Wednesday brome Of to Susa HAL, WALLIS DEAN SHIRLEY MARTIN ANTHONY ALAINE CAROLYN FRANCIOSA JONES Newlyweds Now At Home THREE OAKS, Miss Lenore Shells Lachnidt, daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Frederic Lachnidt, Three Oaks, became the bride of Walter M. Muday, son of Mr.

and Mrs. Walter Muday, Culver, in double ring ceremony Saturday in Mary's Catholic church in Three Oaks. The Rev. Fr. John 0.

Hayes officiated at the nuptial mass. The young couple will make their home in the Hollywood Trailer Court on U. 8. 20, South Bend. The bride was member of the 1956 graduating class of the Three Oaks high school and attended the South Bend College of Commerce for one year.

She is now employed in the office of the Bendix Products Division Missile, in Mishawaka, Ind. Mr. Muday graduated from the Culver high school and attended Walton College of Commerce in Chicago. He is employed by Shipper's Dispatoh, South Bend. St.

Mark's Pastor To Speak Friday The initial meeting of the Christian Fellowship, new family group of St. Mark's United Lutheran church, Fairplain, will be held Friday at 7:30 p. m. at the home of Mr. and Mrs.

Carl Benedix, 655 Spencer street. Everyone over 21 18 invited, according to Pastor William Cross. Purpose of the Christian Fellowship, according to the Rev. Cross, is to help Christians better understand how Christianity -applies to life today. Friday's program will be on the topic, "The Christian View of Life After Death," based on the pastor's sermon last Sunday.

Newcomers Hear Interior Decorator Harriet Dalsiel of Harriet's Home Decorating Service displayed fabrics when -she addressed the Twin City Newcomers club Monday evening in the Congregational church, St. Joseph. Chairman of the hostess committee was Mrs. Joseph Baumgartner, assisted by Mesdames Fred Miranda, Hugh C. Larimer, Edward Cavey, Mrs.

Richard Seagrave and Mrs. Howard Drake, Tickets for the Dec. 19 dance to be held in the Vincent hotel will be on sale at the Nov. 30 meeting In the church, when game night will be held. from ENITH new slim mode in eyeglass HEARING Zenith CITATION ca Test GILLESPIE DRUG CO.

St. Jesoph Benton Marber the call that prevents your dinner (and your wife) from burning up You plan to be home on time. Then, on the way- wouldn't you know- a flat tire! So you call your wife to let her know. It's a simple, quick and easy thing to do. Yet saves dollars' worth of flavor in the family roast! And you just can't put a price on what it means to your wife's peace of mind- and her good nature Colomans To Note 50th Wedding Anniversary MR.

AND MRS. COLOMA Mr. and Mrs. James Kibler, lifetime residents of the Coloma community and of Coloma village and city all of their married lives, will celebrate their golden wedding anniversary next Sunday, advancing the observance two days. The actual anniversary will be Nov.

24. Their daughter and her husband, Mr. and Mrs. Daniel Cantrell, will host an open house at the Kibler home at 372 Church street Sunday from 2 to 6 p.m. Both the Kiblers were born in Bainbridge.

She is the former Carrie Umphrey, daughter of Peter and Emma Umphrey. His parents were Mr. and Mrs. Nicholas Kibler. The couple was married in the rectory of St.

Joseph's Catholic church in Watervliet and immediately established their home in Coloma. They have lived in their present home for 41 years. CIVIC LEADER Mr. Kibler WAS well- -known figure on the Benton Harbor market and in the business places ROLLER SKATE Nights Adm. 50c Skates 250 Sun.

$1.00 A Family RAMONA Sister Lakes JAMES KIBLER of the district for 18 years civil service Inspector of the Michigan Department of Agriculture, Bureau of Weights and Measures. He retired two years ago. Prior to his service with MDA Kibler WAS for 25 years with the Ball Lumber and Coal Coloma, later the Michigan Shore Lumber and Supplies. During those years he served his community as village president and treasurer and township treasurer. Mrs.

Kibler is a member of the Needlecraft guild and says she is "just a RETURN FROM HOSPITAL GANGES, Robert Cunningham recently returned home from Ferguson hospital, Grand Rapids, where he underwent surgery. WEEKEND GUESTS GLENN, Weekend guests in the Harry Walkley home were his brother Duncan Merriam and Mrs. Merriam of St. Clair Shores. HEART THEATRE, HARTFORD Today, Sat.

"THE SHAGGY DOG" 8 P. M. TOMORROW NIGHTI 8 P. M. FRIDAY NIGHT! THE BENTON HIGH SCHOOL DRAMA DEPARTMENT PRESENTS "NIGHT OF JANUARY 16TH" 3-ACT COMEDY DRAMA OF A COURT TRIAL DIRECTED BY MISS MARGARET MEYN See What The Verdict Will Bel BENTON HARBOR Reserved HIGH SCHOOL Adults AUDITORIUM Students This in just one of the countless ways your telephone pays for itself.

If you could add up the value of every phone call your -family makes and receives, you'd find that your telephone is worth much more than it costa 'Around the clock with WOMEN CLUBS CHURCH FAMILY: PASHION SCHOOL HOME SOCIETY Sorority To Have Thanksgiving Fete Thanksgiving party for NoT. 25 tin the home of Miss Jeannette Weber, 640 North Crystal avewas arranged when memof Phi Alpha Pal met recently in the home of Miss Carol Boyd, 574 South Walnut street. Miss Barbara Jarvis reported on "The Safety of our Children," and Mrs. Arnold Graber talked on the topic, "As Men See Us." Carl Goff assisted the hostess in serving. Roaring 20's Relived By Dance Club Tabor School Supper Planned By Parents The Tabor School Parents' club held its first pot luck suppermeeting of the year at the school Monday evening with Mrs.

Orland Bryan, Mrs. Victor Lehman, and Mrs. Robert Grandberry as the committee in charge. The program was put on by the children with each grade demonstrating something learned during the past six weeks. Members planned a Christmas party and gift exchange for the children and chose Mrs.

Larry The Town and Country Dancing Club enjoyed "roaring 20's" theme at their regular. monthly dance held Saturday evening the Seeley McCord school. Decorations depicting events of the era were used. Music WAS provided by H. H.

Diffenderter's orchestra under the direction 4 John Howard. Highlight of the evening was a charleston dance by six couples of the club. Committee members for the affair were Mr. and Mrs. Leo Rutz, Mr.

and Mrs. Lee Karsen, Mr. and Mrs. Howard DeLisle, Mr. and Mrs.

Bud Carmichael, Mr. and Mrs. John Howard and Dr. and Mrs. William Cooper, The next party will be Dec.

12. Forbes, Mrs. Carl Rhoades and Mrs. Hoyt Gilson as the committee in charge. Starts Today FOUR DEAN FRIENDLY THEATRE OF MARTIN TODAY'S as His Maury Career is being a heel.

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