The Delta Democrat-Times from Greenville, Mississippi • Page 9

Smile: The best way to cure a skunk Ann Lunders: I saw myself in your column a few days ago. It was Hie letter from the bride who is going nuts because her husband stays out till all hours and "forgets" to telephone her His alibis are always air-tight. She trusts him. He just "forgets." Well, I've got news for her. It's going to get worse so she'd better learn how to handle it.

The skunk Will come home They always do. Decide right now that no matter what time It is, no matter how many drinks he's had, you will NOT greet him at the door with, "Where in the hell have you been? I've been out of my mind worrying about you!" Instead, smile (even if it almost kills you) and say "I'm glad you're home, dear. You need some rest. Let's go to sleep." The next morning, don't say one word $bout last night. If he starts to apologize, say, "I understand, dear.

Let's forget it." I know what I'm talking about. It took fne two years to make myself do it, but when I finally was able to, it cured him In Albany Dear Vic: Non-violence and passive resistance are not only wise but they wonders on erratic husbands with faulty memories. Congratulations. The greatest victory, of course, was the factory over yourself. It always is.

Dear Ann Landers: How does one decide which "worthy causes" to give to? While I have a good income and no dependents I can't give to everything. Ann Lundora When I read about frauds and crooks it dampens my enthusiasm for any kind of giving because I don't know what is legitimate. You must receive of appeals. Can you tell me please how a person can know what to give to? Or, to put it another way, on what basis should a person J. Of Kansas Dear R.J.: Most people give to causes in which they have a special stake.

If you've lost a dear one to cancer, you might be more inclined to donate to The American Society, or a medical school that is doing cancer research. The same for heart of kidney disease. We all know the Red Feather drives, Community Chests and United Fund Campaigns are 100 per cent legitimate and deserve the support of every citizen. The fund-raising appeals to beware of are the unfamiliar ones. Check with the Better Business Bureau if you are in doubt.

Dear Ann Landers: I brought my husband a $30 sport shirt for his birthday. He said it was the best-looking sport shirt he had ever seen. Last week I washed it by hand in lukewarm water and gentle suds. (These days you can put almost anything in the machine but I wanted to be especially careful with this shirt.) Well, it came out ruined. The maroon stripes faded into the yellow and the shirt looks like a rag.

I examined the shirt afterwards and found a small tag that read DRY CLEAN ONLY. I took the shirt back to the salesperson who should have TOLD me, because not everybody looks for tags. He said he was sorry but it was not their fault. He refused to give me a new shirt. In my opinion he didn't treat me as if' he wanted business.

Am I Consumer Dear A.C.: I don't agree. Before laundering anything new, you should always check to see if it SHOULD be laundered. People who don't read tags have to pay for their mistakes. And that means you, doll. Dear Ann Landers: My problem might not sound important to you but it is so important to me that I've considered seeing a psychiatrist.

I am a girl, 17, attractive and a good student. I like people and people like me. But I don't have the slightest desire to date. Many fellows have asked me out and I've manufactured stupid excuses, some so transparent and clumsy that I later tried to make it up to them. I feel guilty if I hurt someone's feelings.

I don't know why I don't want to date. All my girlfriends do but I have no interest in it. Am I abnormal? If you revealed SHAW--Ann Jiselle Reginelli is announcing plans for her wedding on Nov. 24 at 2 p. m.

at St. Francis of Assisi Catholic Church in Shaw. Miss Keginelli is the bride-elect of James Edward Smith of Benoit. Parents of the cpuple are Mr. and Mrs.

Henry Reginelli of Shaw and Mr. and Mrs. Leonard Smith of Benoit. Lawrence Reginelli and Dennis Reginelli, cousins of the bride, will serve as acolytes. The Rr.

James O'Riordan will officiate. Mrs. Armando will be soloist and James Robinson will present nuptial music. The bride will be given in marriage by her father. Angela Reginelli, the bride's cousin, i a a i Bridesmaids will be Beverly Muzzi, cousin of the bride, and El Lauuie Prewitt of Boyle.

Carolyn Reginelli will be flower girl and Mike Muzzi will be ring bearer. Both are cousins of the bride. Johnny Burrell of Benoit will serve as best man. Mike Reginelli, Kenneth Durastanti and Jimmy Boyd Muzzi, cousins of the bride, and Don Mixon of Skene will be groomsmen. A reception will follow the wedding at the Parish Hall.

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22.98 LADIES'SHOES, GREENVILLE MALL HI IOC 10 A. M. TILL P. M. MONDAY THRU SATURDAY suspect that I might be a lesbian, let me assure you I'm not.

I feel no attraction to either girls OR boys. Do you believe I should accept a few dates anyway? If you say go, I'll Dear You remind me of the fellow who didn't like peaches. "Did you get sick from a peach once?" asked a friend. "No," was the reply "I've never eaten one." The a a question followed, "Then how do you know you don't like them?" My advice is to accept a few dates, even though you aren't excited about the idea. If after six months of dating you still have no interest in members of the opposite sex, get some counseling.

Don't flunk your chemistry Inf. Love It than one Ml of glandi calling to another. If you have trouble making a distinction you need Ann's booklet, "Lave or Sex and How To Tell the Difference." send a long, stamped, ten-addressed envelope with your request and In coin to Ann Landers, P.O. Box 3344, Chicago III. 60454.

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