Delaware County Daily Times from Chester, Pennsylvania • Page 8

1 1 1 1 a a a a MOM-IN-LAW JOKE GETS COP'S TWIST TYBIE GOLDSTEIN Daily Times A funny thing happened on the way to the Fair 1 lost my mother. Twice. Of course it didn't seem funny at the time, but thanks to a World's Fair policeman with obvious motber-in-law problems, frustrating day ended with laugh. Through misunderstanding about meeting places, Joe and our three daughters and I spent most of our last day at the fair trying to find my, mother, We had lost mother, then been reunited by a phone message through third party. And then we lost her again.

By 10 p.m. we turned in Joe desperation to a policeman. asked his help in finding my mother. The policeman's reaction? "Boy, how lucky can you get? Some men can't even lose their mothers-in-law once and you lost her twice!" We finally did find her and she laughed the loudest when we repeated the officers remarks. Which is one of the ressons Joe was anxious to find her, His mother-inlaw may have a terrible sense of direction, but she has a great sense of humor.

Election Laws Set As Topic NETHER PROVIDENCE meeting scheduled by followed the by Nether luncheon is dence League of Women Voters Provifor 10 a.m. Thursday in the Towne House, Media. Mrs. Robert Howard will discuss election laws during the general meeling. Mrs.

J. H. Staley, acting chairman, will conduct the meeting. lingford George Vryland of Waldent has resigned as presiof the unit. because she and her family are moving Richmond, because of her husband's business transfer.

Her replacement has not been named because the office yet of first vice president, held tIl September by Mrs. William Hatton of Wallingford, was also vacated by a transfer. been named to the Carey board Jr. to has Mrs. Paul.

of place Mrs. Hatton as chairman the constitution and Lion study. groups, Family Activities in and DELAWARE COUNTY (PA.) DAILY TIMES, MONDAY, NOV. 14, PAGE HELEN HELP US Girl Reaches Unkissed DEAR HELEN: I motel" also provides What would about at no extra 'cost. baby groceries, selfish? Does this sound utteryou say ly Or do other parents girl of 25, nice looking but opin- Also, with so many extras to have this problem? lionated, who proudly swears 1 RENEGADE MOTHER she's never been kissed? ICEBERG'S HOPEFUL FRIEND! DEAR MOTHER: You aren't Helen selfish.

I can't say the same for your kids1 DEAR IHF: I'd say she's got Bottel something 10 swear about! your If possible, vacation why for don't you plan time, and let the children be I DEAR HELEN: I have been taking care of a your hosts for a change? boy since be was 3 years feed, the bills mount up. They old while the mother works. don't seem to realize we'd Ap- DEAR HELEN: He is in 1st grade now. His preciate having them buy a few' Do you think a boy of mother. was paying $15 a 22, wholis week, but she wants to reduce $10, to since he started to school.

Do you think this is right? BABYSITTER DEAR BABY SITTER: Why don't you figure It out on a perhour basis? In our neighborhood full time sitters charge up 10 50 cents per hour, or $5 day; part-time sitters come a little higher. However, pay depends on how much the working mother can afford, and how many children she has. Altive you now care for the boy two hours, a day, why don't you compromise at $12.50 a week? DEAR HELEN: It's getting on toward Christmas again, and our married children will be home -for the holidays two of them are the other in college, (so all have nearly three weeks to spend here. We love having them homeif we had them home, that is. to But the only times we see thein are at breakfast they get up, which they usually don't, and coming in and out the door.

They spend all their non-eatun-ing time visiting hometown friends, and we can be sure, we'll have them home only at week-day dinners (when no' one' else invites them.) re- I resent suppose shouldn't, being as a convenilegisla-lence. Now. that the grandchtl-1 'dren have come along our "free Miss Hale Is Bride Of Paul Stimmler morning in St. Gabriel's Catholic Church. The Rev.

James A. Chapman officiated. The bridegroom is the son of Mrs. Leon V. Stimmler, 1394 Spruce Norristown, and the late Mr.

Stimmier. Given in marriage by her brother-in-law, Robert T. Schoen of Glenolden, the bride chose a floor length gown of peau de soie with a full train. circle of pearl flowers, held her fingertip length veil, and she carried a nosegay of white stephanotis and ivy on her mother's bridal prayer book. Mrs.

Schoen, the matron of honor, wore a gown of royal blue crepe and lace with a matching headpiece. Her flowers were yellow pompons. Francis X. Stimmler was best, man. for his brother, and another Joseph Stimmier, and Edward Boyle of Upper Darby seated the guests.

Following a reception. in the Drexelbrook Club, the couple left' for New. York City. They will live in Germantown. A graduate of: Notre.

Dame High School, Moyian, the bride is a private secretary at the Philadelphia National Bank, Philadelphia. The bridegroom, a graduate of Villanova University, is a job analyst in the labor relations department of the MinneapolisHoneywell Philadelphia. GLENOLDEN-Miss R. Gale Hale, daughter of Mr. and Mrs.

Thomas Hale, 418 S. Scott T. Stimmler became the bride of Paul, here Saturday Slides To Be Shown NORWOOD Mrs. Jack Wicker of Glenolden, a member of the Mothers Club of St. Catholic Church, will show movies of her European trip when club meets at 8:30 asjp.m.

'Tuesday in the church hall. Miss Marcella Kenney is program chairman. Hostesses will be the Ist grade mothers led by Mrs. Carl Kuchler, Mrs. Leo McCormick, Mrs.

Alphonso Ferracio and Mrs. John. Talk Scheduled About Antiques RIDLEY PARK The Women's Auxiliary of Taylor Hospital will sponsor talk, "Antiques Can Be Fun," by Mrs. OLley, al p.m. Tuesday in the is nurses home, The event hospital open to the public, RENTAL AND SALES FOLDING WHEEL CHAIRS COMMODES WALKERS HOSPITAL BEDS MATTRESSES CRUTCHES TRACTION ND RAMS ENT RED TRAYS LARIS MED PANS CUSHIONS COLOSTOMY CANES SUPPLIES.

ALL ITEMS CARRIED IN STOCK FREE DELIVERY TR 4-4935 264 NELSON'S SURGICAL APPLIANCES 120 8. 4 Chador (near AMPLE FREE PARKING Dady 9 FESTIVE FLOWERS Mrs. George C. Makin 3rd of Milmont Ited Park, an accredflower show judge, will give a demonstration of holiday floral arrangements at 8:30 p.m. Thursday at the meeting in the council home of the auxiliary to Peace Council 4518, Knights of Columbus, Ridley Township.

Mra. Makin'a talk is one of a large number of such programs taking place in Delaware between now and Christmas. County Christmas Bazaar UPPER DARBY--The Mothers of the School of the Holy Calld, Drexel Hill, will sponsor a bazaar, "'Christmas from 11 a.m. to p.m. and 7 to 9 p.m: Tuesday in the school.

Mrs. Edward A. Walinchus of Springfield Mrs. John W. Swope of Drexel Hill are chairmen.

Members of the committee are Mra. Andrew Procopio of ALdan, Mrs. Peter Cekaltis of Clifton Heights, Mrs. William L. Cruice George Mrs.

G. Thomas Hewes, Mrs. Robert E. Holl, Mrs. Ernest A.

lacobuci, Mrs, William M. Kane, Mrs. Joseph McClos key, and' Mrs. Archibald L. McKinley, all of Drexe! Hill.

Others are Mrs. John J. McCreesh, Mrs. John T. McGrath, Mrs.

Francis Murphy, Mrs, Joseph Pierami, Mrs. Charles G. Rodgers, Mrs. Vita Ferreri, Mrs. Joseph W.

Ortlieb, all of Drexel Hill. Mrs. Alfred J. DeSantis of Havertown, Mrs. Charles B.

Songster of Secane and Mrs. Melvin McChesney and Mrs. Mark Foley of Springfield. Joan Graham Weds Harry A. Davidson NETHER PROVIDENCE The Wallingtord Presbyterian, Church was the setting here Saturday afternoon for the wedding of Miss Joan Audrey ham and Harry Alexander Dayidson.

The Rev: John B. Rowland ofliciated. Frank Mader was the organist. The bride Is the daughter Mr. and Mrs.

Eugene Graham, 302 Barry Lane, Wallingtord. The bridegroom's ents 'are Mr. and Welsh Davidson, 518 Penn Valley Road, Narberth. Given in marriage by her father, the bride wore a floor length taffeta and lace gown embroidered with pearls and sequins, with elbow length sleeves. The skirt ended in a chapel length train, A pillbox of lace and taffeta held her shoulder length veil, and she carried a cascade white roses, stephanotis and livy.

Elizabeth D. Foley Marries Lt. Licata RIDLEY TOWNSHIP Ourt Lady of Peace Catholic Church was the scene of the here Saturday' morning of Elizabeth Foley, daughter of Mr. and Mrs. James' Foley, 1146 Bullens Lane, Woodlyn, and Lt.

Michael Licata He is the son of Mrs. Michael J. Licata, 223 Folsom Folsom, and the late Mr. Licata. The Rev, Walter Nall per-.

formed the marriage ceremony and celebrated the nuptial Mrs. Bernard McGuire was faster 5-4; 0-d; 7-b; 8c; 9-g; 10-1. Attention, Brides-to-Be Wedding forms must be filled out and returned to the Daily Times office or to the Times correspondent in your area at least a week before the wedding. We will accept pictures separately up to a week after the wedding. However, the form must be sent in advance of the wedding whether there is a picture with it or not.

Answers PART 1: 1-a; 2-b; 3-c; 4-b; 5-c PART 11: 1-b; 2-0; 4a; 5d PART 111: 1c; 2-b; 3-e; 4d; SYMBOL QUIZ: 1-h; 3-i; 1 photo MRS. STIMMLER THE MATURE PARENT Narcissistic Mom Ignores Any Desires But Her Own patient telephones a doctor for a nonemergency pointment. Says the doctor, "I am too busy to see you until next Monday. What time would you like to The and patient ignores both statement question and replies "I am. only three blocks away from your office.

could get there in five mines from where I'm phoning." So tar as patient is concerned, the doctor and his life are things you put away into the refrigerator when you don't need them and take them out again. when you feel a need for them. They don't exist except in terms of his need of. them. In his new book, "'The Heart of Man;" psychoanalyst Erich Fromm gives us this story as an example of what he and his colleagues call "narcissism" that -blindness to anything but is our own named needs for and the' wishes which, Greek Narcissus who fell in love with his own reflection.

It: we are involved with "narcissistic" person, we sim: ply cannot expect him to remember that we live any apart from his need of us. This point I make for daughter who writes, "My moth er from is in the hospital recuperating! a mild heart As Sale to Aid Charities Members will of sell the Chester-OptiMrs. Club their tavorite pastries 1p one another Thursday, and the proceeds will be to help the charities the club supports. The "talent bake" will be feature of the meeting at 8 p.m.; in the home of Mrs. William Ehrhart, 211 Harrison Road, Middletown, vise Mrs.

John Bullock will super-' workshop for Chrisimas, decorations. Mrs. Charles Ripka Is in charge of the bake sale. The sewing group meeting will be Tuesday at Medical Center, Upland DiviIsion. -works very hard for his money and makes a fairly large ary, should give his mother his pay? The mother is not putting aside any savings for him; but conveniently uses it as pleases, She gives him about $10 week.

Both the father and mother work, but they claim, they can't make ends meet. There only four in the family. Is there a solution? FRIEND DEAR FRIEND: One solution marriage that what have in mind? Another is for the boy to come custodian of his own paying his mother a specific amount for and board: If he hasn't sufficient backbone to manage this, then the solution would also be a flop. This column is dedicated family living, 50 if you're having trouble or just plain trouble, let Helen help YOU. She will 'also welcome your own ansising experiences.

dress Helen Bottel in care the Delaware County Daily Pa. Times, 18 E. 8th Federation Flower 6.1 Show Set its lion of annual Women's will stage The Delaware County. flower show Friday and Saturday in the auditorium of Strawbridge and Clothier, Springfield. The theme is "Holiday.

Inspiration." Mrs. Joseph J. Stor. lazzi of. Swarthmore, County Federation garden chairman, is in charge.

The exhibils, which will be from 9 to 10:30 a.m. on Friday, will remain until Saturday after 5 p.m. Registration closes Wednesday. Entries are limited to. one in a class.

The arrangements are titled "Bless "Christmas Memories," This House," su Bambino," "Channukah," Merrie, Merrie Christmas," "Christ'Stars" and "After the Mrs. William Crothers Jr. of Wallingford, Mrs. William vanand Trump Mrs. of Brandywine Summit, W.

Andrew Wright Springfield will serve as judges. Aiding Mrs. Storlazzi are Mrs, Edward H. Bryant Jr. of Neth-' er Providence, honorary man; Mrs.

Simmitt J. Loeper chair, of Havertown, Mrs, George Trotler of Springfield, and Mrs. ter C. Eberhardt of Lansdowne, Wal, To prepare extra good dry bread crumbs at home save pieces of leftover French or Italina bread, Tarragon vinegar and capers, used of together, will enbance the flavor an oil and vinegar, dressing for salad. HUMAN HAIR WIGS NO MONEY DOWN ver you.

wee 75. Free Free Wis WHOLESALE end RETAN Wigs Free Shewing--bay or Evening NOW 17 LOCATIONS ROSATI AND SONS TRomont 6.9° 81 GEORGE CHABY WIGS salall she are you Sv bepay- to Adoff American beauty red brocade gowng and hairbows were worn by the matron of honor, Mrs. Clifton J. Sickler of Rochester, and the bridesmaid, Mrs. John Griffenberg of Riverion, N.J.

John S. Davidson of Germantown was best man for his ther. The ushers were Samuel McCullough of Pittsburgh, Howard Weiss of Scottsdale, and Lt. USN (j.g.) Richard C. Bachman, of San Francisco, Calif.

The newlyweds lent for Florida alter a reception in the Springhaven Club. They will make their home in Pittsburgh. A graduate of Nether Providence High School and Pennsylvania State University, the bride is a teacher at Pennridge, High School, Perkasie. The bridegroom is a sales representative for the Union Carbide Co. Pittsburgh.

He also is a graduate of Pennsylvania State University. SUZANNE CLEVENGER Girl of the Month Media Club Sets Bazaar The annual Christmas bazaar be staged by the Media Business. and Protessional Women's Club at its dinner at p.m. Tuesday in Howard Johnson's, Media. Honor guests at the dinner will Suzanne Clevenger, a at Media High School and mother, Mrs.

Llewelyn M. Clevenger of 119 N. West Miss Clevenger, an honor is interested in science. plans to attend. Grove City College following her graduaMrs.

Marion C. Lewis and Elizabeth Reiff head the members working on the bafruitcakes, They will sell candy and homemade goodies! surprise packages, jewelry, handicrafts, world. and gifts from the (have three young children, can only visit her every other day. But when 1 telephone her organist and Mrs. Louise Flacco the soloist.

Given in marriage by her fath-1 the bride wore a peau de soie gown appliqued with con lace, crystals and and with a chapel length train. A matching pillbox held her veil and she carried white prayer book with an orchid and -breath. 1 4: Miss Patricia J. Foleymaid of honor for her sister. Two other sisters, Miss Dolores A.

Foley and Mrs. George Gannon of Ridley Park, and Mrs. Walter Smith of Folsom were bridesmaids. Their sapphire blue peau de soie dresses had detachable overskirts and were complemented by matching rose-shaped headpieces. Their flowers were pink roses with babies'.

breath. Mary Elizabeth Murphy of Phillipsburg, N.J., was the flower girl. Richard Licata was best man. for his brother, and Mr. Gannon, Thomas Hickey of Upland, and John Gogol of Fort Wayne, seated the guests.

Following a reception in the will church social hail, Lt. and Mrs. Licata left for Santa Bartara, where he is stationed. He 6:30 is a graduate of Pennsylvania Military College. The bride was graduated, be from Notre Dame High and was employed by the Broad her Street Trust Morion.

Lecture Slated On House A slide illustrated lecture on house plants by John A. Borneman Jr. will highlight the meet-; ing of the Delaware County Garden Club at 8:15 p.m. Thursday in the Community Federal Savfings and Loan Association, State and Sproul Roads, Springlield. Muriel Lawrence on the days I Can't visit her, all I hear is about how lonely she is and why couldn't I come.

Engaged? Engagement announcements must be submitted well in advance. of the wedding on the Daily Times engagement form: Photographs should be clear black and white glossy photos 2 3, 4 5 or 8 10 inches. There is no charge for the announcement to appear in the paper, To get the engagement. form write or call the Family Section. of the Daily Times, TRemont 6-6161, or contact your correspondent.

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I don't know how strong you are. So 1 don't know whether you can handle the Narcissus in your mother, are entitled to live your lite as 1 don't think you are sure you a wife 'and a mother as well your life as the child of a woman in hospital. If you. were sure there'd be no problem, would there? your mothers' insistences that you live no life but the you spend with her, you'd have one long since learned to say, have to go Narcissistic people are retarded people. They still live in the world of the baby who screams for our attention without any interest whatever in the fact that our attention is enby parts of our life are gaged by a fu bug, by friends, separate from his.

It is very hard on their children who tend to think of their parents as grownups. A 1.