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ALTOfo EVENING TELEGRAPH TUESDAY, DECEMBER 28, 1965 Presbyterian Church Couple Say Vows Miss Sari Dieffenbachcr. formerly of Alton, and Beryl Wilkie exchanged vtfws at 3 p.m. Mnn- day In the Bible Presbyterian Church. The former Miss Dleffenbnch- er tM daughter of Mrs. Rexford Smart of 332? College Ave Mr, Wlifcfe'g parents are Mr.

and Wilkie of West- vilte, Oklft. Officiating was the Rev. Albert F. Moginot Vocalist was Keith Ward of St. Louis, accompanied by Miss Ruth of SUhvell.

Okla. A reception at the church followed the ceremony. Matrbn of honor was Mrs. Lloyd Long of Jacksonville, Pla. Best man was the brother of the bridegroom, Delman Wilkie of Owassa, Okla.

Ushers were Allan Henry of Stilwell and Eddie Gray. The bride appeared in a floor- length organza gown with alen- con lace appliques accenting the molded bodice and detachable train The controlled sWrt was banded with venisc lace and appliques of alencon. Her veil was of silk illusion, secured with a double crown of lace, seed pearls and crystal. She carried a cascade of white roses and lilies of (ho valley. Mrs Lung's dross was emerald green, and she carried yellow roses The former Miss Dieffenbacher is a graduate of Civic Memorial High School and of Covenant College, formerly located in St.

Louis. It is now in Chattanooga. She is employed as an Knglish teacher at Sill- well High School, Stilwell. Okla. Mr.

Wilkie. a graduate of Wostville High School and Connors College in Okla- home, is employed by Ozarks Rlcctrlcal Cooperative. Stilwell. The newlyweds will reside in Wpstville. Okla.

Marilyn Horsley to Marry R. Guy Nottoli in Summer 4706 SIZES 10-18 Mr. and Mrs. Harold Horsley MISS HORSLEY of 5683 Humbert Road, are announcing the engagement of their daughter, Marilyn Hope, to R. Guy Nottoli of Chicago.

The prospective bridegroom is a son of Mrs. Marjorie Nottoli of Chicago, and R. G. Nottoli of Evanston. The bride-elect attended MacMurray College in Jacksonville, and is attending the University of Illinois at the medical center in Chicago, She is in the college of nursing, and a member of Alpha Tau Delta service sorority for professional nurses.

Mr. Nottoli is in the Naval Air Reserve stationed at Low- cry AFB in Denver. He is a graduate of the University of Dubuque, Iowa. The couple is planning a summer wedding. Be Fashion-Alert! PRINTED PATTERN Be fashion-alert! Choose the joyful jumper that's quickest to just 2 main parts! Plunging V-neck is smart foil for soft blouse.

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125 top shnpes for fun, dnnclng, dlnlnR, everyday! One free pattern clip coupon In Catalog. Send 50 cents. The Family Slieinwold on Bridge Watch Bad Players' Methods By ALFRED SHEINWOLD Good bridge players love to save an ace until it is ripe. Bad players lead out their aces as quickly as possible. Since this column is devoted to the truth, I must report that occasionally the bad player's method works better.

South won the first trick with the jack of spades and decided to try for some diamond tricks. Since South was a famous expert, with all of the expert's nasty habits, he began by leading a low diamond from his hand. East won with the singleton queen of diamonds and returned a low spade. In East's case it was quite correct to'save the ace of spades for the right tinte. South with the king of spades and led his ace of diamonds.

The suit didn't break, and South had to try for a club trick instead. West got in with a club and cashed his two diamonds. Then he led his last spade, and East took enough spade tricks to defeat the contract. Start Properly South should start the diamonds by leading the ace. When the queen drops, South can lead a low diamond toward dummy's nine.

West gels two diamonds, the Storey Corner By BECKY STOREY Christmas is over, and the long, hard winter is about to set in. True to form, the shopkeepers are starting to push spring merchandise, and are revamping window decorations. And even though we want to rebel at the thought, the herd instinct comes through, and we start thinking in terms of spring and summer fashions. To be sure to step out with the first breath of spring, the National Shoe Institute has released its line of spring footwear thai comes on with a bounce. Straps and more straps are the latest word, with bold, bright patents coming on strong.

Dots and stripes on shoes are going to be but to be really with it, more that just the top of your foot should show. You don't need anyone to tell you that now is the time to do next year's Christmas shopping. What with the sales on decorations, gift wrappings and cards, storing a few for next year will be profitable in the long run, 1 For folks who like to have fun, the fur's the thing. While a few years ago, a beaver coat was the most extreme thing furs, today fabric is being used for slacks, bats and jump- suits. Jfewever.

jack Winter has come to the rescue of the working girl, and made outfits out of fake furs that many times are more desirable than the real thing, and are at a lower price. The skier will welcome the new insulated fur fashions, for now she can look like a fashion plate on the slopes instead of a cold-Wooded Eskimo. it In bygone years, those who were art fanatics were either nuts or highly intellectual, and sometimes it was hard to tell the difference. But "art is no longer what looks like art." Today's "super-pop" art is characterized by objects in everyday u'fe combined to form with a 'greasy verisimilitude' The winning work in a recent popular art show was several plastic bleach bottles fused together into a pile In modern terms, art is ufe. and life is art SpeaJung of art in the pure form of the word, a movie theater in ihe area is endeavoring to bring some culture to its by having films that are considered to be classics The one coming up Shake speare's "Othello," aud will probably prove to be educational as well as entertaining.

South dealer Both sides vulnerable ISORTH A Q75 865 0 VEST EAST 4 1098 6432 5 K34 Q973 0 K387 9 Q109 84 SOUTH A K.I 3 A 10 2 0 A 10653 A(U South Wcs1 North East 1 NT All Opening lead IO and East gets three spades, but South makes his contract with an overt rick instead of going down one. Leading the ace out first would work equally wejl if West had a singleton instead of East. South would continue with a low diamond from his hand, but would get to dummy with the king of clubs to lead the next diamond from dummy. Daily Question Partner opens with 1 NT (16 to 18 points), and the next player passes. You hold: Spades 10, 9.

hearts 4: diamonds 8. clubs 10, 9. What do you say? ANSWER: Bid 3 NT Since you have 10 poinls, you know thai the combined count is 26 to 28 points, which should be enough for game. To order a Pockei Guide to Bridge send 50 to the Alton Telegraph. Box 331S.

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Corp Students Present Christinas Music Music students of Miss Bonnie Sparks gave a Christmas concert Sunday at the Lewis and Clark restaurant Performing at the organ were: Pam Sitze. Jeannie Hill, Betty Ann Marmino. Jim Wiemers, Charles Johansen. Sharon Brinker and Carol Wilson. Beverly Wolfe played the piano and Gary Little and Carol Bryant played the guitar and sang folk Jan Hill gave a reading.

"The Old Rag DoUy." Gifts were exchanged, attendance prizes were given and re- Ann Landers Grief Comes Bv Negligence DEAR ANN: Your column hits everybody sooner or later. I got mine in the letter from the grandma whose daughter left her 3-year-old in Ihe, bathtub. Here is my story: I left my three little girls In the tub while I wer.i to give the infant his bottle. The two older climbed out and turned thf faucet Ann Landers. on.

A few minutes later the Cooking Is Fun tm By Ctclly Bfownitont NEW YEAH'S EVE BUFFET A delicious version of a popular uncooked relish. Homemade Ham and Veal Loaf Mrs. Lillian Gallagher's Cranberry Relish Salad Bowl Assorted Breads Holiday Cookies Beverage Mrs. Lillian Gallagher's Cranberry Relish 1 pound fresh cranberries, washed and drained 3 impeded medium oranges (quartered and seeded) 3 unpecled med. apples, cored 3 cups sugar Put the cranberries, apples and oranges through the coarse blade of a food grinder.

Thoroughly mix in the sugar. Re- I'rigerale, covered, in a nonmetallic container for 24 hours before serving. Makes about 1'4 quarts. Vows Are Taken in Alton Church Miss Virginia Lee Luster became the bride of Richard M. Bivens, son of Mr.

and Mrs. Byron Bivens of Brighton, Thursday, in the First Methodist Church of Alton. The bride's parents; Mr. and Mrs. Quentin Luster, honored the couple at a reception in thtir home, 2009 Ridge Drive, for the family and close friends.

The former Miss Luster, a 1964 graduate of Alton High School, attended Southern Illinois University, Alton campus, where she was employed as sec- r'erary to the student council. Mr. Bivens, a 1965 graduate of SIU and a 1961 graduate of Alton High School, is a science teacher in Chicago Heights. After a wedding trip to Florida, the couple wiH reside in Chicago. older one came to tell me that her little sister was "asleep with her face down in the water" and wouldn't wake up.

We lived two blocks from the police station. Within minutes lhe police were on the scene. They rushed the child tn the hospital, but it was too late. I can still hear the voices at the funeral. "She should have known "What a foolish person to have left those children alone." Ann.

if you will print my letter and save just one mother I IIP agony I went through it will bo worth the heartache I am still Buffering as I put these words down on paper. Thank E. DEAR MRS. Here it is and I can add nothing except my devout wish lhal all mothers who read your letter will remember what they have read. DKAIt ANN: The cleaning woman who has worked for me for six is an alcoholic.

Please don't send me your booklet. 1 am not interested in curing her. When Ruby is Betrothal Is Told MISS GEORGE Mr. and Mrs. James George, 98 N.

Lincoln Drive, Cottage Hills, are announcing the engagement of their daughter, Donna Jean, to Robert Simmons, son of Mr. and Mrs. Glen Simmons of Rte. 1, Bethalto. The bride-elect was graduated from Civic Memorial 'High School in 1965, and Mr.

Simmons attended the same school. He was graduated in October, from National Barber College, Springfield, and is employed by Booten's Barber Shop on Milton Road. VISIT FOR CHRISTMAS Mr. and Mrs. Grover Sparks and their son, Lyle, of 944 Cedar Drive.

Wood River, spent Christmas day with the John Whipps family of Salem, 111., whom Miss Bonnie Sparks is visiting during the Christmas vacation. MIRROR OF YOUR MIND Are comedians funny offstage? Answer: Often not. So-called born comedians are people who want to induce laughter in others. Some are basically sad and sometimes humble, and they rely on humor as a defense against their social anxiety. Possessing these characteristics, they achieve By JOSEPH WHITNEY and relaxation when they are successful in inducing the hearty laughter of associates.

Many delightful people with a flair for comedy tend lo feel depressed and insecure when they are alone. Can extra sleep help emotional problems? Answer: Yes, ij it is deep and untroubled. In limes of mental distress we tend lo awaken most frequently, and stay awake longer, in ihe early morning hours. This is normally the longest dreaming period. Recent res.earcu indicates that the need to dream is the major function of sleep.

Since early- morning insomniacs are deprived of the mos.t restful, healing effects of sleep, relaxed daytime naps can often help jjj restoring emotional balance. Do premature babies develop normally? Answer: Those receiving proper care Usually do. Some grow up with handicaps; generally insignificant ones, according to Dr. Margaret Dunn of New York Hospital. In one study Dr.

Dunn and associates followed up the cases )1 100 premature infants, weighing about two pounds at birth, and found all had generally good health. One baby weighing one pound, seven ounces at birth was a high school senior in good health, and weighed over 100 pounds. storted she cleans the house better than my other cleaning woman did when she was sober. As far as I am concerned, she can drink all she wants to. What I want to know is how can get Ruby to quit drinking a half fifth of expensive Scotch every time she cleans the house.

I am sure she is not used to such fine liquor and when she buys the stuff herself she gets a very cheap brand. Would it be wrong for me to buy Ruby some cheap booze and tell her to leave the good stuff alone? Don't suggest that I lock up the liquor cabinet. I did this once and she asked for the key so she could clean it thoroughly. So you see she Is a smart old lush. DEAR STY: Obviously, she's a lot smarter than the lady she works for.

Hasn't it occurred to you to keep the liquor cabinet locked and clean it yourself? DEAR ANN: I told my husband that the very next time he walks into the house with unexpected dinner guests I'm going to put on my coat before they sit down and march them right, over to a restaurant. He threw three extras at me last night and I was embarrassed to death. I am a very good cook, Ann, but I am no magician. I can't stretch a four-pound roast and a pound and a half of green beans to feed 10 people. My husband says the salesmen he brings home are so hungry for home cooking that they'd rather have a fried egg in our house than a steak in a restaurant.

Please, oh please, tell me what to do about this. -SICK OF SURPRISES DEAR SICK: Your husband gave you the answer. Fry 'em an egg and don't make any apologies. If your husband objects to cackle-berries for dinner tell him to bring along extra T- bones when he brings those salesmen who are so hungry for home cooking. fi IB If you have trouble getting along with your parents (f you can't get them to let you live your own life, send for Ann Landers booklet, "Bugged By Parents? How To Get More Freedom." Send 50c in coin with your request and a long, self- addressed, stamped Ann Landers will be glad to help you with your problems.

Send them to her tn care of the Alton Telegraph, enclosing a stamped, self-addressed envelope, (c) Publishers Newspaper Syndicate BIRTHS Mr. and Mrs. Lawrence Krankel, 239 Thomas Roxana, a son, Thomas William, 7 pounds and 5 ounces, 12:56 a.m. Monday, Alton Memorial Hospital. Elder child: Ronald Dean, 2V 2 Mr.

and Mrs. Gerald Walker, 1321 Easton a son, 5 pounds and 8 ounces, 7:07 p.m. Monday, St. Joseph's Hospital. Elder children: Jenny, 12, Robert, 10, and David, 5.

Mr. and Mrs. John F. Stephan, 1121 Seller a daughter, 5 pounds and 5 ounces, 4:26 p.m., Monday, St. Joseph's Hospital.

Grandparents are Mr. and Mrs. Joseph E. Stephan, and Mr. and Mrs.

Charles A. Currins. Mr. and Mrs. Albert Wilkinson, Rte.

1, Godfrey, a son, Michael Gregory, 6 pounds and 12 ounces, 7:13 a.m. Monday, St. Joseph's Hospital. Miss Wilson Is Engaged SIISS WILSON Mr. and Mrs.

Herbert W. Wilson of 2824 Sanford Ave. are announcing the engagement of their eldest daughter, Siiaron Kay, to William Riley, son of Mr. and Mrs. Darrell E.

Riley of 301 Dorrts St. Miss Wilson is a 1965 graduate of Alton High School and is a freshman student at St. Luke's Hospital School of Nursing in St. Louis. Mr.

Biiey, a 1964 graduate ol the same high school, attends St. Louis College of Pharmacy, is eir.pluy.ed at Foster's Drug A Lovelier You Remedy for Arms By MARY SUE MILLER A teen'writes: Have pity on me and 'tell me what to do about thin, gangling arms. I never gave them much thought until I got my first formal a few weeks ago. When I wear the dress, I can't think of anything else. The Answer: You are not alone in your misery.

Many teens are plagued by awkward arms. The problem can be Engagement Announced MISS JOHNS Mr, and Mrs. Victor Johns of 4516 N. Alby Godfrey, are announcing the engagement of their daughter, Vicky Siiaron, to Steven R. Bradshaw, son of Mr.

and Mrs. Robert C. Bradshaw of Fosterburg. The bride-elect is a 1965 graduate of Alton High School and is attending Southern Illinois University, Edwardsvjlle campus. She is employed by the admissions office of the university.

Mr. Bradshaw is a 1965 graduate of the same high school and attends at the Alton campus, He is employed as an instructor by the YMCA-YWCA. No wedding date has been set. overcome in two ways: 1. For immediate improvement, leach your arms to be graceful.

Make it quite clear that they 'must never fall stiffly in front of the body. Their proper place is at the sides of the body, with the hands in profile (thumbs facing forward and fingers relaxed in a natural curl). Grace also gets a boost from carrying your evening bag at waist level, instead of letting it dangle. For more of the same, clasp your hands lightly just below the waist and extend elbows well out to sides. Try these tips before your mirror; your arms the idea and find other ways to maneuver gracefully.

2. For long-term improvement, build up the arms. This is a top routine for the purpose: Kneel on floor. Keeping arms rigid, rest hands on floor directly beneath shoulders; point fingers outward (at right angles to wrists) and draw spine into straight line. Now, by bending elbows outward, lower forehead to floor and then push upward to start' ing position.

Repeat 10 times, working slowly and tensing arm muscles. ENHANCED BOSOMLINE For a more attractive bosom, write Mary Sue Miller in care of Alton Telegraph, requesting my five-cent pamphlet, "Enhanced Bosomline." Don't forget to Include five cents In coin and a large, self-addressed, stamped envelope. Enhanced Bosomline contains detailed Instructions on how curve and lift can be improved through exercise, posture and corsetry. (c) Publishers Newspaper Syndicate Open House to Be Given January 2 Mr. and Mrs.

Willard Eaton of 644 Lincoln A.ve., East Alton, will be honored at an open house Jan. 2 given by Mr. and Mrs. Ronald Eaton o'f Elsah. The event will be from 2-6 p.m.

in East Alton Savings Loan Association building. No invitations are being mailed. The Batons were married on Dec. 31, 1940. Ronald Eaton is their only child.

Miss Mindrup Is Bride Miss Sue Mindrup, daughter of Mr. and Mrs. W. James Mindrup of Dallas, formerly of Alton, became the bride of Lt. Thomas Lynn Bockholt at an evening ceremony Monday in the College Avenue Presbyterian Church.

Mr. Bockholt, who is serving with the U. S. Marine Corps, is the son of Mrs. Harold Bockholt of Keystone, Iowa, and the late Mr.

Bockholt. Officiating minister was the Rev. Henry Moore. The bride chose a gown of candlelight silk-faced satin with high-rise waist. Its bateau neckline was trimmed with natural lace scallops, and twin panels of lace applique decked the A-line skirt.

Appliques of re-embroidered alencon lace edged the chapel-length court train. Her veil of silk illusion billowed from a coif of tulle and alencon lace. She carried white orchids and stephanotis. Maid of honor for Miss Mindrup was Miss Cheryl Mindrup of Pallas, and bridesmaids were Mrs. Dale Johnson of Waverly, Iowa; Miss Caroline Matterson of Ames, Iowa; Mrs.

James Watkins of Baltimore, Miss Vickie Mueller of Kansas City, and Miss Bev Smith of Ames, Iowa. Their gowns were of moss- green velvet and candlelight Miss Vrsch Feted 4t Bridal Shower Twenty-five guests attended a miscellaneous shower given Monday, at the Westerner Club, in honor Miss Karen Urscb. She will marry John Fitzgerald Feb. 19, in St. Mary's Calotte Church.

Hostesses for tljft event weie Miss Theresa Hoffman and Miss Carolyn Ann crepe with slim skirts and ruffled sleeves. Their headpieces were of green velvet and they carried muffs trimmed with red poinsettias and holly. Steve Lindblom of Davenport, Iowa, was best man, and groomsmen were John of Iowa City; J. D. Thorsen of Poolville, Iowa; Jerry Ackerman of Ames, Iowa; Dale Johnson of Waverly, Iowa; and James Mindrup, brother of the bride.

Ushers were Ted Rule, Bert Moore and Don Lutz. Miss Lorrie Ohde was flower girl. Miss Rita Owens was' vocalist, accompanied by Mrs, Thomas Henesey. Following the ceremony, a reception was given in the home of the bride's grandparents, Mr. and Mrs.

George A. Fischer of 4 Avon Place. KUCKUOLT.