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March 1 19, 1983 Green Bay Press-Gazette SC Green Bay area couples repeat wedding vows GreenDe Laruelle Immaculate Conception Church, rural De Pere, provided the setting for the 2:30 p.m. wedding March 11 of Joyce J. Green and Dale S. Laruelle. "The new Mrs.

De Laruelle the daughter of Mr. Mrs. Leonard J. Green, Route 3, De Pere. Her husband is the son of Mrs.

Diane Symons and Roger G. De Laruelle, both of Green Bay. Miss Helen Hermus and Bruce De Laruelle were chosen as honor witnesses. Prober attendants, included Joann Green and Sharon Green, bridesmaids, and Roger De Laruelle Rick Staevens and Gregg De Laruelle, groomsmen. Laura Linssen was flower girl and John Schmidt acted as ring bearer.

Donald Green and Wayne Bain served as ushers. The bridegroom is stationed with the Navy in Martin-Joniaux Traditional wedding vows were recited March 5 at St. Mary Catholic Church, Luxemburg, by Miss Linda Louise Martin and Mark Gerard Joniaux. Parents of the newlyweds are Mr. and Mrs.

Vernon Martin, Route 1, Luxemburg, and Mr. and Mrs. Laurel Joniaux, Route 2, Luxemburg. Brenda Hunsader and Paul Dalebroux were selected as honor witnesses for the 1 p.m. ceremony.

Lynn Joniaux, Maria Joniaux and Julie Martin were bridesmaids and Paul Hunsader, Mike Martin and Tim Hoida served as groomsmen. Joe Martin and Donald Aga- maite seated the guests. The new Mr. and Mrs. Joniaux reside at Route 4, Luxemburg, WisneskiCarriveau WisneskiCarriveau Wedding vows were exchanged by Mrs.

Kathleen Theresa Roffers Wisneski and Nicholas John Carriveau during a 6 p.m. ceremony March 5 at Highland Crest Baptist Church. Parents of the bridal couple are Mr. and Mrs. Willard Roffers and Mr.

and Mrs. John Carriveau, all of Green Bay. Acting as honor witnesses were Mrs. Patricia Gaestel and Robert Rausch Jr. Miss Colleen Roffers, Miss Cheryl Roffers, Curt Cootway and Frank Green also attended the couple.

James Gaestel seated the guests. The newlyweds reside in Green Bay. Carriveau attends Fox Valley Technical Institute, Appleton. Miss Larken Bradley and David C. Speer were united in marriage at 3 p.m.

Feb. 20 during an outdoor wedding ceremony on Mount Tamalpais, Marin County, Calif. Parents of the bridal couple are Mr. and Mrs. Thomas Bradley, 1338 Ken Drive, and Mr.

and Mrs. John Speer of Martinsburg, W. Va. Mr. and Mrs.

Gerald J. Kubiak were chosen as honor attendants. The newlyweds reside in Larkspur, Calif. The bride received her bachelor's degree in communications from University of WisconsinGreen Bay. Speer attended UW- Madison and received his bachelor's degree in landscape architecture from the University of GeorgiaAthens.

Mr. and Mrs. Dale De Laruelle Derenne-Phillips Miss Lois Mary Derenne and Patrick John Phillips were united in marriage at 3 p.m. Feb. 5 at the Ecumenical Center at the University of Wisconsin-Green Bay.

Parents of the bridal couple are Mr. and Mrs. Joseph Derenne, Route 1, Luxemburg, and Mr. and Mrs. John Phillips, 3890 Finger Road.

Miss Joann Derenne and Joe Rentineester were selected as honor witnesses. Completing the wedding party were Miss Peggy Phillips, Miss Ruth Derenne and Mrs. Donna Needham, bridesmaids, and Paul Derenne, Jeff Phillips and John Needham, groomsmen. Alan Derenne and Tim Ledvina served as ushers. The newlyweds reside at 473 Zelas Drive.

The bride attended the University of Wisconsin-Milwaukee and Phillips received a bachelor's degrees in finance and marketing from UW-Green Bay. Nativity of Our Lord Catholic Church provided the setting for the 3 p.m. wedding Jan. 22 of Miss Mary Gladys Verhagen, daughter of Mr. and Mrs.

Wilbert Verhagen, 1055 Glory Road, and Michael John Hockers, son of Mr. and Mrs. John Hockers, 2817 S. Broadway. The bride selected Mrs.

James Verhagen as her matron of honor and Miss Laura Verhagen, Mrs. Duane Schroeder and Mrs. Jesse Brault as bridesmaids. Best Paul Vanden Branden many assisted by Paul Hockers, Ray Hockers and Pat Hockers. James Verhagen and Duane Schroeder performed ushering duties.

The newlyweds reside i in Ashwaubenon. FrawleyManning The wedding vows of Miss Colleen Rae Kramer and Gary M. Specht were blessed in rites at 5:30 p.m. altar of St. Dec.

17 at Emmanuel Lu- Local stations clearing the air After almost five months of fuzziness, the picture about Green Bay continuing to have an NBC-TV station was finally fine-tuned this week. WLUK, Channel 11, will be that station. NBC kept people in the lurch after its present affiliate, WFRV, Channel 5, bolted and said it was going to ABC in April. Some people asked such question as, "Will I be able to see 'Hill Street Blues'?" and "I like watching doubleheader NFL football games. Will I be able to see 'em?" NBC did those people a disservice by giving the impression it might not have a station here.

Of course, that's ridiculous, but it's what some people thought. NBC let anger get in the way of making a clean cut with its present affiliate, WFRV, Channel 5. For its part, Channel 5 doesn't come off like a shining knight. Its contract with NBC had renewed (until Feb. 1, 1985) just prior to the announcement of its switch.

That's what frosted NBC. Ahead lies a period of viewer confusion. We're used to seeing certain shows on certain stations, but that's going to change and it's going to seem weird. It happens April 18, a Monday. That day, ABC programs will go to Channel 5 in Green Bay and to its satellite station WJMN, Channel 3, in Escanaba, Mich.

NBC programs will go to Channel 11. Both 5 and 11 say they're going to make as few changes as possible in syndicated programs people are used to seeing on their stations to lessen confusion. They also plan to hold to the network fare already seen here. If anything, there would be a few more network shows airing. For instance, Channel 11 will run "Saturday Night Live," which has been off here for a long time.

It is also considering running "SCTV," a late-night Friday comedy show, possibly on a tape-delay basis. Channel 5 says Dick Clark's "American Bandstand" is a likely addition. And it is considering Howard Cosell's "Sportsbeat." Mr. and Mrs. Mark Joniaux Jude Catholic Church, Eugerre, nuptial promises were spoken Jan.

1 by Miss Gail Marie Frawley and Richard John Manning Jr. Parents of the bridal couple are Mr. and Mrs. Gerald Frawley and Mr. and Mrs.

Richard Manning, all of Eugene and formerly of Green Bay and De Pere. Maid of honor was Miss Karen Frawley. Bridesmaids were Mrs. James Frawley and Miss Jill Manning. Best man David Salm was assisted by Robert Manning and Roger Manning.

The newlyweds are residing in Stockton, where the bridegroom is attending college. The bride was graduated from the University of Oregon-Eugene. Her husband attended the same university. Kramer-Specht Around switch time, Busse said, Channel 11 will be making some changes in its local news. "There will be new people, a new news set, a new promotion campaign," he said.

Southard said Channel 5 began pursuit of a network change about a year ago. Did he ever talk with CBS? "No," Southard said. CBS, which is quite stable and has a good lineup of affiliates, just isn't doing that much switching," he said. "I would be surprised if it would feel it would be to its advantage to have switched." However, CBS did get some inquiries from Channel 11. The station had nothing to lose for asking.

"We talked to it, sure," Busse said. "It was another alternative for us." But, Busse noted, "Certainly CBS is not unhappy with the performance of (Channel 2), so it certainly was not shopping around looking for a change." Even though the network switch is definite, there's still a question mark. NBC has made comments suggesting it will file suit against Channel 5. "It's a business tactic on the part of NBC because it is facing a lot of problems retaining its affiliates," Southard said. "It's a delaying tactic that hopefully might discourage other stations from thinking of a shift when they know that it's an uncomfortable, unpleasant situation and perhaps NBC can deter them in some way.

"Certainly it can sue us. But it really doesn't have much grounds to sue us because we have never said we are canceling our network affiliation. All I ever told them was effective April 25 (six months after notification) I was carrying no more NBC programs. "A network is not in a position to tell a station what it will program. That's a licensee's responsibility, and the Federal Communications Commission just would not let a network enter into that area." Southard added, "I would be very surprised if any lawsuit would be initiated." The network switch is not a first here.

When it came on the air in the '50s, Channel 11 was an NBC station. Understanding ing key to happy family Gannett News Service "When I had lunch with my mother yesterday," 28- year-old Paula complains to her roommate, "she wasn't even nice enough to ask me about my Meanwhile, her mother Helen tells her friend about the same lunch this way: "If we ask Paula anything about her life, she accuses us of prying, SO we've decided to stay out of things and keep the peace. When I had lunch with her yesterday, I didn't ask her a single question about her job!" Here they two adult women, intelligent, wellmeaning, eager to maintain a caring relationship. But they are working at cross- purposes. Why do mother and daughter fail to understand each other? How can their relationship be improved? Arthur Maslow, a family therapist and clinical staff 8 eer Warren Gerds Of the Press-Gazette Network sports fare has already changed stations on Sundays.

April 4, NBC's "The Tonight Show with Johnny Carson" will go to Channel 11. All other switches take place April 18. The decision about what will fill the empty "Tonight" slot at Channel 5 will be made this weekend, according to Robert Southard, vice president and general manager. Southard and other station officials are at the national programmers' convention in Las Vegas to look at material. "We'll make our final decisions out there, so we should have it ready to go the first part of next week," he said.

Both Southard and Larry Busse, Channel 11 general manager, played some gamesmanship when interviewed about the network switch. That's to be expected. They want their stations to look good. Southard said, "ABC programming will certainly strengthen and improve our demographic numbers (by age and sex), giving us the younger demographic numbers that we did not have with NBC." Southard said Channel 5 plans to plug its own programs, especially news, in the "areas with good, young demographics." He is looking for local news ratings to skew younger than they do now. News numbers are also on the mind of Busse at Channel 11.

"I'm kind of enthusiastic about the network switch because we want to be in the news business," he said. "One of the handicaps we've always had, particularly with the early news, is that we did not have a (strong ABC) news lead -in into our local news." Busse added, "People in this market have just refused to buy ABC news. From our standpoint, it's been a tremendous handicap." See what I mean about gamesmanship? wisdom -than at any other time in parenting. It isn't easy to let a 16-year-old test his wings, make mistakes, experiment with and drugs. But Maslow says it's what parents must do.

"The less dangerous forms of experimentation (smoking pot or drinking beer) are likely to be resolved by the experimenters themselves, provided the family does not allow its equilibrium to be upset by worrisome activity," he said. "As for the kids who get through the age of experimentation by floating through the cracks by hanging back and leaving the true scope of teen -age experience to their peers -I feel they are missing out. They will never again have the chance to relive the teenage experience and to learn about life in the company of their peers." VerhagenHockers This is not to say that parents shouldn't set limits. Children, especially maturing children, "can bear ground rules, so long as the rules are few and fair and unmistakable in their boundaries." "A family is not a democracy," Maslow and Duggan say. "Although its members are fully equal to each other in their degree of belonging to the family, and although they have rights based on that equality, they do not possess equal authority." Family members, the authors say, earn standing in the family based on thir performance of family roles.

Traditionally, the role for the father is providing money for food and shelter; for the mother, keeping the family fed, clothed and cared for, and for the children, going to school and getting passing grades. Mr. and Mrs. Nicholas Carriveau Mr. and Mrs.

Michael Hockers theran Church, Seymour. esa Schroeder Acting as honor witnesses bridesmaids and were Miss Sharon Specht Bart Gritt, and Dale Lardinois. The Ron Gritt and Misses Debby Specht, Con- kaszka served as nie Kettner, Jayne Fleisch- Bob Gritt and man, Janet Turek and Ter- shared ushering Mr. and Mrs. Patrick Phillips Mr.

and Mrs. Gary Specht attended as Jeff Gipp, Jerry Lepak, Henry Lugroomsmen. Keith Stamps duties. The bride is the daughter of Mrs. Pearl Kramer, Seymour, and the late Paul Kramer.

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In his new book, "Family Connections: Parenting Your Grown Children" (coauthored by Moira Duggan), he said families are delicately balanced systems that strive to remain on an even keel. When people in the family change when they grow up, move away, marry, divorce or die the family system must change to stay steady. And one of the most wrenching, universal changes to which a family must adjust is the maturation and separation of growing children. More is demanded of the parents of adults and nearadults more restraint, more understanding, more According to Maslow and Duggan, parenting children involves openness, clarity and consistency of limits, demonstration of the continuing capacity for change and adjustment and, hardest of all, "resolution and growth of family relationships so that members are able to move on to lives and families of their own instead of getting 'stuck' in patterns of family dependency." Maslow suggests two tricks for avoiding stagnation: role playing and tape recording sessions. At the dinner table, change places every now and then and assume the role of the person who sits there.

At other times, play yourself, but turn on the tape recorder. "Most of us at times say things with absolutely no cognizance of the response we are causing in others," the authors write..