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i Green Bay Press-Gazette Saturday, Jan. 21, 1984 A-9 SCENE Marriage vows exchanged by area couples MelchiorScheunemann Nuptial promies were exchanged Dec. 30 by Patricia Ann Melchior and Elton Lee Scheunemann. The 7 p.m. candlelight ceremony was held at St.

John Catholic Church in Gillett. The bride is the daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Robert Melchior, Gillett, and the bridegroom is the son of Mr. and Mrs.

Milton Scheunemann of Vesper. Honor attendants were Mary Cole and Dennis Behling. Other members of the wedding party were Tracey Hintz, Christine Cole and Janet Powell, bridesmaids; Sandra Melchior, junior bridesmaid, and Kevin Scheunemann, Thomas Bayee and James Powell, groomsmen. Cortney Rokus was flower girl and Greg Melchior served as ring bearer. Joseph Melchior and Ronald Muncl shared usherng duties.

The new Mr. Scheunemann is a graduate of the University of WisconsinStout, Menomonie, and her nusband is a graduate of Madison Area Technical College. After a honeymoon in Florida, the couple will reide in Bonduel. 3onnin-Laine St. John Lutheran Church, Pulaski, provided he setting for the Nov.

19 vedding of Miss Debra Gay Bonnin and Ralph Alan Caine. Parents of the couple are Mr. and Mrs. Lloyd E. Bonuin, Route 3, Pulaski, and Mr.

and Mrs. Ralph A. Laine, Pulaski. Serving as honor witnesses were Barb Przybylski and Gherud Laine. Diane Donfirs, Darlene Bonnin, Amy Beyer and Dena Ziemer attended as bridesmaids and Randy Klein, Danny Bonnin, Dale Krumrai and Dale Bonnin served as groomsmen.

Joshua Bonnin and Dustin Beyer served as ring bearers and David Bonnin and Bruce Beyer performed ushering duties. The new Mr. and Mrs. Laine make their home in Pulaski. Heezen-Doherty The wedding vows of Miss Barbara L.

Heezen and Verne T. Doherty were blessed in rites at 2 p.m. Nov. 12 at St. Mary Catholic Church, De Pere.

Mr. and Mrs. Henry Heezen, Route 1, De Pere, and Mr. and Mrs. Leland Doherty, 1007 Cedar De Pere, are the newlyweds' parents.

Honor witnesses for the ceremony were Miss Beverly Heezen and John Gage. Mrs. Rick Boyea, Miss Karen Schmidt, Tim Doherty and Dennis Doherty completed bridal party. Guests were seated by David Heezen and Kevin Doherty. The Dohertys make their home in De Pere.

Heise-Delano Miss Marlene B. Heise and Junius Morrill Delano Jr. were united in marriage on Saturday, Oct. 29, during a 4 p.m. ceremony at the Rio Bravo Resort in Bakersfield, Calif.

The bride is the daughter Mr. and Mrs. Elton of Mr. and Mrs. Walter C.

Heise of Oconto. Miss Christine Burt attended as maid of honor and Maris Abolins served as best man. The new Mr. and Mrs. Delano reside in Bakersfield.

ThompsonPinkert Traditional wedding vows were recited at 4 p.m. Oct. 21 before the altar of Resurrection Catholic Church by Miss Dana Dawn Thompson, daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Basil Thompson, Geneva, Ohio, and Lawrence Anthony Pinkert, son of Mr.

and Mrs. John Pinkert, 345 Beaupre St. Miss Joyce Martinez served as maid of honor, with Miss Kathleen Pinkert, Miss Tammy Thompson and Mrs. Andrew Carle as bridesmaids. Best man Peter Pin- Debate over love, marriage seethes in China Mr.

and Mrs. Ralph Laine and Suzanne Krumdick, flower girl. The bridegroom was served by Christopher Swain, best man; Michael Calteaux, Michael Minkebige and Joseph Lemens groomsmen, and Daniel Lemens, ring bearer. Michael Winarski and Gregory Lemens served as usherss The new Mrs. Hokenson is a graduate of St.

Norbert College and her husband is a graduate of Marquette Uni-, versity, Milwaukee. The couple resides in Madison where the bridegroom attends the University of Wisconsin School of Law. Mr. Hokenson is a commissioned officer in the Army. YatesMcKindles Miss Erin M.

McKindles and William R. Yates were married during a candlelight ceremony Dec. 28 in New success, reportedly selling some 300,000 copies. What particularly riles Wang Xiuhua, author of the Peking Daily's critique, is Miss, Yu's use of the revered Engels her defense. In her novel, Miss Yu quotes a judge as saying "Engels said 'a marriage without love is the most immoral (of The basis of judging a divorce is the rupture of feeling." According to the Peking Daily, this takes Engels completely out of context.

The newspaper then goes into a long comparison of the difference between love and marriage in a capitalist society and that in a socialist (i.e. communist) society. In the former, marriage is supposed to depend on the free will of Mr. and Mrs. Verne Doherty Mr.

and Mrs. Lawrence Pinkert Orleans, La. Parents of the bridal couple are Mrs. Delores Mr. and Mrs.

Junius Delano Jr. kert was assisted by Shawn Pinkert, Jeffery Pinkert and Mark Pinkert. Bryan Christopherson and Michael Thompson performed ushering duties. The newlyweds make their home in Gulfport, where the bridegroom is stationed in the Navy. LemensHokenson Holy Mortyrs of Gorcum Catholic Church was the setting of the Oct.

21 wedding of Michelle Therese Lemens and Michael Earl Hokenson. Parents of the couple are Mr. and Mrs. Joseph L. Lemens, 1662 Erie Road, and Mr.

and Mrs. Earl Hokenson of Appleton. The bride was attended by Mrs. Brenda Skibinski, matron of honor; Deborah Whiting, Lynn Winarski and Deborah Olson, bridesmaids, during the Cultural Revolution, the twice-divorced Miss Yu says she found real happiness only in her third marriage. "Seeking," which tells of the trials leading to this marriage, is the final novel of an autobiographical trilogy.

The previous installment, "Tales of Spring," was published in 1982 and has been translated into European languages. It was controversial enough that the issue of Huacheng, the magazine which ran it, was banned. Hence Miss Yu had difficulty getting any nationwide magazine to take the last novel. But the Yunnan magazine accepted it and apparently had an immense commercial Ann Landers Field News Service Field News When she begins to disrobe, cover her at once and treat her as you would a child. Say, "No, Dear, you must not do that or we will go into another room until you behave." Then go.

moral concept of the capitalist class into a Marxist-Leninist One of the targets of the current campaign against so-called mental pollution is the idea that there can be such a thing as true love between two individuals apart from any constraints of society. A generation starved of real love during the Cultural Revolution (1966-76) has been searching widely both in their own experience and in Chinese and Western philosophy and literature for a satisfying definition of love, and of the meaning of life. Miss Yu is herself a cause celebre in China. Sister of Yu Luoke, one of countless intellectuals executed Divorce leaves worried kids with questions Dear Ann Landers: My rents are getting a dirce. I love them both and is is very hard on me and younger brother.

(I am a -year-old girl.) We have own for a long time their arriage was not happy, but never thought they ould actually split. I worry most about nether we will have to ove out of this house. I ve it here and my best end lives across the street. oth my brother and I are sing well in school and ould hate to change to anher district. I want to aduate with 1 my class.

Dad makes a good salary e's been with the same mpany for 17 years) and om works part-time as a cretary for her uncle. She ans to work full-time after divorce, but we are far om rich. Nobody has talked to us ds about college or moving anything. They are trying pretend that everything work out lovely, but I orry a lot. Mom is quite deessed and I don't want to to her problems, but I getting nervous about all uncertainty.

My brother in worse shape. He has ghtmares. Can you give us me advice? Muddled in Middle (N.Y.) Dear Ask your parts to sit down with you talk about your feelings. them know how impornt it is for you and your other to stay in the same hools. Ask about their ans regarding your college ucation.

Will it be possie? Who is going to pay? In me states child support is Mr. and Mrs. Michael Hokenson McKindles and Patrick McKindles and Mr. and Mrs. William H.

Yates, all of Green Bay. The newlyweds make their home in Marrero, La. Christian Science Monitor PEKING The Marxist Frederick Engels has been brought into a hot controversy over love and marriage, a subject of consuming interest to young people throughout China. In her novel "Seeking," published by an obscure magazine in Yunnan province last July, the young writer Yu Luijin quoted Engels in defense of her thesis that "a marriage without love is immoral." Now, the leading newspaper in China's capital, the Peking Daily, has roundly censured Miss Yu though not by name for having used Engels out of context in order to "turn the rotten ideology and mandatory until age 21. In other states it's 18.

If you have a problem getting into the subject, hand this column to your mom and dad and tell them this letter is yours. Good luck, Dear, and welcome to the club. You have lots of company. Ann Landers: My husband and I must go to another city to visit a relative and we need advice. The only way reman describe her is to is a female flasher.

"Aunt Lily" frequently walks around the house naked to the waist and says, "I hope you don't mind after all, we are The woman is 70 years old and weighs nearly 300 pounds. She has answered the front door exposed in this manner and said, "You caught me!" (How anyone can be "caught" answering the door is beyond me.) I hope you won't suggest we ignore her gross behavior. It is offensive and creates tension because we never know at what moment she might decide to expose herself. We realize Aunt Lily is not a stable person, but this doesn't make it any easier. Please don't say, "Stay home." We must go to see her every at this time.

Flashin San Jose Dear Frozen: There is no way you can control the behavior of a person who is mentally ill, especially one who has a compulsion to engage in bizarre behavior. I suggest you buy a pretty kimono for Aunt Lily and keep it on hand at all times. the individuals concerned. develop our economy, ceaselessly In fact, however, because of the raise the ideological and moral level existence of private property and of of people, educate people in marexploited classes, all sorts of eco- riage problems, consciously prevent nomic considerations enter in -in- the invasion of the rotten thoughts heritance, jobs, etc. Marriage is not of feudalism and capitalism and truly free.

promote the communist spirit." Only in communist society, This is just the kind of earnest when exploitation has ended and so jargon that completely turns off so has private property, can two indi- many young people in China today. viduals think of love as the only Whether or not they approve Miss governing factor in marriage. Yu's particular approach to the Ah, but there is a catch. problem, their hunger for a simple, Socialist society such as uncomplicated definition of love and their senses of frustration over China is today is a "low stage of being individuals hemmed in by 80- communist society, and there remain in it many old wounds. In ciety, remains.

order to truly realize love as the Many of them ask: "Who can basis of marriage, we must greatly satisfy this hunger?" Engagements ts announced SCHWARTZ-BOLTZ A June 16 wedding is being planned by Miss Laurie Ann Schwartz and Thomas Carlisle Boltz. The bride-to-be, daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Kenneth Schwartz, 1534 Sleepy Hollow Court, is a graduate of Preble High School. Her fiance, son of Mr.

and Mrs. Richard Boltz, 2607 Oakwood is a graduate of East High School and attends Northeast Wisconsin Technical Institute. He is employed by Pomp's Tire Service. FIRKINS-VAN ROY Miss Maureen Firkins, daughter of the late Joseph and Delores Firkins, and Kevin Van Roy, son of Mr. and Mrs.

Leo Van Roy, 507 Huron Road, have chosen May 5 as their wedding day. Miss Firkins is a graduate. of Ashwaubenon. High School and is employed Firstar Bank Van Roy is a graduate of Preble High School and is employed by Green Bay Dressed Beef. McMONAGLE-ARCAND A May 19 wedding is Marie McMonagle, daughter Monagle, 4124 Nicolet Drive, son of Mr.

and Mrs. Charles Miss McMonagle, a graduate employed by Bellin Memorial graduated from Pulaski High Mader Enterprises. being planned by Miss Julie of Mr. and Mrs. Allan Mcand Dennis Michael Arcand, Arcand, Grignon St.

of Preble High School, is Hospital. Her fiance was School and is an employee of DORNER-KINJERSKI Miss Denise A. Dorner and Edward H. Kinjerski have selected Sept. 29 as their wedding date.

Parents of the engaged couple are Mrs. Julia Dorner, Luxemburg, and the late George J. Dorner, and Mr. and Mrs. Edward Kinjerski of New Franken.

Miss Dorner is a graduate of Luxemburg-Casco High School and is employed by the Bank of Luxemburg. Her fiance is a graduate of Preble High School and is employed by Frank's Feed Mill. Opening Summer '84 Apple Creek Inn Taking Reservations Now For: Weddings, Banquets, Showers, Class Reunions, Anniversaries, Business Meetings, Parties or any Special Event. Located 3 Mi. South of De Pere on Hwy.

41 Groups to 600 Phone 336-0966 P.O. Box 265 De Pere, WI 54115 Suzanne M. Cashman, Mgr. RUTTEN-VERBURGT Mr. and Mrs.

Lee Rutten, betrothal of their daughter, burgt. He is the son of Mrs. Falls, and the late Carl Verburgt. Both are students at the kosh. Miss Rutten was School.

TRUCKEY-HERVAS Wedding bells will ring on Truckey and Leonard Hervas are Mr. and Mrs. Robert Mr. and Mrs. Leonard Hervas Both are graduates of Truckey attends Northeast and her fiance is an employee New Franken, announce the Gerri and Thomas C.

VerJanet Verburgt, Menomonee I wonder how many people are aware of the other deaths caused by drunkenness? Here are some figures from columnist Dr. Timothy Johnson: Seventy percent of choking victims are intoxicated: 70 percent of all drowning victims; 70 percent of all burn victims, and 50 percent of "freak accidents." Makes you stop and think, doesn't it? -Cape Cod Dear Cod: Sure does. More and more I see the wisdom of my decision, at age 15, never to touch the stuff. Dear Ann: I appreciated the letter from the woman who was 6-foot-2. All her life she answered stupid questions about her height.

(Example: "Were both your parents tall?) I have a friend who is 6- foot-9. Idiots are constantly asking "Are you a basketball player?" His perfect response: "No. Are you a jockey?" Last Laff In L.A. Dear L.A.: Thanks for a winner. Spring Prom Gowns arriving daily! Bridal 844 Military Ave.

Green Bay, WI 54303 494-0205 University of Wisconsin-Oshgraduated from Preble High Dear Ann: This is for "Petrified in Texas," who stated that in five years he probably will be wearing full dentures because of his fears of dentists. I know a few other nuts who think the same way. Just where does he think he will eventually get these dentures from the corner tavern, the supermarket, or perhaps the gas station? Before he gets dentures he must have all the rotten stubs removed from his mouth. Then he needs to have an impression made. After the teeth are fitted, he must return for adjustments.

All this must be done in the dentist's office and it will involve a certain amount of discomfort. So, "Texas" and all the other fraidy cats out there, take your choice now or later. I wish someone had educated me early on the importance of taking care of my teeth. They are precious Treasure them. Denture- Wearer in New Jersey Dear Dent: Thanks for putting the problem in proper focus.

And thanks, too, for reminding us of something we all need to hear again and again. Dear Ann: You have written extensively and often about drunk drivers and said they should be treated like the criminals they are. July 6 for Miss Jean Mary III. Parents of the couple Truckey, 1027 Shadow Lane, and 1698 Beaver Dam Drive. Southwest High School.

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