The Catholic Advance from Wichita, Kansas • Page 6

PACE SIX THE CATHOLIC ADVANCE tttUSSDAY, TZZZUAS 4, If 22 BY FAT HEt MARTIN STILLMOCK. C.SS.R. Anyen who hot a quvitlon ii tnvitod to writ to Iho QUESTION CORNER, Tho Catholic Advanco, 424 North Broadway, Wichita, KS 67202. Vx I U. v- i fu 1 i.

I mmtvr Ymtk. V- V' nnn ii ii BltrfV wm 1i in mini ii National CYO brgcunizciion adopic change in sfrucfurG Dear Father, ponder if you could give me some advice on my, problem: my parents. Iam 16 years old and a junior in high school and my parents treat me as if I were 12. I was sitting on the porch with my girl friends at 9 p.m. and my mother yells out to me, 'Time to come in!" I could have dropped dead.

They had just pome over at 8:30. They left me anil I was embarrassed. My parents could have at least let me stay out all 10:00 p.m. That's just one example. WINNING STYLE After beta oaawd mart rahubU player fat tho Savor Bowl, Saa Fraacfcco 49en qmarterback loo MoaUuu hokb tho VhMO Lonbardi Sapor Bowl trophy hi tho drcaUog racial.

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Last March the USCC Administrative Board voted to end the USCC's relationship with the CYO federation. The committee's recommendation was based on budgetary considerations which, it said, made it impossible for the USCC to provide field services to various organizations. Regional coordinators, under the direction of Msgr. Francis Weldgen of Buffalo, N.Y., surveyed diocesan youth directors across the country to determine the new format. "In light of the' Gospel message, the federation will WASHINGTON (NO- After 50 years the work of the National Catholic Youth Organization (CYO) Federation has come to an end, but a new structure, the National Federation for Catholic Youth Ministry, will take over.

The new organization was unanimously adopted by the National Advisory Board for Youth Ministry at its annual meeting Jan. 20 in Philadelphia. The original federation, which was to end in January, was made up of affiliated member dioceses from throughout the United States. For the past 30 years the CYO federation has been housed at the headquarters My father gets real mad if I use an expression like, If I happen to say it while I'm talking, he fills me in on what a disgusting term it is. He won't let us use any "hippie expressions as he terms them.

But what really peeves me is this: my parents said that after my 16th birthday I could date. I am now 16 and haven't dated once. I have done nothing to make my parents distrust me. Yet they say I can't go in a car with a boy. If I ask them how you are supposed to get where you're going, they 'Take a bus.

Father, I think I should be trusted a little. My parents should treat me as if I had a half ounce of brains in my head. I know I'm not an adult yetbut I'm not a child either. Gloria Dear Gloria, Your letter sounds very sensible and Tm sure you are an intelligent person, You parents seem sensible also. Maybe your dad.

shouldn't push it too far, but his campaign for better English also deserves some praise. Your parents deserve credit for making you wait until after your 16th birthday before dating. You still have a lot of time to date. Third quarterly regional meetings to be held Feb. 7 by six CYO regions Dating will mean more to you now and be far less dangerous than it would have been a year or two ago.

Parents should stick by agreements they make. your parents have backed down on an it isn't fair, unless some new, important circumstances distate otherwise. It may be they are not opposed to your dating, but are afraid of teenage drivers. A lot of boys your age have just gotten their drivers' licenses and some of them are not too proficient in driving or are careless or reckless. Try a bus a few times and see how that works out.

Continue to try to keep open the lines of communication with your parents. If that breaks down completely, then your life can really become miserable. Tell your parents how and why you feel the way you do, especially about the 9:00 p.m. curfew business when you have Communication is a two-, way street, so be prepared to listen, also and to get your parents' view of things. If both of you cooperate, Tm sure you will see how much they love you and that they do trust you.

May God bless you. foster the development of youth ministry in the United States through CYO and other expressions of ministry to, with, by and for youth," according to the plan of action presented at the Advis ory Board meeting. According to the plan, the federation, through a network of diocesan, regional and national structures; will provide leadership and a national forum for the voice of Catholic youth. It will promote "multicul- rural development of youth ministry" and peer leadership whenever possible. The new federation will be governed by a board of directors which will approve policy statements on issues that affect youth ministry.

There will also be an execu- rive committee consisting of the regional coordinators and the youth council. Msgr. Weldgen said the new federation, like its predecessor, will continue to hold a national conference for Catholic youfh ministry every two years for adults working with youth and will provide young people with a national forum and leader- ship training opportunities. But in place of the one tional CYO convention, there will be two national Catholic youth conferences in various, parts of the country every -y two years. Msgr.

Weldgen said that 80 percent of the Catholic youth personnel in the country indicated they will affiliate with the new to acquire new ideas for programs, projects and -'vf Following the four-fold theme of CYO social, spiritual, social, and athletic most regions have a program at their quarterly meetings highlighting' one of the themes. The meetings are held in different locations in the region throughout the year to balance out the driving required. Each parish in the region is required to send at least four representatives to the meeting; many send more. The Region I meeting will be at Mary Queen of Angels parish hall in Fort Scott at 2 p.m. Region IPs business meet MAKING A WILL? BE SURE TO REMEMBER Your parish church rourdocese Priests' Retirement Fund Seminary burses St.

Joseph Family Life Center ing will be at 11:30 a.m. at St. Andrew1 parish center in''f Independence. The business meeting will be followed by a Twilite Night, approximately 1 to p.m. All those attending the regional meeting are i.

'V- Wichita Parochial Athletic League BaiketbaH itaadlagi laa. 31 LIFE OF JESUS CHRIST: "FLIGHT INTO EGYPT" Thb pahtfhf by 15th ceatary artbt Flemish Gerard David, ii cattaedi "Flight Iato Egypt." (RNSPhoto) 43 students awarded caps and pins at KMC The third quarterly regional meetings "will be held in all six CYO regions on Sunday. Feb. 7. The purposes of the regional meetings include the announcements and reports about the upcoming projects sponsored by regional and diocesan CYO.

Each parish represented at the meeting also gives a report of activities they have been involved in. This is a good way for other parishes UNION (Continued from page 2) backed the Polish bishops' call for an end to martial law "and all the forms of limitation and violation of civil rights" imposed by it. On the Polish bishops were scheduled i to observe a day of prayer for all those who help Poland. Two days later, Archbishop Jozef Glemp of Warsaw and Gniez-no, primate of Poland, was to arrive in Rome for his first meeting with the pope since the imposition of martial law. Deidra Law, Zita Maldonado, Lisa McPhee, Nancy Mill-ham, Kermit Penick, Shelly Pfannenstiel, Cynthia Phelps, Harold Ralston, Kimberly Ralston, Joane Shellhamer, Kelly Simpson, Joan Stinson, Mary Stuhl-satz, and Verna Wadkins.

Other students from the Wichita Diocese were: Stephanie Brooks, Haysville; Diane Brown, Goddard; Rita Cink, Anthony; Robin Dorner, Clearwater; Wesley Forred, Harper; Patricia Gates, Anthony; Elizabeth Higgins, Marion; Sally Horn-beck, Cheney; Janel Johnson, Harper; Julie Johnson, Haysville; Teresa Lee, Ben-jton; Robert Martin, Harper; Jeannie Parsons, Wellington; Cynthia Rhoads, Norwich; Jennifer Robinson, Conway Springs; Dana Short, Harper; Brenda Simon, Conway Springs; Robin Standrich, Derby; Cynthia Turney, Belle Plaine; and Amy Vonderbrink and Jane Wick, both of Winfield. I YGU'HG riQY but your hearing may 1 QW OP FOCUS If you know when pooplo aro talking, i but. can't hear ovory word they toy YOU'RE NOT DEAF. Your hearing hat slipped out of focus. help put your world into fo again.

Simply I) i inexpensive!) hearing science can help Wo can cut bring modern I 'ft. A I you perfect clarity. encouraged to also participate in the Twilite Night. The "Night" is also open to other CYO members from the region. Reservations to Mrs.

George, regional moderator, are required. Cost of the Twilite Night is $2.50 per person, which includes the lunch that is provided at the start of the Twilite Night's activities. The Region III meeting will be at 2 p.m. at St. Joseph school in McPherson.

Region r's meeting will be at 4:30 p.m. at Sacred Heart Church in Cunningham; the meeting will include a New Games festival. Region will meet at 3 p.m. at St. Patrick school cafeteria in Wichita; the pro gram of their meeting will be or The Region VI meeting will be at 2 p.m.

at St. Cecilia parish, Haysville; Bernadet'te Sanders from Birthright will be a guest speaker. Pietrzak, Sondra Werth, Jodi Angie Ward and Kathy Bevis. The high school youth selected and ordered texts for each student, adopt-. ing the Daughters of St.

Paul, Way, the Truth and the Life series for the lower grades. According to Father Richard Stuchlik, Holy Savior pastor, the program is a success with both students and teachers enjoying the sessions. Besides the' actual teaching time, Carroll spend time after school each week planning their lessons and selecting audio-visual mate-, imi, o.y oiaici i iwi- ces, I.H.M., Mission Gub moderator, "These young people have shown great responsibility and dedication in taking the time and effort to prepare well each week for teaching CCD. They are good teachers and the people of Holy Savior are very happy with their work." Weddings Photo Finishing and copies Baby Photos Portraits PICTURE IAST SM46SI WEST 5 770J PALACE STUDENTS TEACH RELIGION Bishop CarroU Hih School ite-deats Aagte Ward and Kathy Be vis make icllgioa class cone alive lor their linl grade students Aoshla Collins, Todd Wtaslow aad EaiDy Wfasesberry. Carroll U.S.

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