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Dear Abby COURIER-POST, Comd.n, N. Tutidoy, Jun 31, 1966 I Remarriage Is Opposed ii IS -s; i flu could be so happy again. He is kind and gentle, and he adores me. I really care for him, too, and he wants to marry me. I asked Joel how he felt about my remarrying, and he is violently opposed to the idea.

He enjoyed being the "man of the house" and doesn't want to go back to being a little boy again. My son comes first, but I know I could never find a better man, and I don't want to spend the rest of my life alone. Yet how can I marry a man knowing it will break my son's heart? DIFFICULT DECISION DEAR DIFFICULT: Marry the man. It was a mis- By ABIGAIL VAN BUREN DEAR ABBY: 1 am 37. My husband died 3 years ago, leaving me with a 14-year-old son I'll call Joel.

I loved my husband dearly, but he had been incurably ill for a year and suffered terribly, so his death was a blessing. Joel took it hard as he and his father had been great pals. I made Joel "man-of-the-house." He became my "beau" and escorted me in place of his father. I let him handle the money when we went marketing. He took over surprisingly well.

About six months ago I started seeing a 44-year-old widower. Abby, I never thought I lake to cast your son in the role of substitute husband. No wonder he regards another man in your Uje as a riual and a threat. Encourage Joel to make a social Uje of his own among his contemporaries. His attitude is understandably adolescent, but with maturity he will be less hurt and more realistic.

DEAR ABBY: Will you please tell me if I am wrong for feeling the way I do? When I got married, my aunt and uncle gave my husband and me a garbage pail for a wedding gift. I accepted it, but took it as an insult. I remain, very truly yours, "INSULTED" DEAR INSULTED: While it may not have been the most glamorous gift, it was certainly one of the most practical. I see nothing insulting about a useful gift given in good faith. Troubled? Write to Abby, Box 69700, Los Angeles, 90069.

For a personal reply, enclose a stamped, self-addressed envelope. Auto Accidents MISS PATRICIA M. SHOEMAKER Daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Clifford R.

Shoemaker of Moorestown, who have announced her engagement to Mr. Peter G. Worrall, SA, USN, son of Mr. and Mrs. Peter L.

Worrall of Pennsauken Township. Mr. Worrall is stationed at Norfolk, aboard the VSS Altair. MISS LINDA LOU STRATTON Whose engagement to Mr. Michael J.

Straw-ley, son of Mr. and Mrs. Charles F. Strawley of Cape May, formerly of Haddonfield, has been announced by her parents, Mr. and Mrs.

Harry F. Stratton also of Cape May, formerly of Pennsauken. A September wedding is planned. MISS ROSEMARY H. LANGLEY Whose parents, Mr.

and Mrs. Robert H. Langley of Bellmawr, have announced her engagement to Pfc. Joseph Halliwell USA, son of Mr. and Mrs.

Halliwell of Runnemede. Pvt. Halliwell has completed duty in Viet Nam and is awaiting reassignment. MISS CAROL A. BLOOMER Of Bronxville, N.Y., daughter of Mr.

and Mrs. Leslie P. Bloomer of Cherry Hill, who have announced her engagement to Mr. Frank J. Thomson, son of Mr.

Kent C. Thomson of Rye, N.Y., and the late Mr. Thomson. A fall wedding is planned. and About the Social Scene thinking and acting on the basis that any driver can be made a perfect driver.

"This notion has led to a system vehicle, driver and road safe only for the error-free driver and there is no such thing," he said. "We have to design for the driver who might almost inevitably will make an occasional mistake. "We have to reduce chances for conflicts between vehicles and, in addition, incorporate features that will allow com-! mon errors to be made without; disastrous consequences." I In the report, published in Purdue's Schools of Engineering's "Backgrounder," Michael made these points for modern highwaymen: Reduce the number of access and egress points to minimize conflict between through traffic and slow leaving and entering traffic. Construct acceleration and deceleration lanes at access and egress points or extra left turn or right turn lanes. Eliminate obstructions near the roadside.

This includes trees, posts, abutments, signs. A September wedding is planned. Lt. Chauncey, a graduate of the U. S.

Naval Academy, is stationed at Long Beach, aboard the USS Turner Joy. Announcement is made by Mr. and Mrs. Peter Laman of 112 Iroquois Trail, Medford Lakes, of the engagement of their daughter, Miss Diane Dorothy Laman, to Pvt. Dean W.

Cramer USA, son of Mr. and Mrs. Dean W. Cramer of 158 Conawaga Trail, also of the Lakes. Pvt.

Cramer is stationed at Ft. Dix. Mr. and Mrs. Thomas H.

Cook 3d of 202 Mimosa Drive, (Continued from Page 18) monly used at curves. Drivers heed them, says Michael. On the other hand, many studies have shown that drivers often disregard speed limit regulations. The myth in rear-end collisions is that they're almost always caused by tailgating close following of one car by another. Michael says many are not due to tailgating at all.

They occur when drivers traveling rapidly, moving up from far in the rear, are unable to gauge rapidly diminishing distance to the car in front, Another prevailing misconception, according to Michael, is that a sure-fire solution to accidents at intersections is to put up traffic signals. The thinking: Signals assign right-of-way; ergo, they should prevent conflicts. But the fact is that signals especially when not warranted on the basis of engineering study almost always increase the number of accidents, the expert maintains. Michael believes it is time for highway makers to stop tTT Royden Street, Camden, which took place Dec. 27, 1965, at Elkton, Md.

The couple is residing in Haddon Heights. Mr. and Mrs. Theodore Menkevich of 520 Audubon Avenue, Audubon entertained Thursday evening last at a buffet supper in observance of the graduation of their daughter, Miss Sandra Menkevich, from Audubon High School. Miss Menkevich will enter Glassboro State College in September.

Mr. and Mrs. Frank P. Coc-cia of 507 11th Avenue, Haddon Heights, entertained Sunday afternoon at a reception in honor of the marriage of their daughter, Miss Kathleen Judith Coccia, to Mr. Edwin Kendrick Borman, son of Mr.

and Mrs. Morris Borman of 3 Cardinal Court, Audubon Park, which took place Saturday, June 4, at Elkton, Md. Mr. and Mrs. Borman are residing in Barrington.

The engagement of Miss Suzanne Mershon to Mr. Eugene Morski, AN, USN, son of Mr. and Mrs. Francis Morski of 132 Johnston Avenue, Runnemede is announced by her parents, Mr. and Mrs.

Richard Mershon of 318 Keller Road, Glendora. A fall wedding is planned. Mr. Morski is stationed in Memphis, Tenn. Mr.

and Mrs. Earl C. Cox-son of 40 Lincoln Avenue, Mount Ephraim, announce the engagement of their daughter, Miss Irene Christy Coxson, to Mr. William G. Murdock, son of Mr.

and Mrs. William N. Murdock of 3015 Hartford Road. Miss Tracey Dillman of 69 Cutchogue Trail, Medford Lakes, has returned after spending several days in Iron City, Mich. She was accompanied by her grandparents, Mr.

and Mrs. Charles Odorizzo of Greenwich, Conn. The engagement of Miss Margaret Gertrude Stanley to Mr. Ralph Joseph D'Orio son of Mr. and Mrs.

D'Orio of 3 Villa Lake Drive, Berlin, is announced by her parents, Mr. and Mrs. James Thomas Stanley of 209 Barlow Avenue, Cherry Hill. A January wedding is planned. it-Mr.

and Mrs. Joseph E. Crew of 130 N. 33rd Street, an nounce the engagement of i their daughter, Miss Helen1 Joyce Crew, to Mr. William! Wayne Green, son of Mr.

and Mrs. William Green of Croydon, Pa. Announcement is made by Mr. and Mrs. Raymond P.

Meehan of 3323 Highland Avenue, of the engagement of their daughter, Miss Maureen Ann Meehan, to Mr. Robert E. Lee son of Mr. and Mrs. Robert E.

Lee of Philadelphia. Mr. and Mrs. John F. Peel of 1123 Marlkress Cherry Hill, announce the engagement of their daughter, Miss Nancy Rita Peel, to Mr.

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Angell of Houghton, N.Y. She is the daughter of Mrs. William Heritage of this city and the late Mr. Heritage. The wedding will take place in September.

Around Mr. and Mrs. Arnold E. Mayers of 220 Virginia Avenue, Audubon, announce the engagement of their daughter, Miss Grayce L. Mayers, to Lt.

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Henry Flu-harty of 51 E. Bettlewood Avenue, Oaklyn, were guests of honor Wednesday evening last at a dinner party at the home of Mr. and Mrs. Peter R. Brit-tin of Philadelphia in observance of their thirty-first wedding anniversary.

Mr. and Mrs. Benjamin R. Fanelle of 101 Station Avenue, Haddon Heights, announce the marriage of their daughter, Miss Rosalie Fanelle to Mr. Richard J.

Pease son of Mr. and Mrs. Pease of 573 WALSH exotic shirts, diminutive skirts and shifts, and bell-bottomed pants. "Show the princess where to try on her mini-skirts," Ma-daleine Fischer, attractive Swiss manager of the Market shouted over the background music. The princess, not a teenager but uniformed by Courrcges and obviously looking ahead, vanished behind the scenes with an armful of brightly colored abbreviated skirts price 3,900 lire "We may never make money because our prices are so how do you say it? cheap.

But it is amusing," Miss Fischer said. She estimated that 500 to 600 customers a day have fought their way into the shop. It is; set up supermarket style with I a cash desk by the exit. I But there are salespeople long haired boys and longer! haired girls who also model the goods. Most of the teenagers have either come to look or be outfitted.

A trio of girls in the navy blue pleated skirts andi white blouses of a convent school peered wistfully at three-toned short jersey shifts with "Piper" emblazoned on the midriff but left without buying. Others went in wearing the conservatively stylish clothes of the Prosperous Roman and emerged with packages bulging with new beat outfits. The Market takes its name and some of its backing from the "Piper Club" the sprawling, ultra-modern beat dance palace that has managed in the past year or so to make all the "dolce vita" set look very old hat. The "Piper Club" is big, the music is loud, up-to-the-minute and Styles are launched on its multi-level, theatrically lighted dance floors. Outdoor Beauty Hint Remember to surround yourself with an aura of loveliness whenever you venturs out on the beach, on the golf course, or anywhere in the outdoors.

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The "Piper Market" is easy to spot it's the only store in Rome with a line in front of the door. The market has brat music and matching decor but is only big enough to handle about 50 customers at a time without a riot. So part of the staff has to stand at the door, politely beating back customers lining up at the entrance until others can be whisked out the exit with their purchases. Inside, teenagers, a few stunned-looking parents and a smattering of doggedly "with-it" society ladies grapple in the best New York bargain basement manner over piles of Hospital Group The Haddon Heights Auxiliary to West Jersey Hospital has planned a barbecue and meeting tomorrow at 7:30 p.m. at the home of Mrs.

Milton Eisenhardt, Haddonfield. Members and husbands will attend. Mrs. George Kinsler Jr. is co-hostcss.

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