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SUNDAY MORNING. JULY 4, 1965 a Weddings of note Engaged couples Capture interest Of society here And the suburbs THE PHILADELPHIA INQUIRER, 3 In Philadelphia Thnm Studio The engagement of Miss Diana M. Gelernt to Mr. Sfeven M. Malamut is announced by her parents, Mr.

and Mrs. E. M. Gelernt. The engagement of Miss Janet E.

Moffitt to Mr. Walter Charles Stielau is announced by her parents, Mr. and Mrs. Edward W. Moffitt.

Mr. and Mrs. Mario Sgam-bati, of Philadelphia, announce the engagement of their daughter, Miss Maria Sgambati, to Mr. J. Michael McFadden, son of Mr.

and Mrs. James McFadden, of Brookhaven. The prospective bridegroom is a senior at Villanova University. HUTCHINSONASHCRAFT Dr. and Mrs.

Elmer Bruce Ashcraft, of Pittsburgh, announce the engagement of their daughter, Miss Linda Sue Ashcraft, to Mr. James Daniel Hutchinson, son of Mr. and Mrs. Francis X. Hutchinson, of Hatboro.

Miss Ashcraft and her fiance are graduates of Dickinson College. They plan an August wedding. CLARK-SHELDON Dr. and Mrs. Warner F.

Sheldon, of Lansdowne and Bar Harbor, announce the engagement of their daughter, Miss Lura Sheldon, to Mr. William Crosbie Clark, son of Mr. and Mrs. Percy L. Clark.

Miss Sheldon and her fiance are graduates of St. Lawrence University. Mr. Clark also graduated from Vermont Academy. They plan a fall wedding.

SNYDER McKEONE Mr. and Mrs. Alexis J. Mc-Keone, of Havertown, announce the engagement of their daughter, Miss Patricia Ann Mc-Keone, to Mr. Karl S.

Snyder, son of Lt. Col. John Stuart Snyder, USA, and Mrs. Snyder, of Havertown. Miss McKeone is a senior at the University of Rochester.

Her fiance is a senior at the United States Military Academy. PHILIPPI SHIELS The engagement of Miss Margaret Shiels to Mr. Walter J. Philippi, son of Mr. and Mrs.

Jacob Philippi, of this city, is announced by her father, Mr. Samuel J. Shiels, also of Philadelphia. Miss Shiels is also the daughter of the late Mrs. Margaret Shiels.

Her fiance is studying at Temple University. COLl'CCI ROTHWELL Announcement is made by The marriage of Miss Carole Ruth Wiberg, daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Carl E. Wiberg, of this city, to Mr.

Walter Alex-ander Sloss, son of Mr. Harry Sloss, also of Philadelphia, and the late Mrs. Sloss, took place June 26 in the Woodcrest United Church of Christ, with the Rev. Albert E. Teske officiating.

A reception followed at the Cedarbrook Country Club. Mrs. Sloss is a graduate of Pennsylvania State University. Her husband is studying at Temple University. LEWIS DEVINE The marriage of Miss Mary Ellen Devine, daughter of Mr.

and Mrs. Charles Devine, of Palmyra, N. to Mr. Frank Burt Lewis, son of Mrs. Grace Smith, of Tuscon, and Mr.

Lewis, of Riverton, N. took place June 26 in Sacred Heart Church, River-ton, with the Rev. Joseph Galante officiating. The bride is a graduate of Misericordia Hospital School of Nursing. After a wedding trip to California, the couple will reside in Palmyra.

ROBINSON-MULLER The marriage of Miss Helen Oleta Muller to Mr. Donald Lane Robinson, son of Mrs. Joshus Robinson, of Caledonia, N. is announced by her parents, Mr. and Mrs.

J. Edward Muller, of Merion Sta-tion. The ceremony took place June 26 in the Lower Merion Baptist Church, Bryn Mawr, with the Rev. Robert Matherly officiating. CONNOLL Y-TA UR INO Miss Frances Mary Tambur-ino, daughter of Mr.

and Mrs. Savino Tamburino, of this city, was married at noon June 26, to Mr. Edward Thomas Connolly, son of Mr. and Mrs. Connolly, of Chester.

The ceremony took place in St. Ed-mond's Church with the Rev. George Schneider officiating. Mrs. Connolly is a graduate of Immaculata College.

Her husband, an alumnus of Mount St. Mary's College, is doing graduate work at Villanova University. After a wedding trip to Bermuda, the couple will reside in Westtown. CALZICONTI The marriage of Miss Virginia Anne Conti, daughter of Mr. and Mrs.

Joseph Dominic Mrs. Kaspar H. Blumberg (left), Mrs. Harold M. Brodslcy (center) and Mrs.

William L. Rafslcy admire plaque given to Philadelphia Chapter of Brandeis University's National Women's Committee for aid in founding Theater of the Living Arts. fami Drive sets record Enti honored at a luncheon at the Art Alliance for their "outstanding assistance in establishing the Theater of the Living Arts." A plaque with an inscription to that effect was presented to them by Thomas T. Fleming, the hardworking vice president of a local business organization who also is the hard-working president of the Philadelphia I'ouncil of the Performing Arts. RILES EXPLAINED In explaining the women's part in the enrollment drive, Mrs.

Brodsky and Mrs. Rafsky pointed out that, under the rules of the National Women'i Committee for Brandeis, chapter raising funds in a community must at the lame time return something to that communily in terms of serv- ice. In this case the women raised funds for the Brandeis Library, which is entirely sup- ported by the National Worn- en's Committee, and also help- ed "to put the Theater of the Living Arts on its feet," according to Mr. Fleming. Mrs.

Kasper H. Blumberg, who will serve as president Rembrandt Sturtloi The engagement of Miss Eleanor P. Domenick to Mr. Joseph R. Salerno is announced bv her parents, Mr.

and Mrs. Fred Domenick. daughter, Miss Gwendolyn Bonnie Finkelstein, to Mr. Charles Karl Bernstein son of Mr. and Mrs.

Isadore Bernstein, of this city. EISENRERC. KOSHAR Mrs. Harold Koshar, of this city, announces the engagement of her daughter, Miss Rochelle Linda Koshar, to Mr. Steven R.

Eisenberg, son of Dr. and Mrs. Benjamin J. Eisenberg, also of this city. Miss Koshar is also the daughter of the late Mr.

Koshar. Her fiance is studying at Temple University. They plan a December wedding. CACCIATOREDeLISI Mr. and Mrs.

Joseph P. De-Lisi, of Folcroft, announce the engagement of their daughter, Miss Joanne Concetta DeLisi, to Mr. Anthony Joseph Caccia-tore, son of Mr. and Mrs. Anthony Cacciatore, of this city.

The prospective bride is a graduate of Hahnemann Hospital School of Laboratory Technology. Mr. Cacciatore attends Drexel Institute of Technology. They plan a winter wedding. BESSLERSWANSON The engagement of Miss El-dine Swanson to Mr.

Robert Wayne Bessler. son of Mr. and Mrs. Arthur Bessler, of Levit-town, is announced by her mother, Mrs. Raymond Rudy, and Mr.

Rudy, also of Levit-town. CARSON KURYLOSKI Mr. and Mrs. Eugene L. Kuryloski.

of Penn Valley, announce the engagement of their daughter, Miss Janice Ann Kuryloski, to Ens. Michael Francis Carson, USNR, son of Mr. and Mrs. Leslie J. Carson, of Chicago, formerly of Devon.

The prospective bride is a graduate of Mater Misericor-diae Academy and Rosemont College. Ens. Carson is an alumnus of Malvern Prepara tory School and villanova University. KONKOLEWSKI PETERS Mr. and Mrs.

John W. Peters, of Selmer, announce the engagement of their daughter, Miss Karen Lee, to Sgt. Richard C. A. Konkolew-ski, USA, son of Sgt.

Chester E. Konkolewski, USAF, and Mrs. Konkolewski. of this city. BENDINER CADES Mr.

and Mrs. Daniel R. Cades, of this city, announce the engagement of their daughter, Miss Joanna Lisa Cades, to Mr. Ray Hartmann Bendiner, son of Mrs. Bernard Kohn, of El-kins Park, and the late Mr.

Sahato M. Bendiner. Miss Cades is studying at Washington College from which her fiance was graduated. Mr. Bendiner also did graduate work at the State University of Iowa.

They plan a fall wedding. FO AN-0 LAND Mr. and Mrs. Alvin B. Orem-land, of Silver Spring, announce the engagement of their daughter, Miss Renita Carol Oremland, to Mr.

Ronald Forman. son of Mrs. Rae For-man, of this city, and the late Mr. Max Forman. The couple plans a fall wedding.

BUC7K0WSKI McGUCKIN The engagement of Miss Jane F. McGuekin to Dr. Richard T. Ruczkowski, son of Mr. and Mrs.

Edward J. Buczkow-ski, of Ambler, is announced by her parents, Mr. and Mrs. John F. McGuekin, of Philadelphia.

The prospective bride studied at Chestnut Hill College and Temple University. Dr. Buezkowski is a graduate of The eia.ige're-t Miss Dcnrs A. Wirsor 0 Mr. Wil-li I.

Carr is aiMcunced by her p.vpr, Mr. ad Mrs. John F. Wir.ssr, of Morten. of the Philadelphia Chapter of thereby probably salvage this the Brandeis group for Iflfi5-fi6, son.

But we would have to do was among those attending the it before I retire In order to luncheon ceremonies. She and make our edict of no-more-others of the group voiced the help stick. Do you have any opinion that the theater would advice? J. K. B.

have great support given by A. Consider calling a family the women on an individual conference, and let all the basis during its second season, children in on the problem. Be Mr. Fleming described that sure the trouhled son is pres-season as Just fabulous. "We mt.

Lay everything out on the have great plans," he said. table and let the group decide. The brothers and sisters (and Mrs. James Francis Malloy was Miss Judith Beck before her marriage Saturday at Our Lady of Calvary Church, Philadelphia. If man resents Wife's smoking, he Should tell her By ANN LANDERS Dear Ann: Maybe I'm a nut but my blood pressure zooms about 50 points when I see my wife smoke a cigaret.

Although I don't smoke myself I know a lot of good people who do. I am not opposed to smoking on moral grounds, but some women look terrible when they smoke and my wife looks worse than most. Ethel talks when she smokes. The cigaret just dangles in the corner of her mouth and she looks like a pool shark or the house man in a 21 game. When the smoke curls up into her face she squints her eyes and the mascara begins to run.

Ethel smokes filter tips. Sometimes she absent-mindedly lights up the wrong end of the cigaret and the house smells like the wind is coming from the packing house in Omaha. I don't want to get into a thing with Ethel about her smoking, but I sure wish she'd quit. Do you think I have the right to ask her? SPARKY, Dear Sparky: Of course you do. And she has the right to do as she pleases.

If a woman doesn't mind discoloring her teeth, fouling her breath, smelling up her hair, setting fire to a few hundred dollars every year, burning small holes in her clothes and the furniture, and finally, if she chooses to ignore the evidence that there is a link between lung cancer and cigaret smokingwell, that's her business. Emily Post gives Advice on etiquette Q. When driving a young woman home after a date, does etiquette exact that the man leave the car and walk up to the front door with her, or is it sufficient for him to merely wait and see that she is safely in before driving off? A. He should walk to the door with her, but if traffic conditions are such that he cannot leave his car momentarily, he need only wait to see that she is safely in before driving off. Week's calendar Of social events SUNDAY.

JULY 4 INFORMAL PARTY The Rev. and Mrs. William H. Jefferys, of Radnor, for their son-in-law and daughter, Mr. and Mrs.

Raymond B. Green-blatt, of St. Thomas, Virgin Islands. TUESDAY, JULY 6 SMALL LUNCHEON Mrs. James P.

Roberts, of Strafford, for Mrs. Birchard T. Clothier. SATURDAY, JULY It) WEDDING Miss Helen P. drier, daughter of Mrs.

Richardson Blair, of Villanova, and the late Mr. Thomas Grier, to Mr. Donald Joseph Barney, son of Mrs. Foster Barney, of Saratoga Springs, N. and the late Mr.

Barney, in St. Martin's Church, Radnor, The engagement of Miss Maria Sgambati to Mr. J. Michael McFadden is announced by her parents, Mr. and Mrs.

Mario Sgambati. the University of Pennsylvania Dental School. Their wedding will take place Sept. 18. WASSERSTROMSCIIACIITER The engagement of Miss Sandra Renee Schachter to Mr.

David Eliot Wasserstrom, son of Mr. and Mrs. Jacob Wasserstrom, of Wilkes-Barre, is announced by her parents, Mrs. Pose Srhachter, of Penn-sauken, N. and Mr.

Leon B. Schachter, of this city. The bride-to-be, a graduate of Rutgers University, received her master's degree from Temple University. Her fiance, an alumnus of Wilkes College and Dickinson Law School, received his master's degree from New York University. Their wedding will take place in November.

LOMBARDIIIALLIGAN The engagement of Miss Joanne Marie Halligan to Mr. Charles Guthrie Lombardi, son of Mr. and Mrs. Dominic J. Lombardi, of Villanova, is announced by her parents, Mr.

and Mrs. Joseph C. Halligan, of Radnor. Mr. Lombardi is an alumnus of Villanova University.

Their wedding will take place in January. MALAMLTGELERNT Mr. and Mrs. E. M.

Gelprnt, of Camden, announce the engagement of their daughter, Miss Diana Marilyn Gelernt, to Mr. Steven M. Malamut, also of Camden, son of Mrs. Abe Malamut, of Margate, and the late Mr. Malamut.

The prospective bridegroom is a graduate of Fairleigh Dickinson University. A fall wedding is planned. STIELAUMOFFITT Announcement is made by Mr. and Mrs. Edward William Moffitt, of Cherry Hill, of the engagement of their daughter, Miss Janet Elaine Moffitt, to Mr.

Walter Charles Stielau, son of Lt. Col. Walter Stiehu, USA, and Mrs. Stielau, also of Cherry Hill. The prospective bridegroom attended Memphis State University.

The wedding will take place Oct. 23. Designer Cashin Goes for doubles Designer Bonnie Cashin goes for doubles in her new collection. Sample: a double layer of hoods. It gives a Madonna look.

The collection also featured a new world of hardware-gold buttons, big zippers, buckles, snap fasteners, dog-toggle closings, turn-screw fastenings. T.orMJin Studtoi Miss Difla May Wvnn9 engagement to Mr, Robe-t Thomas Bach is announced by her pa'ens, Mr. and Mrs. Robert J. Wynne, cf Darby.

1 I 1 mm re Should confer on Cash aid to son By PAI 1IIGIITOWER Q. I will retire next November at fi5. My wife and 1 will have an adequate income to be independent and have some modest pleasures. Little more than that. We have four children, all married, and over the years we have tapped my salary to help them in times of trouble, We can't help anymore after I retire, and Mama and I plan to announce this, kindly but firmly, this summer.

But there's one hitch. One of our children, a son, has never been quite able to make it. He is working now in a job he de- tests and which is surely going to turn him into a misfit un- less he can get out of it. He wants to start a business of his own, and if he had $5000 he could do it. We have savings of just over $11,000 which in all probability will be kept and passed on to our children.

We mav decide to come up with the $5000, and their spouses) will be less emotional about it than you are. They no doubt will agree the son should get the $5000. But they'll insist on a hard-headed arrangement. Maybe a $5000 bank loan, with you backing it, instead of a gift. Maybe a collateral of his part of the family estate.

By bringing the brothers and sisters in, they will be your allies in enforcing the agreement, and if things should go bad they will be more likely to step in and help the trou -bled one. At least they will understand what has happened. Q. I have been managing the affairs of my invalid mother, and the affairs of my dereased mother-in-law as her executor. 1 have come up against a few of the realities such people encounter.

I believe you should warn older couples, or surviving spouses, to read very carefully any lease they sign for an apartment or home and try to include a clause that will enable the lease to be broken In esse of death. Most printed leases bind the estate or the surviving spouse umu Ine runs ana may prevent subletting. If the wife survives, can she afford the rent after her husband dies and his pension dies with him? If the man survives, can he afford the help to maintain him in the quarters? If an estate must continue to pay rent for six months or a year, might not this drain of funds spoil plans in the will for bequests the dereased intended? lt might also he a good idea to include in a lease some release if the tenant should become an invalid and have to live in a hospital or nursing home. One never thinks these things ran happen to him, but one should prepare one's affairs just in case E. B.

S. A. Are you listening, Grandpa? your senior question can be answered in this space send it in. A corps of 200 volunteers working with the assistance of a membership of 1200 set new records of service and fund-raising for the Philadelphia Branch of the Brandeis Uni-versity National Women's Committee. Mrs.

Harold M. Brodsky. president, and Mrs. William L. Rafsky, chairman of "Operation Theater," headed the group of 200 that administered the subscription enrollment program for Philadelphia's Theater of the Living Arts.

ZOOM AHEAD A small percentage of the subscription went to the women's group and the total number enrolled zoomed far ahead of the inaugural drive of any other theater unit of Its kind in the country. Last week, the women were Special training At camp set for Scout volunteers Members of the local Girl Scout organisations aren't the only ones on the move during the summer months. Many of the volunteer adults who work wiih them have double schedules in addition to their home or professional chores. For instance there are 10 adults in the Delaware county group who have signed up for special training this summer at Camp Kdith Macy in Pleas-antville, N. Y.

This national training center offers opportunities for training in a resident camp setting and serves as a laboratory for experiments in training methods and development in organization and leadership. The workshop sessions started in June and will continue through July 14. Among the Delaware County women attending are Mrs. Arthur F. Haney, of BroomaU.

Mrs. D. Raymond Brooks, of Chester; Mrs. Joseph A. McDonnell, of Upper Darby; Mrs.

James Thiliips, of Prospect Park; Mrs. Samuel Green, of Marcus Hook; Miss Ellen Langen-heim. of Swarthmore; Mrs. George Eiserman and Mrs. George Wagner, of Upper Darhy; Mrs.

Harry Koch, of Lansdowne, and Mrs. Erwin T. JIusko, of Boothwyn. Society of Technion Forms new chapter The Philadelphia area has a rew unit among the women's groups working for the American Society of Technion. It is known as the Suburban Norih Chapter and its members already have a summer party on the books.

It is a garden party at the home of Mrs. Sydney Sherman, of Wyncote, on the afternoon cf Monday, July 12. Philadelphia artist Jack Bookbinder will present a program. He will talk on modern art and go into the subject as "sense and nonsense." Mrs. Lizer, Mrs.

Louis Hankin, Mrs. Philip Rosenberg and Mrs. Sherman will act as hostesses. Mrs. Stanley Jlilner at ME 5-0681 is in charge of reservations.

The society helps to support Technion, Israel's institute of technology, Mr. and Mrs. Alfred J. Roth-well, of Mt. Airy, of the engagement of their daughter, Miss Gale Veronica Rothwell, to Mr.

Peter M. Colueci, son of Mr. and Mrs. Charles Colueci, of Malaga, N. J.

The prospective bride, an alumna of St. Joseph's Academy, is studying at the Academy of Vocal Arts. Mr. Colueci is a graduate of Glassboro State Teacher's College. HAGERTY MARIANO Mr.

and Mrs. Domenick Mariano, of Clifton Heights, announce the engagement of their daughter, Miss Marilyn Mariano, to Mr. James Leon Hagerty, 3d, son of Mr. and Mrs. Hagerty, 2d, of West Chester.

MARTIN McKENNA The engagement of Miss Julia Anne McKenna to Mr. Thomas Commerford Martin, son of Mr. and Mrs. Commerford Beckwith Martin, of Villanova, is announced by her parents, Mr. and Mrs.

John William McKenna, of Pacific Falisadcs, Calif. Miss McKenna attended the University of California at Santa Barbara and is now studying at Temple University. Her fiance is an alumnus of Hamilton College. Their wedding will take place Oct. 30.

P10N BROMBACII Col. Charles Urban Brom-bach, USAF, and Mrs. Brom-bach, of Brookley Air Force Base, announce the engagement of their daughter, Miss Patricia Anne Brombach, of Philadelphia, to Mr. Arthur J. Pion, also of this city, son of Mr.

and Mrs. Arthur Joseph Finn, of Altadena, Calif. The bride-to-be is a graduate of the College of William and Mary. Mr. Tion is an alumnus of the University of Loyola.

Their wedding will take place in September. BERNSTEIN -FINKELSTEIX Announcement is made by Mr. and Mrs. Alexander Fink-elstein, of Cornwells Heights, of the engagement of their Rpmhrnnrtt Studio The eqflae-rent cf ss "c' E''ei Co'ish to Mr. Edpd J.

Fair's announced l-er r'ens, Mr, ad Mrs. Aaron Colish. Lonn, of oienside, to Mr. Louis. Francis Calzi, son of Mr.

and Mrs. Frank Calzi, of Philadelphia, place Saturday morning in St. Luke's Catholic Church, Glenside, with the Rev. Philip P. Scully officiat-" ing.

A reception followed at Casa Conti. The bride attended the National University of Mexico and Cedar Crest College. Her husband studied at Drexel Institute of Technology. After a California wedding trip, the couple will make their home in Rydal. CROCKETTREIFF The marriage of Miss Susan Elizabeth Reiff, daughter of Mr.

and Mrs. J. Howard Reiff, of Merion, to Mr. John Adams Crockett, son of Mr. and Mrs.

Theodore Lyman Crockett, of Briarcliff, N. took place June 26 in the Presbyterian Church of the Covenant, Bala-Cynwyd, with the Rev. Howard W. Oursler officiating. Mrs.

Crockett is studying at Kings College, Briarcliff. Her husband is an alumnus of New York University. ALLOY-BECK Miss Judith Beck, daughter of Mr. and Mrs. George J.

Beck, of this city, became the bride of Mr. James Francis Malloy, son of Mr. and Mrs. Leo J. Malloy, also of this city, Saturday in the Church of Our Lady of Calvary, with The Rev.

George S. Wierzalis officiating. A reception followed at the Torres-dale-Frankford Country Club. Mrs. Malloy is a graduate of St.

Mary's Academy and. Immaculata College. Her husband is an alumnus of St. Joseph's Preparatory School and Temple University. TRUITT-WORNER The marriage of Miss Lois Helen Worner, daughter of Mr.

and Mrs. William H. Worner, of Newtown Square, to Mr. George Weston Truitt, son of Dr. and Mrs.

George W. Truitt, of Chadds Ford, took place June 26 in the Newtown Square Presbyterian Church. Mr. and Mrs. Truitt are graduates of West Chester State College.

BENNETTSCHATZLE Miss Merry Kay Schatzle, daughter of Mrs. Milton Carl Schatzle, of South Bend, and the late Mr. Schatzle, was married June 26 to Mr. John Hamilton Bennett, 4th, son of Mr. and Mrs.

Bennett, 3d, of Clifton Heights. The ceremony took place in the Memorial Methodist Church. South Bend, with the Rev. Dr. Harry W.

Campbell officiating. The bride attended the University of Miami and St. Mary's College. Her husband is an alumnus of the University of Miami. St.

Christopher's Gets $19,000 fund The eight women's auxiliaries working in behalf of St. Christopher's Hospital for Children have turned over $19,000 to the hospital this year. The sum was raised by the women through activities sponsored by individual auxiliaries and three large scale events in which the women combine efforts. These are the annual May horse show and jamboree, the luncheon each fall known as "Operation Childcare," and a summer party. The latter will be staged this year in August as the WCAU Country Fair Days.

The eight auxiliaries are headed by the hospital's Board of Lady Visitors. Each auxiliary has its own officers and representation on the hospital's executive council. Mrs. William White, the 1964-65 president of the women' council, announced the total of the auxiliaries' fund rais- ing. Retreat for women A retreat for women is planned at the Dominican Retreat House in Elkins Park for three days starting Friday.

Mrs. Kay Morgen is in charge. Information can be obtained at the Retreat House, CA 4-0954 or from Mrs. Morgen at SU 9 9727. Birth is announced Mr.

and Mrs. James Hedge-peth. of Briarchff. announce the birth of a daughter, Anne Mane Hedgepeth, on June 24. Mrs.

Hegepeth is the former Miss Mary Liddy, daughter of Mr. and Mrs. John Liddv, of Philadelphia..