The Leavenworth Times from Leavenworth, Kansas • Page 15

Confidentin1 to "A Torn' The only way In "handle" sendle parents is 10 love them, love them, love them. No matter what they any or do, assure them that they are loved and respected. That is what they need most because their sometimes hostile and lovable behavior has lost for them the ability to command love and respect and they miss it. It lan't onay to hear one's own mother curse you, or accuse you of stealing her shoca, her mon- THE LEAVENWORTH TIMES, ey, or anything else she herself: has misplaced, or hidden. Eld- erly people often lose, misplace or "hide" things, and because they can't face the painful fact that they are losing their memo.

ries, they blame others. I know you can't always take A hysterical mother in your arms when she is cursing you, or even trying to strike you, but when you realize that she will have forgotten everything in five Woods Appliance Repair Serv. Formerly with Sears Roebuck Co. Service Dept. Washer and Dryer Specialist Prompt, Efficient Appliance Repair Service.

Phone MU 2-5304 All Work Guaranteed. To most It just isn't Christmas without Old Spice FOR MEN After Shave Lotion or Men's Cologne Old Spies, JEODORANT 1.25 Large size 2.00 New Twosome 2.25 After Shove Lotion and Aerosol Deodorant for HER The Goddess Touch in Spray Colognes Early American Old Spice, Friendship Garden, Bubble Bouquet 2.00 Desert Flower, To soften her bath with the Escapade fumed foam of Escapade, Early Prices plus tax American Old Spice, Friendship Garden and Desert flower, DRUG'S SMITH 5th and Delaware Phone MU 2-1602 Sunday Morning, November 22, 1964. Fifteen minutes, how con you but disre. Mrs. gard 11? fon Try harder not to hear her ac.

ent cusations, and to answer them grades. all with, love you, Mama. Re. member, love you." A Lor IN COMMON CHARITON. Town (AP) Three daughters of Mr.

Robert Shanks of Chariare entered in two differschools and three different Rut they adi have whose last name is Anderson. Jeanne Shanks is taught by Couple Wed McLouth Susan Marce. daughter of Mr. and Mrs. David Reynolds, and Russell D.

Voelker, son of Mr. and Mrs. Arthur Voelker, all of McLouth were married at the McLouth Methodist Church with the Rev. Stacy Ollar Jr. officiatIng.

at the double ring ceremony. altar was decorated with briskets of white chrysanthemums, gladioli and white candelabra and the pews were marked with white satin bows. The organist. was Mrs. Harold McHenry and the vocalist was Mrs.

Eldon Ferris of Winchester, Candlelighters were Paul and Jim Kesinger of Atchison, nephews of the bride. The bride, given in marriage by her father, wore a gown of alencon lace designed with a basque bodice and voluminous skirt. The featured bridal point sleeves and a scalloped sabrina neckline accented with pearls and sequins. Self fabric roses appeared at intervals down the front of the skirt and alternate tiers of lace and tulle formed the back of the skirt that cascaded into a sweep train. Her walst length veil of illusion was caught to a crown of cascade seed pearls.

She carried a bouquet of white rose buds, blue and white carnations. Miss Sarah Reynolds, sister of the bride, was maid of honor, She wore A street length dress of blue chiffon banded with satin and carried a nosegay of white chrysanthemums and blue and white carnations. The best man was William George of Oskaloosa and the ushers were Arthur Voelker of Tonganoxie, Allan and Richard Reynolds of Kansas City, William Kesinger of Atchison and Mark Wiley of Topeka. The reception was in Fellowship Hall. The table was covered with a lace cloth over royal blue.

Serving at the reception were Mrs. Arthur Voelker of Tonganoxle, Mrs. Allan Reynolds of Kansas City, Mrs. William Kesinger of Atchison and Mrs. Charles Edmonds of Winchester.

Gayla and Donnita Kesinger Falls, Mildred Dill of Winchester and Barbara Kesinger Atchison were in charge of the gift table. The bride, a 1964 graduate of Winchester High School, Is nurses ald at the Jefferson County Memorial Hospital. The groom, 1961 graduate of McLouth, Is employed at CFCA in Lawrence, The couple is at home on RR 1 McLouth, Stork Shower Mra. Mary Salsberry was guest of honor at stork shower at the home of Mrs. Jeanie Mowery, Lansing, who was the hostess.

Games were played and prizes won by Mrs. Mary Brook, Mrs. Patty Workman and Mrs. Mary Gonzales. Guests presented their gifts to the honored guest and those unable to attend sent gifts.

Refreshments of cake, cream and punch were served to Mrs. Brook, Mra. Workman, Mrs. Gonzales, Mrs. Irene Salsberry, Mrs.

Goldie Burnell, Mra. Connie Housworth, Mra. Mabel Haupt, Mrs. Wilma Reed, Mrs. Lois Johnson, Mrs.

Jo Swisher and Coleen, Mrs. Harriet Reese, Sammy and Lovonia and B111 Mowery. Mrs. Salsberry received many lovely gifts, EASTON JUNIOR PLAY "Good Night Ladies," a three act comedy, will be presented by the junior class of Easton High School on Nov. 24, at 7:30 p.m.

Members of the cast include Candy Winkler, Barbara Journell, Carol Behne, Sandy Jones, Judy Hund, Linda Brown, Sandy Trader, Bruce Knapp, Ronnie Kell, Doug Robker, Bob Polley and Lester Abel. The director is Miss Suzanne Lenahan, ATTEND PARENTS DAY Mr. and Mrs. Henry F. Krahl of 127 E.

Logan attended the 19th annual Parents Day Saturday at Central Missouri State College in Warrensburg, where their daughter is a student. They experienced a bit of college living by having dinner Church News Has Tuesday Deadline Thursday is a holiday and The Times will not publish. Ministers and church secremaries are reminded to have their church news In by noon on Tuesday insicad of Wednesday in order that copy may be edited and set for Friday's edition, The regular schedule will be resumed the following week. with their daughter in one of the college residence halls dining rooms, attending a campus convention, meeting the heads of the divisions and attending a football game. They were welcomed to the campus by Dr.

Warren C. Lovinger, president, who spoke to the parents at the convocation. Organizations Plans have been made by the Happy Day Club of Easton to have its Christmas party and gift exchange on Dec. 9 at noon nt. the home of Mrs.

Lyle Sloan. Dinner will he served and all members are asked to attend. The club met Wednesday with Mrs. Edith Kesinger at Easton with a noon luncheon. There were 10 members and one guest present.

At the Tuesday and Wednesday unit meetings the Leavenworth League of Women Voters began a study of family courts. The League will explore the need for a family court in Kansas, discuss the problems that will be helped by a family court and study the political and practical problems Kansas may face in instituting a family court. Mrs. James N. Snyder chairman for the family court study, began by mentlon.nz some of the problems encountered in the handling of family questions In the present Kansas court system.

In Kansas problems involving different members of the same family are now handled by a number ot different courts, present system does not provide for exchange of information between courts concerned, and duplication of effort which results from overlapping jurisdition is costly in terms of legal expense and judicial time. In the present Kansas court system there is a lack of specialized services for investigating and counseling. Mrs. Snyder continued by ing about the Ideal family court. The purpose of such a court is the preservation of the family, its goal is help not ment.

In the Ideal family court jurisdiction over all family matters is vested in one court, a specialized staff counsels and Investigates, and information 1s secured by independent study. The Leavenworth League will continue its study on Dec. 1 at 7:30 p.m. in City Hall. This! meeting, a symposium on the family court, will be open 10 the public.

Past Presidents and Past ficers of the VFW Auxiliary 56 will mect Tuesday at 7:30 p.m.| with Mrs. Jenny Myers, 914 101h Ave. Winners at. the Leavenworth, Country Club duplicates bridge games Thursday evening were: North-South, first, Mrs. R.

B. Whitaker and Mrs. May Thompson: second. Dr. David: Watkins and Keefe Blonkley, and third, Mr.

and Mrs. Don Spratt. East first, Mrs. W. M.

Redd and Mrs. Prank Kronkright; second, Mr. and Mrs. Jerry Munson; and third, Mr. and Mrs.

Walt Kane. The next play will be Dec. 3 at 7:30 p.m. at the club Army Chapter 239, OES, will meet Monday al. 8 p.m..

at! Boughton Memorial Hall, Leavenworth. Members and visitors welcome. DEAR Your Problems Dear Abby: I am a divorcee with two teen-aged children. For the past six months I have been sceing a lot of a man who is also my financial advisor. He has been like a father to my children.

He is married and has three children of: his own, Ours is a platonic relahip and nothing more. He spends many evenings in my home, and quite; often it is 2 and 3 a.m. before we realize it. I would not want to cause him any trouble at home, but he has told me that he didn't have much of a marriage before he met me SO I shouldn't feel guilty. If I gest that we talk business only at his office, he'll be hurt.

And besides, I would miss him terribly. Yet when I think of his wife and family my conscience bothers me. Can you advise me? Nameless, Please Dear Nameless: Give this "platonic relationship" another six months and it will be anone of those affairs. See him at his office. The kind of business that finds a married "advisor" lounging around a divorcee's homo at 2 and 8 a.m.

can lead to moral bankruptoy. Dear Abby: My husband sleeps In his underwear, but that's not my problem. it he can't sleep he will times into the living room 1 and go watch television and then he falls asleep on the couch. Our daughter came home late with date one night and when she a turned on the light in the living room there was Pa asleep on the couch In his underwear. You can Imagine how embarrassed daughter was.

He reads my your column, Abby, so maybe if you said that people should have a little more re- I'm the Girl in the World! Perhaps she won't $147.50 announce it this way. but she'll want the whole world to know. One of the The ring you place upon her finger loveliest of new will say it more emphatically than any ensemble styles. placard, It speaks of your sentiments EASY TERMS but also of our integrity. We are as anxious as you are for a good report.

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Store Hours: Monday, Noon to Tues. through 9 to 5:30 Martha Anderson: Janis, by Phillis Anderson: and Joyce, by and Mrs. Mildred Anderson. spect for other people, it might help. Louisville Dear Louisville: On the nights your daughter has a date, press on your hushand the importance of sleeping in his own bed.

It he's really bullbuy him nice pair of pajamag and try to get him to wear them. Or would he rather provide his daughter with 8 good excuse for not coming home at all? Dear Abby: I arn engaged to a wonderful guy who has one bad weakness. He likes to speed. He drives like he is on a race track all the time and he doesn't think a thing of the risks he takes. His family and friends have all tried to tell him his reckless driving will be his undoing one day, but it doesn't seem to mean anything to him, He thinks it is a matter of being able to "handle" his automobile.

He knows cars inside and out and he Is a good driver, but anything can happen at 95 or 100 miles an hour, Abby, I love him and I don't want to lose him. How can I make him understand that it he doesn't slow up he might end up committing suicide and maybe 1 murder? One Who Cares Dear One: Your "wonderful guy" is still a little boy. The most important person in huts world 1s himself. No matter how "good" 8 driver' he is, blow out, or another driver who could be in the wrong, could spell disaster for your friend and anyone who is unlucky (and stupid) enough to be with blm It you marry him before he re forms his driving habits, I hope you '100k good in black. WATCH, CLOCK and JEWELRY REPAIR The Jewel Box (Formerly Poggemeyer'e) 204 South 5th Free Gift Wrapping Casual Permanent HAIR COLOR The easy, easy modern hair colorIng.

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