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Ppge Six Section ffibr Arizona Datlo Star Tucson, Monday, January 10, 1994 Far from his sweetie, student's troubled by available women ,1994 Karola Inc. Dear Dr. Ruth: I'm a college freshman. My school is very far from where I live and from my girlfriend who still lives there. I am very loyal but I am also getting frustrated.

There are so many available women at college that it is hard to resist the temptation of cheating, and I've got three more years to go! What should I want to have sex, but every time I look at a pretty face, I go home and masturbate. What should I do? A. There is nothing wrong with masturbating, and there is nothing that says one should stop at-a certain age. However, if every time you look pretty face you go home and masturbate instead pf talking to that person and trying to find out if that person would be interested in starting a relationship with you, or if that person is interesting enough for you to want to have a relationship, then perhaps there is a problem. It could be that you are shy or that you have a very strong fear of rejection, or some other problem.

If that is the case, theij I would suggest that you consult with a psychologist to see what could be done to help you. problems having sex with him. The female superior position gives her control so that she can decide how deeply the penis can penetrate, and both the side-to-side and from-behind positions also can be helpful. I have to ask you a question: Why do you seem to have the need to show it tff right away? Maybe if you spent a little more time developing a relationship with the girl, kissing and hugging her and talking to her, you can establish lines of communication so that even if she is scared, you can calm her down and establish ways of making sex satisfactory to both of you. If you find that you are having a problem developing relationships with women, don't blame it on the size of your penis, but on the manner in which you relate to women.

Dear Dr. Ruth: I would like to know if it is OK to masturbate. I've read books that say you should stop when you are 18. I'm almost 23 and have been doing it for 10 years. I'm a virgin and I ship's chances.

First, you must keep the lines of communication as open as possible by writing frequently and calling as much as your budget allows. Also, make sure that you do bring yourself to sexual satisfaction while thinking of her. But if the temptation of the available women at college remains very strong, then you have to ask yourself some questions about your relationship with your girlfriend. If it is not strong enough to satisfy over a long distance, then you might wind up reaching the conclusion that you'll have to end it rather than feel guilty if you do cheat and make your girlfriend suffer even more in the end. Dear Dr.

Ruth: I have a problem with girls because of my penis. It is very big and girls get scared of it. I never get past the first time, because they see it and then they won't date me again. What should I do? A. For men who are well-endowed, there are positions other than the missionary position that can make things more comfortable if a woman has Dr.

Ruth Westheimer do? A. Yours is a difficult question to answer. There are some long-distance relationships that survive and there are many that do not. There are some things that you can do to help the relation- Letters should be sent to: Dr. Ruth Westheimer, co King Features Syndicate, 235 E.

45th New York, N.Y. 10007. HOROSCOPE K0LD seems willing to make the investment needed to make Channel 13 competitive. Joseph said he is working on a new budget for next year, amending the one already approved by Atlanta-based New Vision before he was here and able to determine what needed to be done at KOLD. The station's strong point in programming, along with CBS' top-rated prime-time lineup, is its late afternoon weekday schedule, Joseph said.

"We're in a good position with our afternoon lineup, with Oprah and Montel," Joseph said. "Montel Williams" and "Oprah Winfrey," two hour-long syndicated talk shows, air from 3 to 5 p.m. Joseph was less enthusiastic about CBS' sports programming. The network was embarrassed last month when Fox outbid it for rights to the National Football League's NFC games. "I'm sure I'll' know more about that after the CBS affiliate meeting," he said.

That meeting is taking place this week in San Diego. Continued from Page 4B a discernible improvement compared with past broadcasts "if you look at the tapes from even six months ago," he said. Joseph said he wants to strengthen KOLD through its local news coverage. "There's all this talk about 500 cable channels. I don't think that's going to happen.

Who is there to watch them? "You've got to have good local news coverage." Another of Joseph's goals is to gain a greater presence in the community. With this in mind, he said, the on-air personalities will have more air time from "remote" locations outside the studio. There's good reason for the enthusiasm at KOLD. After years of what appeared to be miserly micromanagement by the News Press Gazette Broadcast Group, the new ownership CAPRICORN (Dec. 22-Jan.

19): A strong sense of purpose will carry you through this busy day. Plow profits right back into your business. Spend time building a home base. A telephone call brings wonderful news. Teach children responsibility.

AQUARIUS (Jan. 20-Feb. 18): Refuse to be overwhelmed by the challenges before you. Setting priorities will bring the best results. Reading or dancing will make this evening especially pleasurable.

Put romance on hold for a while. PISCES (Feb. 19-March 20): Other people's unpredictable behavior could tempt you to scatter your energies. Stick to your own script. A well-thought-out financial plan holds real promise.

Today's children are honest, patient and pragmatic. They believe in letting people know exactly where they stand and will never resort to subterfuge to get their way. Proud of their good name, these Capricorns will go to great lengths to protect their reputation. Count on them to be excellent students. Ambitious and hard-working, they will want a first-class education.

A career in business or government will hold strong appeal. tranged friend back into the fold. Stake this person to a small loan, if you can afford it. Get an I.O.U. to keep things on a businesslike basis.

LEO (July 23-Aug. 22): Private talks with influential people could lead to substantial gains today; a financial or business offer may result. Displaced possessions surface in unusual places. A secret rendezvous is featured this evening. VIRGO (Aug.

23-Sept. 22): A good day to spend money on things that make you look or feel better. A confidential pact or innovative idea has great value. Your intuition is right on target; do not ignore it. LIBRA (Sept.

23-Oct. 22): The visionary changes you implement now will pay rich dividends. A credit arrangement, loan or joint undertaking holds great promise. Your keen love radar zeros in on someone special. Go slow.

SCORPIO (Oct. 23-Nov. 21): You know what you want and are pretty sure how to get it. A wish comes true when you act on news received. A former romantic partner comes back into your life.

SAGITTARIUS (Nov. 22-Dec. 21): Shared experiences strengthen a new friendship. A long-awaited gift is received. Avoid arguing over money.

A beneficial contract can be signed with a talent agency. Consult experts before making major decisions. By Jeane Dixon Universal Press Syndicate Monday, Jan. 10, 1994 Happy birthday! In the next year of your life: A financial situation is about to improve markedly. Profits grow in early spring.

Plow extra funds into a new business or your home. A change in your marital status is possible by midsummer. Travel for business or. pleasure in August. Retirees may decide to go back to work part time.

Look for a job you can really enjoy. Celebrities born on this date: singer Pat Benatar, baseball player Willie McCovey, poet Robinson Jeffers, Japanese actor Sessue Hayakawa. ARIES (March 21-April 19): Events behind the scenes or a hunch adds power to your plans. The bargain-hunting forecast is bright. Put yourself in partner's shoes.

Your encouraging words will seem like' pearls of wisdom. -TAURUS (April 20-May 20): Positive dealings with the opposite sex are good for your public image. Keep up a steady pace at work. Show your mate or partner that you have a strong sense of responsibility. GEMINI (May 21-June 20): Limited help from others may narrow your options now.

Careful use of your own assets will allow -you to reach an important tive. Try not to take sides during family disputes. Remain independent. CANCER (June 21-July 22): Your kindness could bring an es KV0A KVOA is the largest of the Evening Post's television holdings, Ruby said. The company al- ready owns several Montana stations as well as stations in Boise, Idaho, and Colorado Springs, Colo.

Although it has pretty much been business as usual through the time surrounding the sta- '-tipn's sale, Ruby said the time did have its'; stressful periods. "There's employee anticipation not paranoia, but they're concerned. But when it fi- nally comes down to the fact that they (the new owners) are not two-headed monsters and -they don't fire everybody and they do have cov- erages for things that employees are concerned about, in the final analysis, I would say, yes, was relatively easy." Continued from Page 4B ter equipped than this television station." Ruby said the news department is completely computer-operated and has been for 10 years. The station also boasts the only truck in Southern Arizona that has the capability to send signals via satellite to the studio from remote locations. Ruby described the Manigault family, principal owners of Evening Post, as an "old-time Southern family" and said the Manigaults are in the process of buying a station in Billings, Mont.

Astrological forecasts should be read for entertainment value. Such predictions have no reUable basis in scientific fact. Theo the cat finds himself on mailing list WENATCHEE, Wash. (AP) -Theo Theoklitos has been offered applications for major credit cards, invited to join video clubs and is a finalist in Ed McMahon's $10 million sweepstakes. If only he could read his mail.

The Krikrises are begiruung to wonder. After all, Theo gets almost as much mail as they Theo got his name from an elderly Greek monk whom the Krikrises met when they visitfed Greece in 1982. "You know, these people who send him all this mail probably think he's a wealthy Greek shipping magnate because of his name," Mrs. Krikris said. Theo is a 6-year-old black cat, owned by Chris and Helene Krikris.

He's been getting mail since October 1992, when Mrs. Krikris sent in an application for a rebate on cat food. Theo soon began getting mail on a regular basis. One flier that came through the mail from a dog food company read: "So you think you're smarter than your cat?" ECZEMA STUDY jr Male and female subjects ages 12-70 with eczema needed to evaluate safety and effectiveness of an investigational topical treatment. Compensation provided.

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