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PEOPLE Evening Journal, Wilmington, Saturday, June 7, 1975 22 Woman's Voice 'Age is Wisdom' Revived ly. They were our haven when we were lost, our inspiration when we needed new vision. "Progress" has decreed them The fullness in SAGE participants' lives obsolete, and as the scandal of the nursing homes has revealed, given them over to inhumane and ignorant caretaker programs where they are left to vegetate Mrs. William Henry Southwood Stanley-LeNoir St. Matthew Catholic Church, Woodcrest, was the setting of the wedding last evening of Karen Ann Stanley of Wilmington, and Thomas Joseph Rosemont.

The Rev. Ralph L. Martin officiated and a reception was held in the United Auto Workers Hall Local No. 435. Parents of the couple are Mr.

and Mrs. George W. Stanley of Wilmington and Mr. and Mrs. John G.

LeNoir of Rosemont. Maid of honor was Jacqueline M. LeNoir, sister of the groom. Matron of honor was Mrs. Merrill L.

Chesser III. Bridesmaids were Mary A. Fitzsimmons and Amanda L. Chesser. Flower girl was Christine L.

Chesser. Best man for his son was Mr. LeNoir. Users were Merrill L. Chesser III, brother of the bride and James J.

Bryner. The bride was graduated from Henry C. Conrad High School and Delaware Technical and Community College. A graduate of the same high school, the groom is employed by Delmarva Power Light Co. After a wedding trip to Bermuda, the couple will live in Wilmington.

Rhodes- Washburn Mary Ann Rhodes of Harmony Hills and John Robert Washburn of Wilmington were married today in St. John the Baptist Catholic Church. Newark. The Rev. Clement P.

Lemon officiated and a reception was held in the home of the bride. Parents of the couple are Mr. and Mrs. Elmer H. Rhodes Jr.

of Harmony Hills, Alberta E. Washburn of Wilmington and Jack Washburn of Harmony Hills. IN BRIEF B'nai B'rith Elects (Editor's Note: Dr. Jean Houston is a pioneer in the exploration and development of human potentials and the study of human consciousness. As director of the Foundation for Mind Research, she has pursued extensive research in psychology and education.) By JEAN HOUSTON In other times and in other cultures Grandma and Grandpa were the favorite members of the household the salty, plainspeaking wise ones who saw more deeply and counselled more justWEDDINGS Miss Paschall Is MarriedIn New Castle To Mr.

Southwood From Washington State New Castle Presbyterian Church was the setting of the marriage today of Barbara Carr Paschall of Wilmington and William Henry Southwood, of Moses Lake, Wash. The Rev. Ralph R. Johnson Jr. officiated and a reception was held in the Wilmington Country Club.

The bride is the daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Charles Bayard Paschall Jr. of Wilmington. He is president of H.

M. Paschall and Sons, Inc. Parents of the groom are Mr. and Mrs. Jimmie Dale Southwood of Moses Lake.

Matron of honor was Mrs. Charles B. Paschall III. Maid of honor was Carolynn B. Paschall.

Bridesmaids were Johanna 1 B. Shields and Mary Lou Southwood. Flower girl was Kathy Maupin. Best man was Kenneth Coffin. Ushers were Charles Bayard Paschall III, Edward M.

Paschall, Jimmie D. Southwood, Mark E. Southwood and Don P. Herzog. The bride was graduated from Concord High Junior College, Longmeadow, and the University of Delaware.

She is a recreation therapist aide at Delaware State Hospital. Her grandparents are Mr. and Mrs. Charles Bayard Paschall Sr. of Wilmington and Captive Island, Mrs.

Edward K. Bispham of New Castle and the late Mr. Bispham. The groom will graduate from the Coast Guard Academy, New London, this month. After a wedding trip to the West Coast, the couple will live in Astoria, Oregon.

Arthur Fentin, a control supervisor for the Du Pont has been elected president of the Wilmington Lodge 470, B'nai B'rith. Other officers are Stephen P. Scheinberg, first vice president; Manuel Caney, Michael R. Samuels and Jeffrey Schwartz, vice presidents; Gerson Blatnick, treasurer; Michael I. Laurence, financial secretary; Gerald M.

Barsha, recording secretary; and Walter S. Baer, warden. Memorial's Junior Board The Junior Board at Memorial Division has elected Mrs. J. Frank Cogdell Mrs.

Edward J. Davis, Mrs. W.W. Olenbush, Mrs. J.W.

Sprauer and Mrs. Elman M. Stausebach to 2-years terms on its executive committee. Officers for the coming year will be Mrs. H.

Vaugh Lang, president; Mrs. Joseph R. Reybold, vice president; Mrs. A.J. Banks, treasurer; Mrs.

H.B. Cates, corresponding secretary; and Mrs. Oliver V. Suddard, recording secretary. by ty.

SAGE leaders also operate in convalescent homes in the East Bay area. The program has not yet spread to San Francisco but, according to a spokeswoman, "we've heard from a lot of interested persons in those cities, and Participants are not charged and leaders receive a minimal salary. I had the opportunity of observing a SAGE group in action. Into a large, cheerful room walked a group of feisty, razor-sharp, dancing, laughing life-lovers, whose ages hovered in the late 60s and Mrs. John Clymer Clough-Clymer The marriage of Kathleen Clough of Swanwyck and John Clymer of Leedom Estates took place today in the Holy Spirit Catholic Church, Garfield Park.

The Rev. Francis G. De Luca officiated and a reception was held in the Veterans of Foreign Wars Post No. 615. Parents of the couple are Mr.

and Mrs. Francis Clough Jr. of Swanwyck, Evelyn W. Clymer of New Castle and the late John Clymer. Maid of honor was Toni Ballas.

Bridesmaids were Margaret Clough, sister of the bride; Jill Clymer, sister of the groom; Maryann Jones and Barbara Bilik. Flower girl Shannon Whaley. Best man was Kenneth Ushers were James Mancari, Robert McCloskey, David Talley and Francis Clough, brother of the bride. The bride was graduated from St. Mark's High School and is employed by the State of Delaware.

A graduate of William Penn High School, the groom is a chemical worker for The Chloramone Corp. The couple will live in New Bradley, Furness Vows Said Martha Rene Bradley of Wilmington and Harry W. Furness of Greenville were married last evening in St. Ann Catholic Church. The Rev.

Clement Lemon officiated and a reception was held in the church social hall. without hope, without love, without choice, without much of anything except a place to gradually fall to pieces and die. Unscrupulous and vicious profiteers have made fortunes on our willingness to deliver up our elders to this slow slaughter of the innocents. In the wake of public anger and awareness, new and enlightened methods of working with the elderly are beginning to develop. One of the most brilliant and successful of these is the SAGE program of Berkeley, Calif.

Mrs. Thomas Joseph LeNoir Diane Ruth Lambert of Gwinhurst and Dean C. Richwine of Gwinhurst were married today in The Christian Missionary Alliance Church. The Rev. Gerald Welbourne and the Rev.

Asa Martin officiated and a reception was held in the church fellowship hall. Parents of the couple are Mr. and Mrs. Theodore Lambert Jr. of Gwinhurst and Mr.

and Mrs. Donald C. Richwine of Gwinhurst. Maid of honor for her sister was Susan Denise Lambert. Bridesmaids were Cheryl Richwine, sister of the groom; Carol Jo Lambert and Katherine Satterthwaite.

SAGE, an acronym for Senior Actualization and Growth Exploration, has been in existence for about a year and a half. SAGE Has begun to spill over to others. groups meet in church basements and private homes in Berkeley and the nearby town of Albany. Some church basements are also available to SAGE in Marin Coun- Mrs. Harry W.

Furness Best man was Richard Satterthwaite. Ushers were Theodore Lambert III, brother of the bride; the Rev. Bruce E. Lynam and Ronald Meier. The bride and groom were graduated from Mount Pleasant High School.

She is a clerk for the Farmers Bank of the State of Delaware and he graduated from Delaware Technical and Community College and is an electronic technician for Wilmington Sheet Metal Works. After a wedding trip to Virginia, the couple will live in Kirk-Boronski The marriage of Bertha M. Kirk of Newark and John H. Boronski of Sherwood Forest took place today i in the Ebenezer United Methodist Church, Newark. The Rev.

Robert W. Helms officiated and a reception was held in the church fellowship hall. Matron of honor was Mrs. William Moroney, sister of the bride. Best man for his brother was Joseph Boronski.

Ushers were Parents of the couple are Mr. and Mrs. Paul Bradley of Wilmington and Mr. and Mrs. Robert Furness of Wilmington.

Stanley Kirk, Kirk Story and Stephen Story. The bride was graduated from Wilmington General Hospital School of Nursing, was retired after 25 years serving as a Navy nurse and is employed by the Methodist Country House. The groom is the maintenance engineer at the Methodist Country House. The couple will live in Newark. Matron of honor was Jeanne Brock.

Bridesmaids were Linda Anselme, Aileen Glynn, Nancy Gardner, Mary Poppiti and Judy Ackerman. Best man was Roy Peacock. Ushers were William Gardner, Michael Bradley, William Brindle, Robert Furness, Danny Furness and Joseph Furness. The bride was graduated from Padua Academy and the University of Delaware. She is a health KNOW YOUR ANTIQUES ES By RALPH and TERRY KOVEL Fake antiques are not always a poor investment.

The most famous porcelain maker of the past 200 years is a French factory called Edme Samson et Cie. The Paris firm reproduced ceramics and figurines by other firms from the early 19th century, such as Chelsea, Meissen, Chinese and Worchester. They made pieces as replacements for sets of dishes by other factories. They also copied anything that would sell. Pieces were marked with the letter or a pseudo Chinese mark.

Some pieces are unmarked, although the factory claims to have marked each piece. The copies by Samson have become so desirable that often the Samson vase sells for more than the original. A few collectors only want the Samson copies. The copies can be recognized in several ways. The original Dr.

Wall period Worcester looks dark purple under a black light, whereas Samson copies often glow green Samson copies of Chinese export porcelain usually have raised white decorations. This feature never can be found on true export wares. Copies of Meissen and other European figurines often have coloring different from the SAGE Mrs. Dean Richwine originals. It takes some study, but the fakes usually can be detected.

Q. My picture of a castle is made from glued colored sand. The frame is old and the picture is unlike anything I have seen. When were "sand" pictures made? and physical education teacher at Padua Academy. The groom was graduated from Henry C.

Conrad High School, attended the University of Delaware and is the owner and manager of Newark Stationers. He the editor and publisher of the Muse Message. After a wedding trip to New Orleans, the couple will live in Greenville. A. Sand pictures have been made since the late 18th century.

Benjamin Zobel of Bavaria made pictures in England by 1791. Various colors of sand found in resort areas led to souvenir pictures made of sand. Edwin Dore was one of the most famous artists making sand pictures. The sand Samson urns in early American motit The fakes may be worth more than the originals 70s. Guided by Dr.

Gay Gaer Luce and her associates, they moved through hours of exercises in deep relaxation, deep breathing, yoga postures, stretches, bends, turns, twists, and free form dances which would leave most people half their age exhausted. They revelled in their physical proficiency, and boasted of their supple, limber bodies. They told me of the ways big and little in which their lives had been changed in the past year. Some had overcome long-term symptoms such as migraine, high blood pressure and depression. Others had emerged from lifelong shyness to an ability to participate in groups and even I lead.

Using many techniques such as bio-feedback, relaxation and breathing, massage, elements from recent advances in psychotherapy such as gestalt and bioenergetics, and a variety of meditation and spiritual exercises drawn from Western and Eastern traditions, they learned that their bodies were not ugly and that their minds were clear and growing. Gradually, new life attitudes emerged in which they rid themselves of symptoms, de-conditioned their minds and bodies from negative emotional habits, controlled their reactions to stress and despair and responded creatively to challenge. They told me of ways that they had learned to deal with insomnia: deep breathing, relaxation and meditation. They said they had learned playful, invigorating vitality exercises and told of how much they ap preciated massage classes and how they had learned to have more honest, open relationships and expressions of emotion with each other and with their families. Most importantly, they spoke of new growth and interests.

"I have never been more alive in my said a septuagenarian. "And I look on death as another stage in the Whereas only a year before many group members were in that slough of despond and negativism which overtakes so many of America's elderly, now most of them were involved in hobbies, teaching, community projects, and even political activities. One of the most exciting developments of the SAGE program is that the newfound fullness in these people's lives has begun to spill over. They are beginning to train others, working individually and with the SAGE staff to set up similar programs in senior citizen residences and nursing homes. What makes the program So easy to transmit but so difficult to "sell" to funding organizations is that it depends not so much on techniques but on an attitude in which the elderly person is always worked with simultaneously on physical, mental, emotional and spiritual levels.

Thus, a spectrum of growth opportunities are presented. Curiously, these inclusive methods are ones which tribal and ancient societies have always offered to older people so that the final years of their life can be ones devoted to the deepest self realization. In our culture these methods are almost exclusively the province of the young. (For further information on SAGE, readers can write to 2455 Hilgard Avenue, Berkeley, Calif. 94709).

0 1975 Jean Houston New York Times Service Matron of honor was Catherine Chudzik. Bridesmaids were Linda Lavere and Laura Pfeffer. Best man was Richard Washburn. Ushers were Gary Keith, Jerome Rhodes, David Grier and Michael Rhodes. The bride and groom are graduates of Newark High School.

He is a stripper baler for Westvaco. After a wedding trip to Wildwood, N. the couple will live in Wilmington. Kiwanis Elects Poppiti Albert Poppiti has been elected president of the Wilmington Kiwanis Club for 1975-1976. Other officers are Stephen G.

Harris 1st vice president; Donald S. Wason, 2d vice president; and Carleton E. Creadick, treasurer. Directors Robert H. Hallsted, Jeffrey H.

Jacoby, Charles G. Minich Joseph E. Salvatore, Fred P. Weldin and Roy W. Sullivan Jr.

Kiwanis Foundation trustees, whose terms expire Sept. 30, 1978, are Joseph Breen, James, Dobb, Joseph Haggerty, Robert Hallsted and A. Cy Lubitsh. Billings Wins Honors Ralph Billings 17, of Viola, has won a $25 U.S. savings bond and three certificates of merit for three posters he entered in the American Automobile Association's 31st Annual School Traffic Safety Poster Contest.

The theme of the posters is "Safety Belts Only If Worn." Billings is a senior at Kent County Vocational Technical Center in Woodside. was applied in a thick layer and it gave each picture three-dimensional effect. The American Indians (Navajo and Pueblo) made sand paintings form of prayer to aid the sick. About 1919, medicine man wove a rug based on sand painting designs. Q.

Criterion music box looks much like the famous Regina. It plays a perforated metal disk. Can you tell me anything about its history? A. Frederick G. Otto of Jersey City, N.J., started a factory in 1875 that made electrical batteries and surgical instruments.

The Ottos lived across the street from the founder of the Regina music box. He assigned one of his pattern makers at the Otto Co. to work on a disc music box. By 1896, the Otto firm was making the Criterion music box. By 1897, a suit was filed against the Otto firm for infringing on the patents of the Regina box.

The Art of Invention by William and Ray (Pyne Press, $25) is a beautifully illustrated, fun book about patent models. These models are one of a kind, but thousands of them will be coming on the market over the next few years as a large private collection is dispersed. Register Tribune Service.