Alton Evening Telegraph from Alton, Illinois • Page 8

HOHT ALTON EVENING TELEGRAPH SATURDAY, NOVEMBER 19,1960 The Women Social Events Group Activities Miss Oriard Is Bride Of Major James St. Cin MRS. JAMES W. ST. CIN Ann Landers He Can't Dance or Talk Especially at Same Time DEAR ANN: Please don't throw this letter away as a "silly kid problem." I need help.

I'm 15, a fellow, and have just started to go to school dances. I'm not a very hot dancer but I'm trying to improve. big problem is, what does a jguy talk to a Ijirl about be- I sides school and I the weather I when they are Ann jancing? I try a lot of different subjects, but they fall flat and I feel like a goof. To top it all off, my dancing gets lousy, too. Please help AND TONGUE TIED.

DEAR STUMBLING A wise man once said it's better to remain silent and be thought a fool, than to open your mouth and remove all doubt. Nobody expects a 15-year-old kid to be a combination of Mortimer Adler and Fred Astaire. Forget about jazzy conversation on the dance floor. When you dance dance. DEAR ANN: My sister has three children whom she calls "active and normal." I say they are undisciplined and rude.

The oldest is 12, a boy. He doesn't stand up when introduced to older people. He interrupts adult conversations and takes right over. The girl, 10, never says "please" or "thank you." It's always "gim- me" this or that. Her table manners are atrocious.

I realize a 10-year-old is far from an adult but she's old enough to know better than to stuff food into her mouth with both hands and ignore the silver completely. The youngest who is 6 behaves like a jungle animal I could write a book on this one. When I recently told my sister she'd better do something about her kids she became I Mother's fr DOf of ip fwtdiof Untwlf. hfewrir vtii IMt furious and said, "I hate trained monkeys. I want my children to be natural and enjoy life." What about this? AUNTIE MAYME DEAR MAYME: If your sister wants her children to enjoy life she'd better start to teach them some of the tials on how to live with others.

1 mean manners. By manners, I don't mean superficial niceties. I mean- genuine consideration for other people. Children who interrupt, grab, shove, and put their own wants first, demonstrate a basic lack of respect for the rights of others. Your sister can call this "natural" if she wants to.

Others have a different such kids become persona non grata (plenty unwelcome) in all circles. DEAR ANN: I'll be frank and come to the point. I'm a working girl, 29 years old, no raving beauty. In fact I'm plain looking and a little on the heavy side. I've had darned few dates in my life and exactly one proposal of marriage.

This is the problem: My boy friend is 27, good- looking, likes his martinis and changes jobs often. We were going to be married in December but he told me last night he lost $480 in a crap game and our wedding will have to wait. Also, he said he lost control of himself in a men's store and ran up a bill of $350. I should tell you, too, in 1958 he got a girl in trouble and it cost me, not him, $500. My mother says a woman, 29, has to put up with some monkeyshines or be an old maid.

Help me decide- -and please be practical. JEAN DEAR JEAN: This monkey has outshined himself. You're better off single than tied up with an irresponsible character who will bring you nothing but heartache and his overdue bills to pay. If alcohol is robbing you or someone you love of health and dignity, send for Ann Landers' booklet. "Help for the Alcoholic," enclosing with your request '20 cents in coin and large, self-addressed, stamped envelope.

i Ann Landers will glad to help you with your problems Send them to her in care of the Alton Telegraph enclosing a stamped, selt-ad- dressed envelope.) (sC, I960. Held I IK- College Notes Among undergraduate men at the University of Illinois pledged to social fraternities this tall fro minis area are David M. Horn, Sigma Pi; Mike Yavorski, Phi Delta Trieta; Jackson Snyder, Alpha Sigma Phi; Kenneth Schmidt of Kdwardsville, Alpha Deji.i Phi; Larry Clark of Carlinville, Theta Chi; and Al Leritz, Car- linviUe, Kappa Sigma. Miss Shirley Ann Oriard be- rame the bride of Major Jamei W. St.

Cln this morning at 11 o'clock High in St. Augustine's Catholic Church, Spokane, Wash. The bride is the daughter of Mrs. Mary Oriard of Spokane, and her husband is the son of Mrs. Marie St.

Cin of Alton. Msgr. Stephen P. Buckley read the ceremony and sunn Mass which was followed by a brunch and reception In the officers' club of Fairchlld Air Force Base, where the bridegroom is stationed. The bride's cousin, Corliss A.

Stewart, escorted her to the altar. She was attended by the Misses Marcella Wallace, Linda Buchanan, and Kay Wendle, all of Spokane. Gromsmen and ushers were Major James Foley, Major Duncan P. Daries, Major George R. Thompson, Major Robert R.

Stukas, and Captain Robert W. Benson. The Glee Club from Gonzaga University sang. Miss Oriard was dressed in a gown of bouquet taffeta and Chantilly lace, designed with long sleeves and a skirt terminating into a chape) length train. Her crown of pearls secured a fingertip length veil, and she carried white orchids and white roses in a bouquet.

The bride's attendants appeared in red velvet dresses with matching velvet bow hats. They held bouquets of white roses accented by red roses in the center. The newlyweds will live in an apartment at 2103 W. Riverside in Spokane. The bride, employed by the Spokane and Eastern Branch of the Seattle First National Bank, attended Gonzaga University.

Her husband was graduated from St. Louis University, where he was president of Alpha Psi Omega. He is with the 325th bombardment squadron, 92nd wing at Fairchild Air Force "Base, Rebekahs Honor Top Officers Mrs. John Brewer, noble grand, and Mrs. Alan Hart, vice grand, were honored and presented with gifts Thursday evening during a meeting of Alton Rebekah Lodge in which all noble grands and vice- grands of the area were feted.

The meeting was held in Western Star Lodge of IOOF. It was announced that the Odd Fellows and both Rehekah organizations of the area will make collections on the kickoff day for the March of Dimes on Jan. 3. Mrs. Ella McKinney is chairman of the event.

Members will also participate in "Old Newsboys' Day" on Nov. L'3, and funds will be Riven to Child Welfare. Mrs. Hart was named chairman. Volunteers were selected to aid in the Easter Seal drive on Nov.

30. A comic style show was given under the direction of Mrs. Ralph Drury Sr. Refreshments were served. Patricia James Wed In MitMleport.

Ohio First Baptist Church in Middleport, Ohio, was the scent- last Sunday for the marriage of Pfc. Patricia James of East Alton, and Cpl. Edward Kitchen of Middleport. The bride is the daughter of Mrs. James R.

Hagaman of Lincoln Addition, Wood River, and her husband is the son of Mrs. Cecil Bradbury of Middleport. The couple is stationed at Ft. Kustis, Va. The bridegroom is in the transportation corps, and his bride is in the WAC Medical Corps.

Clul, Of Hood Hirer Plans ale Party Plans for a Christmas party and luncheon were made during a potluck luncheon and card party Friday of Wood River Who's New Club in Westerner Cluh The luncheon will IK- held at 12:30 o'clock on Dec. 16 in Union Electric Co. Thirty uomen attended the meeting and guests included Mrs Frank Mrs. Roger Kwarta, Mrs. D.

Dickinson Mrs. John Bradshaw, Mrs Jack Dilljard, Mrs. Theodore Bertier Mrs. Carl V. Vollmer.

Mrs Louis Wilkinson, Mrs Harold Moore and Mrs Grace Yost. MRS. GEORGE T. WREATH (Photo by Rhodes) Miss Davis, George Wreath Wed in Methodist Church Miss Shirley Jean Davis, daughter of Mr. and Mrs George W.

Davis of Route One, was married last night at 7:30 o'clock to George T. Wreath, son of Mr. and Mrs. George S. Wreath of 3412 Brown St.

The ceremony was read in Free Methodist Church by the Rev. K. P. Mayhew, and a reception followed in the church social rooms. The bride's sister, Miss Janet K.

Davis, was maid of honor, and bridesmaids were Mrs. Terry Forbes, sister of the bridegroom, and Mrs. Malcolm Elfgen, another sister of the bride. Serving as best man was Ben Worthy of Bethalto, and groomsmen were Don and John McElroy. Ann Elizabeth Elfgen, niece of the bride, was flower girl, and the bride's brother, George Michael Davis, was ringbearer.

Guests were seated by Fred Hunt of Brighton and Donald Fredrick. Nuptial music was furnished by Miss Sharon Mayhew and Mrs. Leo Perkins. The floor length, long sleeved gown worn by the bride, was fashioned of Chantilly lace and tulle. It was designed with a neckline and worn over taffeta.

The bridal veil of tulle was attached to a pearl crown. The bride's attendants wore princess style gowns of red corduroy, and white muffs decorated with red carnations. On their heads were white fur bandeaus with nose veils. The newlyweds will reside at 351fia Gillham Ave. They are both graduates qf Alton High School.

The bride is employed by Colonial Baking and her husband, a two-year Navy veteran, is employed by N. O. Nelson Co. Wedditig Today Receiving this afternoon at 3 o'clock in the home of her parents, are John Charles Yager and his bride, the former Miss Bonny Louise Brady. The couple was married this morning at 9 o'clock in St.

Ambrose Catholic Church. The bride is the daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Joseph Brady, Virden St. Mr.

and Mrs. Lcvi Yager of 15 Ramona Godfrey, are parents of the bridegroom. The Rev. William Robinson read nuptial Mass, and a breakfast was served in the home of the bride's parents at 11 o'clock. Mrs.

Ralph Rowden, sister of the bride, was maid of honor, and the bridegroom's brother, Thomas Yager, was his best man. George Yager, their brother, seated quests. The couple will live at 717A Kast Fourth St. C.hurc.hex The Worthwhile Class of Cherry Street Baptist Church will he guest of Mrs. Hubert Phelps.

122 Boynton Tuesday evening at 7:30 o'clock Mary Martha Class of First Christian Church will meet Monday evening at 7:31) o'clock. The Homebuilders' Class will have a potluck Friday evening, Nov. 26 at 6 o'clock, and Dorcas Circle will meet Tuesday evening, Nov. at 7:30 o'clock. All meetings will be in the church.

Beauty Tips If you've had a particularly exhausting day, make your evening bath a hotter than usual one. You'll find that it will relieve aching muscles and tensions. Swiss Consul Addresses Zontians The Honorable Rudolph -Scharer, Swiss Consul in St. Louis, addressed members of the Alton-Wood River Zonta Club Thursday night at a meeting in the YWCA. He spoke on Switzerland, saying the country is friendly to the United States and is a good customer in trade relations.

He told of the birth of the constitution in his country, explaining that it was based on the constitution of the United States. In speaking of the Swiss democracy, he regretted that women are not allowed to vote in federal elections. Only those who bear arms have a vote in national affairs, he said. During a business session, Zontians voted to support the council for exceptional children. The next meeting of the group will be held Dec.

29 in the YWCA. Dinner will be served at 6:30 o'clock. Wed Thursday In Graf ton Mr. and Mrs. Larry Newingham, who were married Thursday evening in Grafton Methodist Church by the Rev.

Kenneth Taylor, will live in White Hall where Mr. Newingham is engaged in farming. The bride is the former Miss Tabitha Hayes, daughter of William Hayes of Grafton, and the late Mrs. Hayes, and the bridegroom is the son of Mrs. Floyd Miller of White Hall.

Miss Hayes was married in a street length white lace dress, and a velvet bow hat with short veil. Her attendant. Miss Betty Purcell of Grafton, wore a blue silk sheath dress. Both wore pink carnation corsages. John Hayes, the bride's brother, was best man.

and organ music was played by Mrs. W. Q. Smith. Farewell Party for Mrs.

Charles Murray Mrs. Charles C. Murray was given a surprise farewell party Thursday evening in Berean Bible Church by women of the church. Mrs. Murray, with her husband and two daughters, is moving to Albuquerque, N.

M. Decorations were in the Thanksgiving motif. The honoree was presented a gift from the members by Mrs. Vernon Schutz. Song were sung by Mrs.

Leland H. Murray, Mrs. Marvin Duncan and Mrs. Eddie Cooper. Cooking Cues Your children will be delighted with a gelatin dessert served in cubes.

To prepare, pour gelatin about 1-inch deep in a large pan and let set; cut into cubes; serve in dessert glasses with whipped and sweetened evaporated milk. To make well-filled and uniform pin-wheel rolls, roll dough into a long narrow rectangle 4 inch thick and spread with filling: roll up lengthwise, cut in 1-inch slices and place in buttered muffin tins. Wood fall Grahdm Vows Said St. Bernard's Catholic Church was the scene of the wedding this morning of Miss Carol A. Graham of East Alton, and Richard E.

Woodfall of Mattoon. The Rev. Frank O'Hara of St. Kevin's Catholic Church in Rosewood Heights officiated at the 11 o'clock ceremony and rend nuptial Mass. The couple received this afternoon until 2 o'clock at the Wagon Wheel Restaurant In Poag, after which they left for a honeymoon in St.

Louis. They will live at 213 Piatt Mattoon. The bride is the daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Ralph L.

Graham, 121 Rosewood Lane, East Alton. The bridegroom's parents are Mr. and Mrs. Charles E. Woodfall, 2604 Richmond Mattoon.

The bride wore a street length brocade satin sheath and coat ensemble, a pearl crown and short veil, and carried a colonial bouquet of pink roses and white pompons. Miss Patricia Curran of East Alton, maid of honor, wore a purple wool sheath and matching feather hat, and carried yellow roses and white pompons. Michael Kelly of Mattoon was best man. The former Miss Graham is a graduate of Roxana Community High School, and has attended Eastern Illinois University at Charleston, 111., for 1V 2 years. She is a member of Delta Zeta social sorority, Newman Club, and is employed by Anaconda American Brass Mattoon.

Mr. Woodfall is nearing completion of his senior year at the same university, where he is a member of the tennis team and Phi Sigma Epsiion social fraternity. He is employed by the New York Railroad. Ooten-Isabel Marriage In Worden Mr. and Mrs.

John Ooton are on a honeymoon trip following their wedding Thursday evening in Worden Methodist Church. Mr. Ooton is the son of Mr. and Mrs. John Ooton of Worden, and his wife is the former Miss Betty Isabel of Wood River.

The Rev. Harry M. Fish performed the ceremony at 7 o'clock, and a reception for the bridal party and immediate families followed in the home of the bridegroom's parents. The bride wore a street length blue marquisette dress, a blue feather hat with veil, and a corsage of roses. Her attendant, Mrs.

Charles Myers of Wood River, wore a dress of orchid wool jersey with matching feather hat, and a corsage of roses. Mr. Myers was best man. Mr. Ooton is employed by Shell Oil Co.

The couple will reside in Wood River. How to Make Your Dress Look Different By ALICIA HART NBA Beauty Editor Every woman dreads seeing the dress she's wearing on another woman. It's enough to make her flee a party before the evening has even begun. But the truth is, there's no need for one dress to look exactly like another ever. To avoid this look and to make a dress individually your own, make changes in it as soon as you get it home.

If the buttons are not what you want, strip them off and replace them with some very special buttons. Change the belt. Take off any tacky trimming and get the dress down to streamlined essentials. Now, add your own accessories. Never use one color head to toe.

Switch shades or have your accessories in a contrasting color, one with drama. Watch for unusual accessories that hint of the handmade. They can turn even a basic sheath into a real beauty. And be fussy about the way the dress fits. Have the sleeves and the hem just the right length for you.

Be sure tnnt the waistline meets your waist. This way, you make a dress your very own. Fashion Facts The shirred clutch bag in a glowing ruby color now comes with matching double-woven nylon stretch gloves. Miss Elizabeth Allen, daughter of Mr. and Mrs.

Charles Allen of Buncombe, 111., was crowned queen of the annual Fall Festival sponsored by Alton Memorial Hospital School of Nursing last night in Steelworkers' Abel Hall. Miss Allen is a senior student in the Photo. Student Nurses Choose Miss Allen as Queen Miss Elizabeth Allen, a senior student at Alton Memorial Hospital School of Nursing was crowned queen of the school's annual Fall Festival last evening in Steel workers' Abel Hall. Miss Allen, escorted for the ceremony by Dr. Harold James of Buncombe, is the daughter of Mr.

and Mrs. Charles Allen of Buncombe. Some 250 persons attended the dance. Mrs. Thomas Sutton, retiring queen, was escorted by her husband.

Miss Sally Reynolds, of O'Fallon, was freshman attendant to the queen. Her escort was Rod Cleavelin of Betheny, Okla. Junior attendant was Miss Sandra Clendenny of Hamburg, who was escorted by Jerry Clendenny of Peoria. Miss Alvina Isringhausen of Jerseyville was senior attendant. Her escort was Larry McCluskie of Marion, 111.

Miss Marilyn Hooper, also a candidate for queen, was special maid of honor. Her home is in Jerseyville and she was escorted in the ceremony by Gordon Gisy of Dow. Serving as flower girl for the coronation was Robin Mc- Caherty, daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Harlan McCaherty of Alton.

Her mother is an instructor in the school. Chaperones for the evening were Dr. and Mrs. Leo Green, Dr. and Mrs.

Daniel Platt, Dr. and Mrs. Joseph Mira, Dr. and Mrs. Robert Lynn, Dr.

and Mrs. Richard Yoder, Dr. and Mrs. Gordon Moore, and Dr. and Mrs.

Robert Elliott. Osborne and Winterberger Nuptials Read This Morning The wedding of Miss Carolyn F. Winterberger of St. Louis, and Paul E. Osborne took place this morning at 10 o'clock in St.

Matthew's Catholic Church with the Rev. John Stewart officiating. The bride is the daughter ol Mr. and Mrs. Benjamin E.

Winterberger, 10629 Glen Garry St. Louis. The bridegroom is the son of Raymond D. Osborne of 705 Fairview and the late Mrs. Agnes Osborne.

Breakfast was served in the home of the bridegroom's father, and the couple will receive this evening at o'clock in St. Ferdinand Country Club on Halls Ferry road, St. Louis. The bride wore a brocade street length dress with a circle skirt, a white silk hat with a short veil, and carried a Bible to which two white orchids were attached. Miss Jo Anne Golys of St.

Louis was maid of honor, and appeared in a dusty rose street length dress with matching hat. Robert Lee Mossman was best man. The former Miss Winterberger is a 1957 graduate of Riverview Gardens High School, and is employed by Midwest Area Red Cross in St. Louis. Mr.

Osborne is a 1957 graduate of Alton High School, and is employed by Illinois Bell Telephone Co. The couple will live at the Fairview avenue address. Tomorrows Dinner Fruit cup, broiled steak, hash brown potatoes, broccoli with hollandaise sauce, hot Parker House rolls, butter or margarine, green salad bowl with French dressing, ice cream, Florentine dainties, coffee, tea, milk. Hints If two youngsters share one room this may save trouble. Assign a different colored tape to each.

Attach the tape to their playthings and spray a coat of shellac on it tor protection. Then there will be no question as to what belongs to whom. PHOTOS CHRItTMAS CHOI ORAVCMANN oT Miss Keller Is Bride In Carrollton A nuptial High Mass in St. John's Catholic Church this morning at 10:30 o'clock, was sung for Miss Janet Keller, daughter of Mr. and Mrs.

Frank Keller of Carrollton, and Joseph G. Harney son of Mr. and Mrs. Joseph Harney Sr. of St.

Louis. The Rt. Rev. Msgr. Michael Enright officiated at the Mass and the nuptial ceremony.

The bride wore a long sleeved peau de soie gown fashioned with a sabrina neckline of embroidered Alencon lace. The bouffant skirt, worn over layers of crinolines, ended in a full sweep train. Her veil was secured to a cap of seed pearls and sequins. She carried a bouquet of white pompons. The maids of honor were Miss Eleanor Tepen and Miss Mary Helen Vandersand, both of Carrollton, with Larry Merlich of St.

Louis as best man and Jack Keller, brother of the bride as groomsman. Ushers were Roger Keller, brother of the bride, and Ronnie Carter, a cousin of the bride, both of Carrollton. Miss Tepen and Miss Van- dersand appeared in royal blue satin, ballerina length gowns fashioned with square necklines and short sleeves. Bows accented the waistlines and they carried bouquets of small yellow and rust color pompons. The flower girl was Donna Kay Keller, sister of the bride.

A reception was held immediately following the wedding in St. John's School Hall. Mrs. Harney is a 1957 graduate of Carrollton High School and is employed by American Baking St. Louis.

Her husband is a graduate of McBride High School and is employed by the Volkswagen Distributing St. Louis. Luketich- Hart Votes In Medora St. John's Catholic Church in Medora was the setting this morning at 10 o'clock lor the marriage of Miss Linda Louise Hart, daughter of Mr. and Mrs.

Gilbert L. Hart of Medora, and Thomas M. Luketich of Medora. The Rev. John Sheahan read the ceremony which was followed by a reception in the church basement.

Honor attendants for the ceremony were Mr. and Mrs. Ronald Bellltto of Medorn. Miss Arlene Hart, sister of the bride, was bridesmaid, and serving as groomsman was Jerry Katich of Gillesple, cousin of the groom. Joseph Petrak of Glllespie was usher.

Mrs. Francis Meehan, organist, accompanied Mrs. Lee Vanfossen, Mrs. Frank Budde, and Miss Alice Quirk, who sang. The bride appeared in a floor length gown of lace and silk organza.

Simulated pearls outlined the scalloped neckline. Her short white veil was attached to a crown of pearls, and she carried a bouquet of white carnations. The bride's attendants were attired in street length dresses of blue rayon. The matron of honor carried white carnations, and the bride's sister wore a corsage of the same flowers. After a honeymoon In New Orleans, the couple will live in Medora.

The bride, a 1960 graduate of Southwestern High School, is a student at Kitzmiller Beauty College. Her husband, a 1957 graduate of Gillespie Community High School, is employed by Laclede Steel Co. Born to: Mr. and Mrs. Gerald Gates, Rt.

2, Jerseyville, a daughter, 7 pounds. 15 ounces, 2:15 a.m., Friday, St. Joseph's Hospital. Mr. and Mrs.

Larry Cooksey, Rt. 1, Jerseyville, a son, 7 pounds, 10 ounces, 12:21 a.m., Friday, St. Joseph's Hospital. Mr. and Mrs.

Robert Hesnn, 622 Linwood Kirkwood, twins, a boy and a girl. The babies were born Tuesday in St. Luke's Hospital, St. Louis. Two elder children, both girls.

Mrs. Hesse is the former Jeanne Harris of Alton. Mrs. Dorothy C. Harris of 1603 Liberty is the maternal grandmother of the twins.

Mr. and Mrs. Wendall Durr, Urbana, a daughter, Kimberly Hope, 9 pounds, 2 ounces, first child, 9:30 p.m., Friday, Burnham City Hospital, Champaign. Mrs. Durr is the former Miss Janette Heuer, daughter of Mr.

and Mrs. Percy Heuer of Dorsey. Mr. and Mm. Paul Crane, 415 E.

Ninth a son, Joseph Leotus, 8 pounds, 7 ounces, p.m., Thursday, Alton Memorial Hospital. Elder children, Debbie and Stacey. Mr. and Mrs. BU1I0 Nolan, 512 Marsh a daughter, Brenda Lee, 8 pounds and 15 ounces, 7:37 a.m., Friday, Alton Memorial Hospital.

Mr. and Denny Counts, 6 Chessen Lane, a daughter, Tracy Dawn, first child, 7 pounds, 2 ounces, 2:40 p.m.. Friday, Alton Memorial Hospital. Mrs. Counts was before her marriage, Miss Sharon Jenkins.

Mr. and Mrs. Marvin Garner, 203 First East Alton, a son, Douglas Ray, 5 pounds, 12 ounces, first child, 11:06 a.m., Friday, Alton Memorial Hospital. Beauty Tips Make a practice of visiting your dentist once every six months. Although you can do a good deal to protect your teeth against decay by careful brushing and proper diet, you'll never win the fight without the help of your dentist.

Only he can track down cavities while they're still small and no serious threat. Even the petite mature woman should not stick to her young-girl hairdo. It will look silly. You can't hide the fact that you've grown up. So let your hair style tell the world that you're aware of the fact, too.

CUT FLOWERS, POTTED PLANTS, CORSAGES Brighten Your Home with Thanksgiving Flowers. REXROAT FLOWER SHOP 2713 GODFREY ROAD HO 6-3789 Open 9-9 Daily. HAM AND BEAN SUPPER METHODIST CHURCH J40 Ua Httmm felMM SATURDAY, NOVEMBER IB Serving to T.S4 suveo IY THI M.Y.F. Children Me It's FOR DRY CLEANING BE SAFE BE SURE BE SATISFIES M9 E. E.

Elm Mil Wood Bivor W. B. lookup uri OMtvory.