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Social Happenings 3 i Lieberman fflilmington (Homing Ncto5 Home Features I Food March 20, 196S "7 jrcnunuic i I i 7 B'nai B'riih Women io mark anniversary Mrs. Miller to wed S. H. Johnson Jr. By WINIFRED L.

BROADBENT Society Editor THE MARRIAGE of Mrs. Katharine Southerland Miller of Georgetown, Washington, D.C., daughter of former Supreme Court Chief Justice Clarence A. Southerland of Wilmington, to Stuart H. Johnson Jr. will take place today.

Mr. Johnson is counsel for the subcommittee of the House Judiciary Committee dealing with anti-trust matters. A noon ceremony in the bride's home at 1618 29th N.W., will be attended by the immediate families. Flower girls will be Marion and Katharine Miller, two of the bride's five daughters, and Willow Johnson, daughter of the bridegroom. Mr.

Johnson, son of Mr. and Mrs. Stuart H. Johnson of Long Island, N.Y., graduated from Yale University where he also received his LL.B. Mrs.

Miller is the widow of Rep. Clement W. Miller (D) also a native of Wilmington, who was killed in an airplane crash during the 1962 political campaign. She graduated from the Westover School and attended Bryn Mawr College. Summer wedding is planned Mrs.

Fred Overdorf Jr. of Bethlehem, announces the engagement of her daughter. Miss Susan Marie Overdorf, to David Dickinson Baker. He is the son of Mrs. Dickinson Baker of 520 Brighton Road, North Hills, and the late Rev.

F. Raymond Baker. Miss Overdorf was graduated from Bethlehem High School and is employed by the general services department of the Bethlehem Steel Corp. Mr. Baker, a graduate of Western Maryland College, is associated with the Aerospace Components Division of Atlas Chemical Industries, Valley Forge, Pa.

A summer wedding is planned. Hazel Hatton will marry D. E. Larson Mr. and Mrs.

S. Paul Hatton of "Penn Lea Farm," West Grove, announce the engagement of their daughter, Miss Hazel Barbara Hatton, to David E. Larson. Mr. Larson is the son of Mr.

and Mrs. Loyal D. Larson of 18 Atkins Colonial Park. Miss Hatton was graduated from the Avon-Grove Area High School and Goldey Beacom School of Business and is employed by the Du Pont Co. Mr.

Larson attended II. Fletcher Brown Technical High School and the University of Delaware. He is employed by Stokes Garage in Elsmere. A September wedding is planned. Mies Mary C.

MR. AND MRS. WILLIAM K. PATON JR. of 911 Blackshire Road, Wawaset Park, are the parents of a daughter born March 10 at The Memorial Hospital.

The baby has been named Mary Siner Paton. Grandparents are Mr. and Mrs. Jaryl D. Siner of Wilmington, and Mrs.

William K. Paton of Dover, and the late Mr. Paton. Director sees new challenge A JUNE WEDDING is planned by Miss Susan Mae Felton of Larchmont, N.Y., and Peter Norman Gray of Wilmington, whose engagement is announced. The bride-to-be, daughter of Mr.

and Mrs. Robert E. Felton of 3 Oak Bluff Larchmont, is a teaching fellow in the graduate school at Northwestern University, working toward a master's degree in biology. She is an alumna of Mamaroneck High School and New York University. Mr.

Gray, son of Mrs. Fred Gray of Wilmington, and the late Mr. Gray, is a graduate of the University of Delaware. He will receive a master's degree in microbiology in June from Northwestern's Medical School where he is also studying toward a Ph. D.

The 25th anniversay of B'nai B'rith Women in Wilmington will be observed at the donor luncheon of the Covenant and Diamond Chapters on Tuesday. Highlight of the program at the Brandywine Country Club will be a tribute to 25-year members who have served the organization since its chartering in Wilmington in April of 1940. Mrs. Harold Refowich of Bethlehem, president of District 3, will address the group. Other guests will be Mrs.

Jacob P. Morrison, district secretary, and Mrs. Albert D. Bazrod, consultant, both of Philadelphia, as well as Dr. Howard Kattler, president of Wilmington Lodge, No.

470, and Mrs. Leo Blum-berg, president of the Greater Wilmington Federation of Women's Clubs. Samuel Appel of Philadelphia will present a program of "Songs of the World." A cantor at Temple Beth Am Israel in West Philadelphia, St. John's Altar Society tea tomorrow The priests of St. John the Beloved Church will be honored at a tea tomorrow in the parish house in Sherwood Park.

The Altar Society has issued Invitations to women of the parish to attend the tea from 2:20 to 4 30 p.m. to meet the priests socially. Honored will be the Rev. John J. Sheehy, pastor; the Rev.

Francis G. De Luca and the Rev. Douglas W. Dempster, assistant pastors. Mrs.

Paul M. Deegan is chairman, assisted by Mrs. John I. Ward, Mrs. Leonare J.

McNuIty, Mrs. William Mu-rawski. Mrs. Michael Fitzpat-rick, Mrs. Joseph Boudart, Mrs.

George Mcintosh and Mrs. Richard Tarleton. Officers of the society will pour. Mrs. Saul Hanig and Mrs.

Chuck Laskin are chairmen of luncheon and arrangements. Dorothy Dix WILLIAM SPENCER JAMES is the name given the son and first child born Tuesday at the Muhlenberg Hospital, Plainfield, N.J., to Mr. and Mrs. Albert W. James Jr.

of 430 West End North Plainfield. Mrs. James is the former Miss Marianna Spencer-Strong. THREE DELAWARE STUDENTS recently Qualified as members of the Lifeguard Corps at Mount Holyoke College, South Hadley, Mass. They are Kathleen V.

Joyce, daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Robert M. Joyce Jr. of Hockessin, Barbara E.

Richards. daughter of Mr. and Mrs. John and Karen E. Rowe, daughter of of Westminster.

C. Richards of Foulk Woods, Mr. and Mrs. Ernest W. Rowe Meuatle fiore Hospital, Bronx, New York.

She has been a nursing instructor for the Red Cross, and was a captain in the Army Nurse Corps. Miss MQuade is the holder of a degree from St. Vincent's Hospital in New York City, has a bachelor of science degree in public health nursing from St. John's University, a master of arts in public health nursing administration from New York University, and an MPH from the Columbia School of Public Health and Administrative Medicine. An enthusiastic swimmer and golfer, Miss McQuade finds Dover a "delightful" place, and says she hasn't as yet missed New York at all.

She has traveled several times to Europe, and the length of the United States, but enjoys the "colonial emphasis, good-eating places, marvelous friendly people, and nice shops" of Dover. "Yes," she smiled, "I feel right at home here." Susan. Mosley sets June vows Mr. and Mrs. Leo Mosley of Claymont announce the engagement of their daughter, Miss Susan Carol Mosley, to Lynell WT.

Powers of South Paris, Maine. Her fiance is stationed with the U.S. Airborne, Fort Bragg, N.C. A June wedding is planned. Hospital alumnae fashion show set The Wilmington General Hospital Alumnae Association will hold a fashion show and coffee and doughnut breakfast March 27 at 9 a.m.

at Kennard's at Price's Corner. Tickets will be available at the door or from any alumnae group member. Door prizes will be awarded. Lifeguards, who take qualifying tests in swimming and life saving, volunteer to guard the college pool once a week during open swimming hours. 33 Fashions Mr.

Appel has appeared at the Academy of Music there and on television. Children to be topic of parley The joint Child Welfare Conference of the American Legion Auxiliary and the Forty and Eight of Delaware will be held March 27 at the Holiday Inn in Dover. Speakers will include John G. Leach, executive vice president of Goldey Beacom School of Business; Dr. Irwin Weintraub, psychologist; T.

N. Burke director of the Wilmington Committee for Economic Opportunity, and the Rev. H. Kirby Krams, supervisor of moral and religious education of the Youth Services Commission. REGISTRATION' will begin at 11:30 and luncheon will be served at 12:15.

Mrs. George M. Hess of Dover, and Mrs. Park W. Huntington of Wilmington, department auxiliary chaplain, will participate in the opening of the afternoon session when greetings will be extended by Mrs.

George F. Foster of Wilmington, auxiliary president; William Melville, Hartley, legion commander, and Jules J. Alpern, Wilmington, grand chef de gare of the Forty and Eight. Mr. Leach will speak on "It's a Moving, Growing, Changing Dr.

Weintraub on "Mental Health Planning for Children; Mr. Burke on "The Antipoverty Program," and Mr. Krams on "Changing Moral Values in Today's World." TICKETS for the luncheon may be "obtained from any post commander or unit president in the state. The meeting is open to the public. Auxiliary members will bring good used clothing, first aid kits, sewing kits and toy kits for migrant workers and their families.

teresting and the most difficult. It's the time of fastest growing up and fastest adjustment to study and to the new situation. Secondly, you say that you have been going out with this young man for four years which means that virtrually since you began to date, at the age of 14, you have gone out with one boy. This has made you rather unaware of what other kinds of men there are in the world. I am not saying that you don't love him and I am not saying that he doesn't love you.

I am not saying that you won't be very happily married for the rest of your life. BUT I am saying that that first year in college will give you a chance to continue your education and meet other men and to be able to evaluate this man you love in a far more mature and intelligent manner. If you do love him as much as you say, then certainly the year you spend dating other men will help that love. It will make you realize all the more what there is about this man that you do love and why it is that you want to marry him. The most promising possibility is of getting married while you are going to school.

I gather, that he is working and able to support you. Therefore there is no financial reason why you should not be able to go to school at the same time as be a housewife. The demands of college are no more on your time then the demands of a job. And many women maintain a full-time job and act as housewives as well. If this man truly loves you as he says, he shouldn't object to having his wife continue her education.

So, when you balance the to address seminar Widespread interest in the Mental Health Seminar to be held March 24 in Newark under the auspices of the Newark Branch, YWCA, is indicated by reservations received from all parts of the state. Mrs. F. H. Herzog, program chairman, announces speakers will be Dr.

Daniel Lieberman, state commissioner of mental health; Dr. Albert Branca, associate professor of psychology at the University of Delaware; Dr. Henry Stroud, director of the new Children's Diagnostic and Development Center; Dr. Joseph Mazurkiewicz, program director for Delaware's Youth Services Commission; Dr. Searles Grossman, chief of psychology, VA Hospital, and Dr.

Gorham Lane, specialist in problems of the aging and professor of psychology at the University of Delaware. The program will be held at the Alice P. Smyth Center of the YWCA from 9:30 a.m. to 3 p.m. There will be an informal luncheon at 12:30 with participants bringing their own sandwich or buying one at the center.

Coffee and dessert will be served. Reservations may be made through Monday by calling the Newark YWCA office or with Mrs. Herzog or Mrs. Jerry Nelson. "April in Paris'7 to be Salem show theme "April in Paris" is the theme of the annual benefit dinner-fashion show to be sponsored by the Auxiliary of Salem County Memorial Hospital April 8.

Fashions for the show, to be held in the Salem Country Club, will be from Bird-Speakman. Mrs. Alfred Green, fashion coordinator of the store, will be the commentator. Dr. John J.

Reinhard hospital chief of staff, will serve as master of ceremonies. Musical entertainment will be provided by Miss Jean-nette Harvey, Mrs. Mavis Cettei and Jay Nixon, Martin Noonan, and Miss Alice Wan-derley. Mrs David A. Fogg is general chairman of the benefit.

Mrs. Thorp to describe garden seasons "Through the Seasons in My Garden" will be the title of an illustrated talk by Mrs. Mary E. E. Thorp at the Wilmington New Century Club Wednesday at 1:30 p.m.

Mrs. Thorp is a horticulturist from the Golden Hours Gardens, West Chester, Pa. The program is being presented by the gardens committee of which Mrs. Gilbert A. Spear is chairman.

It will be an open meeting to which members may bring guests. Mrs. George A. Sullivan is chairman of the social hour which will precede the meeting. Mrs.

Florence S. Gramm of Phenix City, and John M. White, Dothan, Ala. He was graduated from North Georgia College, where he was a member of Phi Alpha Theta, national history honorary. He is with the Adjutant General's' Section at Fort Ruckcr, Ala.

Miss Reynolds was graduated from William Penn High School and Duke University School of Nursing. She recently returned to this country from Korea, where she was a short-term missionary of the Methodist Church. Villa group plans roast beef dinner The Friends of Villa Aviat will hold a roast beef dinner tomorrow at the Villa in Chills, Md. The public is invited. Tickets will be on sale at the door and there will be take-out dinners available.

Dinner will be served from 1 to 6 p.m. Proceeds from the dinner will the OWnte Sisters of St. Francis de Sales. MR. AND MRS.

E. C. THOMPSON of Westover Hills were recent guests at The Cloister, Sea Island, Ga. Let him wait a year MR. AND MRS.

ROBERT have returned after a vacation Virgin Islands. two paths you can take one against the other, I would sincerely advise starting college and broadening yourself and giving yourself' a chance to become an even more mature and adult woman. During your first year at school, have an understanding with your young man, but date other people. If at the end of the first year you are still sure you want to marry, then do so, and you can continue your education. You will increase your chances of making a good marriage with the wider experience and education that college will provide for you.

By LINDA KLEIN DOVER A dramatic new "state-state relationship" is the challenge that drew Miss Mary C. McQuade, new director of public health nursing, to her new position in Dover. A course to prepare and seeking study, designed graduate nurses its accreditation, is the new "baby," product of the intrastate cooperation of two state agencies, the University of Delaware and the public health nursing department of Delaware. "What really brought me here," the vivacious, energetic Miss McQuade said, "is our most interesting and exciting tie-up with the University of Delaware." The emphasis in nursing, she explained, has changed tremendously since the 1940s. A public health nurse now needs a degree from an accredited institution, with a liberal arts as well as medical background, "so the nurse can serve the whole person." THIS year, for the first time, students at the University of Delaware will begin field work for an accredited four year program, graduates of which will be qualified to work for the Department of Public Health.

Miss McQuade's new responsibilities include planning, organizing and administering all public health nursing services in the State of Delaware. These services center around clinics for crippled and ortho-pedically handicapped children, maternal and child health care, and well-child stations. "The large part of our jobs." she said, "involve working in homes where there are health needs. "WE will be moving more and more into nursing care in the home," she added. "I feel this is where the new emphasis must be placed; nurses should be sent wherever they are needed.

A patient may just want to talk something through; if a member of the family has been dis-. missed from the hospital, or if there is a mentally retarded child in the family, a public health nurse is needed whether there is an immediate sickness or not. "The biggest gap we have is that people don't use our services; with people living longer all the time, and the ever increasing number of aged people, it's a sure thing we're going to need more nursing care in the family that's what makes our service different from the hospitals'; our service is oriented to the family situation." Miss McQuade comes to Delaware with a long and varied experience in the field of public health nursing. FOR the past two years she has been director of public nursing in Elizabeth, N.J., and spent, off and on, the 25 previous years in the health department of New York City as assistant director of public health nursing. While in New-York she served as a district supervising nurse, as a hospital nursing consultant, and as a staff nurse.

She was chief nurse for the Veterans Registration Office Clinic, and chief nurse for the Loeb Nursing Home, Monte- Virginia Gore, John Giovale plan WeddinQ Mr. and Mrs. W. L. Gore of Paper Mill Road, Newark, announce the engagement of their daughter, Miss Virginia Walton Gore, to John Peter Giovale.

Mr. Giovale is the son of Mr. and Mrs. Arthur M. Hafey of Rock Springs, Wyo.

Miss Gore, a graduate of Newark High School, is a senior at Westminster College, Salt Lake City, Utah. Her fiance is in the school of mechanical engineering at the University of Utah. A fall wedding is planned. Catholic Nurses Guild to meet The Catholic Nurses Guild of the Diocese of Delaware will hold its monthly meeting Thursday at 7 p.m. at the Nurses Home, St.

Francis Hospital. The Rev. Francis Dougherty will conduct Holy Hour services in the chapel from 7:30 to 8:30 p.m. Da7 Menu FAMILY SUPPER A new partner for snap beans that adds good flavor and nutrition. Broiled Lamb Chops Baked Potatoes Pepper Beans Salad Bowl Bread Tray Old-Fashioned Rice Pudding Beverage PEPPER BEANS yi pound snap beans 1 large green pepper r-i cup boiling water 12 teaspoon salt 1 tablespoon instant minced onion 2 tablespoons butter or margarine Freshly ground pepper to taste Cut ends from beans; scrub in cold water and drain.

Cut beans in 1-inch lengths with slanted ends. Wash and seed pepper; cut into pieces about size of beans. In a 1-quart covered saucepan gently boil the snap beans, green pepper, water, salt and onion until beans are tender-crisp about 10 minutes. Drain off any liquid. Add butter, more salt if necessary, and pepper.

Makes 4 servings. Mizrachi Women meet Wednesday The Wilmington Chap'er, Mizrachi Women of America, will meet Wednesday at 8:30 p.m. at the home of Mrs. Isadore Tanzer, 309 W. 22d St.

"Marching Towards Tomorrow," written by Marc Segal and narrated by Norman Rose, will be shown. Anyone interested is invited to attend. Miss Reynolds fo marry Capt. Donald R. White W.

NOLAN of Sedgcly Farms spent in Puerto Rico and the Miss Londis will marry Mr. Duszak Mr. and Mrs. Charles S. Landis of 2408 Duncan Road, Dunlinden Acres, announce the engagement of their daughter, Miss Kathleen D.

Landis to William J. Wheatlcy. He is the son of Mr. and Mrs. William J.

Duszak of 1721 W. 13th St. Miss Landis is a graduate of St. Peter's High School, New Castle, and is employed by the Farmers Bank of the State of Delaware. Mr.

Wheatley is a graduate of Wilmington High School and is employed by the Sloan Camera Center. The wedding will take place Sept. 11. from Frances Boutique, jewelry from Chappell's, and hair styles by Coiffure Salon Ltd. Mrs.

Bayard, Mrs. A. R. Shands a former Delaware chairman, and Mrs. William G.

Robelen III will attend the annual meeting of the National Women's Committee May 5, 6 and 7 in Washington, D.C. Sessions will be held at the interdenominational cathedral, building which was begun in 1907 and is now 60 per cent complete. Concord BPW meets Tuesday The Concord Business and Professional Women's Club will meet Tuesday at 6:30 p.m. at the Du Pont Country Club. "How to Stay Young Gracefully" will be the topic of the speaker.

Miss Cora K. Morris, of the extension division, University of Delaware. National Cathedral Women set card party at Longwood By DR. JOYCE BROTHERS Dear Dr. Brothers: I am 18 and my parents want me to enter college in the fall, but the boy I am in love with wants to get married and so do I.

However, he has told me that if 1 go to school, he would wait for me. He is 22. Do you thind he will wait for me that long if he loves me? Or do you think I should forget him, which will be hard since I have been going out with S.M. him for four vears? DEAR S.M.: The problem, which seems unsurmountable to you, is really quite simple. There are two roads which you can take.

The first is going to college and taking your boy friend's advice to finish college before you get married. And the second is starting to go to college and then getting married, but continuing your college education. Either one of these paths can work out, but If the decision were up to me, I would say that four years is a long wait for someone you love and the wisest plan, it would seem to me, would be to plan on going to college for the four years, but marrying sometime after the first year. COLLEGE, and the years you spend there, are very wonderful. You will broaden your vistas.

You will be thrown into contact with ideas that will develop you far beyond anything you can imagine today. And you will be thrown into contact with people whom you would never otherwise have an opportunity to meet. College will do you a great deal of good in helping you grow up and appreciate the beauties and wonders of life. The first year of college, in particular, is the most in The Rev. and Mrs.

Paul B. Reynolds of Barratt's Chapel, Fredcrica, announce the engagement of their daughter, Miss Ruth Evelyn Reynolds, to Capt. Donald R. White, USA. Captain White is the son of Carmel Senior social hours set The Carmel Senior Club members will be guests tomorrow of the Electra Arms Apartments for a social hour beginning at 2 p.m.

The club is for any person over 43 years of age who desires companionship and recreation. The club members hope to have their own Senior Center for recreational facilities for its members. Sussex Mardi Gras The Sussex County Club of Delaware State College Alumni Association will hold a Mardi Gras and costume ball April 9 from 10 p.m. to 2 a.m. at the Georgetown Armory.

The Longwood conservatory will again this year be the setting for a card party sponsored by Delaware members of the Women's Committee of the National Cathedral Association. Mrs. Thomas F. Bayard III. current state chairman, is in charge of arrangements for the April 22 event which will feature a showing of fashions Dessert card party, fashion show set The Women's Auxiliary of the Hospital for the Mentally Retarded at Stockley will sponsor a dessert card party and fashion show April 27 at 12:30 p.m.

The affair, with fashions from Benjamin's of Salisbury, will be held in the All-Star Rehabilitation Center Auditorium. Proceeds will be used for the Chapel and recreational equipment needs..