The Pittsburgh Press from Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania • Page 11

PITTSBURGH PRESS. AUGUST II Other eus on Pnge 10, 12 Harried Housewife Feels Like Letting Off Some Steam Opeii Tonight Co 9 Molly May field's I I 1 II 4 Dear Mrs. Mayfield: I am 31 years old and have two children, a boy 2 years old and a girl 7 months. Both children were very much wanted and are very much loved, but. At present my husband is overseas on his second it" if 1 1 i 4 7f70 l.lnnns Phft MRS.

MARSHALL H. PALLEY Travels to Sew York. Tuesday and Wednesday! tome! See! Informal Modeling of Fashions-to-Sew in Corduroy and Velveteen SEE COyriMOLS MODELING FROM 10:30 TO 4:30 Tamara Hofzman Wed To Marshall H. Palley Tamara Holtzman became the bride of Dr. Marshall Herbert Talley yesterday afternoon in B'nal Israel Synagogue.

After a dinner in the Mrs. Barnett Pavis Assembly Hall, the newlyweds departed for a trip to Concord at Kiamesha Lake, N. Y. Daughter of Mr. and Mrs.

Samuel A. Holtzman of Morn- See fashions informally modeled and on mannequin displays! All in McCall patterns, sewn of Juilliard's wonderful, washable, jewel-lone velveteens and corduroy so low in price, )et high in fashion! Consult Miss Winifred Mathers, McCall stylist, here to advise ou. Kaufmann's Sixth Floor MRS. JACK KITITZ Wed in rabbi's study. Maxine Sandra Kravitz, daughter of Mrs.

David Kravitz of Waldron Street and the late Mr. Kravitz. Her husband, formerly of Murray Avenue, is the son of the late Mr. and Mrs. Moe Kurtz.

For her marriage the bride wore a cocktail-length dress nf white Belgian lace over ice blue glazed cotton. Princess style, It had a loiind neckline, tight fitted bodice and full skirt. She chose a lace and blue rot-ton crown which held her fingertip veil. Need a Mortgage to Build or Buy? See FIRSTS FEDERAL ovngj end loan association OF PITTSBURGH tOO CI ANT STRUT 7 Atlantic 1-3300 Dear Mrs. Mayfleld: I am IS and have had a high school education.

Now I have a good job in an office. I am engaged to be married next month. I want to quit work, hut my fiance says I can't until we get settled down. That will be five years or more from now, because he will have to go into the Army before long. He has a new car, and enough money to build a home and to support us for two years or more.

Considering that, do you think It Is fair for him to Insist on mv continuing to work? My parents don't think I should, and neither do I. riease let us know your opinion. A Fan Dear Fan: I wonder if you'll still he a fan when I've told you what my opinion is. You see, considering the fact that your young man will he going into the Army soon and considering.the fact that it will be several years before you can settle down, I think you would be much wiser to continue your job than to give it up. When your hushand gets out of the Army, he is going to have to start from scratch, and how much better off you'd both be if you had a nest egg to count on.

Furthermore, you're only IS, and I should think you'd he a lot happier with something to occupy your hours during the Jong lime your young hushand will be away. So you see, we don't agree, do we? M. M. Do yon have a problem? Write Mayfield, Box lfi. Pittsburgh Pr'ss.

See aho Pages 10 and 12 ningside Avenue, the bride chose a waltz-length gown of rose point lace over satin. A Juliet cap of lace held her veil of illusion. Attending as matron of of honor was Mrs. F.leanore Goldberg, the bride's sister, who wore dusty pink lace and tulle. Similar frocks In pale blue were worn by Mrs.

Ma rein Welts, the bride's sister, and Mrs. Ar-lene Novick, the bride-groom's sister, who were bridesmaids. Jay N. Palley served as best man for his brother. They are the sons of Mr.

and Mrs. Samuel Palley of Highland Avenue. Ushering were Richard A. Novick, Edward Sharon, Paul Goldberg and Morris Weitz. The Cambridge Apartments In Squirrel Hill will be the home of Mr.

and Mrs. Jack Kurtz, who were married yesterday morning in the study of Rabbi Benjamin I lchter in B'nai Israel Synagogue. The bride is the former Sr If' I Mr "4 Juilliard's Printed Corduroy iVew campus note for coats, jackets, dresses. Narrow-wale rorrlurnr in Dower prints, herringbones, tweeds, plaids, paisleys, houndslonth or novelty checks. tiP Open Tonight in 9 MP trip.

The raising of the chil rirrn has been loft to me. Since I have no outside money rnmine in, we are struggling: along on my allotment check, which averages J.W22 a week. Not much with which to feed, cloth and house the three of us. For the past two years, except for the five months my husband lias been home, I've been alone, As I said before, I dearly love my children hut I'm with them 2i hours a day with no relief. so-called hudset won't let me get a babysitter.

I sail along fine for a few weeks and Ihen it seems to hit me, or the children fuss and whine all day. By night time I've flown apart at the seams and I take it out on the children, yelling and Mreaming at them like a fishmonger. It usually ends up with all three of us going to bed crying. I fel just like I rould walk out the front door and keep right on walking. Of course, my hushand thinks I have things easy no worries.

When he is home and the children get on his nerves, he Just takes off and there I am again alone. I guess I really don't have much of a problem for anyone to solve. It's just that this morning started off as "one of those days." The haby woke the hoy, and then he fussed. The hahy cried the whole time I was feeding her. The hoy cot In the refrigerator and jot chocolate syrup and poured It all over the kitchen floor.

While I was cleaning that up, Ihe girl crawled over to the cat's dishes and emptied the milk and water all over the floor. Neither one has stopped whining since they've been up. So here I sit with my nerves jangling. r. b.

Dear I B. Not long ago someone remarked to me that was extraordinary that so many people would write in for advice when actually so few people would ever take anyone's advice. I had to explain that not. all the people who write to me want advice that a large number of them just want to get something off their chests or to blow their tops to an objective listener. Take your case, for example.

You know I can't advise you how to rearrange vour budget (I can't even organize my own). And you know I'm not going to advise you to walk out on the children. Nor am I likely to suggest that you spend more time counting your blessings Instead of your worries, when alt the counting Nn't Roing to make spilled chocolate syrup one whit less depressing. So when it comes right down to it, I actually don't have to worry about advising ou, since it isn't advice you wrote for. I might express an opinion, though, and it's this-I think ou ought to arrange some way to have more free hours a week, I mean free from your children and your domestic load.

As" things are now, the kids are driving you nuts and you admit you're driving Ihem nuts. Now isn't there some way you could swap with some friend who would watch your children for a day if you would watch hers for a day? Or wouldn't it be worth your while to strain your budget, even to the red side of the ledger, to hire a babysitter and have an afternoon or evening to yourself once or twice a week? After all, what price a balanced budget if you're Roing to wear your nerves to a nub? There now, you can't say I haven't done right well or tried to, anyway In answer to your spurt of steam. M. M. (AdvtrlljtmMit) COOLER THAN A SROOKI For a ft refresher take a "sip" from Snow Crop Frozen Lemonada.

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