Alton Evening Telegraph from Alton, Illinois • Page 8

Mr. answer man BY ROBERT R. BLACK Coordinator of Adult Services Hayner Public Library Photographer displays art Bob Graul, Alton Evening Telegraph chief photographer, discusses with Mrs. Arthur Weber one of his photo-contest entries, hung in Holland, and printed in a Dutch magazine. Mr.

Graul, who holds a sheaf of catalogues from foreign salons where his works were shown, is displaying his prize-winning photos at the Upstairs Gallery, 651A E. Broadway. Hours, for the free exhibit are Sundays, 2-5 p.m.; and Wednes-. days and Fridays, 10 a.m.-4 p.m. Area cliibs plan Yule dates Wood River Woman's Club Cash gifts have been appropriated by the Wood River Woman's 0ub as 'donations to the Wood River Township Chamber of Commerce Christmas Benevolent program and the Salvation Army holiday project.

Silver collections, will be taken at the annualChristmas party in benefit of Park-ridge School for Girls and CARE, Mrs. Warner Coffman has announced. Plans are being completed by Mrs. Roy Adams and Mrs. 0.

Derrell Smith for the annual Christmas dinner party which is slated as an entertaining evening at the Lockhaven Country Club. Upper Alton Woman's Club The Christmas meeting of the Upper Alton Woman's Club will be held at the home of Miss Jewell Sutherland, 1317 Willard with Mrs. David Bear as assisting hostess. Mirror of your mind By JOHN CONWELL Do people who look alike have the same traits? NO, although it seems that way to the one who notices a strong resemblance in two persons. Then it becomes a plain case of subjective thinking on the part of the observer.

If he likes something about one person, he will try to find that same quality in his "twin." Unfortunately, if he resents the original person for some trait or characteristic, he will feel resentment building up against that -person's Jookalike. Are artists, generally egotists? NO, at least not the really great ones. Yet many artists even those who truly should be labeled artists act like egotists, mainly to convince themselves that what they have painted, sculptured, written, composed, is worthy of the time and effort devoted to creating it. Then, too, most artists really only pretend to be egotists betause they have to wait for posthumous recognition of their contribution to the arts. Is a 'bad' parent deliberately NOT VERY OFTEN, even if a parent did deliberately withhold love from a child, "dragging him up" instead of bringing him up.

Such a mother or father is obviously in need, of some kind of professional help or therapy. Perhaps the parent might have had an emotional or problem before the child was born; and now, on top of the previous trouble, having to cope with the intricate problems of raising a child may be too much for a parent. 1871 Kins Features Syndicate, Inc.) The program will be presented by Mrs. Charles Luft, Mrs. Auguste Hershey and Mrs.

Robert Lenhardt. Mrs. Luft will do the narration while slides of the World's Greatest Madonnas are shown. Mrs. Hershey will read some of the fine Christmas poetry and Mrs.

Lenhardt will'. several of the beautiful holiday songs. East Alton Woman's Club East Alton Woman's Club will 'ring the bells' for the Salvation Army Dec. 11 and will prepare food and toy baskets for distribution through the East Alton Police Benevolent program in cooperation with the Township Chamber of Comerce Christmas Members of the club will' participate in a shower of gifts for men ana women to be delivered as Christmas remembrances to patients at the Alton State Hospital, and of wrapping paper, ribbons and gifts for the Madison County Shelter Home and area nursing homes. A delegation led by Mrs.

Irma Jones, president, will join members of the Schubert Club of East St. Louis for the Club Christmas Reciprocity Tea Dec. 16. On the lighter side, club members will let lown their hair and relax at a strictly "Fun Night" Yuletide party Dec. 14 in the East Alton Vital Services Building.

Mrs. William Linkogle and Mrs. Harold Chamberlain are spearheading plans for the ''Childhood Christmas Memories" event. Each guest will bering a picture of herself at an early age and the individual identifying the most baby pictures will receive a "BIG" gift, Mrs. Chamberlain has announced.

DeMolay Auxiliary The Past Presidents' Club of the DeMolay Mothers Auxiliary will have their Christmas potluck luncheon at 11:30 a.m. on Tuesday, Dec. 14 at the home of Mrs. Ed Marshal 1015 Richard Drive, Godfrey. A Christmas gift exchange is planned.

Q. Please tell us the name and address of the legislator to whom we can write to request our movies be cleaned up. We all enjoy your column. Mrs. F.

Wood River A. Write to any or all of the following: United States Senator: Charles H. Percy, Adiali E. Stevenson HI, Address mail: Senate Office Bldg. Washington, D.

C. 20025 United States Representative: Paul Flndley, Room 2162 Rayburn Washington, D. C. 20515. Illinois State Senator: Sam M.

Vadalabene, 64 Circle Edwardsville, 111., 62025. Illinois State Representative: Leland J. Kennedy, 926, Washington Alton, 62002. Hober Walters, 1029 Langdon Alton, 62002. Horace 'A.

Calvo, 3254 Westchester Granite City, 111., 62040. Q. I have In my possession an old letter dating back to the civil war. letter is dated Dec. 7th, 1863 and the heading Is "Headquarters 1st Brigade, 6th Division, 16th Army Corps, Union City, Is addressed to a Capt.

Worn or something similar to that, and Is a special order to strike against Sol Street but with orders not to cross the Ohio river. Is signed with two names and; one seems to be a Col. Comely, as. well as I. can make It out.

I wonder if you could tell me If this letter would be of any interest to any one, or if you could tell me where I could get more Information concerning it. Mrs. C. B. Bethalto.

A. There are several libraries that have developed a large Civil War collection. of these is the Tennessee State Library and Archives, Library- and Archives Building, Seventh 'Avenue, North, Nashville, Tenn. 37219. If you wanted.

sell the letter you might try the Universal Autograph Collector's Club (International), '3109 Brighton 7th Box 4 Brooklyn, N.Y. 11235. Q. What is the address of To Size 50! PRINTED PATTERN Santa Clans? P.M., Alton. A.

Santa Claus, Santa dims, Indiana 47579. He Is getting 20uO-3000 a day (yes, day) at the present. He expects that the number will increase before Christmas. So far he has been able to answer each letter he is beginning to get writer's cramp. He is also running out as he spends over $200.00 per day for stamps (let alone stationery) to answer letters: At this rate there won't be any left for toys.

So please, help Santa out and send him some stamps when you write him. Q. In the book "Against the Celestial Prophets," Luther wrote-(quote) "Indeed, If Karlstadt were to write further about the Sabbath, Sunday would have to give way, and the Sabbath-that Is to say, Saturday-must be kept holy." Luther was writing about the Sabbath day vs. Sunday. Did Karlstadt observe the sabbath, and not Sunday? D.H.

South Roxana. A. As near as I can find, Karlstadt observed Sunday as the Sabbath and not Saturday. The confusion arrises from the quote from Luther which is out of context with the rest of the work. Through a careful reading of this text (Luther's Works 40:94) we find that Luther was critical of Karlstadt's' stand on destruction Of images (Karlstadt thinks are evil and Luther does not) and on the observance of the Sabbath (Karlstadt thinks that Sunday should- be kept as a sacred, day of worship and to be distinquished from the other days of the week while Luther believes "that there shall be a daily sabbath in the New Testament, with no difference as time," After attempting to prove Karlstadt wrong he pokes fun at him for wanting to make Jews out of Christians.

Luther further says: "He would truly make.us..Jews in all things, so that we also would have to be circumcised, etc." Karlstadt did not teach circumcision either. This is just Martin Luther's way of being cute. If you have questions, send them to Mister Answer Man, care of Alton Evening Telegraph. Answers to questions will be printed in this column each Tuesday. 10-Pc.

Wardrobe 630 Newlywed Hammannsin SpringfieliT J. en-year iD tO tOp Pile fabric has Come a long way in just 10 years. used to line raincoats, it is now an "put- side" fabric available in a wide range of textures and 'colors. Taupe pants and overblouse (left) from Donald Brooks Boutique feature Mongol chaps and sleeve- less Mongol Jacket. Regina of Porterhouse does the romantically styled coat (right) trimmed in a woolly fabric.

Pile fabric in both designs is by Glenoit. Nagging mate gets tune-out Pearson-Porter vows said Miss JoAnne Porter, daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Eugene Porter of Oldenberg Head, Hartford, was' married to Dennis Eugene Pearson of Alton Saturday in the Hart- BIRS. PEARSON ford Assembly of God Church.

Tell bridegroom is the son of Mr. and Mrs. Eugene Pearson of 3518 Oscar St, Alton. The liev. V.

W. Spain performed the ceremony at 7:30 p.m., and the couple received friends in the church annex. Miss Patty Copeland was vocal soloist at the wedding, for which the altar WHS decorated with candelabra, palms, white mums and red gladioli. Paul Sauls was organist. The bride wore a gown of organza over taffeta, with an empire waistline and lace ruffles at the yoke and shoulder, puffed sleeves, and hemline.

A large bow and a long train were attached at the back of the eontrollled skirt, and a bridal cap, covered with lace and seed pearls, held her lace-edged veil in place. Her bouquet contained stephanotis and roses. The bride's honor attendants were her sister, Mrs. Snyder; and Miss Mary KQchan. Miss Jeaneeta Harris and Mrs.

Lester Schlemer were bridesmaids. The women attendants wore gowns fashioned with burgundy colored velvet bodices with long skirts of ivory organza over taffeta. Burgundy velvet bows held their ivory colored veils, complementing their costumes. Jack Champlin was best man. Others in the wedding party were David Curry.

Jeff Greer and Gary Hazen, groomsmen; and Mark and Larry Pearson, ushers. Trisha Porter was flower girl, and David Pearson was ring bearer. The candles were lighted for the ceremony by Roger Porter and Jeffery Pearson. The bride is a graduate of East Alton-Wood River High School, and is employed in St. Louis by the Hartford Insurance Co.

Her husband, en Alton High School graduate, is employed by Olin Corporation, East Alton. After a honeymoon at the Executive Suite in St. Louis, the couple will! live in Wood River. DEAR ANN: You are 100 per cent right in your answer to "Ohio Screamer." Nagging wives are horrible. If there is anything worse than a nagging wife it's a nagging husband.

But, strangely enough, we hear very little about THEM. The Nag is almost always assumed to be a woman. married a nagger and I can you what it's like. It's like having a buzzing fly in your ear at all times. The Nagger's pattern is the same.

He looks for small things that need to be done or aren't done to his then he picks, picks, picks, repeats, goes on and on: "Why didn't you? Why don't you? Why haven't you? When will you?" This keeps up until everyone in the family wishes he'd get lockjaw. Several months ago I figured a way to escape. I bought a small transistor radio and now when he starts nagging I turn it on and carry it with me. It's a lifesaver. Incidentally, I enjoy your radio program.

Best of luck. OMAHA W. H. READER DEAR OMAHA: Thanks for the suggestion and the good wishes. I appreciate both.

DEAR ANN: Your advice to Preston to "take the diamond ring back to the jeweler and get a refund or credit" was terrible. No jeweler of decent reputation would sell used merchandise. Do you know of ANY store that would accept an item purchased four years ago? A better answer would have been to take the diamond back to the jeweler and have it remounted for himself or his mother. Consider this letter A BLAST FROM. BILLINGS DEAR BLAST: Ouch! Here's another one Omaha: DEAR ANN: I am about ten pounds heavier than I ough't to be and it's a battle to stay away from footts I like to eat.

I'm beginning to think it's my father's fault. Is this possible? He comments on every forkful that goes into my mouth. If we are in a restuarant he calls my attention to the diet special. Once he slapped my hand (half jokingly) when I reached for a piece of cake. I didn't take it because I was embarrassed, but after dinner I sneaked into the kitchen and ate two huge pieces to get even.

I realize this is childish and I am only hurting myself, but what can I do about it? Should I tell him? BIG BERTHA DEAR BERT: No. I'LL tell him. All you need to do is hand him this column. DEAR DAD: In your effort to help your daughter lose weight you are driving her to eat more. I hope you and thousands of other parents who are concerned about Overweight children will get it through your heads that nagging never took an ounce off anybody.

warning, scolding, shaming, threatening and ridiculing are totally ineffective. The most helpful thing you can do is keep quiet except to praise your daughte'r when signs of weight loss are evident. Born to: Mr. and Mrs. Gerald Grant, 802 Arizona, Belleville, first child, a daughter, 7 pounds and 3 ounces, 5:29 a.m, today, Alton Memorial Hospital.

Mrs. Grant is the former Mary Jane Dale, daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Robert L. Dale of Bethalto.

Paternal grandmother is Mrs. Lorraine Grant of Bethaito. Mr. and Mrs. Christopher Robinson 8 W.

9th To wed area man Miss Sheila Kathleen Ryan's engagement to John Montgomery Bott, son of Mr. and Mrs. Eugene J. Bott, of Brighton, has been announed by her parents, Mr. and Mrs.

McDermott E. Ryan of Hudson, formerly of St. Charles, 111. The couple are graduates of Southern Illinois University, Carbondale. Miss Ryan is an assistant to the buyer in the Kinder garten Shop at Marshall Field and Company in Chicago, and Mr.

Bott is employed by the government. A tentative wedding date has been set for Septlmber. MISS RYAN 'Alton, first child, Christopher William, 5 pounds and 10 ounces, 8:06 a.m. Monday, St. Joseph's Hospital.

Mrs. Robinson is the former Karen McGuire, daughter of Mrs. Marie McGuire of Alton. Paternal grandmother ds Mrs. Pattie Mae Herron of Mr.

and Mrs. Larry Crane, 115 Vine Morb, first child, a Michelle, .7 pounds and .4 ounces, 11:06 a.m. Monday, Joseph's Hospital. Mrs. Crane is the former Paula Ragusa, daughter of Mr.

and Mrs. Joseph Ragusa of South Roxana. Paternal grandparents Mr. and Leonard Crane of Bethalto. r.

and Mrs. Jerry Gwillim, Apt. 302; 502 W. Main Urbana, first child, Timothy Donald, 6 pounds and 1 ounce, 4:43 Saturday, Carle Foundation Hospital, the Kathy Esarey, daughter of Mr. and Mrs.

Albert Esarey 6f Jerseyvflle. Paternal grandparents are Mr. and Mrs. Donald Gwillim of Shipman. Mr.

and Mrs. Leno LaRosa of Staunton, a daughter, 6 pounds and ounces, 11:07 a.m. Saturday, Staunton Community Memorial Hospital. Newlyweds Hammanri and the former Miss Christine Anita Adams are at home to their friends at 1416 S. 5th St.

in Springfield, 1 Mwriag their wedding, Nov. 13 at St, Paul's United Church of Christ In Carlinvflle, The double ring ceremony, was performed by Dr. Robert Baumann, pastor the church. A reception was given in the church hall. The bride is a daughter of Mr.

and Mrs. Rbbeit H. Adams of Chesterfield; and Mr. and Mrs. Carl E.

Hammann of R.R. 4, 'are the parents of the groom. The bride wore floor length gown of organza over bridal satin which featured a fitted bodice detailed at the empire wafstlirie with imported French re-embroidered lace encrusted with seed pearls. The stand-up collar and cuffed bishop sleeves repeated lace detail. Her veil flowed softly into a chapel length train, etched with motifs of Idee embedded with seed pearls.

The bride carried a cascading bouquet of pink carnations, pink roses and baby's breath. Mrs. Mary Ann Lelys of was matron of honor. Misses Karen and Jayne Adams, sisters of the bride, were bridesmaids. They wore floor4engUi dresses of pink organlza over pink satin with puffed sleeves.

The empire -bodice and cuffs were of ruby lace. They wore fingertip veils and carried -bouquets of pink carnations 'and red roses. The groom was attended by Michael Lelys of Springfield as best man. James Lobmaster and Keith Kramer, of Springfield, served as groomsmen. The ushers were Richard Hammann and Wayne Harbaugh.

Engagement announced in Carjinyille Mr. and' Mrs. Melvln Heinemeler of- Livingston announce the engagement of their Jean Heinemeier'of CarllhviUe, to Victor Tigo, son of Mh and Mrs. John Tigo of Carlinville. The wedding will, take, place on Dec.

18. Heinemeier Is employed at Macdupln County Cursing home and Mr. Tigo is employed at Ketring Products, Carlinville. Fashion tips Sim for Skin Many experts claim that "skim milk is full of organic protein which is healthy for the skin even i you don't drink it. So taking advantage of- the cosmetic value of natural substances, many lines have begun to add skim milk their other ingredients.

milk, with its 'absence of fat, can be used as a greasy cleanser or an overall skin care treatment. Before and After Eyes Don't be a victim of habit. -Especially when it comes to make-up. Just because you've been wearing heavy eye' liner or hardly any eye make-up doesn't mean yon should continue. Try a be'fore'-and- after test.

Experiment in looks from the dramatic to au Then select, what best fits you. Consult others so you'll see now they'd like to see you look. Slow curves for shoulders Answering the what-to-wear problem is this design. Sleeveless jacket, blouse, pants and dress. Sew now.

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New Instant Crochet Book step-by-step pictures, patterns teach today's way, $1.00. Complete Instant Gift Book more than 100 gUts. fl.OO. By MARY SUE MILLER A Lovely writes: I crave a.real evening dress with tiny straps or none at all. But my shoulders aren't up to it.

Bra I'am not the braless type have left deep ridges. Worse, the colarbones are so sharp as to form on either side. What hope? The Answer: Those difficulties are correctable. To eliminate ridges from bra straps consult a cbrsetiere. She-will see to it that your straps snug, instead of pinch.

However much lift is needed, it will be made to come from beneath the cups as is proper. Too, wider straps cushioned with light padding are another comfort possibility. Once you have the right bra, ridges begin to fade. You can hasten the process and pretty the scene generally by massaging daily with rich hand or body lotion. The collarbone problem is not so quickly solved, but it is nonetheless soluble.

You can feel the following routine at work to plump those.bones: With a strong leather belt in hand, sit tailor-fashion on floor. Hold belt so hands are 12 inches apart, extend arms forward at shoulder level, and snap belt taut. By bending elbows into waist, touch belt to chest, hold 5 counts, and return arms to extended position. Repeat 20 times with tension. Meanwhile dust collarbones with a contour brushon, This, triQk seems tQ cut them'down'to size, GP on, get that dress.

ENHANCED BOSQMUNP For a more attractive'. bosom, write Mary Sue BJJllW in we of'the Alton Evening Telegraph, jfquejfflng her pamphjet, Enhanced addressed, stamped envetype. Instructions on how gurve ana Bpsomltael include PamphM contauji exerqlse; pwdwe to win and a long, lUf can be Improved tbniMgb setry. i T.I if.