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PanoramaLifestyle Band leader has been playing Polish music for over 50 years D14 Asbury Park PressWednesday, September 23, 1987 By GRETCHEN SCHMIDHAUSLER Press Staff Writer Scores of newspaper clippings, photographs, programs and ticket stubs spanning Stas Jaworski's 50 years in music are neatly tucked away in several large albums. rn Ox? mg JjfJ llf ft 4i Stas Jaworski, Berkeley Township, dance at the Waldorf Astoria Hotel, STEVE SCHOLFIELOAsbury Park Press in a performance at the annual dinner Day on Sunday. Jaworski and his orchestra appeared on television from 1958 to 1959. Opera Festival. This, he said, was one of his biggest thrills.

In 1950, he formed a 10-piece orchestra, which became the core group for his work in later years. Jaworski and his orchestra also appeared on television on Channel 13 from 1958 to 1959. His wife, Mary, a singer, often appeared with the band. Although none of the original band members save Jaworski remain, the Stas Jaworski Orchestra is still active. One of the highlights of his career Bigoted mother doesn't For Jaworski, those scraps of papc are much more than souvenirs detailing past performances.

They represent a half century of making people happy. Music in general and a good polka in particular arc Jaworski's passions. "Dance music has so much life When you're on the stage playing a polka and you sec the people really enjoying it, you feel very alive," said the Berkeley Township resident. Jaworski, 6U, was born in Rhode Island, but his parents returned to their native Poland when he was 3 years old. The results of his IS years abroad arc a lingering accent and a broad musical background.

He organized and played in his first band at the age of 16 and has been involved in various musical endeavors ever since. Jaworski was drafted in 1940, the year after his family returned to the United States, but not even World War II could discourage him from pursuing his love of music. While stationed in Panama, he studied at the Panama Conservatory of Music. He also found time for opera while in Europe. "When I was stationed in France I sang opera, and many people couldn't believe I was a sergeant in the U.S.

Army," he said. "I don't sing opera now that's a lot of work, although I think I could still do some operatic numbers." His operatic achievements were rec-i ognized in 1949, when he was chosen to represent New Jersey at the Milwaukee Engagements STRATTON-LITTLEFORD LACEY TOWNSHIP Richard T. and Barbara A. Stratton, 104 Cac- tus Drive, have announced the gagement of their daughter, Linda Lee, to David C. Littleford, here.

He is the son of Ernest and Lorraine Sloan, 173 Route 539, Manchester Township. f. Miss Stratton, a graduate of Laccy Township High School, attended Ocean County College, Dover Town-'" ship. She works for Ocean Orthopcd-ics Associates, Lakewood. Her fiance i was graduated from Manchester Township High School.

He works for Sambol Construction, Toms River. SILVA-CANGRO DOVER TOWNSHIP Ray-i mond and Yvonne Silva, 273 Consti-', tution have announced the engagement of their daughter, Carol, 1 to Eddie Cangro, son of Angelo and Ruby Cangro, 369 Birch Bark Drive, Brick Township. Miss Silva attended Toms River High School North. She is a jewelry J. consultant at Macy's, Toms River.

Her fiance is a graduate of Brick Township High School and the ITT Technical Institute, Portland, Ore. He works for the N.J. Transit Rail Operations Diagnostics Center, Hobokcn. TENT SALE if will lead the Stas Jaworski Orchestra New York, in conjunction with Pulaski was being asked to perform at the annual dinner dance at the Waldorf Astoria Hotel, New York, in conjunction with Pulaski Day. This year, the orchestra has been invited back and is scheduled to play at the event on Sunday.

"When he heard we were playing at the Waldorf again, one of my sons said, 'Daddy, don't take these fancy jobs take a good Polish wedding where we get to eat two Jaworski said. In recent years, the Stas Jaworski Dear Abby Abigail VAN BUREN grandfather. She wants to be married in the city where she has resided for the last 21 years because that's where all her friends are. (Incidentally, it's 1,500 miles from here.) We understand this, and have no objections to that whatsoever, but she has informed us that it is "customary" for the parents to pay for their daughter's wedding and reception as long as it is her first. The estimated cost (she says) will be about $15,000.

Abby, we are retired and Uving comfortably on a pension, but we are not able to finance a $15,000 wedding. Please tell us what our obligations are in this case. Unable to oblige in West Texas A. Obligations? You have none. Your daughter's demands arc not only unreasonable, they're outrageous.

Q. am nearly 21 years old and I met my real father for the first time six months ago at the funeral of my grandmother. (She was his mother.) That day my father was very kind to me, and I was thrilled to meet the band's performances. That's why Jaworski was puzzled when he was asked to play at a St. Patrick's Day dance a few years back.

"I said to the man who hired us, 'What do you want with a polka band at an Irish dance? and he said, 'I don't care what you play as long as you get me 500 We did. They really-enjoyed themselves, too," Jaworski said. At the height of his career, Jaworski said he performed at 50 to 60 functions Lend A Hand EDITOR'S NOTE: The Volunteer Center of Monmouth County recruits volunteers for placement in nonprofit human service, cultural, health, civic and educational organizations. The Center matches the volunteer to the volunteer opening. Each Wednesday, the Press publishes notices of a few of the Center's approximately 300 volunteer openings.

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"But the band is not necessarily Polish; we have the United Nations in this band," Jaworski said. Polkas and ethnic music from his own background tend to dominate his know best father that I had been missing for so many years. (He and my mother divorced when I was a baby.) 1 gave him my address and phone number and waited and waited to hear from him, but he never called or wrote. I wrote him a letter telling him I wanted to see him again to establish a real father-daughter relationship with him. He wrote back saying it was impossible, and he did not want to see'me again! Abby, I know it is his new wife's doings.

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