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Dances By HELGA This is the Sixth Lesson in a series designed for little girls starting to learn ballet. The author is a dance teacher of note and experience and who has written many articles on the art. It is suggested that methers clip this lesson and illustration for reference. Correct style in classical ballet can only be attained when dancers are well "turned out." This is done not only by turning the toes of each foot away from the other, toward the walls, but the entire leg bone, from the hip, must roll out. This in time develops hip control and therefore will be pointed out repeatedly in Carla's instructions.

Foot Position 3: "Closed:" Bring the heel of right foot in front of instep of left foot. Carla stands with her feet in third will develop and grow as long as you live. It is dependent upon your ability to know and understand yourself so that you can put a polish on your best characteristics to make you more pleasing person for others to be with. Contrary to an all-too-prevalent impression, the pursuit of charm is not a selfish conceit. It is your duty, to others and it is of ever- importance as the world more grows smaller contacts become frequent, demanding and exacting.

Vanity is shallow, but charm's depth can not be fathomed because it is always multiplying itself; it is never static. Charm never remains with those who treat it lightly. It vanishes quickly from the presence of a woman who is careless of her person and appearance. It flees from those who allow their talents to rust. It is never found where there is intolerance, gossip or hatemongering.

Secrets of Charm ROBERT By JOHN POWERS One thing that never can be faked is charm. Those who assume a mantle of charm are the only ones who are unaware of its transparency. And since charm is one of the most treasured blessings of human relations, those who try to use it as an artifice inevitably find themselves walled outside of the very circle they most desire to enter. YOUR CHARM self. must And spring because from of your the wealth of beauty and goodness there is in everybody, your charm is boundless.

If you so wish, your charm To come face to face with your most charming self each day, must be honest, forthright and per. sistently so. more enjoyment into the lives of all who know you and happiness to yourself! Tomorrow: Attaining the hipped look. Irondequoit Study Club To Meet Tomorrow The Child Study Club of Irondequoit will meet at 8 p. m.

tomorrow in the home of Mrs. Virginia Mackey of Garford Rd. Mrs. George DeMuths of the Rochester Branch, American Red Cross, will speak on "First Aid in the Home." RIDER ALUMNAE TO MEET Rider College Alumnae of Rochester will meet at 8 p. m.

tomorrow at the home of Miss Jen Hatcliffe in Arnett Blvd. Streamline STELLA WHITE An apple-corer from the dime store is just about the handiest tool for potted plants. Use the pointed end as a cultivator for loosening the soil as well for applying small amounts of plant food. You will find it perfect tool for making holes for transplanting. Then too, the handle end is just right for tamping the soil after transplanting.

Copr. 1950, Field Enterprises, All rights reserved plan ahead! have your picture taken now! 3 gifts for the price of Save now on the most personal Christmas gift you can give--your portrait taken our PhotoReflex Magic Camera way that lets you see your poses before they're taken. Full set of proofs 'to choose from and no appointmnt necessary. Fre-Holiday Special Prices 3 gift portraits for the price of any 2 in size or finish Photo Reflex Studio, Street Floor SIBLEY, LINDSAY CURR CO. Esperanto, Planned Progeny Cited as Agents of Peace By ROSEMARY MOORE that could help us to peace." "Peace without trust would be unattainable as long as human beings are a These are the words of Dr.

Mildred Mrs. Sidney Newhall), research associate Rochester who has written the current text and Samples" as well as coauthored eight income and expenditures, and who puts her means of communication. "I'm speaking of Esperanto," she explained. about 60 years ago and made up of the languages: English, German, Spanish, Italian and INTERNATIONAL language and world disseminaParenthood are two agents This article is the second in a series of interviews with Rochester women, who have given their outspoken views on current affairs and its significance and meaning to them as American women. Since many issues discussed will be controversial, the paper will welall correspondence from readers, voicing their reactions.

Such correspondence should be directed to The Democrat and Chronicle. Even though several million people books and 120 current magazines has been done. It should be taught as beginning with grammar school pupils. impossible--and equally cheap commodity:" Parten (in private life at the University of book "Surveys, Polls, volumes on family faith in a common "a language conceived common roots of Aryan Russian. It's a simple, unhampered language that belongs to no country and therefore can rightfully be called international." Convinced that an international tongue would lessen the distrust which lies at the root of most wars, Dr.

Parten said, "They're using it on occasion in the United Nations, and it's been taught to some degree in America, as well as widely used abroad. now speak Esperanto and about 8,000 have been written in it, not enough an auxiliary language in all schools, "MANY PEOPLE DON'T REALIZE," she said, "that there are almost 3,000 languages in the world, 120 of which are important in a literary and practical sense. If one language were made compulsory in all countries, future generations would have a bond of immeasurable value both practical and psychological." She pointed out further the matter of translation at UN meetings. "Every language has its idioms; its fine shadings of meaning that can't be translated into another tongue. Think how much more powerful a statement is, coming from the individual who first makes it, as against the repeated words of a translator." Here again, she believes Esperanto is the answer.

She recalled a recent meeting of the UN when Soviet Deputy Foreign Minister Jakob A. Malik removed his earphones so he could not hear the Russian translation of Gen. Douglas MacArthur's report on the Korean war. "This demonstration would not have been possible," she said, "if Esperanto had been used." Regarding the matter of foreign wars which have surged up repeatedly during the last few decades, Dr. Parten sees much of the fault in the "cheapness of human lives." "Leaders," she said, "are willing to make thousands of men expendable because life is not precious.

Abroad, particularly in Russia and the Orient, life is the cheapest commodity. And where a commodity or resource is plentiful, the price is bound to be cheap." PART OF THE SOLUTION, Mrs. Newhall believes, can be worked out by the mass dissemination of knowledge on Planned Parenthood. "If clinics and information could be sent to these countries through the United States, in such magniture that it would reach people who are producing children far, beyond their own or their countries' ability to care for them, overpopulation could be checked. And with its check, will come higher value for life." During a survey which she helped to conduct, the seasoned economist learned that much of the increase in population, even in America, was among the poorer classes; the dependents, and the low mentality groups.

She is of the opinion that this is true to a far greater extent in foreign countries. The higher income mentality groups, on the other hand, she found comprise the smaller families. "Once," she said, "all groups are given not only the knowledge, but the facilities, for birth control, each child have greater material advantages (no longer having to share with an outsize family). And it will follow that by virtue of these advantages, more through care in upbringing, he will, in turn, give more thought to his neighbor." As long as the world continues to be overpopulated and continues to search for more room, food and work for its masses, there will be war, according to Dr. Parten.

However, she sees considerable hope in a world that learns the significance of life's value by educating its people to birth control- -and finally having time to devote to improving, rather than expending, its people. 400 Area Women to Attend Church Meeting in Dansville MORE to than Dansville 400 Presbyterian Thursday go Rochester Presbyterial Society Rita E. Maher Becomes Bride CHRYSANTHEMUMS were carried by the bride and her two attendants at the wedding of Miss Rita E. Maher, daughter of Mr. and Mrs.

Charles J. Maher of Dorstone to Donald H. Hartleben, son of Mr. and Mrs. Herbert Hartleben Charlotte which took place Sept.

23 in St. Helen's Church. The Rev. Charles R. Nangle officiated.

The bride was gowned in white satin en train and carried white flowers. Her matron of honor, Mrs. Thomas Cocking, wore green satin and the bridesmaid. Mrs. Joseph Ryan, was attired in bronze satin.

Both carried gold flowers. Mr. Ryan was best man and ushers were Robert Hartleben, uncle of the bridegroom, and Mr. Cocking. Mrs.

D. H. Hartleben ADVOCATES COMMON TONGUE Author Mildred Parten relaxes with a book in her apartment in St. Paul Blvd. She is ardent believer in need for common tongue.

Children Do Better When Parents Handle Them in Same Fashion CHILDREN do better when ways in the same fashion. the other, trying to keep the see-sawing up and down and Lauder Sisters Become Brides BEFORE an altar decorated with white gladioli, chrysanthemums and palms in the South Perinton Church Sept. 23, two daughters of Mr. and Mrs. J.

Adair Lauder of Victor became brides. The Rev. Q. Beebe, pastor of the church, performed the ceremonies. Mrs.

Ramon Elizabeth Lauder entered the church with her father. Miss Thelma Janes Lauder was escorted by her brother, Donald. Ramona became the bride of Robert H. Hart, son of Mr. and Mrs.

Harlan Hart of Fairport, and Thelma, the bride of Lt. Malcolm Blakeslee. son of Dr. and Mrs. M.

R. Blakeslee of Canandaigua. The brides chose gowns of white satin with finger-tip veils of French illusion and carried white prayer books with fleur d'amour and stephanotis. Bridesmaids for Ramona were her sister, Mrs. Richard Dudley of Fairport, and Miss Eleanor Briggs of East Rochester, Thelma's two cousins, Miss Joyce of Fairport and Miss Coralyn Briggs of Macedon, were her bridesmaids.

Susanna Lauder, daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Donald Lauder, was flower Lt. Blakeslee chose his brother, Melvin, for best man and another brother, Edward, and Paul Zimmer of Canandaigua as ushers. Mr.

Hart's best man was his father, Harlan Hart, and John Lauder of Fairport and Harold Gaudion of East Rochester were ushers. A reception was held in the church dining room. Mrs. Hart was graduated from Rochester School of Commerce, and Mr. Hart from Syracuse University, Mrs.

Blakeslee was graduated from Rochester School of Commerce. Lt. Blakeslee is a graduate of the University of Rochester. Socialized Medicine Topic of Nurses The Practical Nurses of New York, Western Division, will meet at 8 p.m. tomorrow at the Powers Hotel.

A general discussion on socialized medicine will be held, under the leadership of Mrs. Evelyn Lambert. Virginia Dell Is Bride MISS Virginia Dell, daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Paul J.

Dell, became the bride of Lawrence Hoh son of Mr. and Mrs. Lawrence Hoh, all of Henrietta, in a ceremony Sept. 23 in the Church of the Good Shepherd. The Rev.

George Vogt officiated. The bride wore white marquisette trimmed with rose point lace. Her illusion veil was fingertip length and she carried white chrysanthemums. Mrs. Carl Hayton, her sister's attendant, wore blue faille and carried pink roses and white chrysanthemums.

Henry Hoh was best man for his brother and ushers were Frank and Bernard Hoh. A reception at the home of the bride's parents followed the ceremony. Mrs. Lawrence Hoh Jr. Monday, October 2, 1950 sibley's closed all day mondays to get everything sparkling and both parents handle them and their When one parent is severe and balance, is easy, the children are that is bad for the children and hard on the home atmosphere.

It hard on the home atmosphere because it allows disagreement to rise By ANGELO PATRI between the parents. That causes the children to use one against the other to win their own way. This results in being neither one thing nor the as far as their parents are and usually ends in spoiled tions and warped characters. One or the other parent must the lead in dealing with the Usually this is the mother she is with the children the part of the time and it is she tends them during their early Where responsibility rests, must dwell, so usually it is word and mother's way that matters. FATHERS should have their share in the guidance and management of their children.

As they often are away from the scene of action, and as any decisions concerning acts must be made on the spot to be effective, it is the mother who must be judge and jury and, if necessary, executioner. Father's share then, plainly, is that of a consulting partner. He and his wife talk over the children's needs, characteristics, manners and morals and decide on how they are to be treated. Then both proceed apparent difference of opinion beaccording to plan so that there is no tween That makes for harmony in the "home, faith in the parents' wisdom strength on the part of the children. HOME should be a partnership.

Father and mother are the senior partners and as the children grow they are admitted as juniors. Each is allowed a voice in his own department. In that way the family becomes more united in interest and in spirit. Mutual help creates mutual affection and that should be the feeling in the family unit. Children the world over will take advantage of any difference -between their parents and, when refused permission from one, will turn to the other.

When that happens the only thing to do, the only decent thing to do, is to ask, "What did your mother say? What did your father say? Then you should not have asked me." Children's dependence upon their parents' wisdom, good sense and affection calls for teamwork. Is your child "bad loser?" Dr. Patri tells how to cope with this problem, and teach him to be good sport when he falls to win a game in booklet No. 304. To obtain a copy send 10 cents (coin pre ferred) and a 3-cent stamp to him, this paper, P.

0. Box 99, Station New York 19, N. Y. Rochester Man Wed in Illinois A WEDDING ceremony which followed the Southern custom of candle-burning was solemnized in the Second Presbyterian Church, Evanston, on Saturday, Sept. 9, when Edythe Audrey Eberts, daughter of Mr.

and Mrs. J. Foster Eberts of Evanston, was married to Paul Stoner Clark, son of Mr. and Mrs. Wesley E.

Clark of Lilac Dr. The Rev. Albert C. Hjerpe performed, the ceremony in a setting of flowers and the candies were lighted by Charles North and the bride's brother, Allen Eberts. The bride wore ivory satin in traditional design, with a short train.

Her knee-length veil was designed about a piece of ivory Chantilly lace which had been part of her mother's wedding gown and she carried stephanotis and a white orchid. The maid of honor was Miss Janet Carlson and bridesmaids were Miss Barbara Brasmer and Miss Mary Ann McGee, all of Evanston. They were gowned alike in pale blue satin, with matching hats, and carried rubrum lilies. Vernon D. Hagelin of East Moline, Ill.

was best man. Ushers were Charles W. North of Evanston and Morrison M. Gillett of Milwaukee. A reception in the church parlors followed the ceremony, The bride attended Purdue and Northwestern universities.

The bridegroom is a graduate of Purdue and received his master's degree from the same university. The couple will live in Rochester. other, concerned, disposi- take children. because greater who authority mother's settles DECEIT and dishonesty are charm's greatest enemies. Procrastination saps its vitality.

Would you like to see your charm grow? It takes all the frankness, honesty and volition that you can command if you are to make yourself into as interesting and attractive a personality as it is your potential to be. But as you succeed, you will bring Grandparents Attend Bride THE picturesque Community Church on Grenell Island, Thousand Islands, was the scene of the marriage on Sept. 2 of Miss Joyce Eleanor Bristol of Webster to Richard Van Brummelen of Scottsville Rd. The Rev. Albert C.

Fulton officiated. The bride wore a pearl white suit with matching accessories and a cotsage of red carnations and fern. Attendants were the bride's grandparents, Mr. and Mrs. Winifred R.

Haughwout, whose Summer home is at Grenell Island. A reception was held at Whipperwill Lodge on Murray Isle. The couple will live at 1107 Scottsville Rd. bright for you to shop tuesdays 9:30 to 9 women of the Rochester area will for the Fall convocation of the in the Dansville Presbyterian Church. Sessions at 10:15 and at 2 p.

m. at which Mrs. Clare' A. Horning will preside, will include talks by various speakers, group conferences and the giving of committee reports. by Mrs.

W. Eugene Powell, Presbyterial past president, the 1950 theme "Thine Is the Power" will feature the morning hymn sing. Mrs. Ward B. Gowdy of Dansville will lead devotions.

Mrs. Vincent J. Gerber, cellist; Carlos E. Knapp, violinist, and Mrs. Robert McKee, pianist, will vide the musical portion of the gram.

Highlights of the meeting of National Council of Presbyterian Women at Ocean Grove, N. J. last June will be given by Mrs. Raymond Van Wuyckhuse of East Side Memorial Church. From 11:30 a.

m. to 12:30 p. m. group conferences are slated. Treasurers from the 60 affiliated groups will have Mrs.

Otto C. Haege, finance chairman, as leader; spiritual life and stewardship chairmen, Mrs. W. Eugene Powell; young people and children's workers, Miss Ruth Kenyon, Mrs. Paul Hays, Mrs.

Fred Norfleet; world service, Mrs. William Wallace. FOR DELEGATES not assigned to conference sessions talks are scheduled on social education by Dr. Charlotte Henderson of Third Presbyterian Church and on missionary education by Mrs. Stuart Boyce of Dewey Avenue Presbyterian.

Mrs. Lloyd Guile and Mrs. Marshall Mitchell are in charge of the dining room for the box luncheon. The afternoon session will feature a talk by Mrs. Lois Fester of Ford City, on the work at Embudo Hospital, a Presbyterian mission project at Embudo, New Mexico.

Mrs. Sireno F. Adams will be soloist of the afternoon. Benediction by the Rev. Robert McKee cf the host church will conclude the session.

A box luncheon will be served. AN ORIGINAL HYMN composed open wednesdays, fridays and saturdays. 9:30 to 5:45 and open thursdays 9:30 to 9 Gaur.