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ROCHESTER DEMOCRAT AND CHRONICLE Qanla jbancei Monday, October 2, 1350 28 e7-Sr sibley's closed lift Researcher SptaiUt! Esperanto, Planned Progeny Cited as Agents of Peace By ROSEMARY MOORE "AN INTERNATIONAL language and world dissemina- tion of knowledge on Planned Parenthood are two agents that could help us to peace." "Peace without trust would be impossible and equally unattainable as long as human beings are a cheap commodity." These are the words of Dr. Mildred Parten (in private life Mrs. Sidney Newhall), research associate at the University of Rochester who has written the current text book "Surveys, Polls, and Samples" as well as coauthored eight volumes on family income and expenditures, and who puts her faith in a common means of communication. "I'm speaking of Esperanto," (he explained, "a language conceived bout 60 years ago and made up of the common roou of Aryan languages: English, German, Spanish, Italian and Russian. It'a a simple, Bv HFLGA This is tht Sulk Lesson ta a stritt designed for hltlt girls starting, ta Wit balltl.

Tht author is dance teacher ef not and txperienct and uho has Hntttn maar articles tht art. It is suggested that mothers clip this lesson and illustration joe re-trenct. Correct style in classical ballet can only be attained when dancers are well "turned out." This is done not only by turning the toes of each foot away from the other, toward the walls, but the entire leg bone, from the hip, must roll out. This in time develops hip control and therefore will be pointed out repeatedly in Carla's instructions. Foot Position 3: "Closed:" Bring the heel of right foot in front of instep of left foot.

unhampered language that he- Carta stands with her feet hi third position. Copyright, 19.t0 This article is the second in a series of interviews with Rochester women, who have given their outspoken views on current affairs and its significance and meaning to them as American women. Since many issues discussed will be controversial, the paper will welcome all correspondence from readers, voicing their reactions. Such correspondence should be directed to The Democrat and Chronicle. By JOHN ROBERT POWERS longs to no country and therefore can rightfully be called international." Convinced that an international tongue would lessen the distrust which lies at the root of most wars, Dr.

Parten said, "They're using it on occasion in the United Nations, and it's been taught to some degree tn America, oj One thing that never can be faked is charm. Those who as illd sume a mantle of charm are the only ones who are unaware of its ay ADVOCATES COMMON TONGUE transparency. And since charm is one of the most treasured blessings of human relations, those who try to use it as an artifice Author Mildred Parten relaxes with a book in her apartment in St. Paul Blvd. She Is ardent believer in need for common tongue.

inevitably find themselves walled outside of the very circle they most desire to enter. i as well as widely used abroad. Even though several million people now speak Esperanto and about 8,000 books and 120 current magazines have been written in it, not enough has been done. It should be taught as an auxiliary language in all schools, beginning with grammar school pupils. mondays Children Do Better When Parents Handle Them in Same Fashion I ss 'Ol CHARM must spring from your inner self.

And because of the wealth of beauty and goodness there is in everybody, your charm is boundless. If you so wish, your charm will develop and grow as long as you live. It is dependent upon your ability to know and understand yourself so that you can put a polish on your best characteristics to make you a more pleasing person for others to be with. CHILDREN do better when both parents handle them and their mint in hi cam fahinn Whrn nnr narpnt is severe and the other, trying to keep the balance, is easy, the children are see-sawing up and down and that is bad for the children and hard I a mm fact ta fact rttm year mast taarmime self each da. on the home atmosphere.

It is hard on the home atmosphere because it allows disagreement to rise must bl haatit, Itrlkritkt ami per- sisttauy it. between the par- Lauder Sisters Become Brides ents. That causes more enjoyment into the lives of all who know you and happiness to By ANGELO PATRI the children to Contrary to an all-too-prevalent impression, the pursuit of charm is not a selfish conceit. It is your duty to others and it is of ever-increasing Importance as the world grows smaller and contacts become more frequent, demanding and exacting. Vanity is shallow, but charm's yourseit! "3ANY PEOPLE DON'T REALIZE," she said, "that there are almost 3,000 languages in the world, 120 of which are important in a literary and practical sense.

If one language were made compulsory in alt countries, future generations would have a bond of immeasurable value both practical and psychological." She pointed out further the matter of translation at UN meetings. "Every language has its idioms; its fine shadings of meaning that can't be translated into another tongue. Think how much more powerful a statement is, coming from the individual who first makes it, as against the repeated words of a translator." Here again, she believes Esperanto is the answer. She recalled a recent meeting of the UN when Soviet Deputy Foreign Minister Jakob A. Malik removed his earphones so he could not hear the Russian translation ofCen.

Douglas MacArthur's report on the Korean war. This demonstration would not have been possible," she said, "if Esperanto had been used." Regarding the matter of foreign wars which have surged up repeatedly during the last few decades, Dr. Parten sees much of the fault in the "cheapness of human lives." "Leaders," she said, "are willing to make thousands of men expendable because life is not precious. Abroad, particularly in Russia and the Orient, life is the cheapest commodity. And where a commodity or resource is plentiful, the price is bound to be cheap." JJEFORE an altar decorated with use one against the other to win Tomorrow! uhit olariinli rhrvcanthf mums Attaining ths slim This results in their A .1,.

P.rinmn meir own way, hipped look. Church Sept. 23. two daughter, of bein neither one thing hot Mter, In far asm thoif narnti axra tttftVtmH far their are concerned, depth can not be fathomed because Mr. and Mrs.

J. Adair Lauder ot Irondequoit Study Club as as parents and usually ends in spoiled dispositions and warped characters. To Meet Tomorrow Victor became brides. The Rev. Frank Q.

Beebe, pastor of the church, performed the ceremonies. One or the other parent must take it is always multiplying melt; it is never static. Charm never remains with those who treat it lightly. It vanishes quickly from the presence of a woman who is the lead in dealing with the children. The Child Study Club of Ironde Mrs.

Ramon Elizabeth Lauder en Usually this is the mother because quoit will meet at p. m. tomorrow tered the church with her father. she is with the children the greater in the home of Mrs. Virginia Mackey careless of her person and appearance.

Miss Thelma Janes Lauder was es part of the time and it is she who of Garford Rd. corted by her brother, Donald. Mrs. George DcMuths of the It flees from those who allow tneir talents to rust. It is never found where there is intolerance, gossip or tends them during their early years.

Where responsibility rests, authority Ramona became the bride of Rob Rochester Branch, American Red ert H. Hart, son of Mr. and Mrs. Cross, will speak on "First Aid in the Home." must dwell, so usually it is mothers word and mother's way that settles matters. Harlan Hart of Fairport, and Thelma, the bride of Lt.

Malcolm Blakes-lee. son of Dr. and Mrs. M. R.

Blakeslee of Canandaigua. The brides RIDER ALUMNAE TO MEET JJECEIT nl dishonesty are charm's greatest enemies. Procrastination to get everything sparkling and bright for you to shop Tuesdays 9:30 to 9 FATHERS should have their share Rider College Alumnae of Roches saps its vitality. chose gowns of white satin with fin in the guidance and management ter will meet at p. m.

tomorrow Would you like to see your charm of their children. As they often are at the home of Miss Je Hatcliffe ger-tip veils of French illusion and carried white prayer books with fleur Brow? away from the scene of action, and in Arnett Blvd. as any decisions concerning acts must It takes all the iranitness, noncsiy amour and stephanotis. and volition that you can command Bridesmaids for Ramona were her be made on the spot to be effective, it is the mother who must be judge if you are to make yourself into as sister, Mrs. Richard Dudley of Fair and lury and, if necessary, execu port, and Miss Eleanor Briggs of tioner.

Fathers share then, plainly, interesting ana attractive a personamy as it is your potential to be. But as you succeed, you will bring East Rochester, Thelma's two cou is that of a consulting partner. He sins. Miss Joyce Briggs of Fairport and his wife talk over the children's and Miss Coralyn Briggs of Mace needs, characteristics, manners and don, were her bridesmaids. Susanna morals and decide on how they are Lauder, daughter of Mr.

and Mrs, Donald Lauder, was flower girl. Grandparents Attend Bride to be treated. Then both proceed according to plan so that there is no Lt. Blakeslee chose his brother, apparent difference of opinion be PART OF THE SOLUTION, Mrs. Newhall believes, can be worked out by the mass dissemination of knowledge on Planned Parenthood.

"If clinics and information could be sent to these countries through the United States, in such magniture that it would reach the people who are producing children far, beyond their own or. their countries' ability to care for them, overpopulation could be checked. And with its check, will come higher value for life." During a survey which she helped to conduct, the seasoned economist learned that much of the increase in population, even in America, was among the poorer classes; the dependents, and the low mentality groups. She is of the opinion that this is true to a far greater extent in foreign countries. The higher income andor mentality groups, on the other hand, she found comprise the smaller families.

"Once," she said, "all groups are given not only the knowledge, but the facilities, for birth control, each child will have greater material advantages (no longer having to share with an outsize family). And it will follow that by virtue of these advantages, more through care in upbringing, he will, in turn, give more thought to his neighbor." As long as the world continues to be overpopulated and continues to search for more room, food and work for its masses, there will be war, according to Dr. Parten. However, she sees considerable hope in a world that learns the significance of life's value by educating its people to birth control and finally having time to devote to improving, rather than expending, its people. Melvin, for best man and another tween them.

That makes for harmony brother, Edward, and Paul Zimmer in ine Dome, iaiin in inc piiciui of Canandaigua as ushers. Mr. Hart's wisdom and strength on the part of 1 h- on Grenell Island, Thousand best man was his father, Harlan Hart, and John Lauder of Fairport and Islands, was the scene ot the marrsje HOME should be a partnership. Ion Sept. 2 of Miss Joyce Eleanor Harold Gaudion of East Rochester were ushers.

Father and mother are the senior; Bristol of Webster to Richard van A reception was held in the church dining room. partners and as the children grow Brummelen of Scotisville Rd. Tne they are admitted as juniors. Each Rev Ahert officiated, is allowed a voice in his own depart- in iht wv the fiimilv be- The bride wore a ptrl while suit Mrs. Hart was graduated from Rochester School of Commerce, and Mr.

Hart from Syracuse University. comes more united in interest and with matching accessories and a cot- in spirit. Mutual help creates mutual sage of red carnations and fern, Mrs. Blakeslee was graduated from Attendants were the bride's grand affection and that should be the feeling in the family unit. An epple-corer from the dime (tort ia just about the handiest toot for potted plant.

Um tht poinfetf end as a cultivator for loosening tht toil well as for applying small amount of plant food. You will find it a perfect tool for making hole for transplanting. Then too, the handlt end it just right for tamping tht toil aftar transplanting. Otpr. 19M.

Pltld taterprkMa, a All rtlt raaarvael Rochester School of Commerce. Lt. Blakeslee is a graduate of the Uni Children the world over will take versity of Rochester. parents, Mr, and Mrs. Winifred K.

Haughwout, whose Summer home is at Grenell Island. A reception was held at Whipperwill Lodge on Murray Socialized Medicine advantage of any difference -between their parents and, when refused permission from one, will turn to the other. When that happens the inly thing to do, the only decent thing to do, is to ask, "What did your Isle. Topic of Nurses The couple will live at 1107 Scotis The Practical Nurses of New York, 400 Area Women to Attend Church Meeting in Dansville VIORE than 400 Presbyterian women of the Rochester area will 1 go to Dansville Thursday for the Fall convocation of the Rochester Presbyterial Society in the Dansville Presbyterian ville Rd. mother say? What did your father Western Division, will meet at 8 p.

m. tomorrow at the Powers Hotel. A open Wednesdays, say? Then you should not have 7 general discussion on socialized medi asked me. cine will be held, under the leader Children's dependence upon their parents' wisdom, good sense and affection calls for teamwork. Church.

Sessions at 10:15 a. and at 2 p. frid rklld a "bat UnarV Dr. fatrt ship of Mrs. Evelyn Lambert.

Virginia Dell Is Bride m. at which Mrs. Clare A. Horning ays an Rita Maher Becomes Bride will preside, will include, talks by Mil bow to cop wllk Mill pmMea, ami Inch tla bt I ton iport whea at talli to wla aaax la booklet No. 3M.

To obtain a (opr tmt i null (cola preferred) ana a 3 -rent ttamp to klai, Milt ft.tlM various speakers, group conferences and the giving of committee reports. litre r. -I A box luncheon will be served. Alloa Virginia ucu, oaugmcr oi Vork 1', N. Y.

CHRYSANTHEMUMS were carried AN ORIGINAL HYMN composed by the bride and her two attend by Mrs. w. Eugene Powell, Presbyter ants at the wedding of Miss Rita Rochester Man Wed in Illinois Maher, daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Charles J.

Maher of Dorstone Rd to Donald H. Hartleben, son of Mr. and Mrs. Herbert Hartleben of Charlotte '3 Mr. and Mrs.

Paul J. Dell, became the bride of Lawrence Hoh son of Mr. and Mrs. Lawrence Hoh, all of Henrietta, in a ceremony 23 in the Church of the Good Shepherd. The Rev.

George Vogt officiated. The bride wore while marquisette trimmed with rose point lace. Her illusion veil was fingertip length and she carried white chrysanthemums. Mrs. Carl Hayton, her sister's attendant, wore blue faille and carried pink roses and white chrysanthemums.

which took place Sept. 23 in St ial past president, on the 1950 theme "Thine Is the Power" will feature the morning hymn sing. Mrs. Ward B. Gowdy of Dansville will lead devo tions.

Mrs. Vincent J. Gerber, cellist; Mrs. Carlos E. Knapp, violinist, and Mrs.

Robert McKee, pianist, will provide the musical portion of the program. Highlights of the meeting of Na A WEDDING ceremony which followed the Southern custom Helen's Church. The Rev. Charles R. Nangle officiated.

of candle-burning was solemn- i7ed in the Second Presbyterian The bride was gowned in while Church, Fvanston, on Saturday, satin en train and carried white flow- Sept. 9, when Edythe Audrey I berts, ers. Her matron of honor, Mrs. Thomas Cocking, wore green satin Saturdays. 9:30 to 5:45 and open thursdays 9:30 to 9 tional Council of Presbyterian Women daughter of Mr.

and Mrs. J. Foster Fherti nf Fvanston. was married to Henry Hoh was best man for hn and the bridesmaid, Mrs. Joseph at Ocean Grove.

N. J. last June will be given by Mrs. Raymond Van brother and ushers were Frank and; Paul Stoner Clark, son of Mr. and Ryan, was attired in bronze satin, Both carried gold flowers.

Wuyckhuse of East Side Memorial Bernard Hoh. Mrs. Weslev E. Clark of Lilac Dr, A reception at the home of the The Rev. Albert C.

Hierne rwr. Church, Mr. Ryan was best mar and ushers were Robert Hartleben, uncle of the bride's parents followed the cere- formed, the ceremony in a setting of mnnu mowers ana me canaies were nsniea bridegroom, and Mr. Cocking. by Charles North and the bride's brother, Allen Eberts.

The bride wore ivory satin in tra ditional design, with short train plain Her knee-length veil was designed about a piece of ivory Chantilly lace which had been part of her mother's wedding gown and she carried ste phanotis and a white orchid. (I 5 From 11:30 a. m. to 12:30 p. m.

group conferences are slated. Treasurers from the 60 affiliated groups will have Mrs. Otto Haege, finance chairman, as leader; spiritual life and stewardship chairmen, Mrs. W. Eugene Powell; young people and children's workers, Miss Ruth Kenyon, Mrs.

Paul Hays. Mrs. Fred Norfleet; world service, Mrs. William Wallace. FOR DELEGATES not assigned to conference sessions talks are scheduled on social education by Dr.

Charlotte Henderson of Third Presbyterian Church and on missionary education by Mrs. Stuart Boyce of Dewey Avenue Presbyterian. Mrs. Lloyd Guile and Mrs. Marshall Mitchell are in charge of the dining room for the box luncheon.

The afternoon session will feature a talk by Mrs. Lois Fester of Ford City, on the work at Embudo Hospital, a Presbyterian mission project at Embudo, New Mexico. Mrs. Sireno F. Adams will be soloist of the afternoon.

Benediction by the The maid of honor was Miu Janet Carlson and bridesmaids were Miss Barbara Brasmer and Miss Mary Ann McGee, all of Evanston. They were gowned alike in pale blue satin, with matching hats, and carried rubrum lilies. have your picture taken now! 3 gifts for the price of 2 Sire dow on the mott personal Christmas gilt you taa give your portrait taken our PbotoRrfirj Magic Canera way that Int you your pose Mora thrv'r takrn. Full set of prools to rhoo from and at appointmnt iireMrr. T'tt-llotdtj Sptiiat Prites 3 gift portraits for tht rlct of ony 2 In sii or finish Photo Rejltx Studio, Strati Floor SltLtr, UNDSAY 6 CUM CO.

Vemon D. Hagelin of East Mo-line, III. was best man. Ushers were Charles W. North of Evanston and Morrison M.

Gillett of Milwaukee. A reception in the church parlors followed the ceremony. The bride attended Purdue and Northwestern universities. The bridegroom is a graduate of Purdue and received his master's degree from the D. H.

Hartleben Rev. Robert McKee of the boat church will conclude the session. Mrs. Lawrence Hoh Jr. same university.

The couple will live In Rochester, aifc'M aaaai.