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Pharos-Tribune, Logansport, Indiana, Tuesday, July 24, 1984 Page? People Weddings Justice-Lavender Married Calvary Presbyterian Church was the setting of the 4:30 p.m., June 30 wedding of Mary Ethel Justice and James Lee Lavender. The Rev. Robert Weingartner officiated at the double-ring ceremony. Music was provided by soloist John D. Miller, Leewood, W.Va., and accompanist Carolyn Cassidy.

Parents of the couple are Sen. and Mrs. William Justice, Rt. 2, and Mr. and Mrs.

Joseph Lavender 2500 Emmet Dr. Jane Justice Miller, Leewood, W. was honor attendant for her sister. Susan Allread, Camden, was bridesmaid. Anne Miller, Leewood, W.

niece of the bride, was junior flower girl and Joseph Lavender IV, Delphi, nephew of the groom, was ring bearer. Duties of best man were performed by Joseph B. Lavender III, Reading, Pa. Groomsman was Doug Weil, Detroit, Mich. Guests were registered by Valerie Sandy and seated by Cliff Allen and Brad Price.

Given in marriage by her parents, the bride wore an ivory satin gown featuring alencon lace insets at the bodice and hemline. A princess cap secured her chapel-length veil of tulle and lace which was highlighted with seed pearl trim. The bride carried a bouquet of coral tea roses and baby's breath. Royal blue gowns accented with jacquard butterflies were worn by the attendants. Each carried a bouquet of coral carnations and baby's breath, and wore flowers in her hair.

A dinner reception for 150 guests was held on the lawn of the bride's parents home. Hostesses were Kathy Lavender, Reading, and Teresa Dunn. Gifts were registered by Jean Acton. A rehearsal dinner was hosted by the groom's parents in the church dining room. James and Mary (Justice) Lavender The bride was graduated from Logansport High School and from Ivy Tech, Lafayette.

She is admissions coordinator at Ivy Tech Region V. Her husband was also graduated from LHS. He is serving in the United States Navy as a gas turbine specialist 3rd class. The couple's wedding trip was to Biloxi Beach, and New Orleans. They reside at Fort Bayou, Apt.

179, 3230 Cumberland Ocean Spring, Miss. 39564, Rites Unite Showley-Zeronik Loretta Joyce Showley and Robert Joseph Zeronik were united in marriage during a 7 p.m., June 30 wedding in Garfield Park Conservatory, Indianapolis. The Rev. Philip Isgrigg officiated at the double-ring ceremony. Parents of the couple are Harold Showley, Kewanna, and the late Doveda Showley, and Mr.

and Mrs. Charles Zeronik, Indianapolis. Lisa Freeman, Indianapolis, was honor attendant. Duties of best man were performed by Richard Zeronik, Mooresville. The bride was given in marriage by her father.

A reception for 60 guests was held in the conservatory. The bride was graduated from Castor; High School in 1970 and from Butler University in 1974. She is a buyer for Paul Harris Stores, Indianapolis. Her husband, a 1966 graduate of George Washington High School, is a lieutenant for the Indianapolis Fire Department. The couple's wedding trip was to Cozumel, Mexico.

They reside at 2914 Horse Hill West Indianapolis 46224. Robert Zeronik and Loretta Showley Former Resident Named Symphony General Manager Janet McDonald Smiljanic, formerly of Logansport, has been named general manager of the Westfield Symphony Orchestra in New Jersey. Smiljanic formerly served as public relations consultant for the Westfield Area Chamber of Commerce. Prior to moving to Westfield eight years ago, she was active with the Indianapolis Symphony Orchestra. She has also worked as public relations director for the Marion County Republican Central Committee in Indianapolis and in that capacity for the Rehabilitation Institute of Chicago.

She is the daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Richard L. McDonald, Logansport. Street-Car Tours Offered In Vienna VIENNA (UPI) The Vienna Tourist office is offering summer visitors a city tour by old- fashioned street-car every Sunday afternoon until September 30.

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Although by tradition, men have had more experience with speaking than women, it is my biased opinion that women get right to the point faster. My husband will walk into the house and I will say, "Why do you want me dead?" This not only gets his attention, it gets right to the heart of the matter as to why he insists on setting the air conditioning to 82. The man has eaten steaks cooked at a lower temperature than that. Anyone who has ever read the Constitution will know that men are not tight with a phrase. First, my husband will say, "Had a busy day? I see you took the car out.

Any problems?" Fifteen minutes later, he will get to, "Why is the right headlight hanging out, of the car?" For some reason, men are not direct. This possibly comes with games businessmen play where they answer every question with another question. I say, "How do you like my dress?" He answers, "Are they wearing that style this year?" At Wit's End By Erma Bombeck I ask, "How do you like my haircut?" "Are you pleased with it?" he asks. "What time do you want to go to dinner?" He replies, "What time to you want to eat?" It's also been pointed out that our vocabulary is different. When women ask, "What do you think of this "Interesting" is not the reaction we are looking for.

On the other hand, when men point out the greatest quarterback who ever lived, and we remark he has a "cute tush," it is not exactly the response he is looking for. If you think there's no mystique about men who communicate, just listen to them on the phone sometime. They will carry on an intense conversation with a phantom voice for 20 minutes responding with, "No! I don't believe it. How could that have happened? What kind of numbers are we talking about? Wiped out, huh? Keep me posted. Call in the middle of night if you have to." When he hangs up you ask, "What was that all about?" He shrugs and says, "Nothing." One of the traits I've never been able to figure out is why men look at you like they're hanging onto your every word, when in reality they have tuned you out and have no idea what you have just said.

Women have been trained to listen. When I asked my husband about this he said, "This is true because if women stopped listening, they might miss something very important." I don't know why more women don't get their own column. It's the only way I've survived. Joanne Woodward Speaks Out On Women's Quest For Peace NEW YORK (UPI) Joanne Woodward sat on the edge of a red velvet couch in unair-conditioned Roosevelt House, perspired, mopped and fanned her face this hot, humid afternoon. She talked about her quest for peace and the fact that nowhere in the Bible is it recorded that there ever was peace on earth.

"Not in the Old Testament, not in the New," she said. "I would hate to think we're stuck in the caveman era forever," Miss Woodward said. "I believe change has a chance. If not, I would jump out the window." Keeping the planet's people from being incinerated or otherwise destroyed in a nuclear holocaust is Miss Woodward's aim. The quest is expected to gain momentum Sept.

12 at the First National Women's Conference to prevent nuclear war. Miss Woodward is chairwoman of the Planning Committee for the Capitol Hill gathering. IT WILL BRING TOGETHER WOMEN LEAD- ers who agree on stopping nuclear war. Each will carry the peace message back to her constituency. Miss Woodward envisions the conference as the beginning of a new women's movement and hopes it will circle the world.

"But do you know anyone who is for nuclear war," Miss Woodward was asked. "Everyone essentially is against it," Miss Woodward, wife of Paul Newman and a resident of Westport, places faith in what women can do as wagers of peace. She recalled that the crusade to stop the Vietnam war did not get off the sticking point until Mothers for Peace got involved. One of the things people will be doing more of this summer playing golf. Giving up'golfing? Sell your clubs with The Pharos-Tribune Classified Ads 722-5000 The conference, she said, will attract female Democratic and Republican representatives, including Rep.

Geraldine Ferraro Billie Jean King, Mario Thomas, Gloria Steinem, Matina Homer, Shirley Chisolm will be there. Miss Woodward said the conference takes its theme from a quote by Eleanor Roosevelt, who in 1933 said on the issue of war and peace: "It's up to the women." Women, Miss Woodward said, must oppose government positions that push the world closer toward destruction. "AT THE CLOSE OF THIS CONFERENCE WE will be submitting specific steps for preventing nuclear war to the presidential candidates and members of congress," she said. About a nuclear freeze, she said: "I don't think that is handing the country to the enemy." Other quotes from Miss Woodward: need more than a positive drive for peace. We want an absence of would like to get women from the Iron Curtain countries involved." is the enemy? Ourselves.

If everybody in the world sat down and said it is possible to blow up this planet and it could happen at any minute, then perhaps everybody would stand up and say, 'What can I is my No. 1 thing. It is not political. If any issue is bipartisan, this is it. Actually this is not an issue.

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