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The Des Moines RegisM CC Teens want to hear advice from their parents really Paq 6E Tuesday. March 27. 2007 PARENTING, from Page 1E Q. Why was II especially Important to have a class on communication with teenage males? A. Because teenagers for the most part rt ally yearn for that, hut I think that adults art scared of (hem.

They don't know what to say. We believe, as adults, that the teenagers of today's society look at us as big dweebs, and what do we have to offer? But yet the research shows that boys, and girls too want the parents to be involved. We still have, us parents, as adults, a big percentage of the influence to impact their life and we need to take that opportunity. Details WHAT: -Communicating With Your Teenage Muio What's Really Up?" WHEN: 5 30-8 pm. today WHERE: Meredith Middle School, 4827 Madison Ave Dos Moines.

The session will be repeated at the same time on three ditlurent dates at different locations. The three other dates and locations are: March 29: Merrill Middle School, 5301 Grand Des Moines April 10: Southeast Polk Junior High School, 8031 E. University Pleasant Hill April 12: Woodslde Middle School, 5810 E. 14th Dos Moines COST: Free CONTACT: Diana Sosalla at 261-4202 or sosaliaiastate edu to reserve a space, or you can just show up NOTE: Teens are encouraged to attend the workshop with their parents or mentors. A light supper will be provided from 5 30 to 6 m.

Child care is available upon request. Q. What are Ihi specific challenges when II comes lo teenage boys? A. I think they're as much ufraid of us as we as a society tend to be afraid of them. They're afraid to come to us, to talk about their vulnerabilities.

Our society still says lh.it guys have to be macho, we've got to have bravado. Guvs come to talk to somebody and start talking ubout hurt feelings or a bro-ken-up relationship or dysfunction in the home you know they're holding in a lot of emotion because they haven't been given permis-sion to say. "Hey. you know what. I'm not doing OK.

Will you help me?" The other thing is that I don't think people really know how to get kids involved. If you go into an office and sit with a teenager, they'll look at you like a deer in headlights. But if you go out and shoot hoops with them, or if you teach them how to drive a car, you buy a fries and hamburger from McDonald's, they're going to be more open to talking with you. As we share and self disclose, they will be open to that. too.

One of the things I've found in working with teenage boys is they're looking at udults to sny, 'You know what, I failed in these ureas, I struggled with this, I did this and it didn't They're looking at us as if we're kind of perfect and they're scared to their vulnerabilities because they're not having anybody role model for them how to address that. Q. What's thi blggast mistaki or misconception parents make when trying lo communicate with teen males? A. That their kids don't want to. That their kids would rather be with their friends, rather lw out at the mall, they'd rather be doing things than spending time with them.

I think that's the biggest fallacy that we have as udults to overcome. The research and the literature shows kids in high schools and junior highs, they want parental involvement. They want structure. They want somebody to set boundaries. They might resent (that), but that's part of being a teenager.

I think parents just kind of neath that. I don't think kids are looking for us to agree with them, but they're looking for us to say, "You know what, I don't agree with this, but you're your ow person and I want to help you become the best that you can be." Rtporlei Dawn Sigarlo tin be rtichl 11(515)284 S351 or dugirlotfdmtig com abdicute their roles as parents and say, "Well, I can't do anything, lie's not listening to me. I give up." Then the kid sees that as rejection, and carries that wound with him. Q. What's the most Important thing parents can do? A.

Unconditional acceptance. A nonjudgmental attitude. If they're Goth they're still a human being under life with inventive guile I Play dresses REVIEW, from Page 1E Communist regimes. Whatever else von Mahlsdorf accomplished before her death in 2002 is up for debate, but the skill with which actor Philip Lehl tells her story is beyond dispute. With little more than a 180-degree pivot or a simple shift in posture, he morphs into starkly different roles, including an American journalist ith a convincing Southern drawl, a Nazi commander and a smarmy talk-show host named Ziggy Fluss, Germany's answer to Tony Danza.

To tackle each role, Lehl draws on years of onstage experience as a student at Roosevelt High School, Drake University and New York's Juilliard School. The Des Moines native who has starred on Broadway now lives in Texas, where Sakitly it fin 'ittii' no- AMAZING CAACl (F0 1 1 35, 35 Hill HAH (USUI 1145, IJ 55 215 320. 4 35 5 45 6 55 8 10. 0 20.10 35 GHO5TII0UIK-I3I IflO 20DIACIII TMNT(fG) II 15. 1200 1245 I 35.

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Wednesday and Thursday, 8 p.m. Friday and Saturday, and 3 p.m. Sunday through April 7. WHERE: Civic Center's Stoner Theatre, 221 Walnut Des Moines TICKETS: S11-S18; (515) 243-1888 or www.stagewestiowa.com he'll take "I Am My Own Wife" for a four-week run at Houston's Stages Repertory Theatre after it closes here April 7. Along with the play's cross-dressing heroine and dozens of bit parts, Lehl portrays Doug Wright, the play's creator, who based the script on more than 500 pages of transcripts from his interviews with von Mahlsdorf between 1992 and 1994.

Wright wrote himself into the play as a way to show how he struggled to figure out which parts of her story were true, which parts were exaggerated and which parts including allegations that von Mahlsdorf collaborated with East German spies were glossed over. Although Wright uncovers evidence suggesting she turned over one of her closest friends to the secret police, the playwright, a gay man who grew up in the Bible Belt, would rather focus on her acts of courage. "I need to believe in her stories as much as she does," he says. "I need to believe that a long time ago, in an attic a generous aunt handed her confused nephew a book and a blessing. ()l I I VI III KM ION TMF AMOUNT Of THE MOW TOAGt ODE Br AND COSTS.

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national origin, disability or sexual orientation. R447 IOWA COUNTY TREASURERS EGOVERNMENT ALLIANCE March 20, 2007 2:00 The business meeting of the Alliance was called toorder at 2 00. The meeting was open to anyone interested In the audience were members of the Alliance and Iowa Tax and Togs. First on the agenda was the approval of minutes of the Nov 29, 2006 meeting. The minutes were approved on a motion by Jan Horton, seconded by Karen Elkin with all others voting aye.

Eric Stierman as acting SecTreas gave a report on the minutes and a treasurers report. An announcement was made to the ICTE A group. The executive board of the ISCTA had voted to pay $10,000 to Iowa Interactive for program development. TheSlO.OOO would pay $5,000 towards the software development costs of both the iowatreasurers.org and Iowa Tax and Tags. There had been on estimate of development costs of $10,000 for both websites.

The additional costs would be paid by each respective website. These costs are part of the cost of a shared I nternet web portal consisting of Recorders, Assessors, Auditors. The meeting adjourned at 2:10 with a motion by Jan Horton and seconded by Lori Hesse with all voting aye. A full set of these minutes ore available from Pam Sprague, Taylor County Treasurer, SecTreas ICTE Bedford Iowa 50833. R450 THE IOWA DISTRICTCOURT POLK COUNTY INTHEESTATEOF ANDREW J.

GANGLE. DECEASED PROBATE NO. ES56520 NOTICE OF PROBATE OF WILL, OF APPOINTMENTOF EXECUTOR, AND NOTICE TO CREDITORS To all persons interested in the estate of Andrew Gangle, Deceased, who died on or about March 1st, 2007: You are hereby notified that on the 16th day of March, 2007, the last will and testament of Andrew J. Gangle, deceased, bearing date of the 31st day of July, 2006, was admitted to probate in the above named court and that Andrew G. Gangle was appointed executor of the estate.

Any action to set aside the will must be brought in the District Court of said county within the later to occur of four months from the date of the second publication of this notice or one month from the date of mailing of this notice to all heirs of the Decedent and devisees under the will whose identities are reasonably ascertainable, or thereafter be forever barred. Notice is further given that all persons indebted to the estate are requested to make immediate payment to the undersigned, and creditors having claims against the estate shall file them with the clerk of the above named District Court, as provided by law, duly authenticated, for allowance, and unless so filed by the later to occur of four months from the second publication of this notice or one month from the date of mailing of this notice (unless otherwise allowed or paid) a claim is thereafter forever barred. Dated this 16th day of March, 2007. Andrew G. Gangle Executor of Estate 805 Southbranch Dr.

Waukee, I A 50263 I OF MCI ITBI K'VIIOM The Des Moines Register Publishing Legal Notices 7 Days a Week On-Llne To Plate Leool Nollcet Pico se Content: Ljnl Ofk SIS 2IU HW4 Fax SI5 JIM SIM Email: IpuciI 'Umreo com yvww dcmoimtreilpr.com I nil ot Life RII7 NOTICE TO BIDDERS Sealed bids for lh conduction ol Coliroeo Veterinary Medicine. Remodel Room 1365. Iowa State University. Ames, Iowa will be received by the lowa S'otp Board of Regents ot the Facilities Planning ond Management Office. General Services Building, Iowa Slot University, Ames.

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R323 IN THE IOWA DISTRICT COURT IN AND FOR POLKCOUNTY CASE NO EQCE055606 ORIGINAL NOTICE WELLS FARGO BANK, NA AS TRUSTEE, Plaintiff, NANCY HOLMESTOENSINGfWa NANCYJ.FEHN, JAMESG.FEHN, COMMERCIAL FEDERAL BANK, THEODORE TOENSING, AND PARTIES IN POSSESSION, Defendants. TO THE ABOVE-NAMED DEFENDANTS: You are hereby notified that there is now on file in the Office of the Clerk of the above Court, a Petition, in the above-entitled action which proyj for judgment in rem ond in the amount of $1 28,842.43 plus interest to March 5, 2007 in theomount of $2,990.97 and at a rate of 6. 70 per annum thereafter, such amount equaling $23.56 per day, thecostsof the action including, but not limited to, Report of Title costs of $225.00, escrow advance $5,131.77, recoverable balance $146.00 accumulated late charges $254.10, other fees $7.00, ond reasonable attorney fees and that said sums be declared a lien upon the following-described premises from 381 1 SW 29th Street, Des Moines, located in PolkCounty, Iowa, to-wit: Lot 109 and a triangular piece beginning at the corner Lot 109 then East 9 feet Southerly 56 feet to West line Lot 95, then Northerly on West line to beginning Lot 95 CAMELOT SOUTH, an Official Plat, now included in and forming a part of the City of Des Moines, Polk County, Iowa. that the mortgage on the above-described real estate to be foreclosed, that a special execution issue for the sale of as much of the mortgaged premises as is necessary to satisfy the judgment and for other relief as the Court may deem just and eauitable. The attorney for the Plaintiff is Brian G.

Saver, whose address is 531 Commercial Street, Suite 700; P. O. Box 2363, Waterloo, IA 50704-2363, telephone (319) 232-3304, facsimile (319) 232-3639. NOTICE THE PLAINTIFF HAS ELECTED FORECLOSURE WITHOUT REDEMPTION. THIS MEANS THAT THE SALE OF THE MORTGAGED PROPERTY WILL OCCUR PROMPTLY AFTER ENTRY OF JUDGMENT UNLESS YOU FILE WITH THE COURT A WRITTEN DEMAND TO DELAY THE SALE.

IF YOU FILE A WRITTEN DEMAND, THE SALE WILL BE DELAYED UNTIL SIX MONTHS FROM ENTRY OF JUDGMENT IF THE MORTGAGED PROPERTY IS YOUR RESIDENCE AND IS A ONE-FAMILY OR TWO-FAMILY DWELLING OR UNTIL TWO MONTHS FROM ENTRY OF JUDGMENT IF THE MORTGAGED PROPERTY IS NOT YOUR RESIDENCE OR IS YOUR RESIDENCE BUT NOT A ONE-FAMILY OR TWO-FAMILY DWELLING. YOU WILL HAVE NO RIGHT OF REDEMPTION AFTER THE SALE. THE PURCHASER AT THE SALE WILL BE ENTITLED TO IMMEDIATE POSSESSIONOF THE MORTGAGED PROPERTY. YOU MAY PURCHASE AT THE SALE. IF YOU DO NOT FILE A WRITTEN DEMAND TO DELAY THE SALE AND IF THE MORTGAGED PROPERTY IS YOUR RESIDENCE AND IS A ONE-FAMI LY OR TWO-FAMILY DWELLING, THEN A DEFICIENCY JUDGMENT WILL NOT BE ENTERED AGAINST YOU.

IF YOU DO FILE A WRITTEN DEMAND TO DELAY THE SALE, THEN A DEFICIENCY JUDGMENT MAY BE ENTERED AGAINST YOU IF THE PROCEEDS FROM THE SALE OF THE MORTGAGED PROPERTY ARE INSUFFICIENTTO SATISFY "That a little boy, in his mother's housecoat, survived the Storm Troopers. That Lothar Befelde navigated a path between the two most repressive regimes the Western World has ever known." If the play has a fault, it's this too-easy dismissal of von Mahlsdorf 's shortcomings. The play shines a spotlight on the allegations against her in the second act, in fact, a single file of documents replaces the collection of antiques displayed onstage. But it leans a little too far in her favor. It's too bad the show doesn't leave more room for viewers to reach their own conclusions.

Still, the script didn't win a Pulitzer Prize and Tony Award for nothing, and StageWest's production gives it the thoughtful attention it deserves. Snippets of a Strauss waltz or the sounds of World War II bombs, combined with changing images on a pair of cleverly designed wall hangings, help the story's flashbacks come to life. When von Mahlsdorf plays a tune on an antique record player, she recounts how Thomas Edison invented the gadget nearly a century before. As the tinny melody envelopes the room, she demonstrates the grooved cylinder and pins of the gizmo's inner mechanism. With the same fascination, "I Am My Own Wife" describes what makes von Mahlsdorf tick, unlocking the secrets of how she found a way to express herself in spite of nearly impossible odds.

Although the story's particulars may seem unusual, it's ultimately about finding a way to fulfill the very basic, very human need to live life on one's own terms. And necessity, after all, is the mother (or dress-wearing father) of invention. Reporter Michael Morain can be reached at (515) 286-2559 or mmoralndmreg.com EXOTIC DANCERS i miiii mini The Har.t thru TlurM-iy 4 30. 7 05. 9 30 Mas Patter PG Mornay thru 5 30.

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