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fm WfWWH wwf 1 'f fSlity fy rmwmp-xvrw'w' Ann Landers The Salt Lake Tribune, Monday, September 5. 1177 I I ome relationships dont go very deep to your renders Not Allowed To Yell Back Dear Not; 1 can't think of a word to say youve said them nil And very nicely, too. Dear Ann: 1 bought my fiance two shirts for his birthday and embroidered his initials on the pocket. (The shirts are white for dress The uutials, dark blue.) When he saw the initials le said, "What did you do THAT for?" Then he took a razor blade and cut the initials off I felt hurt. Are initials on shirts in good taste or not? Needled Dear In my opinion, iiutials on a man's shirt are elegant if they dont bolt you in the eye A quarter of an un high on the pocket is a nice touch Do you feel awkward, setf-consoons lonely? Welcome to the club.

There's help tor you in Ann Landers' booklet, "The Key to Popularity." Send 50 cents In coin with your request and a lonq, stamped, self-addressed envelope to Ann Landers, care of Home Service The Sad Lake Tribune, Box 867, Salt Lake City, Utah, 84110. telephone company. There is one day every month that is pure hell for me and the women I work with. Maybe if I tell you about it, I will feel better. Hell Day is when we have to disconnect Uie phones of people who dont pay their bills.

We get cussed out, called every dirty name in the book as if its our fault thit these people make long-distance calls they cant afford, or have more phonos in the house than their budget can cover. Why dont they understand that the phone company doesn't enjoy disconnecting their service? The cray pait is that most of the people whose service is Interrupted show up immediately and pay their bill. Why couldn't they have come down and paid a day earlier and saved a lot of unpleasantness' I have a friend who works for the gas and electric company and they have the same problem over there Please, Ann, say a word that sexy. Neither is he. And were not all that much In love never were.

Its simply that hes a pig a greedy child who cant get enough of whatever is available. Theres not a nightgown or a motel in the world that would turn me on, but a Total Man might. Jill Who Is 42 And Still Counting Dear Jill: As long as youre "Still Counting" take note of the fact that you married Jack when you were 17 years old. At that age, sex had to be the major attraction and obviously your relationship never developed into anything deeper or more meaningful. After 25 years with the pig, you think maybe a Total Man might turn you on? Thats not much of a marriage youve got there, lady, but you know it better than I.

My sympathies to you both. Dear Ann Landers: I work for the Dear Ann Landers: I didnt care for your non-answer to the man who must have had a computer under his pillow. He complained because he wasn't getting enough and had it figured down to the decimal point. Your hackneyed, short-sighted suggestion something about a new nightgown or a change in scenery for the night (a motel?) was a bomb. By my calcula- Ann Landers tions, in the 25 years we've been married, my husband and I have had sox approximately 10,000 times.

I can say I honestly enjoyed it about 1,500 times We now average four times a week and still he whines, Its not enough." WHY? I'm not Weddings I (inloii-I)iturliit I't -'W'r j.lv L.A. mayor views four years Brenda Danner.bcrg and 'ohn R. Payne were married Saturday in the First Congregational Church. A 5 i dff jf a -1 Sg i A reception was given at the home of the bridegrooms parents. Tampico was setting for a rehearsal dinner I -Jf 'v- --j- Cyntiua Gordon and Mark Disorbio were married Sunday at the Snowbird Center.

A reception was given at Snowbird Plaza. Log Haven was setting for a family brunch. The bride, a daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Roliert Gordon, Salt Lake City, attends the University of Utah where she affiliates with Pi Beta Phi, Mortar Board, Phi Kappa Phi and Kappa Alpha Tau.

The bridegroom, a son of Mr. and Mrs. Mike Disorbio, Salt Lake City, received a B.A. degree from Westminster College and an M.A. degree in psychology from Chico State University, Chico, Calif.

The bride, a daughter of Mr and Mrs. Raymond Dannen-berg. Salt Lake City, graduated from the Lutheran Bible Institute, Seattle, Wash. The bridegroom, a son of Mr. and Mrs.

David If. Payne, Salt Lake City, is a music composition major at the University of Utah. a ISO degree turn in national policy toward the cities, said the mayor in a recent interview. We know everything can't be done in six months, but Im confident that we'll see progress. Busing Issue There is one developing problem for which Bradley can expect no solutions from Carter the explosive issue of busing.

The lxts Angeles school board will be debating an integration plan this spring in the middle of the mayoral campaign. Robbins, an implacable busing foe, believes the issue will hurt Bradley "because people are going to ask where the mayor has been. "Ironically, Tom Bradley could have done that (found alternatives to busing) more easily than almost any other mayor because hes black, Robbms concluded. If he had, no one could have accused him of being a racist. Busing is even more of an issue in Los Angeles than in other cities because of the great distances that children would be moved to achieve integration.

A student from the predominantly white San Fernando Valley would have to travel roughly 20 miles, crossing the Santa Monica Mountains on the way, to reach the black and brown sections of south-central L.A. Bradley insists that he strongly opposes any massive crosstown busing, and expresses confidence that the plan ultimately adopted will not cause widespread dissatisfaction The mayor appears concerned about the possibility of racial divisiveness in the campaign. Ive spent my whole public career trying to bring people together, trying to develop harmony, he says. The downtown redevelopment plan does seem to be Bradley's greatest problem as he begins the campaign Although large sections of the downtown area are seriously decayed, most Angelenos, having no contact with the central business district, are indifferent, if not hostile, to the mayor's ambitious rejuvenation proposal Its simple, said one prominent Bradley supporter. Most people who live in this city never see downtown.

They work somewhere else and they live somewhere ese. What do they care if the whole area tails apart? Perennial Conflict This perennial conflict between downtown and the neighborhoods more pronounced in Los Angeles than in any other major U.S. city has complicated another issue, the question of a mass-transit system to serve at least parts of the metropolitan area. There now is virtually no rapid-rail transit for the 7 million inhabitants of Southern California. The busy system, in those areas where it exists at all, is woefully inadequate.

In his 1973 campaign, Bradley pledged to change all that if elected. But four years later, a genuine mass-transit system seems further away than ever. The mayors aides are quick to point out justifiably that the voters last year rejected a bond issue that would have financed a pilot rapid-rail system. Bradley himself believes his city will be able to make significant progress on transportation and other urban problems now that there is a Democratic administration in Washington. 1 think Jimmy Carters election means Lets get a bit more light on the subject! By Michael Coakley Chicago Tribune Writer LOS ANGELES it has been nearly four years since Tom Bradley, the son of Texas sharecroppers, became the first black elected mayor of the nations third largest city.

It was a bitter campaign, with the rightist incumbent, Sam Yorty, constantly raising the racial issue in an attempt to diffuse the broad coalition that was building around Bradleys campaign. Bradley's landslide victory was attributed to his ability to keep that coalition intact, particulary the large Jewish vote on Los Angeles sprawling west side. The 59-year-old mayor must run for re-election in April and again is counting on a diverse cross-section of voters to keep him in City Hall. Most neutral observers, impressed by Bradleys popularity ratings, which continue to hover at a phenomenal 80 per cent, rate him as a lopsided favorite. Confounded Experts Because the black population is under 20 per cent, Bradleys rise to political eminence in Los Angeles confounded the experts, both in 1969, when he nearly upset Yorty in his first run for mayor, and again four years later, when he won with ease.

But once in office, Brdley devoted considerable energy to wooing the citys white middle-class, which had viewed him with suspicion so much so that leaders in the black ghetto of Watts have grumbled that the mayor occasionally tends to forget his origins. A track star in college, Bradley spent 20 years on the Los Angeles Police Department before retiring as a lieutanant to run for a City Council seat in 1963. He won, in a district barely one-third black, thus establishing his political knack of overcoming the color barrier. Los Angeles encompasses an enormous area extending nearly 50 miles from north of the San Fernando Valley to the tip of San Pedro Bay. Most of the city is not really city at all but a seemingly endless string of suburban communities with little affinity for downtown or its ornate City Hall.

Recognizing this sense of isolation, Bradley established branches of the mayors office in the valley and in San Pedro. These offices have helped to blunt a major charge by Bradleys critics that he ignores the neighborhoods in favor of costly downtown redevelopment. Major Opponent The mayors only major opponent in the nonpartisan April election is Alan Robbins, 33, a conservative state senator from the valley. He has accused Bradley of being the creature of downtown businessman who, he says, want millions of dollars spent on upgrading the area while ignoring the needs of outlying communities. Hi, I'm Reddy Kilowatt, your friend at Utah Power.

This column Is devoted to questions and suggestions we receive from our customers. You are warmly Invited to participate. Questions and suggestions regarding electricity, your electric service or energy conservation are welcome. Los Angeles Mayor Tom Bradley is son of Texas sharecroppers, still popular. Natural holiday decorating Use sugar-starch mix to make doilies crisp Defrosting saves By Heloise Dear Heloise: Could you tell me how to make sugar-starch? I have a crocheted doily with a stand-up showed in housewares designs.

One line uses authentic shells and pieces of shells for serving trays and napkin rings. One manufacturer showed serving dishes in dear molded glass shell designs. A Torrance, manufacturer showed a lucite, stainless steel and chrome cheese mill designed like a pepper mill. Other novelties included a hand-painted flowerpot to be used for baking and polyester-filled cotton doll replicas of Russian peasants, trapeze artists and Trade Mart, the World Trade Center and Market Hall. Decorations and decorative accessories, toys and housewares in earth tones, nature shapes and with natural ingredients were popular with retail store buyers shopping for holiday merchandise.

Christmas elves designed for hanging or standing were made of wood, dressed in caps and scarves or wielding wooden spoons and spatulas. Marine influence DALLAS (UPD Decorations that look good enough to eat may hang from Christmas trees this year. Miniature radishes, onions and strawberries made from polyester were among the natural design themes at this summers Christmas gift, jewelry and house-wares show at the Dallas Market Center. They are made of cotton fabnes and dotted swiss in traditional red, white and green colors. Natural colors, designs and themes were more in evidence this year than at previous shows at the would hold up for several weeks.

I want to use my doily again, but dont know how to make the sugar-slareh. Bernice Dismuke Dear Bernice: Okay, sugar, Ill tell you what to do: Put one-fourth cup of water and three-fourths cup sugar in a small pan. Over low heat, stir until this solution is clear and not sugary, making sure it does not come to the boiling point. Dip crocheted piece in warm water first and then roll in a bath towel to remove as much water as possible. Dip crocheted piece in sugar-starch and stretch to desired shape.

Pat with cloth to remove excess moisture and let dry thoroughly. May this help all you other ladies who have those beautiful crochet pieces and want them to look elegant. I love you all! Heloise Dear Heloise: Here is a great hint 1 learned from my mother. Place a wet dish cloth under bowls or bread boards when slicing or mixing. Bowl or board wont slip.

Mrs. F. Lepper SAVE HUNDREDS OF DOLLARS TODAY -THE BOSS SEZ- SELL SOMETHING WHILE IM GONE SO HERE ARE SOME SURER SOFA BARGAINS gnk Is there any harm In allowing tiwta frost to accumulate in my refrigerators freezer compartment? A Yes. Frost buildup of more than 14 Inch makes the cooling unit work harder and use more electricity. Defrost conventional refrigerators twice a month and freezers at least annually.

Clean the condenser coils (located at the bottom or back of the refrigerator or freezer) at least twice a year, using the nozzle attachment of your vacuum cleaner. Dust which accumulates on the condenser coils forces the cooling unit to operate longer to maintain the proper tempercture setting. Self defrosting models should not build up frost; if yours does, it should be inspected by the repair service of your appliance dealer or the manufacturer. Insfant'On TVs Is It true that instant-on television sets use more electricity? Yes. Instant-on television sets im use a small amount of electric cunenf even when the set Is turned off.

One way to eliminate tnis waste is to plug the set Into an outlet controlled by a wall switch. Another alternative is to install an additional on-off switch on the set itself or in the cord to the outlet; some instant-on sets have a built in switch usually labeled vacation which turns off the instant-on fealure. When the set is on, however, it uses no more energy than other sets of the same size and type. Transistorized (solid state) sets use less energy than sets with vacuum tubes. Address your questions or suggestions to Reddy Kilowatt.

P.O. Box 89, Salt Lake City, Utah Due to space limitations, all questions and suggestions cannot be printed In this column, but each will be answered. 1E0 meeting The Salt Lake Area PEO Reciprocity will meet Thursday at 7 p.m. at the Wasatch Presbyterian Church for a meeting and coffee. Chapter is hostess chapter.

Mrs. W. A. Simpson is taking reservations. Mix them Mix fresh or frozen whole strawberries with a little brown sugar and cinnamon then combine with drained, chilled canned cling peach slices.

An easy dessert with refreshing zip! Heloise ruffle. My neighbor made it for me about 35 years ago. She starched it with sugar-starch, laid it flat on a table, stretched the ruffle points up and around soft drink bottles (one inside the doily and one outside). The ruffle stuck to the sides of the bottles. When dry, she removed the bottles and the ruffles stood perfectly.

They Catholic league plan lunch The first event of the new club year for the Catholic Womans League is slated Tuesday at 12.30 pm. at Holy Cross Hospital, Moreau Hall. The Most Rev. Bishop Joseph L. Federal will be honored guest.

Mrs. Dominic Welch is chairman of the finger food buffet. Mrs. John J. Hedder-man, president, will preside.

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