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Ann Landers Snoring Is Not Causing Problem Dear Ann Landers: I am ting sick and tired of reading letters from wives complaining about their. husbands' snoring. My husband snores loud, long and every night. So what? He is one of the best human beings the good Lord ever put on this earth. When the snoring starts and my sleep is interrupted, I lie quietly and watch him get his badly needed rest.

When I read that some women tie their husbands' jaws shut with silk stockings and stramp bicycle horns to their heads, I I get so mad I could scream. Every night I thank God that this wonderful man is in OUR bed snoring. We have been married 10 years and hope the good Lord more. -CONTENTED Dear Con: What a lovely letter! But while you're askingask for 40 more, not 10, dummy! Dear Ann Landers: Two years ago I wrote for You said, "See a psychiatrist." took your advice and it was the most difficult thing I've ever done in my life. But it was the smartest.

I can't understand why a person would be ashamed to admit he has a "problem he can't handle. Does a patient have to be dying before he goes to a doctor? Why then should he wait till he's ready for a straitjacket he sees a psychiatrist? Please, Ann, continue to urge your readers to stop wasting their especially the doors to mind and young. Psychiatry, can open contentment. It can conquer and guilt and self hate. It can also overcome physical complaints and fatigue and depression.

I am very poor at expressing myself but I wanted to try. Thanks for reading this. -NANCY Dear Nancy: I shall continue to urge people to get professional help, although I am well aware that not all patients obtain the glowing results you describe. And if you were able to achieve the miracle with your original therapist you are fortunate. Therapy can be magic for some and Nothingsville for others.

I recommend professional help for individuals who are depressed, destructive, or in continual conflict with themselves, and others. Therapy that produces even modest beats walking around frightened, guilty, mad at the world and plagued by "undiagnosed" aches and pains. Dear Ann Landers: I am a homosexual who has had psychiatric help and I'm as well adjusted as I will ever be. A few weeks ago I was turned down for military service. I told the truth and presented medical documentation.

Now people are beginning to ask why I have not been up by my draft board. I've been saying, "I have a bad back," but I'm poor liar. It shows on my face. What should I say? -STUCK FOR AN ANSWER Dear Stuck: Tell them the truth. Nobody will believe it.

If a few clods persist in pressing for an answer, say, "Seriously, I've tried but they don't want me." Poughkeepsie Journal Photo POUGHKEEPSIE DAY NURSERY ASSOCIATION Annual "Jelly Tea" will take place at the home of Mrs. L. H. La- Motte III, left, 40 Loockerman o'clock. Mrs.

Robert Thorpe, ments. Presiding at the tea Mrs. Herbert Roig, Mrs. Thomas Hoe. Mrs.

John Finlay, will be and guests contribute jelly to the year and a toy to be given mas party at the nursery. on Thursday from 2 to 4 right, is chairman of arrangetable will be Mrs. John Kuhn, Haufe, and Mrs. Robert, hostess at door. Members be used at the nursery during to the children at the Christ- Miss Benjinsohn Is Wed To David Joel Levine Congregation Schomre was the scene at 1:30 o'clock on Sunday of the marriage of Miss Judith Nan Benjinshon to David Joel Levine.

Rabbi Nahum M. Benathen officiated. The bride is the daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Abner H.

Benjinsohn, 78 Worrall and the bridegroom is the son of Mr. William Levine, 33 S. Clinton and the late Mrs. Pearl Levine, Given in marriage by her father, the bride was attended by Miss Arlene J. Carroll, Poughkeepsie.

Michael J. Wrobel, Poughkeepsie, served as best -man. William R. Aldrich, Poughkeepsie, brother-in-law of the bride, Charles Urbano, Poughkeepsie, Ronald Evangel-, ista Wappingers Falls, ushered. After a reception at Congregation Schomre Israel, the couple departed on a wedding trip to St.

Thomas, V.I. They will reside at 33 South Clinton St. A 1965 graduate of Poughkeepsie High, School, the bride formerly was employed as a stenographer at Central Hudson Gas and Electric Corp. The bridegroom was graduated from Poughkeepsie High School in 1962. He attended St.

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ROBERT MALONEY Miss Anna Carmella Montanaro and Robert Edward Maloney were married at 11 o'clock on Saturday in Our Lady of Pompei Church, Syracuse. The Rev. James Snyder; O.F.M., of Siena College, Albany, officiated, assisted by the Rt. Rev. Msgr.

William Walsh, pastor of Our Lady of Pompel Church. The bride is the daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Frank J. Montanaro, Liverpool, and the bridegroom's parents are Mr.

and Mrs. Robert J. Maloney, 54 Corlies Ave. Given in marriage by her father, the bride was attended by Mrs. Ann Carol Speziale, Schroon Lake, her cousin, as matron of honor and Miss Anna Toscano, Liverpool, another cousin, as maid of honor.

Other attendants were the Misses Marilyn Nye, Cortland, Jo Easterly, Johnstown, Ceil Roe, Rye, Peggy Montanaro and Betty Montanaro, both of Phoenix and cousins of the bride, Barbara Myers, Chappaqua, and Mary Ann Montanaro, Liverpool, a cousin of the bride. Rose Montanaro, Liverpool, a sister of the bride, was flower girl. Michael J. Maloney, Poughkeepsie, served as best man his brother. Ushering were, Richard R.

Blasi, Long Island, John R. Metzger, Constantia, J. Chris Newtown, Massena, Andrew N. Montanaro, Liverpool, a brother of the bride, Bruce Cook, Long Island, Edward Coleman, Poughkeepsie, Allen Lanoue, Cohoes, and Arthur D. Kneringer, Lodi, N.J., cousin of the bridegroom.

A dinner reception took place at LeMoyne Manor, Liverpool, from 1 to 5 o'clock. After wedding trip to the Grand Bahama Islands, the couple will reside at 562 West End New York City. The bride is a graduate of Convent High School in Syracuse and attended Cazenovia College. Marine She was Trust employed by Midland Co. in Syracuse and will continue to work in a New York City branch.

A graduate of Poughkeepsie High received School, the bridegroom his bachelor of science degree from Siena College, Albany. He was president of Big Brothers for three years, president of Rod and Gun Club, and director of Green Circle Society, He is employed by Marine Midland Grace Trust Co. of New York City and is in management training. Civil Liberties Panel Slated Mid-Hudson Chapter of the New York Civil Liberties Union will sponsor a panel, discussion on "Riots and Civil at 8 p.m. Wednesday at the Unitarian Fellowship, 67 S.

Randolph St. Speakers will be Neil Fabricant, a former Queens County assistant district attorney and now legislative director for N.Y.C.L.U., Sheriff Lawrence M. Quinlan, and Merwyn Reaves, vice chairman of the United Black Council. Gayhead School Program Listed GAYHEAD -Investigator Gil Olson of the State Police and First Assistant District Attorney Albert M. Rosenblatt will speak at Gayhead Elementary School at 7 p.m.

Wednesday. They will show a film and answer questions about law enforcement procedures, in the Dutchess County area. GAYLE-LOUIS Studio of Custom Color Photography Main St. 454-6755. 'Famous Person' Party Planned Area Council The Mid-Hudson Council of National Sorority Women is planning a "Come As A Famous Person Party" for area national college sorority alumnae and their husbands.

It will take place at 8:30 o'clock on Saturday at the home of Mr. and Mrs. Jack Barnard, Fox Hill Road, Wappingers Falls. Mrs. Newton Ruffing is in charge of reservations, Mrs.

Daniel Perry is the chairman of the decorations committee, and Mrs. Harold Griffith is in charge of invitations. A luncheon meeting will be I conducted on Nov. 9 at the Holiday Inn. Mrs.

Jack Lawrence is in charge of this event and the election of officers for the coming year will take place at this meeting. MRS. KENNETH BRIGGS AAUW Board Named For Year Mrs. Kenneth R. Briggs, President of the Poughkeepsie Branch, American Association of University Women, has made known the board members for the 1968-69 season.

They are: Mrs. Arthur Macmahon, first vice president; Mrs. Frederick Attanasio, second vice ident; Mrs. Samuel treasurer; Miss Monica Gosse and Mrs. Gregg Hiatt, assistant treasurers; Mrs.

L. Wallace Cross, recording secretary; corresponding secretary, 'Mrs. Connor Haugh. The area representatives are: Mrs. Bruce Bevan, cultural interests; Miss Mary Solemita, education; Mrs.

Eugene Con- roy, community problems; and Mrs. Victor Morris, world probems. chairmen The implementation are: Mrs. Joseph Christ, politics and public education; Mrs. Monroe Weinstein, growing gap between rich and poor nations; Mrs.

Richard Fein, testing values in a changing society; Mrs. Richard Pierce, Society's reflection in the arts, and legislation, Mrs. Harold Behr. Other board members include: Mrs. Harry Greer, arts council; Mrs.

Glenn George, budget; Mrs. John Smith, community ambassador; Mrs. Irvling Dreishpoon, American field service; Mrs. Robert MacGuinness, fellowship scholarship; Mrs. George Luse, Branch editor; Mrs.

Richard Pierce, Branch co-editor; Mrs. William Stepanek, book fair; Mrs. William Heyden, hospitality; Mrs. Philip Fisher, hospitality cochairman; Martin Marcus, directory; Mrs. Bryan Lott, recMrs.

William Harrel, name tag Arthur Hayes, publicity; Mrs. Arthur Gellert, teacher graduate study award; Mrs. Roger Segalla and Mrs. William Clark, Mid-Hudson area conference chairmen; Mrs. Reginald Burch, study group coordinator; and 1 Mrs.

Charles Carlson, study for action project chairman. Modern Etiquette Q. May you always send flowers to the funeral home as tribute to a deceased friend, or are there times when you must send a contribution to charity instead? A. Depends. If the death notice in the newspaper asks specifically that flowers omitted, you should respect this wish.

'And usually in this case, the notice states that in lieu of flowers contributions be sent to (such-and-such church or charlity. Q. Is it acceptable now to type' notes of condolence, signing them of course by hand? most social' correspondence may be typed, it still is considered in better taste and more indicative of sincere sympathy to write letters of condolence by hand. Q. Is there any polite way to rinse your fingers at the dinner table when there is no finger bowl provided? A.

Yes by tipping the water glass against a corner of your napkin, then wiping your fingers on this damp corner. Q. How soon after the receipt of a invitation should one send one's gift to the bride? A. Any time that is con venient, but usually as soon as possible after receiving the invitation. King- -Wetzler Are Married Studio-Ten MRS.

WILLIAM KING Miss Linda Sue Wetzler and William Lawrence King, Albany, were married at 2 o'clock on Saturday in the Church of the Messiah, Rhinebeck. The Rev. Leslie F. Prutton officiated. The bride is the daughter of Mr.

and Mrs. James H. Wetzler, 17 Manor Road, Rhinebeck, and the bridegroom's parents are Mr. and Mrs. William C.

King, Matamoras, Pa. Given in marriage by her father, the bride was attended by Mrs. Mary Ellen Carswell of Latham, as matron of honor. Other attendants were Mrs. Diane Walters, Kingston, Miss Beverly Samaha, Red Hook, Mary Lou Asher, Rhinebeck.

The bride's niece, Miss Pamela Smith of Hyde Park, was flower girl. Keith Peters, Matamoras, was best man. Ushering were James King, Hudson Falls, Tommy King, Matamoras, and Richard White, Schenectady. Scott and Todd Smith, nephews of the bride were ring bearers. There was 'a reception at the Kitchen Restaurant, Hyde Park, immediately following the ceremony.

After a wedding trip to Freeport, the Grand Bahama Islands, the couple will reside at 30 S. Main Albany. A graduate of Rhinebeck Central School, the bride is an alumna of Albany Business College. She currently is employed as a secretary by York State Thruway Authority, Albany. The bridegroom is an alumnus of Delaware Valley High School and also was graduated from Albany Business College where he was a member of Delta Nu Omega Fraternity.

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After a reception at the Poughkeepsie Tennis Club, the couple departed on a wedding trip to New York City. They will reside at New Road. A 1965 graduate of Roy C. Ketcham High School, the bride is employed as a secretary at the National Grange Mutual Insurance Company. The bridegroom was graduated from Our Lady of Lourdes High School in 1963 and is a 1967 alumnus of LaSalle College, where he' received a bachelor of arts degree.

He is St. Mary's Church, Wappingers Falls, was the scene at 2 o'clock on Oct. 12 of the marriage of Miss Patricia Ann Ortolano and Thomas W. Tompkins. The Rev.

Karl Bauer officiated. The bride is the daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Pasquale J. Ortolano 12 Monitor Road, and the bridegroom's parents are Mr.

and Mrs. Gilbert M. Tompkins, MacFarlane Road, Wappingers Falls. Given in marriage by her father, the bride was attended by her sister, Miss Tonia Ann Ortolano of Poughkeepsie, maid of honor. Bridesmaids were the Misses Nancy vone of Poughkeepsie, Jolyn Abbate of Highland and the bridegroom's sister, Miss Cynthia Tompkins of Wappingers Falls.

Miss Maureen McAllister Poughkeepsie was junior bridesmaid. Richard Costa, Wappingers Falls, was best man. Usherng were John Halpin, Boston, Edward Douglas, Poughkeepsie employed as an executive trainee for Barclay Knitwear Company, Port Ewen. Anne Adams Patterns 4993 SIZES. This shirt-look skimmer is a JOY for busy people- Just step into it, and look fresh, feel free all day long.

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9. Mrs. Lloyd Kest, Mrs. William Updegraff, and Mrs. S.

Robert Watsky are in charge of arrangements for the luncheon. MRS. JACOB MACKEY Fur Show Models Listed Mrs. Daniel Colangelo has made known additional committee chairmen and models for the St. Francis Hospital Chrysanthemum Bridge and Fur Show at 7:30 o'clock on Oct.

at Holiday Inn, Fishkill. Mrs. Jacob T. Mackey is in charge of tickets and table reservations and Mrs. Thomas Spellman, co-chairman.

Mrs. Robert Zirkel is chairman of models who are Mrs. Clarence V. Costello, Mrs. John Deyo, Mrs.

Allan Rappleyea, Mrs. William Eidle, Mrs. Henry Pletcher, Mrs. Joseph Butler, Mrs. John Gartland, and Mrs.

Lester Parker. Other committee chairmen are Mrs. Henry Pletcher, grand prize, Mrs. Charles Springer with Mrs. Edward J.

Coleman, co-chairmen, door prizes, Mrs. Ralph Tortorella assisted by Mrs. Maurice Starpoli, prizes, and Mrs. Henry Healy, with Mrs. James Pallazza, cochairman, hostesses- Debate Slated In Schultzville CLINTON CORNERS -Julius Rubano, Democratic candidate for Town of Clinton supervisor, says that the Republican incumbent.

Leonard Kinney, has agreed to a public debate Nov. 1. The two candidates will discuss issues which have developed in the debate to be conducted at the Town Hall in Schultzville. at 8 p.m. Rubano said to his knowledge, the exchange will be the town's first outside of organization sponsored sessions.

French Director Changes Mind LONDON (AP) French director Jean Luc Goddard, scheduled to lecture before 500 British fans Sunday, did not show up but sent a telegram. "If I am not there," the message read, "take anyone in the street, the poorest if possible, give him my 100 pounds (lecture fee) and talk with him of images and sound and you will learn from -him much more than from me because it is the poor people who are really inventing the language." The fans, who had waited five hours, were given a choice of their money back or seeing a Goddard film. Chicago Eggs usually are graded in six sizes: jumbo, extra large, large, medium, small and peewee. Edwards-Odessky Rites Solemnized In Minneapolis MRS. JOSEPH EDWARDS Judith Rae Odessky and Joseph H.

Edwards, Minneapolis, were married at o'clock on Sunday at Adath (Jeshurun Synagogue, Minneapolis, Minn. Rabbi Kassel Abelson assisted by Cantor David Silverman. The bride is the daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Abe Odessky, Minneapolis, and the bridegroom's parents are Mr.

and Mrs. Raymond Edwards, 11 Helen Drive, Wappingers Falls. Given in marriage by her father, the bride was attended by Miss Marlene Bromberg, Minneapolis, as maid of honor. Miss Wilma Edwards, Wappingers Falls, a sister of the bridegroom, was a bridesmaid. Arnold Odessky, Minneapolis, a brother of the bride, served as best man.

Charles Edwards, Wappingers Falls, a brother of the bridegroom, ushered. A dinner was served in the synagogue's reception hall after the ceremony. After a wedding trip to Duluth, the couple will reside at 400 6th S. Minneapolis, Minn. The bride is a graduate of North High School, Minneapolis, and is attending the Uni.

versity of Minnesota. She is employed by the physiology department at the university. A graduate of Pine Plains Central School in 1961, the bridegroom received an associate in applied science degree from Dutchess Community College in 1964 and a bachelor of civil engineering degree from the University of Minnesota in 1967. He is a member of the American Water Works Association and the Water Pollution Control Federation. He currently is a graduate student in sanitary engineering at the university and is a student enginthe Minneapolis-St.

Paul Sanitary District. Valley Grange Meets Tuesday Pleasant Valley Grange will meet Tuesday with master, Mrs. Elmer 'McConaghy presiding. Meeting will start promptly at 8 o'clock. strate how the many types of drugs are used and Rosenblatt will discuss law and education.

The public is invited to of Obed Lodge, Free and Accepted Masons, the American Federation of Musicians, and St. Bonaventure University Alumni Association. Mr. Levine manages the Grand UnionGrandway Restaurant in Closter, N.J. Chevalier Ends Stage Career PARIS (AP) Maurice Chevalier bowed out of his 68-yearlong stage career Sunday with a rousing performance at the Theatre des Champs-Elysee.

A capacity audience was on hand as the 80-year-old showman, attired. in tuxedo and straw hat, sang and danced. He showed he can keep up to date, too. He pantomimed such moderns as Sammy Davis Jr. and donned a Beatle wig for a pop number, complete with hip movement.

He received an ovation at the end of his performance. In -his dressing room later, Chevalier said, "I couldn't go on doing it. first class for very much longer. Now is the time to quit, when everyone is asking for me." Parade Planned In- Hyde Park HYDE PARK -Amercian Legion Post 1303 will sponsor a Halloween Parade Oct. 31, Prizes will be awarded by age groups and refreshments will be served to the entrants.

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