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POUGHKEEPSIE NEW FRIDAY. JULY 19, 1946 Dorothy Dix DEAR MISS DIX: Why must fellow be a regular movie setor get along with a girl? I. have a girl and I. love very much, but what gets me is that every time I take her out or even call on her I have to kiss her and tell her over and over again how much I love her. I figure that a girl like this would be poor prospect as a wife because when guy came home from work he would have to put in considerable time necking before he got his supper.

Frankly, I don't like all of this mush. I want a wite who will be a regular pal to whom I can tell all of my troubles. WONDERING ANSWER: Well, son, you are wise youth to settle this delicate point before you are married, for thereby you can save yourself much trouble and prevent floods of tears on the wife's part. I am with you in thinking that it would be a wearing thing to be married to a woman who would always expect a man, no matter how tired and busy and hungry he was, to tell her how beautiful and wonderful she was, and how he adored her. Time and Place For It Soft talk is all right, but it has its own particular times and places and it cannot always be kept on taip.

No man, no matter how much he cares for a woman, is always in a romantio mood, and woman is a fool who hasn't enough sense to know this. So as long as you are not Inclined to be an ardent lover, I think you will do well to pass up your sentimental sweetheart for a girl who will let you say it with beefsteaks, and who will not be required to tell her that you love her as long as you are good to her. DEAR DOROTHY DIX: have been married for 12 years. Have two daughters, and 10 years old. Through the years my husband has given me every luxury and has been good to me.

We have never, really loved each other. He married me because his sweetheart had jilted him and I married him because I knew he had money and could give me 1 life to ease. I have never put myself out to make him comfortable happy, feeling that his love for the children would bind him to me. However, he now tells me that he has fallen deeply in love with another woman and he begs me to give him his freedom. He says he support me and educate our children, but I have made up my mind not to give him up.

I have no love for him, but I want my luxuries. I didn't force him to marry the, so why should I free him now? MRS. A. S. ANSWER: No reason at all; unless you have a sense of honor and decency and some human compassion in your soul.

If you have, I don't see how you can hesitate, under the circumstances, about giving your husband his freedom, and the right to marry the woman he loves. can understand how a woman who loves her husband will cling to him with death grasp. even though she knows that he has ceased to care for her: but I cannot understand how the woman who merely regards her husband as a meal ticket cate be mean and little enough to stand in the way of his happiness when he is willing to pay, out good money for his ransom from her. The obligations of matrimony are reciprocal. You have defaulted on all of yours.

You have never given your husband love, or tenderness, or consideration. You have never thought of his pleasure or comfort. What do you think that a man owes to that kind of wife? Absolutely nothing. So have a heart and let your husband go. He has agreed to support you and his children, so why not be good sport about it and let him have his happiness? DEAR DOROTHY DIX: Will you please advise me about choosing vocation? I hate commercial work.

What do you think about nursing a profession? RUTH G. ANSWER: Don't take up any work for which you have not a natural liking and aptitude. We are only successful when we do the kind of work that appeals to us of itself and in which we find a never-failing interest. Nursing is a fine and noble professon for a girl to follow. It pays not only well in money, but.

in the satisfaction of knowing that one is doing something for the good of humanity. (Released by The Bell Syndicate, Inc.) Alicia Hart Innovations in sunglass design arriving in time for a gal to have more tun at match-making coax more nattery for her face are curving temple pleces bedecked with miniature plastic fish or Cowers. Among the first to see the fashton possibilities in making matches between thEsE carnival sunglass frames and play duds were topnight models. Sandy Carlson, for one, wears frames sporting tiny colored fish which repeat the print motif of her play suit. Other models make a match between plastic flowers that bloom on these new -trick frames and the fresh posies they wear in their hair.

New temple pieces, curving like question marks, wrought of colorful plastic, give a girl.a pixie look. 1,259 Servicemen Due at New York One transport: the Newbern Victors, docking at New York with 1,259 troops. is the only troop ship scheduled to arrive in the United States today. The vessel is en route from Le Havre. (By the Associated Press) The son of Sir Arthur Conan Doyle has turned out to be a writer.

too, and has penned pamphlet in defense of his late father. Dublin Adrian, the son of Sher- that Jock Holmes creator, complains many of those who have written about Doyle senior did not know him personally and so got some of his qualities and defects out of An per- inspective, The book also has the Irish teresting genealogy of familles of Conan and Doyle. DOYLE JUNION WRITES PERSONAL MENTION Walter Lloyd, Manchester road, underwent an operation Wednesday at the Albany City hospital: James W. stationed at the Brooklyn Naval hospital, where he will continue his study in pharmacy, will arrive here tomorrow for a visit. He received his training in Camp Perry, and recently was graduated from school in Bainbridge, Md.

Mr. and Mrs. Eugene Purdy and son, Robert, 23 Carroll street, have returned to their home after a vacation at Indian Lake in the dacks. Mra: Stephen Jacewiz, Newark, N. a weekend guest at the Riley home.

was Fulton street, Wappingers Falls. She formerly resided in New York and Florida. Richard Hartung, 43 North Clinton street, underwent an appendectomy yesterday at Vassar hospital. Dr. Clifford A.

Crispell it in attendance. Mrs. John W. Lee Jersey City, is visiting son and daughter-inlaw, Mr. and her, Mrs.

John W. Lee 20 Harrison street. Mr. Lee who is An 'employe of the staff of Mayor Hague, expects to join Mrs. Lee here during the weekend.

Mrs. Foster Plass and Calvin Stall, Red Hook, spent Wednesday with their sister, Mrs. Harry Drake, 322 Main street. Mrs. Frederick R.

Willis and sons, Frederick and James, are spending the summer at the Willis Homestead in East Chatham. Mr. and Mrs. Orin O. Weeks, 11 Davis avenue, are on a two weeks' camping trip in West Chesterfield, Mass.

Mr. and Mrs. Milton Dorman and son, Allen, 11 Hanscom avenue, have as their guest. Francine Hirschensohn, niece of the Dorismans, Laurelton, I. Miss Nellie E.

Carl, Spanish Arms apartments, 1 is a patient at the Baker pavilion, New York hospital. Mr. and Mrs. Frank Sheridan, New York, are visiting in this city. Mr.

and Mrs. Ray Everett, Newburgh, formerly of this city, were visitors in Poughkeepsie Wednesday. Mrs. John Hanion and daughter, Nancy, Wilmington, are visiting Mrs. Hanion's mother, Mrs.

James Clark, Millbrook. Mrs. Frank J. Carberry, 271 Hooker avenue, has returned from Mayo clinic, Rochester, to the home of her parents, Mr. and Mrs.

John H. Barron, 2 Dwight street. Miss Vivian Miller Weds Leo F. Hilton Announcement is made of the marriage' of Miss Vivian Miller, daughter of Mr. and Mrs.

C. E. Miller, Staten Island, formerly of this city, to Leo Francis Hilton, son of Edward Hilton, Mimico, Ontario, Canada, and the late Mrs. Hilton. The ceremony took place Saturday in St.

Michael's church, Staten Island, with the Rev. W. F. Guido officiating. Miss Edna Mulligan sang wedding songs, accompanied by Miss Rose Grippa, organist.

The bride was given in marriage by her uncle, Jack Miller of this city. She wore a street length dress of white made with a draped skirt. Her was a halo of spun nylon with face veil and she had a corsage of orchids. Miss Victoria Miller attended her sister as maid of honor. She wore a pink crepe ensemble with Juliet cap of white lace with pink ribbon and a shoulder veil.

Her corsage was of white gardenias. Gerald Hilton attended his brother as best man. A reception was held at the Miller home ceremony. The bride's mother received in gown of coral with white accessories and a corsage of gardenias. Receiving for the bridegroom was his sister, Miss Rita Hilton, who was attired in al white eyelet dress with white accessories and a corrage of red roses.

The couple departed on a wedding trip to. Canada and plan to make their home in Swansea, Ontario. The bride's traveling costume was flowered jersey dress with white accessories. Mr. Mrs.

Kenneth Lattin, and and Mrs. Morton E. Putnam. Mr. and Mrs.

Bahret. to lous Delegate I ARON ON DOME 3 Fall in drops RICHARD 4 Resistance ERSE SALE units TERSON 5 Bone JU JADE 6 Urn 7 At any time OAT Chinese town TSAR 9 Endure 10 ..29 Turf 13 Abide. (Scot. 30 Dread 44 Unclean emperor 11 Dirtied 31 Born 45 Recess 12 Philosophical 34 River of his 46 Anent apparatus country 47 Finish 14 Number 35 Motion 48 Mislay 18 Not (prefix), picture 49 Fruit drinks 26 Knight's title 37 Amuse 54 Chemical 27. Exist 38 Begins suffix 28 Affirmative 42 Man's name 56 Half an 'em 20 Miss Spencer To Be Honored Mr, and Mrs.

Harold D. Spencer will entertain at dinner party tonight at their home "Hunting Ridge," New Hackensack road, in honor of their daughter, Miss Edith Cooke Spencer, and her nance, Lieutenant William Miller Cranston, USNR. Miss Spencer will become the bride of Lieutenant Cranston tomorrow at Christ Episcopal church. dinner, which will precede wedding rehearsal, will be served at Among the guests will be Mr. and 6 o'clock.

Mrs. Dayle Chaudoin, Miss Ellenora Eckenrode, James Eckenrode, Mr. and Robert W. Cranston, Mr. and Mrs.

J. B. Barker, Mr. and Mrs. Robert Barker, Mr.

and Mrs. Jack E. Spencer, Miss Hannah Cranston, Mrs. John W. Crowshore.

Miss Thalia Crowshore, Mr. and Mrs. E. 8, Haymond, Mr. and Mrs.

J. Ledlie Miller and son, Mrs. Frank Olean, Mr. and Mrs. Malcolm R.

Grahame, Dr. Robert W. Cranston Seaman Second -Class James F. Cranston, Miss Mary Elizabeth Humbert, Miss Lorraine Landel, Miss Margaret Grahame and Miss Marilyn Mowrey. Odells Observe Third Anniversary Mr.

and Mrs. James E. Odell, 924 Main street, are observing their third wedding anniversary today. A family party will be held in celebration of the occasion. Mrs.

Odell is the former Helen O'Hara, daughter of Mrs. Helen O'Hara and the late O'Hara, Their marriage took place at St. Mary's church with. the Rev. James Hearon officiating.

Mr. Odell rereceived his discharge from after four years with the Army Air forces. He served overseas for two and one half years. Carmel Auxiliary Planning' for Picnic Plans are being made by the Mt. Carmel Ladies auxiliary for pic-nic to be held at Rye Beach, Sunday, Aug.

11. The outing will be held in place of meeting of the auxillary scheduled for August. Members planning to attend are asked to make reservations with Mrs. Marie Balassone, who is chairman of arrangements, by Aug. 8.

Eleanor Roosevelt (World copyright, 1946, by United Feature Syndicate, reproduction in whole or part prohibited.) NEW YORK, THURSDAY-I was somewhat saddened this morning when I saw in the paper that Gen. Draja Mikhailovitch of Yugoslavia had been executed. The man next me in the subway pointed it out to a friend and said. "That's the Russian way of handling things. wasn't a traitor to his country.

He fought the Germans at the start, but he didn't agree to the kind of government the Yugoslavs now have, and that's what happens to the opposition." I pretty. much voiced a feeling which troubles many people. We who live in countries where we are free to oppose the existing form of government, so long as we do not advocate violence, fear this means of handling political opposition. In the United States, in Great Britain, in 'France and in many other countries, you can speak your mind about the public men in power. You can advocate changes in your government without fear that the party in power will hale you into court and then shoot you at dawn.

You wait and you use your persuasive powers, and sometimes you win the next election and sometimes you lose, in which case you go on waiting. Until people throughout the world learn that changes can be brought about peaceably through persuasion and discussion, 80 that revolutions on the one hand and the use of force by the party in power on the other are unnecessary, there is no security for any opposition. We will have great dimculty bringing about a meeting of minds between peoples who have such different ideas of what political freedom means. I can represent my government and, if I disagree with stand they wish me to take, I ANy resign, but no one will put me can in prison or punish me in any way. That is the only way, it seems to me, that one can have political freedom.

If one lives in fear of reprisal by the party in power, then there are bound to be undercover efforts to overthrow the government force, since human beings are so made that they cannot help disagreeing with each other, one subject and on another. Until the democratic nations of the world really live by the will of the majority, one cannot say that one has democratic form of government. The will of the majority also must be ascertained without holding any threat over people's heads. Here in our country, there have been times when efforts were made to inffuence public opinion in an election, and in some elections, even recently some efforts have been to threaten people. For instance, 1 can remember a case when a large group of workers, immediately prior to an election, found in their pay envelopes a note which said: "If Candidate is elected next Tuesday, this plant will have to close and you will have no job." There have been other times when people have been promised certain benefits, and their sense of greed have overridden their sense of obligation to a free ship temporarily! By and large, however, our people have grown to know that neither threats nor promises carry much weight.

A plant will not stay closed if it is worth while for the manufacturers to open it. If people should receive some temporary benefit by voting a certain way, may find other reasons to regret their action. I think that, year by year, our votes are getting more representative of what people really think, with no strings pulled by anybody! 'If we believe in democracy and if we are goling to get on in the world peacefully, this.is what must happen to create confidence amongst the world over. E.R. Angelo Patri SEPT.

8 is the date chosen by MISS EMELIA WROLSEN, Saugertles, for her marriage to Stewart -P. Rogers of this city. The brideelect was honored at bridal BRIDE-ELECT IS Miss ANGELA M. DI BERTO, whose betrothal to Michael P. Serino is made knowh by her parents, Mr.

and Mrs. Peter DiBerto of this city. PROSPECTIVE BRIDE -1s. Miss JACQUELINE RUTH ANDREWS. Her engagement to Joseph Kondor is announced her parents, Mr.

and Mrs. Charles L. Andrews shower of this city. Stewart P. Rogers To Be Wed Sept.

8 Miss Emella Wrolsen, Saugerties, has chosen Sept, as the date for her marriage to Stewart P. Rogers, son of Mr. and Mrs. Percy J. Rogers, 389 Hooker avenue.

The bride-elect was honored at a bridal shower given recently by Mrs. William -E. -Bock, Mrs. William Hanion and Miss Doris Rogers. Among the' invited guests were Mrs.

Robert Gerth, Mrs. Ralph Morris, Mrs. Edward Gray, Mrs. Archie Rogers, Mrs. James Rogers, Mrs.

Helen Erickson, Mrs. John Urban, Mrs. Michael Metrando, Mrs. Malcolmn Nolan, Mrs. Wildred Taylor, Mrs.

George Wood, Mrs. Percy Rogers, Mrs. William Hanion, Mrs. Willam E. Bock, the Misses Sylvia TayJor, Mary Urban, Constance Merl-' hew, Roberta Rogers, Betty Urban, Florence Rogers, Mary Gray and Doris Rogers, Refreshments were served.

Mrs. Percy Rogers poured. Decorations were in white with white carnations as the table centerpiece. Christian Endeavor Members at Conference Representatives of the Christian Endeavor society Arlington Reformed church are attending the Young People's Conference being conducted at Denton Lake, Holmes, this week. Final sessions of the conference are scheduled to be held Monday.

The Arlington delegates include Betty Yerry, Marjorie Glover, Joan Dingee and Helen Scholl. Sally Kelley Observes Birthday with Party Sally Kelley, 5 Morgan avenue, celebrated her -eighth birthday with party. given by her mother, Mrs. Bernard Kelley, Wednesday. Refreshments were served and fentured a large birthday cake.

Among those present were Delores and Pamela Lane, Carole Middleton, Barbara Gohl, Joan Dolan, Connelly. Glenda Byers, Joseph Falbo, Lawrence, Jack and Sheila Kelley. Gaynor Maddox CHICKEN NEEDN'T GROW TIRESOME Yes, there to a different way serving chioken. And variety in preparation is especially important now, when chicken seems to turn up every day. Boiled Fowl With Sour Cream Mushroom Sauce (Serves 4) One boiled fowl.

1 cup sour cream, tablespoon' cornstarch, teaspoon dry mustard, teaspoon salt, cup mushroom liquid, 2 teaspoons lemon juice, 1 4-ounce can cup). mushrooms, stems and pieces, drained. Heat sour cream in double boiler. Blend together the cornstarch, dry mustard, salt, mushroom liquid, and lemon juice and add to sour cream. Cook over low heat, stirring constantly, until sauce thickens.

Add mushrooms, stems and pieces, and heat thoroughly. Serve as sauce for boiled fowl. Chicken in Mushroom Sauce (Serves 4-6) One tablespoon cornstarch, teaspoon dry mustard, teaspoon salt, cup mushroom cup cream, A tablespoon lemon juice, 1 can chicken can) or chicken, 1 'can mushrooms (8-ounce can) or 2 cups cooked mushrooms, 1 package potato chips 15-ounce package). Mix cornstarch, mustard, and salt together in a one-quart heat -resistapt glass saucepan. mushroom liquid' and cream slowly and add lemon juice.

Cook over low heat, stirring constantly, until sauce thickens. Remove from heat, add chicken and most of mushrooms, saving about 6 for garnish. Top with one cup of the potato chips and of mushrooms. Place in modcrate oven (350 degrees removing saucepan handle. Bake about 15 mintites, or until chips brown and mushrooms and chicken are heated through.

Serve the remainder 'of the potato chips and tossed salad with this, for a delicious luncheon. SUNDAY'S MENU. BREAKPAST: Orange juice, ready-to-eat cereal, omelet with stewed fresh tomatoes, whole-. wheat toast, butter or fortified margarine, coffee, milk. DINNER: Bolled fowl with sour cream mushroom sauce, steamed brown rice, peas with white onions, buttered carrots, pascal celery, fresh peach ice cream, packaged chocolate cookies, coffee, milk.

SUPPER: Creamed chicken and vegetables on toast, sliced tomatoes with chopped green peppers, stewed fruit. lemon sponge cake, milk. Women's Guild Making Plans For St. Francis' Anniversary Preparations for the Afth anniversary of the St. Francis' Hospital Women's guild, to be celebrated in October, were discussed by members of the executive committee of the guild when they met last.

night at the home of Mrs. Dominick J. D'Engenis, 13 South Randolph The committee also discussed plans for a program of fall activities and for the opening meeting of the fall season which will be held in the form of a picnic supper on the hospital grounds, Tuesday night, Sept. 17. It had previously been planned to conduct the picnic on Sept.

10. Refreshments were served after last night's meeting. In attendance were Mrs. H. Sherman Hirst, Mrs.

Patrick Kennedy, Mrs. Frank D'Luhosch, Mrs. Richard Russell, Mrs. Joseph Lippi, Joseph Butler, Mrs. Paul P.

Reiling, Mrs. Victor Burgiel, Miss Marion Reilly, Mrs. John J. Rupsis, Mrs. Samuel Lamont, Mrs.

Frank Mack and Mrs. Ernest L. Tinklepaugh. Angela M. Di Berto Becomes Engaged Mr.

and Mrs. 1 Peter DiBerto, 82 North Bridge street, announce the engagement of their daughter, Miss Angela M. DiBerto, to Michael F. Serino, son of Mr. and Mrs.

Pellrino Serino, Van Wagner road. Miss DiBerto is graduate of PoughKeepsie High school the class of 1943 and is now employed by Stardust, Inc. Mr. Serino attended Arlington High school. He recently received his discharge from the U.

S. Naval Reserve after three years of service in the Pacific area. No date has been set for the wedding. Anne Adams 4890 SIZES 12-20, 40 SPEEDY SEWING Only three main pattern pieces make this flattering all-purpose frock Yes, 4890 is real JIffy it. has NO shoulder seams.

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Name Street Address City State RECENT BRIDE is Mrs. ALLEN LEWIS, the former Miss Katherine Schlegel, whose marriage to Mr. Lewis took place Wednesday in Kingston. Katherine E. Schlegel Marries Allen Lewis Miss.

Katherine E. Schlegel, daughter of the late Mr. Mrs. George Schlegel of this city, became the bride of Allen Lewis, son of Mr. and Mrs.

Jacob Lewis, 593 a Main street, Wednesday night. The -ceremony took place in the parsonage of the First Presbyterian church, Kingston, with the Rev. William McVey, minister, officiating. The bride wore A white street length ensemble with matching hat and white accessories. Her flowers were orchids arranged in a corsage.

Attending the couple were Mr. and Mrs. Lucien Tufts, Middlebury, Vt. Mrs. Tufts was attired in a grey suit with a corsage of gardenias.

After the ceremony, there was 8 reception at the Barn in Kingston. Both Mr. and Mrs. attended Poughkeepsie High school. Mr.

Lewis served for five and half years in the A Army Air forces was overseas for four years ten months, Mr. and Mrs. Lewis are now employed at the Mountain House, Lake Mohonk. Gold Star Wives: Elect Officers Mrs. Audrey Gelormino was elected president of the Gold Star Wives of World War II at a meeting held at the American Legion hall last night.

Other officers elected were Mrs. Isabelle Brault, vice-president; Mrs. Florence Detmer, treasurer. and Mrs. Edith Ingersoll, secretary.

New members joining the organization were Mrs. Frances Siko and Mrs. Baker. Former Vassar Student To Wed Commander Announcement has been made of the engagement of Miss Mary Ellen Vorse, an alumna of Vassar college, daughter of Mr and Mrs. Albert O.

Vorse, Camp Hill, to Commander Francis Penn Steel, USNR, son of Mr. and Mrs. Albert G. B. Steel, Chestnut Hill, Pa.

The bride -elect served as lieutenant in the WAVES. Her fance is an alumnus of Yale and is stationed at Newport. Mrs. Anne Cabot 5197 "POPCORN" SPREAD Each separately crocheted block of the spread measures inches and can.he carried in a purse to provide crochet work while traveling or visiting this summer. Each block fras 49.

fat little "popcorns" clustered together inside a fascinating openwork border. Make a block now then, at odd moments, during the summer and by autumn you'll And you have enough to set together a handsome quilt. To obtain, complete crocheting instructions for the "Popcorn" Bedspread (Pattern No. 5197) amounts of material pecifed for both single and double spreads, instructions on setting blocks together, illustrations of stitches used, send 16 cents in COIN, YOUR NAME, ADDRESS and the PATTERN NUMBER to Anne Cabot, Poughkeepsie New Yorker, 1150 Ave. Americas, New York 19, IT WAS FOR PROTECTION The custom of the lady walking on the inside and the gentleman on the outside had.

its practical origin in medieval times. Each succeding story of the village's. houses ontended farther outward and a lady on the inside was afforded more protection from discarded food and other debris which was disposed of by throwing it out the. window in those days. LIKING AND DISLIKING What.

we like and dislike become important factors in our If we have trained ourselves to dislike more than we like we will discover by and by that we have bound ourselves hand and foot with inconvenient laws. There is the lady who looks at her dinner plate, pokes the food with fork and says, "I never liked vegetables." That is too bad for the lady. The vegetables do not mind and no one else minds except the cook who served the vegetables, and remembers that lady with bitterness. The man who says, "I don't like newspaper reporters--never could abide them," has set himself in a tub of hot water because reporters are the eyes and ears and intelligences of the neighbors, and the neighbors have keen regard for what they report. When they report that Mr.

G. dislikes them and won't talk to them, and describe his way of telling them so. it is. too bad for Mr. G.

isn't it? The rest of us smile, while he glowers and is most unhappy. He has bound himself to suffering. No one in his right senses likes everything and everybody, but no one in his right mind piles up likes and dislikes until they bind him hand and foot and make his life a long: misery. Disliking food, people by groups and nations, weather, children, necessary sterilize noises--in short, trying to suit personal whims is the surest road to misery open to mankind. We should be most careful about voicing our likes and dislikes in the presence of children.

You know how that works. The fathers eat green apples and the teeth of the children are on edge. If you want children to like simple food, praise It: if you would have them like people, praise them: if you would have them love, honor and obey righteousness, praise and practice it: Another word of caution for the sake of the children: Be careful about growing a core of dislike or hate concerning Ideas and. people. Such feeling is sure to affect you dismally, upset your stomach, poison your blood and weight your spirit.

The children will feel it and take it to themselves with direful results. Dislike to excess brings severe punishment upon the hater. Dwell op the good things, like the fine things and so free yourself of the burdens of dislike and the bonds of hate. Train your children to look for what they can like and, in turn, learn to love. Jacqueline Andrews Becomes Engaged Mr.

and Mrs. Charles Andrews, 8 Streit avenue, announce the engagement of their daughter; Miss Jacqueline -Ruth Andrews, to Joseph Kondor, son of Mr. and Mrs. Michael Kondor, 1 Grand avenue. Miss Andrews attended Poughkeepsie schools and was graduated from Arlington High school.

She is employed by the New York phone company. Mr. Kondor also attended Poughkeepsie schools. He was discharged with the grade of sergeant from the Army last September and. is employed by the Ideal Produce Co.

No date has been set for the wedding. Rose Marie Brock Hostess at Shower Miss Rose Marie Brock, 12 Hanscom avenue, entertained -at a bridge party and shower last night at her home in honor of Mrs. Howard Chance. The guest of honor is the former Miss Miriam Decormier. Among those present were Mrs.

Wilfred Needs, Mrs. Chance, the Misses Patricia: Brophy, Virginia Marks, Nancy Bauer, Barbara Keith, Frances Corbally, Carol Shaw and Miss Brock. Company Holds Dinner Party Event Officers of the Company Veterans' association, their wives and sons and daughters who were in service in World War II, were in attendance at a dinner party held in the Mayfair room of- the' Nelson House, last night. Speakers included Mayor Doran, Thomas J. Whalen, John Buckley, Valentine Rickes, Peter Keresman, Eugene Cornwell and Charles H.

Bahret. Plans were made for members to attend reunion of the Tenth 51st Pioneer Infantry association which will. be held in Sept. 8. John Buckley of the local association, will preside for the ceremonies.

He is scheduled to be succeeded in office by Mr. Keresman. It is expected that Mayor and Corporation, Counsel O'Donnell will accompany the local delegation for the reunion. Officers of the Company assocation who were named at a recent meeting are Mr. Rickes, president; Morton E.

Putnam, vice president: Bahret, secretary-treasurer; Albert Van Wagenen, sergeantat-arms, and Raymond Burnett, James Catalano and Edward Wood, trustees. There was a period of silence observed in memory of Alfred Leibrock, Stanley Walgate and Mrs. Albert Van Wagenen, who died recently. Attending were Mayor and Mrs. -Deran, Mr.

Buckley, Mr. Keresman, Mr. and Mrs. Rickes, Mr. and Mrs.

Mark Eugene O. Cornwell, Mr. and Mrs. James A. McKeown, Mr.

and Mrs. LeRoy Putnam, Mr. and Mrs. Arthur Lindsley, Mr. and Mrs.

Albert Scaccla. Raymond H. Buys, Halstead Buys, Mr. and Mrs. Whalen, Mr.

and Mrs. Thomas Balfe, Henry Kelly, Mr. and Mrs. Raymond Burnett, UN HORIZONTAL 1,6 Pictured UN delegate from Brazil 13 Apprehend 15 Flier 16 Fence part 17 19 Agitate 20 Vipers 21 Hebrew 22 Lure 23 From 24 Comparative suffix 25 Attempt 29 Arenaceous 32 Anger 33 Be indebted 34 Land measures 36 Acts 39 Note of scale 40-Pronoun 41 Afresh 44 Transportation fee -48 Melted rock 50 Cipher 51 Unclose 52 German river 53 Il1-omened 55 Abandon -57 Balloon basket 58 Birds' homes VERTICAL 1 Review 2 Expunges Angelo Patri has written a booklet, No. 303, "Feeding Children," which discusses the entire problem of getting the child to eat the proper foods.

This booklet is obtainable by sending 10 cents (coin preferred) and 3-cent stamp to him, care of Poughkeepsie New Yorker, Poughkeepsie: Y. (Released by The Bell Syndicate, Inc.) Ruth Millett When a Cleveland judge, who had heard 3,500 divorce cases in six months, recently advised veterans and their wives to do some forgiving and forgetting of' wartime unfaithfulness on either side, he WAS swamped with angry protests. Apparently, a lot of people that the advice- giver who recommends forgiving, the face of unfaithfulness condones unfaithfulness itself. That is foggy-minded reasoning. Nobody can now help what happened to marriages during the war years.

It is fact that many of them were scarred by unfaithfulness on the' part of husband or wife. But divorce won't change the factor guarantee a happy solution to the problem. All that divorce will do in many cases is bolster, momentarily, the pride of the wronged husband or wife. If the marriage can be saved by forgiveness, then what is so wrong about that? Surely marriage is more important than children pride pecially so when 'involved. realist.

The The judge was wartime simply unfaithfulness being is done and past. But there is still the marriage. The judge was simply asking the husband and wife to put their marriage ahead of their own injury and try to hold it together. SALVAGE WHAT YOU CAN That, certainly, is no condoning of unfaithfulness. It is saying that a patched-up marriage is often better than a broken marriage.

And those are the only two choices left to the couple who discover their marriage has been damaged by unfaithfulness. They can either patch it up or break it up. And of the two choices, surely patching up the marriage. is the more honorable solution, and the better one for society as a whole. Truce Team Seeks Release of 7 Marines Marines today called off their search for seven Marines held.

prisoner by a band of Chinese to permit a truce headquarters to negotiate for their release. The Marines, members of a unit guarding a bridge on the PelpingMukden railway, were taken prisonet week ago in a nearby village where they had gone to buy rice. captors were courceumistserted MANationalist the jor General Keller E. Rockey, China Marine commander, has refused to identify Two Receive Army Discharges Two more area men discharged from the U. '8.

Army this it was reported by the U. S. week, Separation center 'at Fort Dix, Army N. J. Lieutenant Paul V.

They are First Weber, 1 148 College avenue, and Kings- Staff Sergeant Hubert A. Richter, ton. Pittsburgher, was Helen Richey, the United States' first female transport and airmail pilot..