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WEN(Y E1GHT PDUGHKEEPS1E JOURNAL WEPNESDAY. JULY 5, 161 Dorothy Dfac LetterBox Dear Helen: I gambied tod lott A nun promised mc the liver moon on a golden put ter It would marry blm. Be log divorcee with three amall children and none too good health, Mid yet. ThU entailed telling everything In my home tod moving to the tUte where the moon. In the form of money, twalted us.

I played Mrs, Santa until all mine bad been tpent ana Dim aty ugh. The children: 'and I came back to tthe empty old houie to atart life over again. My advice 16 women la: turn deaf ears to tweet talk, hang oa to what money you've got and, if a roan Btrnaiwr mm Apfmeff not your. Poor but Wlser Dear Wiser? At least you've profited by your experience. Next time, and there will be a 'nci lor tveryaayu intv beginning, put more emphaiia on the tpirltual and leu oa the understanding love rather than financial teeurltyr Glveu thatj you reauy wui oe ricn.

Dear Helen: What would you do If a member of your family stole and Med? When I write this It tends cold thlvert'down my back for the thief and pre varicator is my darling nine. year old granddaughter whom I love dearly. Until I discover' ed what the was doing I had her here every day and on Sun days took her to church with me. We read Bible stories together, wenfshopplng with me. I loved her more than my own children.

Then I began missing small Items and finally a vaiuaoie necuace. sne con eased taxing it and belied Tor glveneas. I said no more. Tier eyes were red from crying when she went home. Her mother wanted to know why.

She explained that I had given her the necklace, then shook my fist under her nose till In self defense, she "confessed to hav. Ing taken It. Now my aon and his wife and my granddaughter win have nothing to do with me and my husband. My daughterdaughter in law is very strict with the child Maybe this Is responsible for her twisted morals Help me clear up this dreadful mess Grannie Dear Grannie Clarify this alarming situation at once. Ask your son and his wife to come to your home and bring their little girl.

Tell the truth in her presence. Do it with love, not malice, and make it clear that she needs immediste help She could be a kleptomaniac, which as you know. Is an irresistible llght flnzeredness In 1 wno steal, lor the sake or steal ing. It Is a form of Insanity and requires psychiatric treatment Your aon, being your son. anouia respect your wishes Take charge' Dear Helen: Why is It that soldiers don't have the public's resoeet In peacetime? Decent girls shy away from us.

It it be cause we arr judged bjnithers or our kind? There are bad loolei along with good ones In every barrel Why should we the good ones, suffer? Soldier Dear Soldier Put it op to your chaplain Ask him to ar range social get togethers with the help of local organizations If your behavior merits It, you'll be Invited back. Show your letter and my reply to him. ''irsssssssssssKS tBsttttttttttttttttKistttttl jjBBSfBSSSSSSSSsfisSSSSSSSSSS r3nBSSSSSSSSSSSSlSSSSSSSSSSSSSvlBSSSSaf jmMMMWrrLl Isssssssssssssk hbbbbbbbbf'bk "5f i fltW' ,9 KatC Personal Mention Mr. and Mr. Leon M.

Wood worth, Saratoga 6prtngs, art guests of the tatter's father. All pert ju Bingnam, aa Sheldon anve. Mr. and Mrs. Harlow B.

Hall and ton. Bradford, rort Wayne, have been visiting Mrs. ItaU't aunU, the Misses Mary and Laura Hall, ,.20 North White street, and her uncle, Chauncey D. Hall. Hyde park.

Mrs. Hall Is the former Virginia Hall, daughter of Dr. Fred S. Hall, formerly of freedom riauu. Mrs.

Mlchellna Iori. 14 Baker street, it In Vassar hospital, Miss Helen Myers. North Albany road. Hyde Park. tflll Ik jvultflalntf at thai Northern" Dutchest hojpiuC Kninebeck.

Miss Isabell E. daugh ter of Mrs. Delia Blaal, 227 Smith street, and the lata Jo oeph Blttlrwl WarM Studio MBS. JOSEPH MIHANS, the former Miss Mary Theresa Manna, 84 North Bridge street, whose marriage took place on June 24 in ML Car mel church. Mary T.

Manna Becomes Bride (A Bell Syndicate Feature) Anne Adams Dress Patterns iKiZJalsSSSSSsBLtSSasV fMHTA "ivxtJBsBsfi 1 Xlv stttttttV w) Mt. Carmel church was the scene. II clock. June Z4 of the marriage of Miss Mary The resa Manna, daughter of Mrs. Louis A Manna.

54 North Bridge street, and Joseph Mlhani. son of Mr and Mrs. Jo seph A. Mlhtns, 40 Glenwood avenue. The Rev Gerard Dl Sensa.

assistant pastor, offlci ateu and was celebrant of the Nuptial Mass Father DiSeno also bestowed the Papal Bless Ing on the couple at the con clusion of the wedding ceremony Music for the rites included the "Ave Maria" in traditional Greeorlan chant. "Lord AcceDt the Gifts we Offer," God of Loveliness" and Lord I Am Not Worthy." The soloist was Cathy LoGalbo White Fuji chrysanthemums were used to decorate the church Given In marriage by her brother in law, Francis La hey, the bride wore a chapel length gown of Chantllly lace designed with a fitted bodice and Sabrina neckline trimmed in pearls and irldescents. The bouffant skirt featured a ruffled underskirt, side drapes and a tiered chape train A queen's crown of iridescent rhinestones held in place her fingertip veil or French illusion and she car rled a Missal arranged with a white orchid, stephatrotTs and streamers Miss Joan Poalinelli was maid of honor, with the Misses Mau reen Mllone and Mary Ann Ml hans as bridesmaids Rose Elena Marino served as flower girl The attendants' gowns, in pink and blue, were of nylon sheer, ballerina length, with fitted bodices, bouffant skirt and matching Jackets having puffed sleeves They wore matching veiled crowns trimmed with Imported crys tals Miss Poalinelli carried a cascade arrangement of pink roses with baby's breath and the others' cascades were of dark pink, light pink and white carnations with baby's breath. from the State University Col lege or Education at new l. tnnMr, pl.n.

enth and eighUr trade at pinners Central aj4inlorJJllgh school this fall. Alva C. Teator. S8 North Broadway. Hoek.

It a oa tient at the Nprthern Dutchess Rhlnebeck. where he Is being treated for third degree burns received In an accident at his home last Friday. Miss Rosemarle A. Celelll, daughter of Mr. and Mra.

Eugene M. Celelll. 69 Arnet road. Rhlnebeck. wat Initiated Into the Ithaca college chapter of Delta Phi Zeta sorority, before the close of the recent academ ic year.

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It will be conducted rain or thine. Mr. and Joseph Furlong are In charge of arrangements, aaalsted by Mr, and Mrs. John J. Gartland and Mr.

and MA. Donald Nelson. Reserve tlont 'are being received by Cathy Gartland, Joseph Fur long and James Nelson. Miss Mhner Wed To JoHn Bcechef j. Announcement It made of the marriage on June 24 of Miss Joanne MIsner, daughter of Mr and Mrs.

Kenneth W. MIsner. IB MMinnfr iv.nn. ltr, THE GIRLS I I By 5 V5SS MRS. E.

WILLIAM PLAIN, who. with Mr. Plain, Is serving aa co chairman of the Hawaiian Night program at the Dutchess Golf and Country club, Saturday. Brother Joseph Marchessault, F.MS, B.A.. of Marist couege, received a Ph D.

degree irom the Catholic Unlverslty6f America, Washington, Cyiast The Rev Louis 11 Prefon talne, SSS, of Eymard semi nary; Hyde Park, was among the 1,426 Fordham university graduates who received their degrees st the 116th annual commencement exercises. Miss Jsnet Dale Jenkins. 40 Lorraine boulevard, attained "highest honor" standing on the Dean's list at Miami univer sity, Oxford, for the spring semester I Th flower ffirl'jt frork was rff tOlo of blue pure silk organza, with til. Vi a fitted bodice and bouffant JUJf gkjrt. Her headpiece was of riM U2lk 4 5 matching Iridescent trimmed leaves and she carried a basket of pink roses with baby's breath and streamers The bride's mother was dress ru in corai pure sin cmaoa over satin and her headpiece was a matching veil trimmed w.iu ruiuc Ltmes uu uircc coral flowers.

She wore coral accessories and a white orchid wrist corsage. The bridegroom's mother chose a petal pink embroidered cocktail dress. She had a aeed pearl handbag, deep er pink complements ana a cor sage of pink cymbldium or ehids. William F. Mlnans was best man for the bridegroom.

Ushers were John Mlnans and Richard Steller. with Martin Mllone aa ring bearer. There was a reception and dinner at 2 o'clock at the Covered Wagon Inn. Red Oakt Mill, where music was furnished by the LaFalce Brothers' orchestra. After a wedding trip to Miami naasaaati VI sa kak Ufltl WA side In 94 North Bridge street.

For travel, the bride aelected a white brocade suit with a mul colored floral hat and shan tung slippers. She had white ac cessories ana a white orchid corsage, A graduate of St. Joseph's and PoughkeeDsle Hlih schools. the bride Is employed aa a medical secretary In the ray department of St. hospital, The bridegroom attended Na Step Into tnla acoooed.

frack. ru'n'eP'le, Miss Frances Healing, daugh' ter of Mr and Mrs Robert Charles Healing. 47 Seitz ter race, a June graduate of Arling ton High school, is a member of the first class to enter Antloch college. Yellow Springs, under the new year round Dlan of operation. She reported to the campus today for a week of orientation before classes begin next Monday, in high school.

Miss Healing was active in Li brary and Dramatics clubs. Golf Club Committee Plans Hawaiian Night An authentic Hawaiian Night Is being plsnned by the July entertainment committee of the Dutfhess Golf and Country club Jfie event, Saturday night, will feature entertainment by Ma pau, a native of Hawaii Also on the program will be music under the direction of Charles L. VanVlack. Cocktails will be served at the club at 6 30 o'clock, dinner will be at 8. and dancing and entertainment 9 to 1 o'clock The decorations and the food will be carried out in Hawaiian manner.

iMr. and Mrs. E. William Plain are co chairmen of the July committee, assisted by Mr and Mrs Roy Ketchatn, Mr. and Mrs Davidson and Louis Ratte Jr Brother Andrew A.

Mollov. FJflJS B.A of Marist college. was me recepient of a Ph.D degree.at the 72nd annual commencement exercises of The catholic University of America, Washington, last month. William R. Eidle.

17 Wood land avenue, wat among the 1.426 Fordham university grad uates who received their degrees at the 116th annual commencement exercises. Michael J. FiUpatrlck. aon of Mr. and Mrs.

John Fltzpatrick. 31 Delafleld street, will enroll as a freshman at Clarkaon Col lege of Technology, Potsdam. In September. A graduate of Poughkeepsle High school, he will study civil engineering pped sheath stco out ImddIIv all Summer! Easy tew In breete llght cotton or shantung with Jacket Jo ejatrut er match. Prtnted Patttrn aolsrllair ones hu, 1014, 18V4, 20Vi.

221. Size 16Vi dress takea IV yards 33 lnch; Jacket, 14 yards. Send FUTY CENTS In coins or wis paiiero aaa id cents tor each pattern for lst elais maiun oena to Anne Adams, cart) of Poughkeepsle Journal, Bos 138, Pattern Dept, 243 West 17th SU. New York 11. NY.

Print plainly NAME. AD tuusss wiu zone, size and STYLE NUMBER. The biggest fashion abow of summer, iwsi pages, pages. agea or patterns in our new lor Hurry, tend 33c sellouts I' Army In Frsnce tnd Germany. He It an employe of the West ern ranting ana Lithographing cv tnn11 nvrkl aim A Mr 'land Mrt" Anthony F.

SmyrsM. 6 Barbara Plnckaey Goest at Shower Mrs. Judith Mclntyre, Violet avenue, wat hostess at a vsrletv shower at her home recently tor Mist Barbara Plnckney Decorations were in greea and white with a white lace um brella. Invited guests were Mrs. Catherine Corcoran.

Mrt. Marden peMrivilie, Mrt. Dorothy Nielsen. Mrt. Helen LaBell, Mrs.

Katherine Mclntyre. Mrt. Rita Piper. Mrs. Cecilia Plnckney, Mrt.

Fannie MacPbalL Mrt. naiel DeGroff. Mrt. Frances Curtis. Mrt.

Elisabeth Uurlihe, Mrt. Zpr, Way, Mra. Evelyn Miss Dayis Bride Of James Lindblade Married at 12 o'clock noon. June 24, at the Assembly of God church. Beacon, were Miss Helene Mary Davis, dsughter of Mr.

and Mrs. Ellsworth Davis. Marlorvllle road, Hughsonvllle, snd James G. Lindblade, Little Falls Trailer park, Wappingers Falls The Rev Russell Goodwin, pastor, officiated. Whte gladioli were used to decorate the church Given in marriage by her father, the bride wore a white lace and net gown and carried a bouquet of carnations Miss Carol Ann Young, Hugh sonvllle, was maid of honor, with the Misses Ruth Crawford, Wappingers Falls, and Joan Gaunt, Beacon, as bridesmaids Miss Young was gowned In aqua and the others, yellow.

The best man was the Rev. Donald Coy, Port Jervls. Ushering were Patrick 'Carter, Clin tondale, Rumble, Carmel After a reception In the church basement the couple left there on a two week wedding trip to Florida. Upon return, they will reside at Little Falls Trailer park. For travel, the bride chose a two piece orchid taffeta suit with white accessor les The bride attended Wappine era Central school.

Her husband was graduated from Sheffield (Pa.) High school and the Ellm Bible institute. Lima, NY As sistsnt pastor at the StormvlUe church, he also Is employed as a circulation clerk at IBM Paula Whalen Celebrates Birthday Paula Whalen was guest of honor at a family picnic. Saturday, at the home of Mr and Mrs. Thomas Whalen, East Dorsey lane. In honor of her fifth birth day.

Paula, who. with her sis ter, Kelley, and parents. Staff Sergeant and Mrs Oskley Whs len recently returned from France where ahe has been liv attended the State University Ing the last four years The Technlsal institute at Delhi. visiting Ser Mr. Leonard also la a former IBM employe.

Mra. Herbert G. Day. Lakeview road. Is receiving treatment at Vassar hospital.

She was admitted last Friday, Mr. and Mrt. Jtck Joyce. Hot springs, NjC. are apendlng the summer with their ton and daughter in law.

Mr. and Mra, Jamet Joyce, Eaat Elm avenue, MaatsDurg. Kurt J. Matzdorf. New Paltz, is exhibiting a sterling sugsr bowl and creamer and candle sticks in the first "New York Crafts 1961" ahow which opened last Saturday at the Munson Williams Proctor institute, Utlca.

and will con tinue through Sept 9. The ex nioit is being sponsored by the New York State Craftsmen. Leo A. Frederick, Chelsea, entered Vassar hospital on Saturday. Chapter Honors Miss Chamberas Miss Paulette Chamberas was honored by members of the Corinth chapter, Daughters of Penelope, at a combined din ner and ritualistic meeting conducted recently at WendoVer Farms Miss Chamberas, valedictorian of the Class of I960, Poughkeepsle High school, and recipient of both the National and District Daughters of Penelope scholarships and the District Order of Ahepa scholarship, received the Initiatory degree which was conferred upon her by Mrs Kocorls, the Bronx, district governor, assisted by Mrs Nick Matheos, presl dent of the locsl chapter.

Miss Chambers also wss the recipl ent of a corsage of carnations snd will be the chapters hon ored member while she is a college student Also a guest of honor at the dinner. In addition to Miss Chamberas and Mrs Kocorls, was Mrs Jeanne Verven, city, district treasurer and past presi dent of the Corinth chapter The district officers made their official visit lo the local chapter' and received orchid corsages and gifts from Mrs Matheos who presided for the meeting Mrs. Sheridan Pawling, ad Katherine Zimmerman, "i A Celebrate 25th Anniversary Raymond A. Leonard, 99 Church street, has been elected president of Alpha Sigma Vhi sorority at the Central Academy of Beauty Culture, New burgh. A graduate of Pough keepsle High school, be served with the Marines In Korea and Mra.

Stanley Miller, Patter son is a patient at Vassar hos pital. Pine Tree drive. Red Oakt Mill. hat been, elected assistant treasurer of Alpha Sigma Phi fraternity at Rensselaer Polytech nic institute. Troy, "where ne it a 'junior In the department of mathematics Charles Major Goeta.

ton of Micnaei uoeu. received a bachelor of arts at the iotn annual commencement of George Washington university, Washington, DC. last month. A graduate of Brooklyn High school, be now resides In Falls Church. Va.

and Mrt. William Smith street Others attending thk party were Staff Serge nil' ana Mrs. Theodore Whalen andri iori Michael. Greenville. SC, Mr.

I and Mrs. Thomss Whalen, Thomas Whalen III. Mrs. Kathleen Whalen, Jean and Margaret Whjjlen, Mr. and Mr.

William Whalen, Mr. and Mra. Lynn Morton i and children. Arthur and Carol, Mrt. Richard Tucker and Ethel Tucker.

Alicia Hart The Doctor Sayt: Guard Against Mold, Fungas NEA In a preceding column, I pointed out the useless ness of trying to prevent ringworm, dishpan hands and related disturbances by application of mold and fungus killers (my ocldes and fungicides), One eminent authority on skin diseases i Sulzberger) hss gone so far as to write thst popularly used preparations are "largely useless," even when they do not produce a "treatment dermatitis" of greater severity than the disturbance for which they were prescribed I also emphasized that pre vention and cure were only possible if causative micro organismsorganisms were deprived of the diet of skin peelings and fluids (mostly sweat) on which they are able to thrive and repro duce If' you ar mindful of these principles, here In detail are the steps, you can take to prevent initial Infections and later recurrences Bathe dally, preferably on arising each morning Dry thoroughly, especially those areas covered by hair (armpit, chest pubis) and wherever skin surfaces come In contact (between fingers and toes, in crotch, beneath breasts, in Deny ATmVdrying. Wipty to con tact area anionmeillcated. non keant Wbalen'a parents, Pwder Remove r.i m. wiin. lortxcess wtthxDawder Duff to pre and John Beecher, son of James R.

Beecher, Elmlra, and JtSttJ mony took place at 1 clock in Rt.tja.tmti church, with the Rev. Gerrei J. Wullschleger officiating. Given in marriage by. her father, the bride wat attended by herslster, Mrt.

Robert L. Mount New Paltz, as matron of honor. Bridesmaids were the Misses Mary Lou MIsner, Monsey, and Katherine Zimmerman, New mira Gene Knapp, Elmlra, and Harry Beecher, Stamford, Conn, as ushers. i The bride was gowned In bouffant pure silk organza over taffeta, the bodice featuring Alencon lace applique, a seal loped neckline small self bow at the waistline and long sleeves which tapered to points over the wrists A bouffant silk mist veil fell frbm her modi fled pillbox headpiece of seed pearl and lace trimmed or ganza She carried a cascsde ar rangement of white carnations and daisies with English Ivy, The ttendants wore ballerina length gowns of yellow silk or ganza, wtlh scoop necklines, ab breviated sleeves and bell' shaped skirts featuring gather ed hip panniers Their head pieces were matching silk bows with short veils and they wore short white gloves Mrs Mount carried a cascade bouquet of tangerine carnations and daisies 'and the others' cascades Were of yellow" carnations and daisies Mrs MIsner was dressed in blue silk organza with a matching veiled hat She wore a pink cymbldium orchid corsage The reception took place at Reggie's iLn. New Paltz.

After a wedding trip, the couple will make their home In760 Stony Brook road, Elmlra For the trip Mrs Beecher chose a dress of Navy blue dacron batiste with' white embroidery on the Bodice She wore a matching bolero Jacket, white accessories and an orchid corsage The bride is an alumna of New Paltz Central High school and the State University Col lege of Education at Cortland where she war a member of Nu Sigma Chi sorority and the Dolpmnotes Synchronized Swim club She Is a physical educa tlon teacher The bridegroom, a graduate of Elmlra Free academy, at tended the State University College or Education at Cort land, and Elmlra college. He also served two years with the armed forces in Japan and now is associated with the Linn Chapel Co, Elmlra. Tjr.Atij0Zi 71 SrWtf I II mjS i sni iT i Til wX "It just teemt you can never finish ready (or one season before THEY start another one' Former Mayor John A. Sheridan and Mrs. Sheridan, Pawling, were honored at a surprise party Saturday night given at Berkshire lodge.

Wlngdale, In celebration of their 23th wed ding anniversary. They were married in St. Peter's church, Poughkeepsle. Mrs. Sheridan is the former Marlon It Berish of this city The couple has two children, Ray'mohd Sheridan, a stu dent at Fairlelgh Dickinson university, Teaneck, NJ and Eileen Sheridan, a student at State University College of Education at Geneseo Mr.

Sheridan Is proprietor of Sheridan's Taxi and Bus Service Pawling un Denau oi muse preem the couple received a "money tree Guests Included Mrs Callistus McGrath. Mr and Airs Philip. Sheridan, Mr and Mrs James Sheridan. Mrs Wilbur Disbrow. Mrs William Jr.

Mr ana Airs, men ard Dillon. Mr and Mrs Carl Farrar, Mr and (Mrs Louise Harrison, Mr and Mrs Thomas Cullen, Mr and Mrs George Britton, Mr and Mrs Thomas Sage, Airs Albert Ackert, the Misses Carol Sottile and Katherine Sage, and Mr and Mrs Charles Hopkins Muriel Lawrence The Mature Parent Alice Brooks Designs Beauty Hints TOO SNUG TEENS The teen ager who squeezes herself into tight pantt and skirts on the theory that this will make her look, thinner la fooling herself, and only her self. Tight clothes invariably make the wearer look fatter. There only one way to look slim: cut down on the amount you're eating. Meanwhile, buy your clothes in the correct size for you.

This should be a size that permits you etse both in standing and sitting, at well at walking comfort. If you've never tried thft before, take a look at yourself In the full length mirror In the fitting room and tee bow much better you look. In VanZant. Mrt. Ina FiUPatrlck and the Misses Helen Harvan, Hazel Walsh.

Betty Dubraskl. AnnlCopper Margaret I stanDy. you will look taller, land you'll be very Phflan, Jsllmmar, ttralghUn, you'rejfsshlan. lh pander puff to pre cessary. separate con tacvsaffcas with dress shields, suspensory or wisps of cotton or coiion wool Carefully choose footwear so Ss to avoid compression from tight fitting, wrinkles from lose fittings and failure of evap oration from Impermeability, Prefer socks or stockings of cotton or broad mesh nylon and shoes with open or perforated tips.

Before retiring, sponge, dry and powder crucial areas Shampoo scalp at least twice weekly kitchen chores. At first sign of "dishpan hands." protect with disposable plastic gloVea ana a costing or waterjvpei lent preparation (such as Sill care) or any other product con taining aimetnicone, In another column 111 suggest a plan for self treatment and Indicate conditions under which consultation with your physi cian is advisable. much overweight, avoid pants or snorts or any una until you've lost the necessary pound tge. You cm compromise, this year, by wearing culottes. They'll be much more flattering.

will allow you room for actios mucb tin VS4f 'Fik TV Wmb actV lw attfw jr a WCfUs TJk MM Ts H70CMJ BEvUGUTIIEADED Freslyyoung, flittering! Cro chet thlaNiewu curvy pillbox Dry handa thoroughly after "iUlte ur aeaa, sMisib lajtiaiitjrg lUJUtT, i Nyelllng" uVeadfd Tfi uum.ur crm. iin creates a iignt. i alrMook. bimple Crochet Pat rr 7008: directions, all sizes Send 33 cents (coins) for this patteni add 10 cents for each pattern for lst class mailing Send to Alice Brooks care of poughkeepsle Journal, 304, Nee dlecraff Dept P. O.

Box 163, Old Chelsea Station, New York It. Y. Print plainly name, address, tone, pattern number Our 1961 Needlecraft 'Book Over 123 designs, for borne furnishings, for fashions knit crochet embroider, weave, sew. quilt toys, gifts, bazaar items FREE six designs for popular veu capt. yuick tena zsc TODAY.) i Post Bpckman Nuptials Announced Miss June Buckman, daught er of Mr and Mrs Vipcent Buckman, Woodstock, formerly of Poughkeepsle.

became the bride of James Post, son of Mrs. Alice Post, also of Woodstock, on June 29 in St. John's church. West Hurley. The Rev Richard Stewart, pastor officiated at the double ring rites for which music was provided by Dorothy Narel The selections included "Ave Maria The church was decorated with white gladioli The bride was given in mar riage by her father.

Her length gown was of silk organ za. with a scalloped neckline and short sleeves She wore a pearl crown with a shoulder lengui veu ann carried a cas cade arrangement of red rose buds with baby's breath and red streamers. Miss Lorraine Dort. Pough keepsle, was maid of honor for her cousin She was gowned in mint green silk organza and carried a cascade bouquet of yellow daisies and baby chry sanmemums The other attendants were Mary Ann Buckman, Kingston, aunt of the bride, Faith Gallo Newburgh, another cousin and Patricia Krogh, Shokan Their gowns were of orchid silk organza and they carried cas cades of yellow daisies and baby chrysanthemums Joanne Dort. also a cousin of the bride, was the flower girl She wore a mint green silk organza frock and carried a basket of pink and white daisies with baby's breath waiter White.

Warwick, was the best man The ushers were Vincent Buckman Jr. Woodstock, brother of the bride: and Joseph Garvey and Michel Me Guire, Warwick Approximately 70 guests at. tended the reception at Dean le'a. Woodstock. After a wed ding trip to Lake George, the couple will Jive In Woodstock.

For traveling, the bride chose a baby zlue cotton Jersey suit with white accessories. Mrs. Post Is a graduate of St One month Greg got a in arithmetic It shocked him so that he stopped Jumping over homework examples he couldn't immediately solve. Next report he got a for his month's work, and on his test paper found his teacher's comment "This work shows good Im provement When he showed these achievements to his mother she kissed him and said, "That must make you feel nice Later, to their display, his father merely smiled and said. "Want to drive downtown with me to pick up my engineering magazine Nobody rewarded Greg with praise for his industry Nobody promised to take him to the' circus for his steadfastness or paid him a dollar for It Nobody suggested In any way that earthly reward always results from virtue, though Greg's parents always are surprising him with gifts of delight In him like a new pen, a box of crayons a small glass rooster for his bookshelf I don't think much either of always rewarding children foi virtue Parents who feel compelled to produce circus tickets, money and other rewards for a child's Industry, helpfulness and other virtues create.

I think, an ex pectation that Is unjustified. The world does not alwavs reward us for moral performance, A brave young man volunteers for military service and is turned into a paraplegic we can spend jears working for an employer In the hope that he will reward us with pro motion and find that it's the other fellow who has been promoted instead We can sacrifice our need for dental' care to send Jimmy to summer camp and lose two teeth instead of gaining Jimmy's devotion We can spend our whole lives putting on the most virtuous performance only to become sick with depression or rage at the realization that ue are not going to be rewarded As the man said, "Virtue is its own reward Unfortunately the phrase is so hackneyed few of us ever ponder it Parents should We have no right whatever to sug gest to children that reward always follows virtue This Is not a moral law as Jesus told us when he said "Great is your reward in heaven" So we'd better stop confusing earth with heaven for children Because In adulthood they can become furious with us as they Degin to discover the truth that we cannot always for others to reward our virtue but have to learn how to reward It ourselves They Justly accuse us of sentimentality and misdirection Mary's school, here, and On teora Central High school. Mr Post an alumnus of Greenwich High school, attended Orange County Community college and served with the U. Army in Alaska and Korea. He Is proprietor of the Woodstock Liquor shop CARPETING DRAPERIES SUP COVERS UPHOLSTERING AXESSORIES "WINDOW SHADES LAMPSHADES RECOVERED DRAPERY.

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